Centre for Fatherhood Malaysia

03/09/2024

Whatever we do, it is always for people - to live a healthier, purposeful and fulfilled multistage life. We call that the 'Enjoyfullife.'

We believe in co-creating the 'Enjoyfullife,' inter-generational. We aim to reach out to fellow aces with similar values, ideals and zest for that multistage life. This requires essential skills to be learnt and the 'right inner game' (mindset) put to use.

What is the 'Enjoyfullife?' It means, at whatever age, enabling joy, being joyful, and enjoying that fulfilled life. It also means to be feasible, viable and sustainable.

Our social enterprise, Always for People, focuses on three sectors: Education| Health & Wellness| Family & Community.

05/08/2024

Good morning and happy Monday, folks. Have a great August ahead. Take care and stay well. TQ

25/07/2024

Fun and inspirational for us to watch. Have a good day ahead. TQ -

What is the secret for a long, healthy and happy life? You're about to find the answer in this incredibly inspiring documentary about seniors.The film challe...

08/09/2023

Good morning and a happy Friday, folks. Remember to treasure these innocent moments with our kids and nurture their love for love. Take care and stay well. TQ

The problem is;
We look for someone to grow old together,
While the secret is to find someone to stay a child with!
(Charles Bukowski)

What does Love mean to 4-8 year old kids?
Slow down for a few minutes to read this...💕

A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, 'What does love mean?' The answers they got were broader, deeper, and more profound than anyone could have ever imagined!

'When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore...
So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too.
That's love.' Rebecca - age 8

'When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.' Billy - age 4

'Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.' Karl - age 5

'Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.' Chrissy - age 6

'Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.' Terri - age 4

'Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him,
to make sure the taste is OK.' Danny - age 8

'Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and just listen.'
Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)

'If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate.' Nikka - age 6
(we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)

'Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt,
then he wears it every day.' Noelle - age 7

'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.' Tommy - age 6

'During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.
He was the only one doing that.
I wasn't scared anymore.' Cindy - age 8

'My mommy loves me more than anybody.
You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.' Clare - age 6

'Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.' Elaine - age 5

'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.' Chris - age 7

'Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.' Mary Ann - age 4

'I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.' Lauren - age 4

'When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.'
(what an image!) Karen - age 7

'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross...' Mark - age 6

'You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot.
People forget.' Jessica - age 8

And the final one: The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, 'Nothing, I just helped him cry.'
(this made me cry!)

Now, take a few seconds and post this for others to inspire and spread Love like butter!
And then go be a child again today!

01/09/2023

24/07/2023

Everyday advice from dads to their children and others, not just on Fathers Day but everyday💙https://fb.watch/lZPxaTpRrw/?mibextid=hsl9Qt

15/07/2023

The best thing is that it’s completely free, it takes just 10-15 minutes a day, and anyone can do it.

31/05/2023

How many of you, above 50yo and beyond are still training and preparing to compete in sports and athletics? If you are, this 20+yo article is important to refer to. It is an encouraging sign, though. Share your thoughts. Take care and stay well. TQ -

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14/08/2022

Hold the mother, not the baby.⁣
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Because the baby’s being taken care of—⁣
fed, snuggled, and given all the love in the world—⁣
by not only the mother,⁣
but her partner, grandparents, siblings, cousins, and friends.⁣
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But the mother,⁣
may have gaps in her mind from lack of sleep,⁣
may be mechanical in her motions as she’s healing,⁣
may feel more like a mess than a mother,⁣
may be sitting in bed, crying, feeling overwhelmed in her body and life,⁣
may be full of mom guilt because in her mind, "she's not good enough,"⁣
and she’s bleeding, wincing in pain, swollen and emotional.⁣
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And the mother’s that baby's whole world and needs to be seen, so she doesn't disappear into that postpartum fog.⁣
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So, hold the mother, not the baby.⁣
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A mother agrees that her baby matters more.⁣
But she’s hurting, while she’s the person behind the baby,⁣
in the background, making it all happen:⁣
feeding her baby at all hours,⁣
snuggling her baby close to comfort newborn cries,⁣
and being that baby’s everything.⁣
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So, it’s the mother who needs your love.⁣
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And a mother will remember who held her up.⁣
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So instead of “I’m coming to see the baby,”⁣
try saying, “I’m coming to see you 𝘢𝘯𝘥 meet the baby, too.”⁣
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Because the mother needs to be held more.⁣

08/01/2022

HNY week #1 2022, dads💙

18/12/2021

Dads have been getting a lot of negative attention for a long time. There seems to be this idea going around that dads are somehow not as engaged or as attentive as moms. This is just not the case for so many kids. There are lots of dads out there, most dads I'd say, who really want the best for the...

13/07/2021

https://fb.watch/6Jg8ZiJw14/

24/11/2020

Be the fairy tale hero to your kids, dads

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