10/07/2025
A Story of Grace, Strength, and Selflessness — A Tribute to My Mother
She was always a woman who knew what she wanted — firm in her values, tender in her love, and graceful in her way of living. My mother had a heart full of care, and a mind that always thought one step ahead, even for the moments we were least prepared for.
In her quiet wisdom, she pre-planned her own final journey, not out of fear, but out of love. She didn’t want us to worry. She didn’t want chaos or sorrow to cloud our hearts when the time came. She wanted everything to be done just right — her way.
Among her last wishes, she left us a clear, heartfelt message. She asked to be dressed in her favorite green three-piece suit — a suit that brought out her natural elegance, one that she always felt confident and radiant in. It was more than just clothing; it was her essence — calm, composed, beautiful. Over it, she wanted to be layered with the traditional longevity costume, a powerful symbol of dignity, peace, and respect in her final rest.
Her instructions were not just practical; they were deeply meaningful. She chose the green suit to reflect her vitality and her love for life. She chose the longevity costume to honor tradition and to ensure a smooth and respectful transition into the afterlife — because even in her passing, she thought about harmony, about grace, about doing things beautifully.
She gave us the gift of knowing we had fulfilled her wishes. She gave us peace during our greatest sorrow. And in doing so, she reminded us once again — she was, and always will be, the strongest and most thoughtful person we’ve ever known.
If reading this has made you reflect — whether about your own journey or how you'd like your story to be remembered — I welcome you to have a relax conversation with me. Pre-planning, like my mother did, is a beautiful gift to your loved ones. It brings peace of mind, clarity, and the chance to honor your life the way you envision it.
Let’s talk when you're ready. 🌿