SANE Academy- Singles and Newly Wed Couples Academy

05/05/2023

DEAR SINGLES, IF YOU GET AN EBOOK THAT SHOWS YOU HOW TO OVERCOME HEARTBREAKS FOREVER, HOW MUCH WILL YOU PAY FOR THE EBOOK?

05/05/2023

THE LAWS FOR RUNNING A SUCCESFUL BUSINESS IS DIFFERENT FROM THAT OF A RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE.

Dear singles and soon to be married entrepreneurs, as you invest in paying to learn how to run and grow your business, pay to learn how to start and run a successful romantic relationship that ends in a happy marriage

03/05/2023

Ready to heal and move on from heartbreak? Coaching can guide you through the process.

01/05/2023

Jumping into a new relationship without healing can lead to repeating past mistakes.

01/05/2023

5 Reasons Why You Should Take the Time to Heal from Past Relationships Before Jumping into Something New":
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Introduction:
We've all heard the saying "time heals all wounds." But when it comes to healing from a past relationship, time alone may not be enough. It's essential to take the time to heal before jumping into something new. In this post, we'll explore five reasons why this is so important.
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To avoid repeating patterns
Jumping into a new relationship before healing from past hurts can lead to repeating the same patterns. If you haven't taken the time to reflect on what went wrong in past relationships, you may not be aware of the patterns you tend to repeat. This can lead to choosing partners who are not a good fit for you, and ultimately, another failed relationship.
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To rediscover yourself
When you're in a relationship, it's easy to lose yourself in the dynamic of the partnership. Taking time to heal after a relationship allows you to rediscover who you are as an individual. You can explore your own interests and hobbies, and learn to be comfortable with being alone. This helps you to establish a strong sense of self before entering a new relationship.
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To learn from past mistakes
Reflecting on past relationships allows you to learn from your mistakes. When you take the time to heal, you can look back on your past relationships with a clear perspective. You can identify what you did well and what you could improve on. This learning process is essential to avoid repeating the same mistakes in future relationships.
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To avoid hurting others
Jumping into a new relationship before healing from a past one can lead to hurting others unintentionally. If you haven't worked through your past hurt and pain, you may bring that baggage into a new relationship. This can cause emotional distress to your new partner, who may not understand the depth of your emotional wounds.
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To give yourself the chance to find the right partner
Taking time to heal before entering a new relationship is essential to give yourself the chance to find the right partner. When you take the time to reflect on past relationships and heal from any emotional baggage, you can approach new relationships with a clear perspective. This allows you to identify red flags and warning signs early on and make better decisions about who to date.
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Conclusion:
Taking the time to heal from past relationships before jumping into something new may seem daunting, but it is essential for your emotional well-being and for the success of future relationships. By avoiding repeating patterns, rediscovering yourself, learning from past mistakes, avoiding hurting others, and giving yourself the chance to find the right partner, you can create a strong foundation for a healthy and happy future relationship.

29/04/2023

Madam,that guy is not your husband, stop giving him husband privilege until he pays your bride price

25/04/2023

Don't marry someone because someone prophesied you
should

17/04/2023

CAN I STILL FIND TRUE LOVE?

Are you a single lady who feels like finding true love again is an impossible task? You're not alone. Many women have been through heartbreak and disappointment, and it can be hard to believe that love is still out there waiting for you. But the truth is, finding true love again is not only possible, but it's also something that every woman deserves. Here are five common reasons why single ladies think they can't find true love again, and why those reasons are simply not true.

"I'm too old to find love again."

Age is just a number, and it's never too late to find love. In fact, many women find love later in life when they are more confident, self-aware, and comfortable in their own skin. There is someone out there who will love you for who you are, regardless of your age.

"All the good men are taken."
This is simply not true. There are plenty of good men out there who are looking for love, just like you are. You may need to put yourself out there and try new things, but the right person is out there waiting for you.

"I've been hurt too many times."
Heartbreak can be painful, but it's important not to let past hurts prevent you from finding love again. Every relationship is different, and the next one could be the one that lasts a lifetime. It's important to take the lessons you've learned from past relationships and use them to create a stronger, healthier future relationship.

"I don't have time for dating."
Dating can be time-consuming, but it's important to make time for it if finding love is a priority for you. There are plenty of ways to meet new people and make connections, even if you have a busy schedule. Consider online dating, joining a social club or hobby group, or attending singles events in your area.

"I'm just not lucky in love."
Love is not a matter of luck, it's a matter of choice. You have the power to choose to be open to love, to put yourself out there, and to be vulnerable. It may take some time and effort, but finding true love is within your reach.

So, can you find true love again? Absolutely. It may take some work, but with the right mindset, attitude, and effort, you can find the love and happiness you deserve. Don't let fear or past experiences hold you back. Take a chance, be open, and let love find you.

Godstime T Efeni
Lead Coach SANE ACADEMY

16/04/2023

𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗠𝗬 𝗪𝗘𝗗𝗗𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗣𝗥𝗘𝗣𝗔𝗥𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 𝗧𝗔𝗨𝗚𝗛𝗧 𝗠𝗘​
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𝟮 𝗕𝗜𝗚 𝗟𝗘𝗦𝗦𝗢𝗡𝗦 𝗜 𝗪𝗢𝗡'𝗧 𝗙𝗢𝗥𝗚𝗘𝗧 𝗜𝗡 𝗔 𝗛𝗨𝗥𝗥𝗬​
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𝗔 𝗠𝗨𝗦𝗧 𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗗 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝗦𝗜𝗡𝗚𝗟𝗘𝗦 𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗜𝗡𝗧𝗘𝗡𝗗𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗖𝗢𝗨𝗣𝗟𝗘𝗦​
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When I look back to the preparations for my wedding and how everything pulled through, I remain humble because it went beyond my expectations.​
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And yes there were lots of LESSONS learned from the preparations and also on the day of my wedding but for time's sake, I will highlight just two of them.​
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If you are a single or intending couple, please pay attention to every detail in this article.​
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LESSON ONE​
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THE WEDDING IS JUST A DAY BUT MARRIAGE IS A LIFETIME JOURNEY​
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A few years ago, I had this mentality of making my wedding one of the best in town. Do you know what I mean? That feeling of making everyone know you have arrived.​
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My wedding preparation changed my MINDSET because I saw the futility of hanging on to the euphoria of the wedding day and forgetting about the marriage itself.​
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It made me understand that people will come and celebrate with you but won't follow you and your wife to the house.​
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If you invest so much effort to make your wedding day the best and don't prepare your mind to make your marriage the best then you are off track.​
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I remember someone telling me a true-life story of a lady lamenting and weeping in a commercial vehicle about how she just had her wedding on Saturday and today Monday she is divorced.​
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In less than 72 hours, the marriage crashed. Do you know why?​
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When you focus so much on the event and not the journey, you will face the consequences. ​
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Listen to me singles and intending couples, don't get into depression because you are planning for a wedding.​
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Take note that it is a day event and not a lifetime event. Marriage should be your major focus and not just the wedding day.​
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LESSON TWO​
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THE FAVOUR OF GOD IS REAL​
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Looking back at my wedding and all that happened, the summary for me is, the favor of God is real.​
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I tasted the reality of God's favor and I can tell you for a certainty that you don't need to depend on efforts alone or else you may end up disappointed.​
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Efforts alone won't bring you much, you need the favor of God to compel the heart of men to be of help to you.​
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When everything in your wedding was done with stress and struggles then it means the favor of God wasn't involved.​
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I saw gifts that specifically addressed a lot of my desires as a married man.​
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I can imagine how much would have been spent to buy those things if I wanted to get them myself.​
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The favor of God is real and can be experienced.​
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You and your partner should agree together and seek God for His favor.​
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This was what I and my wife did while preparing and even weeks after the wedding day, we still got favored because I understood that the favor of God is real and must be my experience.​
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Take these LESSONS and make them your guiding light as you prepare for yours.​
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Godstime T Efeni
Lead Coach SANE ACADEMY

16/04/2023

Singles Be Discerning

Most times it is not demonic manipulation that makes you not see the person and get married, sometimes it is a lack of spiritual sensitivity or spiritual discernment.
You are waiting for him to come with a red flashy car in a white designer's suit. There is nothing bad in having such desires but if you hold on to that desire and neglect spiritual discernment then you may remain unmarried for a long time.
Your wife may not come with that high expectation you are carrying along everywhere you go.
Don't send away your wife or husband-to-be because you lack spiritual discernment.
That anger issue can be expressed in front of your husband or wife all because you were not sensitive.
This is why you need to submit to God for Him to work on you and not when you are before your supposed spouse and that weakness chases him or her away.

In summary, I am saying, stop praying against spiritual forces alone concerning your not being married. Also, ask God to activate your spiritual senses ( discernment and sensitivity spiritually) and make you remain alert always.
This is not restricted to marriage alone, your finances, business, career, and so on.
Remain blessed
Godstime T Efeni
Lead Coach SANE ACADEMY

20/03/2023

20/03/2023