21/08/2025
Su***de is not about wanting to die, about wanting to end the pain
Recently, Malaysia has seen a series of su***de cases, which is truly heartbreaking. Many times, for people with suicidal thoughts, what they really want to end is not life itself, but the deep pain within.
The voice behind su***de
Suicidal thoughts often stem from an overwhelming sense of despair. Some may feel crushed by life’s pressures, some by social isolation, and others may believe their very existence is a burden. For them, death may seem like an “escape from pain.” But in reality, what they truly long for is understanding and companionship—a way to ease their suffering.
The media effect: The Werther Effect
When the media or social platforms over-dramatize su***de cases, or report them in a detailed or romanticized way, it can trigger what is known as the “Werther Effect.” This imitation effect may lead some emotionally vulnerable individuals to believe that su***de is a way to “be understood” or “be seen,” thereby increasing the risk.
Therefore, it is crucial that we handle su***de reporting with care—placing the focus on how to help those in need, rather than on sensational details of the case.
The ripple effect: The pain of those left behind
The impact of su***de is never limited to the person involved. Families, friends, classmates, colleagues, and even the wider community are all deeply affected. They may fall into guilt, self-blame, anger, and grief—these are all part of the “ripple effect.” This is why every su***de is a trauma that society as a whole must face and heal together.
What we can do:
• Listen—be present before judging
• Reach out and check in on those around us
• Encourage seeking professional help
• Break the silence—talking about mental health is not weakness
Please remember: are not alone. help is sign of strength.
Su***de prevention and mental health support in Malaysia
Shalom Careline
For those in need of emotional support, you can call 03-2723 7272 to reach Shalom Careline. This free service is provided by trained mental health volunteers.
Service hours are Monday to Sunday,
10am–1pm and 7pm–11pm.
#自殺不是想死, #而是想結束痛苦
最近馬來西亞頻頻傳出自殺事件,讓人心疼。很多時候,有自殺念頭的人,真正想結束的並不是生命,而是內心深深的痛苦。
自殺背後的心聲
自殺念頭往往源自強烈的絕望感。有人可能因為生活壓力過重,有人可能因為人際孤立,也有人感到自己的存在是一種負擔。對他們而言,死亡看似是「逃離痛苦」的出口。 但事實上,他們真正渴望的,是「有人理解、有人陪伴」;是找到一個能讓痛苦減輕的方法。
媒體效應:維特效應(Werther effect)
當媒體或社群過度渲染自殺事件,或以細節化、浪漫化的方式報導時,可能會引起所謂的「維特效應」(Werther effect)。這種「模仿效應」會讓一些心理狀態脆弱的人,覺得自殺是一種「被理解」或「被看見」的方式,進而增加風險。
因此,我們更需要以謹慎的態度面對自殺報導,把焦點放在如何幫助需要的人,而不是在事件的細節上。
漣漪效應:留下來的人的痛苦
自殺帶來的影響,絕不僅限於當事人。家人、朋友、同學、同事,甚至社區,都會深受衝擊。他們可能陷入內疚、自責、憤怒與哀傷,這些都是「漣漪效應」的一部分。也因此,每一起自殺,都是整個社會需要一起面對與療癒的創傷。
我們能做的:
- 傾聽,先陪伴,不急著批判
- 主動關心身邊的人
- 鼓勵尋求專業協助
- 打破沉默,談論心理健康不是軟弱
請記得: #你並不孤單。 #勇敢求助, #就是一種力量。
(Source: Raymond Wong)
#馬來西亞的自殺防治與心理求助資源
Shalom Careline
对于需要情感支持的人,可拨打 03-2723 7272 联系 Shalom Careline。
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上午 10 时至下午 1 时和晚上 7 时至 晚上11 时。