Rev'd Canon James Etor

Rev'd Canon James Etor Anglican Priest | Counselor | Advocate for Healing, Dignity & Safe Homes

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Real Talk. Real Hope. Real Healing. Breaking the silence.

Healing wounded homes. Restoring dignity.

Wet your marriage up tonight...
24/10/2025

Wet your marriage up tonight...

24/10/2025

You may not be able to fix what broke your parents, but you can stop it from breaking your children.

24/10/2025

Marriage is a Covenant...

24/10/2025

Do not destroy your spouse for the sins of your father.
Your spouse is not your parent abeg‼️

24/10/2025

Stop calling dysfunction "my personality."
It is trauma wearing designer clothes.

24/10/2025

Maybe you have not noticed;
the loudest people in marriage are often the most unheard children in adult bodies.

24/10/2025

Many are not actually fighting their spouse ooo, they are inadvertently fighting the ghosts of their childhood.

YOUR PARENTS BROKE THEIR HOME. DON'T YOU DARE BREAK YOUR OWNYou do not have to repeat what broke you.You can build what ...
24/10/2025

YOUR PARENTS BROKE THEIR HOME. DON'T YOU DARE BREAK YOUR OWN

You do not have to repeat what broke you.
You can build what you never saw.

➟ Some of us were raised in chaos, not love.
➟ We learned survival, not connection.
➟ We watched fights, not forgiveness.
➟ We saw parents coexist, not communicate.
➟ We thought dysfunction was normal, because it was home.

But hear me clearly👇
📍You can unlearn the pain.
📍You can re-parent your wounded self.
📍You can choose peace, even if you were born in storms.

The cycle does not stop because you wish it. It stops when:
▪️you heal what you saw,
▪️forgive what you felt, and
▪️fight for the kind of home your children will not need therapy to recover from.

You may have come from a broken home, but you are not broken.
You are a repairer.
A restorer.
A rewriter of family history.

Here's the truth nobody wants to say:
▪️Your parents may have broken the home you came from, but if you refuse to heal, you will break the one you are building.
▪️Trauma is not your fault, but repeating it is your choice.

Let this be the generation where pain stops being inherited.
Break the pattern, or your children will repeat your tears.

Rev'd canon. James Etor
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24/10/2025

Strong signs you might be repeating your parents' marriage without realizing it.
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23/10/2025

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