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Specialists in premarital and marriage counselling/coaching. We walk with couples in their first decade of marriage that find it difficult to agree on anything.

Secondly, we guide engaged couples to make their marriage a joy from the start

01/01/2025

As we step into a new year, we at Panacea Ville remain committed to our vision of helping couples build and sustain thriving relationships. Whether you're at a crossroads, navigating the early years of marriage, or preparing for the lifelong journey ahead, we’re here to support you every step of the way.

Through our courses, one-on-one coaching, seminars, and training sessions—both online and offline—we continue to equip couples with the tools and principles needed to create stable, satisfying, and joy-filled marriages.

Here’s to a year of stronger connections, deeper love, and fulfilling relationships. Let’s make 2025 a year of growth and transformation together!

Happy New Year from all of us at Panacea Ville!

24/12/2024

May this season bring you closer to your Creator and the significant people in your life.

Merry Christmas

21/10/2024

Own your feelings, don't make them your partner's fault

16/10/2024

4 REASONS YOUR CONFLICTS DEFY CONFLICT MANAGEMENT SKILLS, part 4

(If you missed Part 1, 2 and 3, check in the comments for the links).

The fourth dynamic I see often is that one person tries to avoid an impending conflict by minimizing their mate's feelings.

They say things like, 'It is not that bad.' 'Are you sure that is what happened?' 'Claim down already.' 'Why will you get angry for something as small as this?' It is a recipe for disaster, as it only convinces your partner that they are nonchalant or uncaring.

Often, attempting to minimize your partner's feelings for peace results in the opposite—an escalation.

When one partner is dismissive, the other will likely protest and pursue their course even harder.

I often tell my clients that the best way to avoid a conflict is to allow it to happen sooner rather than later.

To calm things down, you must first listen to the grievance, understand it, acknowledge/validate it and then resolve it; any attempt to short-circuit the process only leads to more frustrations.

I have designed the Couples Repair Intelligence Program (CRIP) to help you step into a marriage where harmony is your new normal. Your transformation starts now...

Ask me how you can be part of CRIP today.

Nancy Oblete

08/10/2024

4 REASONS YOUR CONFLICTS DEFY CONFLICT MANAGEMENT SKILLS, part 3

(If you missed Part 1 and 2, check in the comments for the links).

Partners usually lose a lot of energy in conflicts, debating about who is right or wrong. Sometimes, one or both partners would enlist the help of others to convince the partner that s/he is wrong.

One partner winning does not serve the relationship long term, especially when the other person feels robbed.

Once a pattern of winning and losing becomes the norm, it slowly leads to resentment and damages trust.

As much as you believe your perspective makes sense and may seem the best alternative, it is vital to remember it is only a perspective based on your reality, which could be completely different from your spouse's.

An important principle to remember is that there are always two perspectives to every conflict, and both are right.

Rather than get caught up in a fight about who is wrong, curiosity becomes a valuable asset, as it can help you bridge the gulf of misunderstanding in a way that leads to a solution both can own and be happy with - hence, building trust and preserving intimacy.

Your love story can be extraordinary. Let me show you the way.

I have designed the Couples Repair Intelligence Program (CRIP) to help you step into a marriage where harmony is your new normal. Your transformation starts now...

Ask me how you can be part of CRIP today.

Nancy Oblete

05/10/2024

Can your partner depend on you; are you there for them?

04/10/2024

Nothing gets resolved when we focus on who is wrong (pointing fingers, blaming, defending or accusing).

'We came to see you because we wanted someone neutral to tell us to our face the truth, who is right and who is wrong,' is a reoccurring statement I hear during first sessions.

I am not a judge; my office is not for prosecution. My focus is to help the couple reach each other in ways that bring healing.

01/10/2024

What's your story as a couple?

30/09/2024

4 REASONS YOUR CONFLICTS DEFY CONFLICT MANAGEMENT SKILLS, part 2

(If you missed Part 1, check in the comments for the link).

The second thing I have found most profound is that spouses are often unaware of the reasons for their conflict.

They might mention finances, differences in parenting approaches, and so on, but the real issue that has led to the discord is not immediately apparent to them.

The subject of the conversation holds very little relevance to what the fight is about. Often, fights are more about hidden dreams and aspirations that the individuals may not have shared, become aware of or thought through.

Hence, the conflict skills they have employed have not worked because it has not been addressing the real issue.

You can enjoy a more rewarding and fulfilling relationship, I have designed the Couples Repair Intelligence Program (CRIP) to help integrate these principles into your marriage.

Ask me how you can be part of CRIP today.

Nancy Oblete

Address

NO 6b Birao Close, Off Yalinga Street, Wuse 2

900288

Opening Hours

Monday	08:00 - 17:00
Tuesday	08:00 - 17:00
Wednesday	08:00 - 17:00
Thursday	08:00 - 17:00
Friday	08:00 - 17:00
Saturday	09:00 - 17:00

Telephone

08023112539

Website

https://panaceacourses.com/

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