03/05/2020
⚰跟你们分享一段我的人生故事💬
在新加坡的一次殡葬业interview时,
interview我的她说了一段让我觉得很有意思 印象很深刻的一段话
她说:
曾经呢她的老板娘告诉过她
人生两大事就是[ 婚礼 ] 和 [ 丧礼 ]
那两个人要结婚的时候
婚礼的一切都是由两个人携手一起
很精心很努力的去筹备去策划所有的行程和安排 为得就是人生中那么唯一一次的婚礼 一定要非常的圆满完成
留下美好的回忆 不留遗憾
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但最后 两个人(当然不是每个人)
却可以突然有一天走向离婚……💔
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但丧礼呢
是无论你怎么策划 怎么去安排
无论如何 都是那么的最后一次
而且时间紧凑 当下想到什么就是什么
没有多余的时间去策划
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是完全 无法 重来 第二次的。⚰️
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所以身为一个礼仪师 仪容师 殡葬团队
也只有那么一次的机会
去替每一个逝者完成人生的最后一程
做不好 不仅会让家属留下刻板印象
更是让家属留下很多的遗憾
当然自己也会留下遗憾
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当然人可以选择要或不要结婚
但死亡是没有选项的
人生的尽头 没有第二次的彩排。
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最近有看到殡葬行业者发文说
因为疫情的关系
很多家属对于亲人在疫情间的离去有着很多的遗憾
毕竟这期间的丧礼环节 程序 互动
比起以往都有着非常严苛的限制
看了 也难过
我想 我很清楚的知道
他们的遗憾是什么 😔
时间和死亡从不等人
希望大家真心珍惜与爱大自然所给的一切♥️
English Version:
There’s one time in Singapore, while I’m having my mortician interview session, the interviewer told me some meaningful things that I’m going to share with you guys now.
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The two big events in our life,
[ Wedding ] and [ Funeral ]
When two person decided to get married, both person strive so hard spend long time to prepare and arrange all their wedding stuff together to rehearsal and all that just to create a special moment of lifetime memories.
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But people can just get divorce💔
(Of course not everyone*)
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While come to [ Funeral ],
Even how many times you’ve prepared or spend a time for arrange all the stuff , you only have the only one and last funeral ceremony in your lifetime.
And of course marriage is optional.
But death is not.
There will be no rehearsal for the one last time.
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And as a Mortician,
undertaker group,
We only got one last chance to serve well for every deceased’s last journey. Or else we will left their family members with eternal regrets.
Recently, I’ve read some funeral posting from some funeral director saying that due to this Covid-19 period, many of the funerals session had ended with much of regrets. Because there’s too many funeral progress restrictions due to this disease even they’re not die from Covid-19.
So, time waits for no one.
Treasure every moment you have.
Love and cherish people who’s around you ♥️
Thanks🥠
— 遗容师 雪雯LSW 3May2020🖋🤍