11/05/2025
10 Reasons Your Man Is Not In The Mood
(No be every time side chick, abeg calm down.)
1. He’s Tired, Not Tired of You
That man don fight Lagos traffic, work stress, traffic wahala, adult responsibilities, still come back k!ll mosquito for night —sometimes, bros just wan lie down, no touch. Junior no be robot.
2. Mental Stress- Dey Hold Him Like Glue
Worry about money, career, or family fit jam-pack him brain. When head full, body no dey too respond. Junior nor the rise when head dey fry🤷♀️
3. Too Much Quarrel, No Peace
If house dey hot like pepper soup—shouting, nagging, silent treatment—how e wan feel romance? Na peace dey sweet body. Let him relax, give him peace ✌️.
4. He Doesn't Feel Desired. Men too want to be desired. You dey feel say na only you wan feel wanted? Bros too like compliments and small soft touch. No be only debit alert you go give am. Please give him soft treatment, let him know he's still among.
5. He Feels Insecure- Men fear about body changes too. Whether na belle don come out or him dey feel small for bed, insecurity dey press confidence low. Even lion dey fear sometimes.
6. Same Old Routine- e too dey tire 😫
If bedroom matter don turn like assembly line—same moves, same time, same way—e go bore am. Add small spice now!
7. Lifestyle
Too much alcohol, junk food, no exercise—Junior go strike. Healthy body = better action.
8. Medical Conditions- lots of medical conditions can affect a man's performance 🤔 . Diabetes, high BP, low testosterone… no be spiritual wife o. Na doctor fit help, no dey do trial by herbal.
9. Po!rn Don Rewire Him Brain
Too much blue film fit make real-life action look boring. Real body no be edited movie.
10. Performance Pressure- he might be scared he won't meet your expectations. You dey shout “do something!” like say na match. Pressure fit kill the vibe. Na love, no be Olympics.
Bottom Line:
No rush accuse am say he dey cheat. Sometimes na stress, health, or lifestyle. Sometimes e fit be the cheating BUT talk to your man. Na two people dey this waka.
Oya help me share make others learn 🙏 🙏
