10/01/2026
Good evening to you Meme Kapadhi , please post on your page and hide my identit, I will be reading comments🙏
I am in a relationship with this guy for 8 good years now. We met from from the university and currently were all employed. We have been doing soo well in our relationship, had common goals, lifting each other and we just had the best relationship really🧡
In 2020, he graduated from university. The problem started in 2022 when my partner was job hunting, he wanted to get a job soo much, even though I have been there for him, supported him financially, emotionally and mentally where I could☺️
and comforting him to be a little bit patient with the process and I asked him to be more closer to God, since I believed he will not forsake him☺️
I was a student by then and around July in 2022, he told me that he was introduced to a revival church by a friend😚he got prayed for and he even started attending nearby church in his town and also was given a role in the church😚
To me I was supprised and had a feeling he was safe because he started changing( seeing people against him and many things), he wanted me to join but luckily I was far from him, so he send me links to follow online, because I didn't want to dissapoint him, i didn't complain at all😚
I received the links and I watched but with me I never believe in revival churches , but I believe in God😔
Not too long, in the same year he then got a job in the month of November and he told the great news 👏
The same month his behaviour got worse, one day from a night cruside he ran mad/crazy to say, claiming that there are people against him and he also didn't even want to talk to me or be with me anymore, he said I was a problem to him too 😭 he then blocked me and told people in his family to delete my number and block me too😭
From that night, that was the last day he went to that church. I was shocked to hear the news from one of his relative, I then adviced them to take him to the hospital for counselling and they did 🏥
After some weeks , he called me, we spoke and I didn't even ask questions of what was happening to our relationship, we made arrangements for him to come visit me, sothat we can talk 👄
When we met, he looked really confused and traumatised 🥹 I could see that he was really not fine,then he revealed to me that he feels things moving in his head😱
From there, we carried on with our relationship,when he started realising and remembering what happened,and I thought he was ouk, we even planned to have a baby 2024, the baby is 1 year now 👶
Everything was fine. and he even developed feelings of wanting to marry me, we planned to get married few years to come 👩❤️💋👩
About a year ago, he started commanding me to be calling him 'Tate' everytime we are greeting each other, well, I do that sometimes but I felt it was so weird to be to be forced 😙
He hasfunny moods sometimes and saying that I don't respect him anymore😙
He started having long prayers at food, ok it was not a problem, then it kept going on and on and I became worried and I asked him if we can talk about it 😊but everytime we spoke anything that had to do with God, it becomes a problem and he would not even talk to me😲
He started sending me scriptures from the bible and that was ouk with me,but weeks ago he told me that he has always been struggling to heal since 2022😙
He apparently is disobedience to God (which is unclear to me), and he also observed that we have different perceptions of how we look at the walk with God in our live😭
He said he decided to choose God obey him and trust him during the crucial moment of his life,and we cannot be in contact 💔
Even if our relationship seemed promising to us, he says it's not promising in the eyes of God😭
That is how our relationship ended.and,I'm soo dissapointed and confused, I feel lost in thoughts, because our love had been soo true, real and mutual, not only to us, but also to those around us. Please advice, I will appreciate🙏
