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28/04/2026

24/04/2026

Episode 5- Somewhere along the way…

Nothing changed overnight… but somehow everything feels different.

This episode is about the slow, quiet shifts we don’t always notice—until we do.

21/04/2026

I recorded something for our latest episode coming soon. And I noticed that this specific episode hit home. So I recorded a little snippet of where my mind has been recently.

Lately, I’ve been struggling a little bit in this season 💛 struggling with change.

Nothing dramatic.
Just subtle shifts… in how I think, what I feel, what I’m no longer okay with.

And if I’m honest; it’s been shaking me a little.

Because while I can see the growth, I can also feel the grief.
Grieving a version of myself that got me here.
A version I’m not ready to let go of so easily.

There’s a strange tension in becoming…
between welcoming who you’re becoming and feeling like you’re betraying who you’ve been.

This space in-between.
Where nothing is clearly ending, but everything is quietly changing.

Still figuring it out.
Still learning how to hold both.

Full episode on this topic drops soon💛

30/03/2026

Ep: Every adult was once a child learning how to feel.

The way children experience emotions; whether they feel safe to express them, whether they are understood; shapes how they show up later in life.

In this conversation join me and one our very own Miss Namibia Semi-finalist Constancia Kamburona, as we unpack:
• how children learn emotional responses
• why modelling matters more than instruction
• and how childhood experiences carry into adulthood

What’s something you had to learn emotionally as an adult that no one taught you?

12/03/2026

Healing is not always soft.

It’s not always journaling, candles, and peaceful mornings.

Sometimes healing looks like:
• apologising when your ego wants to defend
• sitting with discomfort instead of reacting
• noticing patterns you used to ignore
• choosing differently, again and again

And sometimes it even feels harder at first.

“Sometimes healing feels worse before it feels better — because you’re finally seeing the patterns you used to ignore.”

That awareness can feel heavy.

But awareness is where change begins.

Growth doesn’t mean you stop getting triggered.
Growth means you stop letting the trigger control what you do next.

If you’re more aware, more accountable, and more intentional than you used to be…

You’re not failing.
You’re healing.

healingiswork

27/02/2026

Kapadhi The Life Coach and Kelao Uiras had an insightful conversation on Love and what we grew up knowing is love.

Have a watch to see if the early childhood experiences have had an influence on how you see love now.

Why does love trigger us so deeply?In this episode, we unpack how the way love was modeled to us growing up still shapes how we attach, react, and show up in...

26/02/2026

Love doesn’t trigger you by accident.
It triggers what was shaped in you.

The way love was shown to you growing up still echoes in how you love today.

And maybe the goal isn’t perfection.

Maybe it’s this:
“Love is not about being perfect, but about showing up over and over and over and over — but with love.”

This one is for anyone unlearning old love patterns. 🤍
watch the full video on our YouTube channel
https://youtube.com/?si=ZFs3ihPyqXJ3zlbw

16/02/2026

The problem isn’t fear.
It’s when fear starts deciding for you.

In this episode of Hold That Thought, we unpack:
• Healthy vs unhealthy fear of failure
• Why some fear can actually motivate you
• How to separate your self-worth from your mistakes
• Practical ways to keep fear working for you, not against you

💬 What has fear of failure stopped you from doing?

13/01/2026

If you feel ready to check in, continue where we left off, or start the year with a fresh focus on yourself, please do reach out 💛

07/01/2026

As the new year begins, we wrap up what 2025 was like for the Utopians 💛💛