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Sunday, November 3, 2024
Simple ways to become a friend of Blessed Tansi
January 20 is the Feast of Blessed Tansi. You can start your relationship with this Nigerian popular saint by following these simple suggestions. Remember that he is a Nigerian hundred per cent. “Father Tansi was a great man a many-sided specimen of redeemed humanity, a pride of Nigeria and the Catholic priesthood in Nigeria, a convert from African Traditional Religion who lived entirely for God, a follower of Christ who put his hand to the plough and did not look back” (cf. Lk. 9: 62)( Arinze Cardinal in ‘Total Response’ p. 9). For us Christians, it will be very important to recall that he was among the first to receive the catholic faith from the European missionaries. “Blessed Cyprian Michael Tansi is a prime example of the fruits of holiness which have grown and matured in the Church in Nigeria since the Gospel was first preached in this land. He received the gift of faith through the efforts of the missionaries and taking the Christian way of life as his own he made it truly African and Nigerian”( John Paul 11 in a sermon at Beatification Nigeria 1998). When Blessed Tansi died on January 20 1964 believers across Nigeria were sure that he would one day be declared a saint. Many described his death as a material loss but a spiritual gain. The official investigation into his cause did not begin until 1986, and he was not beatified until 1998; by that time, however, there were already thousands of people who were living spiritual friendships with him.
Many of us would like to develop special friendships with this holy Nigerian but often the problem is how to begin. Here we give a few suggestions: The first step to take is to know who this person is. As you develop a relationship with someone, it is only natural that you will want to learn about that person’s life, experiences, and outlook on things. Becoming friends with a saint follows the same dynamic. So, if you want to become friends with Blessed Tansi, a good starting point would be to learn something about his life. Fortunately, there are many good biographies written about him by those who know him well – his town’s people, spiritual sons and daughters, novice master and the postulation for his cause. The ‘Entirely for God’ is considered by many to be the best general account of his life. One book that I love. You can also check out some of the many articles written about Blessed Tansi on ‘weekly meditation’ featuring many quotes from him and highlighting different aspects of his spirituality.
If you are serious about your friendship with Blessed Tansi you can ask questions. An important part of any friendship is knowing that you can ask the other person for support and help – and that is particularly important when building a relationship with a saint. Blessed Tansi is known for being an especially powerful intercessor. St. John Paul II understood this and said: “Father Tansi knew that there is something of the Prodigal Son in every human being. He knew that all men and women are tempted to separate themselves from God to lead their own independent and selfish existence. He knew that they were then disappointed by the emptiness of the illusion which had fascinated them and that they eventually found in the depths of their heart the road leading back to the Father's house (cf. Reconciliatio et Paenitentia, 5). He encouraged people to confess their sins and receive God's forgiveness in the Sacrament of Reconciliation” (Sermon Beatification Nigeria 1998). This is wonderful because we do not just ask Blessed Tansi to do us favours but to help change our hearts so that we can become the persons that God intends us to be. That is the definition of true friendship.
As we become closer to Blessed Tansi, we will hopefully learn to pray with his simplicity and intensity, as well as become more focused and prayerful during the sacraments. When we have a friend whom we admire, it is only natural that we try to emulate them. We can also try to imitate how Blessed Tansi acted in the world, showing love to others especially the sick, the poor and the voiceless. The story of his love and help to the smallpox patients at Umunya an outstation of his parish in 1944 during an outbreak there is well known today. The joy, comfort and healing he brought to the lepers at Nnewi in 1939-40 are on record. As Christians, we have a mission to look after the sick. How could you express love if not through words which bring spiritual relief to the sick person? Bring God to the sick. Many are inspired when they try to look at suffering as Blessed Tansi did. It helped to understand that while human suffering will never be eliminated in this life, we can join Christ in embracing those who suffer as they cry out for meaning. As your relationship with Blessed Tansi grows, he will hopefully open your eyes and help you look at the world in a more beautiful and Christ-centric way, just as he did.
There is one final aspect of friendship that is sometimes forgotten but is quite vital. A healthy friendship is never closed in on itself but opens itself to others – especially to those who feel isolated and marginalized. How does this apply to your relationship with Blessed Tansi? Well, if you find help and comfort in that friendship, then you should invite others to join you. That is especially true for those you see who are lonely, feeling like outcasts, or who are struggling personally or spiritually. You might give them a prayer card of Blessed Tansi and explain how his friendship has helped you. Maybe you want to share a book or article about Blessed Tansi that you found helpful. Or if your parish has a Blessed Tansi Solidarity Prayer group, you could invite the person to join you in prayer. Sometimes you can invite somebody who might need help to come to Blessed Tansi. Whatever gesture you choose, keep it simple and respect the other person’s freedom, treating them with the same love and consideration that Blessed Tansi showed to others.
Finally, there is a very subtle danger that we face in honouring the saints like the Blessed Tansi. The danger is not, as some non-Catholics believe, that honouring the saints is a distraction from God or even offensive to God since when a saint is honoured, it is God who is glorified. Rather, the danger that we face in honouring the saints is that we admire them–but from a distance. We marvel at the person of Blessed Tansi. We stand in awe as we contemplate his life of prayer, the poverty he chose to embrace, his detachment from the world, the apostolic works he performed for the glory of God or the miracles God performed through him. And the danger is, that this is all we do. We admire him, but we don’t imitate him. Blessed Tansi would be saying to all his friends: “Don’t just admire my life. Rather, love as I loved, pray as I prayed, serve as I served, believe as I believed, hope as I hoped, and most importantly, give yourself totally to God and don’t look back.” Hence, what he wants most from our friendship is not merely admiration, but imitation. God is giving each one of us the grace to become a saint right now. Jesus told St. Paul “My grace is sufficient for you” (2 Cor. 12:9). Holiness is possible for each one of us, regardless of our past, our wounds, our vocation, age, weaknesses, failures, etc. Regarding holiness, there are no legitimate excuses simply because the power and beauty of God’s grace are greater than anything we can fathom. The lives of the saints, especially what they did, how they suffered, and how God used them are all very impressive. They certainly deserve our admiration. However, what is most impressive is how each one of the saints in their own way gave themselves to God without reserve. This is ultimately what the saints desire of us as well. We should not only admire the saints but imitate them, and maybe even God willing, go even further than they did in their gift of self to God.