Issues of the Heart

Issues of the Heart To help in healing the broken Hearts, Help restore Love and to help many find fulfiliment in the Rel

17/07/2025

A good Spouse is like a balanced diet. He/she that finds a Spouse, finds a good thing not a bad thing*.... Two are better than One not worse.

17/04/2025

You can be a great father and still lose your family, because in today’s world, effort means nothing if you’re a man.

You wake up early.
You go to work.
You pay the rent.
You stay loyal.
You pray for the family.

Still - you lose them.

Not because you failed but because modern fatherhood is built like a trap.

You do everything right…
and still end up wrong.

She leaves. The kids follow. The house becomes a memory.

You keep paying bills.
She keeps changing the narrative.

And if you dare raise your voice?

You’re “toxic.”
You’re “unstable.”
You’re “the reason she left.”

You paid for the piper—
but she still dictates the tune.

You followed the rules. But that’s the problem.

Because if you follow the rules, you’re not a leader. If you’re loyal, you become a simp.

You were told to protect her. So you did!

You were told to provide. So you did!

You were told to stay faithful. So you did!

And now?
You’re divorced.
You’re depressed.
You’re disposable.

The court says, “You are not the father.”

But the damage is already done.
Your heart? Shattered.
Your name? Stained.
Your wallet? Still responsible.

They call it “in the best interest of the child.”
A child she won’t even let you see...

Meanwhile, she smiles in silence.

Because she already won.

The lie worked.
The system backed her.
And society cheered her on.

You?
You’re on your fourth therapy.
And nobody clapped you for surviving.

You lose your family … and they still blame you.

“She probably warned him.”
“He chose beauty, not brains.”
“He didn’t discern well
Or maybe…
just maybe…
they married women who were experts at hiding their true nature.

Until one day - they woke up, and switched.

No warning.
No remorse.
Just “I’ve changed.”

Modern women don’t leave you for cheating.

They leave because your timeline expired.
You don't tickle their fancy and fantasy again.
You couldn’t afford the soft life package again.
So they 'cut their losses' & shoot for the streets.

You were good. But you weren’t enough.

Not rich enough.
Not fun enough.
Not trendy enough.

And now the kids are gone.
The house is quiet.
Your heart is tired.

And all you hear is:

“Real men fight for their families.”

As if you didn’t already bleed trying.

Let me be clear.

You can be a great father and still lose all.

Not because you didn’t love enough.
But because love doesn’t matter anymore.

Not if you’re a man.

Let the keypad warriors flood the comments.
Let the women say “not all of us.”
Let the deniers come swinging.

But the real men know.

They’ve lived it.
They’ve bled it.
They’ve buried it.

Say nothing and move on.

Today We Celebrate the Birth of Christ. Do you know there are some People who are still expecting his Birth, while He ha...
25/12/2024

Today We Celebrate the Birth of Christ.
Do you know there are some People who are still expecting his Birth, while He has come & Gone waiting for His 2nd coming?

They are still waiting for Him to be Born, cause the way, how he was born and the Manner in which he was born doest suit how they think, a KING in His class and caliber should be Born.

Business wise, Career wise, Relationship and Marital Wise, many of us are single today & may remain SINGLE for a longer while, not because God has not send anyone to us.

Rather, we are waiting for him/her to come in a certain way & manner.

We have a picture or an idea on how and where we want them to come from.... Thereby missing destiny that is already on our faces.

As we Celebrate the Birth of Christ, you will ineed to check & ask yourself, have I really missed it cause of how I think they should come? Could it be that My Jesus is here already but I can't see nor recognize him/her?

Don't allow unrealistic expectations be the reason why you will remain SINGLE, jobless or trapped for too long.

The Eyes that Looks, isn't same that sees.

To see differently, change your lens.

A new day is upon us.

Think if you can, then you will.

MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE 🥂🤗🥂

18/12/2024

Listen Up, Men! Why a Woman Can Leave You Despite Doing Everything Right

Let’s face it, men: women can leave you for no good reason. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been a good man, responsible, supportive, and sacrificed everything for her. You can fulfill every wish she’s ever expressed, give her the stability and security she claimed to want, and yet, one day, she may walk away. Why? Because for many women, stability can feel boring, and chaos can feel exciting.

This isn’t about you failing as a man—it’s about understanding that insatiability is a part of human nature, but especially pronounced in the emotional dynamics of women.

The Craving for Chaos

Here’s the hard truth: a woman may crave the stability you offer, but once she has it, she may yearn for something else entirely—uncertainty, excitement, drama, or newness. Stability, while safe, can become monotonous for someone who thrives on emotional highs and lows. It’s not your fault; it’s her wiring.

Take the case of Jeff Bezos, the billionaire founder of Amazon. He provided his ex-wife, MacKenzie Scott, with financial stability beyond imagination, an empire to mention but a few. Yet, after 25 years of marriage, she divorced him. While Bezos is no saint, the point here is that even a man at the pinnacle of success—wealth, power, and influence—is not immune to this dynamic.

Or consider Kevin Costner’s high-profile divorce. Here’s a man who built a stable, secure home, yet his wife decided to leave after 18 years, despite their seemingly perfect life. It’s not that these men didn’t provide enough; it’s that enough is never enough when someone is emotionally restless.

The Nature of Insatiability

For some women, the excitement lies in the chase, not the destination. They might dream of a man who provides everything, but once they have him, the novelty wears off. They begin to romanticize chaos or imagine a life “better” than the one they have, even if their current life is objectively good. This is the hypergamous nature of most women.

This is why countless women leave their long-term partners for seemingly irrational reasons. They say they’re “not happy,” but can’t articulate why. They crave a spark, a thrill, something different—often not realizing that this thrill is fleeting and comes with consequences.

The Modern Epidemic of Dissatisfaction

Social media plays a significant role in fueling this insatiability. Women scroll through Instagram, TikTok, or Facebook, seeing highlight reels of other people’s lives—perfect vacations, glamorous lifestyles, and romantic gestures. Comparison becomes the thief of joy. Even if you’re a great man, she might start feeling like she’s “missing out” because she’s constantly bombarded with unrealistic standards.

Celebrities like Kim Kardashian, who left Kanye West despite his wealth and public adoration, serve as glaring examples. Kanye, flawed as he may be, provided her with a life of luxury, support, and fame. Yet, she walked away, citing reasons that boiled down to emotional dissatisfaction.

What Men Need to Understand

Men, stop blaming yourselves for her choices. You can only control what you bring to the table—you cannot control her insatiability or emotional restlessness. Here are some key lessons to take away:

Don’t Overinvest: Stop breaking your back to fulfill every demand. Some women will never be satisfied, no matter how much you give.

Focus on Yourself: Build your empire, grow your value, and live for yourself. If she stays, great. If she leaves, you’re still winning.

Don’t Try to Fix Her: You can’t solve someone’s internal chaos. If she’s restless, she’ll leave no matter what you do.

Set Boundaries: Be clear about what you’re willing to offer. If she can’t appreciate it, she’s not the one for you.

Accept the Reality: Understand that many women are insatiable by nature. Once you grasp this truth, you can protect yourself emotionally and financially.

Final Thoughts

The world is full of stories where women leave good, stable men for chaos, thrill, or simply out of boredom. It’s not your job to fix them or carry the weight of their dissatisfaction. As a man, your primary focus should always be on your growth, happiness, and peace of mind. If she leaves, let her go. Protect your resources, protect your heart, and most importantly, protect your future.

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29/10/2024

Familiarity breeds contempt"📌

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09/10/2024

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09/10/2024

Harder harder harder.... the closer to your grave

Love making is not a competition nor a race that must won. Do what you can and what your strength can carry.

Many Men has died in the name of 'Harder Harder Harder '

Be wise

14/08/2024

Many of us Men are summarised by the value of what we have in our pocket/bank accounts.

But, that is not all there is to a Real Man. A Man is more than a money making and dispensing machine.

Real Men that wants to keep you, looks beyond your loaded front & heavy back. These ones are subject to change.... The beauty of a Woman is in her character.

If/when you are ready to settle down, He/she must not tick all the boxes.

And try not to also compromise your basics cus forever is too long a time to tolerate a person.

The strongest things sometimes are found in things that appears weak.

This is, To Whom It May Concern.

14/08/2024

Hello.... Issues of the Heart ❤

WOMEN AND S*X1. A wife doesn't have to be sexually boring. We need to put off the mind set that a woman outside the marr...
23/04/2024

WOMEN AND S*X

1. A wife doesn't have to be sexually boring. We need to put off the mind set that a woman outside the marriage is more sexually appealing than the wife

2. Women have sexual needs too. The wife's role is not to satisfy the husband sexually as her needs get ignored, she too should be satisfied. Both are meant to enjoy

3. Most women find the missionary style most intimate because the husband and wife look at each other while doing it

4. A lot of women feel that their husbands are selfish in bed, only focusing on getting to his climax and then forgetting her. Remember her. Please her

5. A wife will struggle to flirt with you and give herself to you if she suspects or knows that you are cheating on her. Faithfulness is a turn on

6. For a woman, foreplay begins by how you treat her before things get sexual

7. A woman who tells her husband no when he wants to make love to her, will push him away and when the time comes when you desperately wants him to touch her, he might find it difficult to rekindle that desire because he was bruised by her

8. You might have a very decent, Godly well-behaved wife but during love making she becomes aggressive, passionate and moaning naughty things. Allow her, it is her marriage, she is entitled to express her pleasure freely

9. Sometimes a woman will want it fast and hard, sometimes she will want it slow and gentle. Study her rhythm and mood

10. Your wife might love doggy style because of how your p***s feels when inside her at that angle. Doggy style has different sensations than missionary because of the positioning of the p***s

11. Some wives love being in control, she might want to be on top of you or to have you relax as she gives you pleasure. Relax as a husband and let her do you, you don't always have to be the leader

12. A wife's wetness is special, it should never go to waste. Make use of it and enjoy her wetness even if it is a quickie

13. Most wives like feedback about how the love making was. Tell her how sweet she was, how she drove you crazy, how sexy she is. A wife feels good knowing her husband desires her and enjoys her

© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde

20/04/2024

Children are born of 2 parents and need both parents.
➡️ Being there for your children is beyond money
➡️ Abandonment for a child really affects them.
➡️ If you cannot be responsible as a man, please control your third leg.

25/03/2024

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