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BirthInk HypnoBirthing Malaysia, No 16-1 Kedai Kelumpuk Merpati A Jalan 4/5Keramat, Wilayah Persekutuan Kuala Lumpur6 AU3 WP, Kuala Lumpur (2025)

02/11/2025

"Would Fibroids near the cervix affect my ability to give birth?"

No,this isn't her story because we didn't believe it, and they set their mind, even before she was pregnant with this baby her mind was strong on what she wanted.

Is the journey always smooth?

No, some people face real challenges despite the preparation, and at points doubt may creep in. This is for a mom who prepared extensively.

Who kept her strong?

Gorilla for sure! Was a calm happy playful presence BUT lovingly firm when it got hard. He didn't question the process one bit. Hats off to gorilla for breaking his back, being her legs, smiling on and erasing her fears.

On Friday mommy wondered if baby is playful (like parents) before coming out, baby don't be playful. A challenging birth I would say, but they both were trusting, and when one wasn't trusting the other would then be the source of trust for both. Teamwork, dad felt the labour, mom was in her space, to be free to move decide and surrender.

Baby was indeed playful, when dad spotted the cord around the neck, the aha moment came.

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Homebirth comes with complexities. To say it is dangerous is inaccurate, but it's crucially important to be as open and prepared for the turns it can take.

Just like everything in life, I don't encourage walking blindly into it, research, read, learn, do, surrender, unlearn, stillness, and trust are all important components.
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Also want to thank the ppl that supported these parents invisibly, became guardian to my children for the two days, and poured out their blessings.
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Lastly, baby Zayd seems to become more skillful at calling out his friends.

And I am happy for their efforts and outcome ❤️

25/10/2025

What if you could start with a perfect birth? How would that look like?
What if you could walk fine after birth? Not having to worry about pains, stitches, and recovery?

Giving Birth is EASY when you put the plan into action
Giving birth is ECSTASY when you have the right mindset and catalyst.

We have been taught to fear birth, we've been conditioned to think it's dangerous. But when we rewire our mindset, we prepare from the get go, we don't leave it to chance, we make each day play a part in its success, we nurture our body that houses our baby, it can be the experience of a lifetime (x number of kids)

I liked how she was already talking about her second bub just a few hours later. I'm super proud of the gorilla that stepped up and was so gently encouraging. For mom, she was so serene and in her power, she yielded beautifully and breathed through the emergence of their baby. No water birth, and still super calm!

My job as a doula is to nurture your confidence, the feeling of safety, and bringing the best out of you for this very important day. It's not an easy job, but I am humbled by it, and I cherish the sights of newborns born calmly and healthily into loving arms.

If you are waiting for tomorrow to prepare, you've wasted a day being aimless about your goals. This birth awaits you.

19/10/2025

This is what happens when you hand over your autonomy, body and baby to a system that sees birth as dangerous, medicalized and needing to be controlled... You lose control over the very thing that was placed in you to have full control over.

There's too many of these stories, the "but" to intercept with a moms deep desire to feel what a natural birth is like. Does it even make sense that your body was designed to fail? You body breathes just fine, opens its eye and blinks just fine. But the narrative that we feed our minds can be so toxic. Worst yet when they come from people who seem to have authority over us, or seem to be better knowing.

There is NO BETTER PERSON more knowing of your body than YOU. But you have to be the one that gets real and learn to vanish the noise. Learn to demystify the wonderful intricacies of birth so that you learn to fully trust your body. You take the necessary steps, to lead your body in a healthy manner to and through labour. The Dr isn't the one giving birth. You are.

Birth is not unwittingly happening to you, birth is unfolding a wonderful mystery. Embrace it.

And prepare for it.

15/10/2025

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There is more to pregnancy and birth than aches and pains, suffering and anxiety.
If you feel like you want to know how to effectively use your pregnancy to prepare for Birth, what exercises you need to be mindful of, what to discuss with your doctor, such as what is in the birth plans, and how you and your husband can lead a pregnancy driven with calm intentions, then perhaps it's time for you to find out more about HypnoBirthing.

Here is your chance to find out if the in-depth HypnoBirthing program is perfect for you.

Did you know that HypnoBirthing?

🌠Helps you labour calmly
🌠Teaches you how to cope with Labour Pains
🌠Avoids tearing & Episiotomy
🌠Avoids Exhaustion
🌠Promotes quicker recovery
🌠Helps you avoid omplications
🌠Helps you have a Calm baby
🌠Teaches your Partner how they can be proactivelt involved in Pregnancy & Labour
🌠Promotes Skin-to-Skin and Breastfeeding
🌠Guides you on the Birth Plan and the doctor communication
🌠 Helps you understand and work with your body to have an easy calm birth

If this is you-
🔥Not Confident & Scared for the Labour Day?
🔥Wanting to Experience a Calmer Birth Experience?
🔥Want to be in control of Your Labour 🔥Experience?
🔥Want to avoid a Traumatic Experience?

Make the firsts step to exployand understand your options for a better birth.

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P.S.
👏Hi❤️
I'm Ruzanna, founder of BirthInk. I am an avid Birthworker. I am a Certified HypnoBirthing Educator, Doula, Certified TBAN Counsellor.

A mother of four children born through The HypnoBirthing program that were Natural Gentle Birth Experiences.
I help expecting parents build confidence and be informed to make the birth choices that enhance a rewarding the gentle parenthood journey. Bringing you not only practical tips, but emotional support, knowledge, one-to-one connection, actual Labour insights and personalisation, with 11 years of experience in this field, having also been present in labour rooms assisting parents through their delivery and labour phases.

09/10/2025

She wanted a VBAC. Being concerned that history might repeat itself, I focused education on avoiding a premature membrane release, small baby and breech, among the other things taught.

Early in pregnancy she didn't waste time lingering on "hopes". She prepared for birth, attended my HypnoBirthing Classes AND put in the necessary effort. She even came for refreshers and hired me last min.

25/09/2025

The narration that birth has to hurt and be scary is something that society has conditioned us with.

But birth can be beautiful.
An experience that once you venture in, you will not fear it any longer, instead you will embrace that moment when it comes

20/09/2025

Stitch of words incoming.

When this is the standard of how we view birth, it distorts the truth of how it should be.

Women should never be forced upon in this manner to birth. Yet many are told that this is the way. Scream filled, purple pushing, va**na ripping, oxygen depleting.

This is how medicalization of birth normalizes trauma in something that is sacred, primal, and powerful.

We need to change the script.
We need to empower women for better!
This is not "as long as mom and baby is alright" - because that's a lie, bred to push the idea that we should be grateful it's not worse, that there cannot be anything better and being abused, traumatized but surviving.

18/08/2025

Last Friday

As promised to see her. Online student drives down to KL for a visit, the happy mother's and upset kid who was told to stop playing with toysand baby who's just had enough of lack of attention ❤️ let's pray for her successful smooth gentle and awesome VBAC

Food for thought.
What if you were told your body could not give birth naturally, but the truth was something more sinister? That it had nothing to do with your perfectly designed body, but rather a system that disconnects you from nature and empowerment? A system that is about protecting, but rather than protecting you, it protects them.

With over 90% of mothers being induced, one might wonder if women truly have the capabilities to give birth, naturally, without barbaric tools and methods. However only the few are willing to step outside of this thinking, to go down the road of finding out.

My experiences have taught me that birth is supposed to be a very wonderful, inviting experience. That our bodies are more capable than possibly imaginable. That birth is the beginning of a bigger journey, and that it should be protected for the wellbeing of mothers and babies.

❤️

07/08/2025

What would you tell a mom who comes to you late in her third trimester, asking you if she can birth at home for her second child when her first was an emergency cesarean at 32weeks?

And even a few years later the memory is etched in their lives as a momentous wonderful celebration.

Too often we tarnish birth to be something it is not intended to be > screaming, suffering, scary.

And when the message comes from a dad, it's a double win for me. Woman to woman, it's easier to connect and feel all these emotional side. But when a dad looks back, reflecting this beautiful cherished moment, and feels the need to share that memory with me.

P.s
1. It was their decision, I don't decide, I merely show them how
2. There's always risks in the things we do, to treat birth as no risk (wherever and whatever you choose) is to be ignorant, it comes down to knowing how to weigh the risks and managing the risks (whether outsourced or inherently knowing how to)
3. I am NOT a midwife, I don't "do" things (medically) for or to you. How these parents achieve such a Beautiful homebirth without as much as a Vaginal exam, needing stitches, Fetal HR check - and on their terms is because, I do impart knowledge on them, and it is important for them to know and understand the extent of situations as much as possible. KNOWLEDGE is the key to it, I can only work with my Doula clients when they have birth knowledge with them.
4. You can have your opinion and/or disagree - but please do it mindfully & respectfully. I'm not the one who syiok sendiri here, and it's not just one happy couple.
5. Birth is not merely luck. If we can influence and choose genders, why do you still think it's luck to have an awesome birth?
6. Don't come to me last minute - honestly I dislike last minute situations, if you stumbled upon this early and desire it, start early, don't wait wait wait. There's a lot to do.
7. Yes you deserve a beautiful birth, too many people focus on the birth they don't want, why not focus on the birth you DO want.

03/08/2025

Here's something we rarely see or appreciate, the life source of our children while they float around in a cosmic space filled with water.

This placenta decided to detach 2 days after birth, lotus birth is when the placenta is NOT CUT to allow for nature/baby to decide when to let go. What's the evidence behind this? Perhaps it will take another 100 yrs to finally discover this. Allopathy may not be able to realize this ever. This is not just a dead organ, and against all the misinformation of how it will be disgusting, smelly and rotting there as some (those who probably lack the experience in this) there's a way to take care of this process. Herbs are used to keep the placenta dry, and no it doesn't lead to infections or flies when done correctly.

While currently lacking the evidence (doesn't mean there isn't any, we just don't know yet) I believe there to be a spiritual component in this process. They say babies are calmer, they say releasing the placenta this way is voiding the unnecessary trauma that the baby can have with severing the cord early, they call this the angel sibling, or the TREE OF LIFE. There have been observations that the placenta can still pulsate even 5 days after birth.

I began appreciating this miracle organ more after reading The Forgotten Chakra by Ibu Robin Lim. Truly the placenta is medicinal and spiritually linked. Placentas are also clues to the pregnancy, at least it is for me, for they are formed from the nutrition the parents consumed pre and during pregnancy and they develop according to how well parents take care of themselves. So it's always best to be mindful of what's going in. After all this will be the one that supports your growing child, so love it, care for it, value it, and honour it's presence for it has done a tremendous job.

19/07/2025

Support.
What does that look like?
In the presence of birth, I am not there to dictate ANYTHING, I am merely there to support.
Support can be in the form of me hiding in the corner, while I observe things unfolding, where there is intimacy felt in the room, my presence should not be disruptive of the oxytocin.

Support can be me filling in for Gorilla, while gorilla takes on another task he deems more important , my hands to replace his for a moment, but not to replace his presence.

Support can be carrying the mom, when her legs can only drag her down, to be the crutches that breathes with her

Support can be knowing when to do nothing, to let her feel her own POWER so she knows that she is innately capable

Support is also to know when to steal her attention, if she shall forget the flow so that she may be eased back into her zone

Support is not to narrow her options, but to let her know what is possible, and happily walk by her in the choices SHE makes.

Support is being by her side, even when it's difficult, not just difficult for her but difficult for me, when she puts me out of my comfort zone or chooses something that my heart screams loud against, to support and RESPECT and honour her wishes

Support can be sticking by, even when your gut says "this is going to get messy, you can save yourself the trouble, this is going to turn around and bite you" - yes even when the blame will be turned to me, I still support her.

Support is letting her story, her version be heard, understood and validated, even though you hear the other end of things and that didn't quite match her story, her story is important and of value.

And honestly, what I can say is that rarely do mothers get GENUINE SUPPORT, in a world where we know so much the impact of mental wellness, rarely are birthing mothers fully supported.

My ask of you, is if you are her support person, if she trusted you to share what she wanted to do, support her wholly.

14/07/2025

This magical soul was sent to me five years ago to "merasmikan" a role I only dreamt of filling at that time. With her first baby she entrusted me to be a witness to the beautiful experience that unfolded in the comfort of their home. How can I forget that fateful day we spent, 40 weeks on the dot seeing yet another care provider, one that is supportive. It was like a date, a date with a family who was soon expanding from two to three. We spent the whole day together, seeing Dr, running errands, enjoying the chats and endless slices of lamb.

By night fall, she was sleepy and feeling something, but with all that feel good vibes it felt just like another awesome day. The next morning after sunrise, I got a text asking for me to be there, Moe said, "Shal is asking for you Ru", time to make my way, just about 2hrs after my arrival, we see his appearance and I told Moe, who looked a little frozen at that time "There's your baby, look at him, see he is twitching his eyes and mouth" and the rest was history.

This is the woman who opened her womb to allow me in her space, her home for the home birth of her son, first born, my first Doula-Homebirth experience. The start of a wonderful journey. Till today she always welcomes me warmly.

I say what I said again, Thank you for the trust. The trust you had learned to gain in your own ability.

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