15/09/2025
We often romanticize death, but the truth is that it is hard. Hard for the one in the bed. Hard for those at the bedside. Hard in the ways that are physical, emotional, and lasting. Death is not always peaceful, beautiful, or good. It is final. It is heavy. It leaves an imprint that does not fade easily.
And yet, within that difficulty, there is something deeply human. In the weight and the struggle, there can still be kindness. A hand held. A body tended to with dignity. A presence that says, “you are not alone.”These moments don’t erase the pain or the finality of death, but they matter.
When we stop sugarcoating death, we allow ourselves to meet it honestly, for what it is, and for what it demands of us: courage, compassion, and the willingness to simply show up.
Death is not always peaceful, beautiful, or good, but it is something we must face. Our hope is to make the landing softer, though sometimes that is beyond our control. This is why honest conversations about death and dying matter: so we can prepare our hearts for the many ways it may unfold, and so we can meet it with as much understanding, compassion, and presence as possible.
xo
Gabby
Hospice and palliative care nurse, end-of-life doula, death educator, author
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