Sir Steve Joseph

09/06/2025

"Are You Boring?"

We live in a time where holiness is mocked and prayer is labeled boring. A time when being godly is misunderstood, and spiritual convictions are treated like strange behavior.
You’re called “boring” for talking about Jesus. You’re judged for having a clean heart. They ask, “Are you okay?” just because your timeline is filled with truth, love, and light.

But let’s be honest; if you glorify sin, flaunt rebellion, and live recklessly, society applauds you. Indulgence is now called freedom. Vanity is trending. And dysfunction? That’s just “vibes.”

They say you’re not interesting unless you’re pressing all the wrong things, hooked on the wrong highs, living for likes and chasing empty validation.

What happened to dignity?
What happened to self-respect?
What happened to godliness with contentment?

Oh, right. That’s “boring.” But I’ll say it boldly:
I prefer to be “boring” and walk in peace.
I choose to be “boring” and stay mentally whole. I embrace being “boring” if it means I make Jesus proud. I was raised with values.
I was taught that character matters more than clout. I still believe in honor, integrity, and the fear of God. So if being sober-minded, faithful, prayerful, and purpose-driven makes me boring…

Then yes; I’m joyfully, unapologetically boring.
Because this “boring” life brings peace.
This “boring” walk brings power.
This “boring” Jesus? He’s everything.

Are you boring too?

Good. Let’s be boring and burning for God.

01/06/2025

The Beautiful Journey of Marriage

The journey of marriage is truly one of the most beautiful, rewarding, and sweet experiences life can offer; when you walk it with the right person.
Marrying the right person is the beginning of enjoying your marriage, not just surviving it.
It’s not about rushing in because of pressure, comparison, or fear.

Let me be clear: no matter the cost, please don’t settle for just anybody.
Don’t let the ticking of time or the voices around you push you into what your spirit knows is wrong.
Saying, “I’m getting older daily,” is not a good enough reason to choose what your soul calls an abomination.
Saying, “All my mates are married,” is not a valid reason to sign up for what could become an avoidable heartbreak; or worse, a lifelong wound.

For the record: not all your mates are married.
Some are divorced.
Some are in miserable, silent marriages.

Some are no longer even here, having left this earth far too soon.
Comparison will never lead you to joy. Only obedience to God’s voice can do that.
The only thing that makes marriage truly enjoyable is making the right choice; God’s choice.
Not a perfect person, but the person He has prepared for you.

I am personally grateful to God for my Laurel.
If you look at my life today, you’ll see that I am more productive, more peaceful, and more joyful in marriage than I ever was as a single person.
This is not because marriage itself magically solved my problems.

It’s because God led me to the right partner; and I chose to obey.
I’m grateful every day that I don’t live with regret, because I didn’t force my way or lean on human pressure.
I let God lead me, even when it was difficult to step into the unknown.

And today, I’m enjoying a peace that surpasses understanding, and a joy that keeps multiplying.
To you, my dear singles and couples family: wait well. Choose wisely. Listen deeply to God.

Marriage is too precious to treat lightly; and too powerful to walk into without divine direction.
May we all walk this journey in grace, wisdom, and joy.
And may none of us ever regret the choices we make, in Jesus’ name. Amen.
With love,

Sir Steve

30/05/2025

Generational Shift: It’s Not Taught; It’s Lived

Let me gist you something small this early morning.

I’ve spent all my adult life in the bustling city of Lagos. And if you’ve ever lived in Lagos, you’ll understand this unspoken rule: we don’t greet strangers in public transport. You hop into a danfo, sit down, keep your face straight, and mind your business.

Because if you greet the passengers you meet, two things will cross their minds:
1. You’re a professional beggar.
2. You’re fresh to Lagos; a jay jay cee (Johnny just come).

Fast forward to September 2019. I arrived in Abuja.

And suddenly, I was met with a culture shock.
Inside taxis, inside buses; strangers greet each other.
“Good morning.”
“Good afternoon.”
“Ah, how’s work?”

I won’t lie; it felt strange, even unnecessary, at first.
But now? Six years down the line?
Nobody sat me down to explain it.
Nobody gave me a manual.
Yet here I am: greeting people in transit like I was born here.

I’ve moved from the sharp, loud “owa!!!” of Lagos to the gentle, polite “yayi” of Abuja.

And that’s when it hit me.

Generational shift isn’t about lecturing people.
It’s not about posting motivational quotes or holding endless meetings on “what we should do better.”
No.

It’s about living the life you want others to grow into.

Nobody taught me these things; I simply absorbed them by being around them.
I grew into them, unconsciously.

So, if you want to spark change, if you want to see a true generational shift, let it start from your deeds, not just your words.

Live the values.
Model the behavior.
Let your consistency speak louder than any speech.

Because in the end, the most powerful lessons are the ones we don’t even realize we’re teaching; they’re the ones people grow into by watching, by feeling, by experiencing.

30/05/2025

We live in a generation where men of God
spend more time listening to other messages to correct errors than preaching God’s pure instruction.

The pulpit has subtly shifted, it’s no longer a place for revelation, but a stage for rebuttals.

Messages today?

They’re not so much about feeding the flock
as they are about clapping back, correcting and countering.

The sacred essence of Jesus’s death and resurrection; the beating heart of the gospel; has been watered down to a contest:

Who is the sharpest teacher?
Who can break the Greek and Hebrew best?
Who wins the crowd with the smartest theology?

What a generation!

We’ve entered a space where, to sound bold and confident, preachers mock, insult, and describe others with unprintable names.

We cut out tiny clips, analyze a 30-second soundbite, and then build a wrong mindset in the audience; painting others as unlearned, crude, unrefined.

But pause.
Ask yourself:

What did Jesus do when people misinterpreted scriptures?
Did He mock?
Did He drag them on public platforms?
Did He set up theological duels just to prove superiority?

Look closely; Jesus corrected, yes, but always with the heart to restore, not to humiliate.
He addressed error, but never for applause.

And now, how is Jesus feeling about this generation?

A generation where His sacrifice has been overshadowed by ego.
Where sermons become scorecards.
Where “truth” becomes a weapon,
not a balm.

It’s really well with us.

But hear this clearly:

The true power of ministry is not in the eloquence of correction, but in the humility of alignment.
The true test of a preacher is not how many people he can “set straight,” but how many souls he can lead to the straight path.

May we return to the heart of Jesus,
where truth is spoken in love,
where correction comes with grace,
and where the cross is not a competition stage, but a place of surrender,
humility, and resurrection power.

14/05/2025

Regret Free Life with Sir Steve Joseph Ojamaliya

Let’s be clear: walking away from someone who keeps dragging you down isn’t unforgiveness; it’s wisdom. It doesn’t mean you hate them; it means you’ve decided to stop setting yourself on fire to keep them warm.

The Bible says to flee from even the appearance of evil; not to sit around hoping it changes its outfit. You’re not being dramatic; you’re being discerning.
There’s a difference between forgiveness and foolishness. Forgiveness says, 'I release you.' Wisdom says, 'But I don’t have to keep you close'.

Even Jesus knew when to walk away from a crowd and flip a table or two when needed. So no, choosing peace over chaos isn’t unkind. It’s called growth.

You can forgive someone and still protect your peace. That’s not bitterness. That’s boundaries.

13/05/2025

Think before you trend

Let’s be real; I’m not equipped with X-ray eyes. So yes, I’ll judge the book by its cover. If the outside screams chaos, don’t expect me to sip peacefully from what's inside. OJOKIKÒ (GOD FORBID)

I won’t drink from a dirty cup just because you say the water is clean. Presentation matters. You can’t call it “decent” when your outfit is auditioning for a role in confusion. P**N STAR

Motivation is great, but some people have accidentally turned ambition into a mini-series... on the wrong platform. And For Your Information: the internet never forgets. Screenshots have better memory than some humans.

Wherever you go, however you dress; let honour speak louder than your clothes. Wear dignity like your favorite cologne. Let truth do your contouring.

Because beauty fades. Hype dies. But grace? Grace is timeless.

12/05/2025

REGRET-FREE RELATIONSHIP WITH SIR STEVE JOSEPH

Focus:- Serve in Secret

Scripture: Matthew 6:4

Message: Some of the most meaningful acts of love are unseen. Service doesn’t always need recognition to be powerful. Love thrives in quiet sacrifice.

Action Point: Do something kind for your partner today without telling them.

A regret-free relationship is possible

10/05/2025

10/05/2025

Regret-free Relationship with Sir Steve Joseph

A Lesson from Love: Seasons, Growth, and Divine Alignment
By Sir Steve Joseph

A few years ago, during my service year, I found myself in a relationship with a truly remarkable young woman. She was the kind of person whose presence quietly reshaped your values. Through her, I learned intentionality, I discovered what it means to respect your partner, and I embraced the beauty of mutual growth in a relationship. She sowed seeds of virtue in me—seeds I still carry to this day.

But even the best gardens can face droughts.

We began to drift, not because love faded, but because our timelines didn’t align. She was on her biological clock, I was on my financial one. As much as love is powerful, timing is just as critical. Understanding your partner’s needs and genuinely supporting their journey is key, but when purpose and pace differ too greatly, friction is inevitable.

What surprised me most wasn’t the distance that grew between us—but what came after. For almost a year, I noticed her social media posts—sharp, sarcastic, clearly targeted. I became the subject of subtle mockery and public emotional outbursts. And though they stung a little, I wasn’t angry. No, I was disappointed.

You see, love is a test of character—not just during the sunshine, but especially during the storms. If someone you once held dear can easily become the object of ridicule at the slightest offense, then perhaps the foundation of that love was shallow. Marriage demands emotional maturity, discretion, and the ability to shield your partner’s dignity even in private pain.

That season taught me something invaluable: not everyone who walks into your life is meant to stay. Some come to teach, some come to heal, and others simply prepare you for what’s ahead.

I’m deeply grateful for the time we shared. She added value to my journey, and for that, I’ll always respect her.

But I’m even more grateful for the divine detour that led me to my Laurel—my heaven-sent, my answered prayer. With her, I’ve found not just love, but peace, partnership, and purpose.

To anyone reading this: cherish those who come into your life, but also recognize when God is redirecting your path. Some goodbyes are actually grace in disguise.

Sir Steve Joseph

10/05/2025

Regret-free Relationship with Sir Steve Joseph

Not Everyone Will See What You See — And That’s Okay

Imagine this: You’re sitting with friends, and everyone’s talking about a public figure they admire. You light up because this person inspires you deeply. But then… someone disagrees. Suddenly, it feels personal. You feel hurt, even angry — “Why can’t they just see what I see?”

But here’s the truth: not everyone is called to admire who you admire.

We all come from different places, with different experiences and convictions. Spiritually, we’re not meant to walk identical paths. What speaks deeply to you may not resonate with someone else — and that doesn’t make them wrong.

If your friends don’t support your favorite influencer, artist, or leader — that’s not betrayal. That’s freedom.

It’s not witchcraft. It’s not hatred. It’s simply choice.

Social media has tricked many into believing that disagreement equals disrespect. But real maturity — and spiritual growth — is knowing that unity doesn’t mean uniformity.

You have the right to support who you support.
And I have the right to disagree peacefully.
Let’s stop forcing each other to see through one lens.

We don’t worship personalities. We follow truth.
And truth? It’s sometimes uncomfortable — even when it comes from someone we once admired.

So, before you lash out at someone for not applauding who you idolize, pause. Reflect. Ask yourself:
“Am I honoring freedom, or am I demanding control?”

There is no harm in loving differently — that’s the beauty of life.

Sir Steve Joseph

07/05/2025

Success wears many faces.

While it’s true that school isn’t the only path to success, we must also understand that education goes beyond degrees and certificates—it shapes minds, builds discipline, and opens doors. A teacher may not drive a Rolls Royce, but they’ve helped create doctors who save lives, engineers who build nations, and even artists who light up the world with their gifts.

Not all success is measured in cars or cash.
Sometimes, it’s in impact. In legacy. In lives transformed.

Let’s not dishonor the hands that helped shape our journey. School isn’t perfect—but knowledge is still power.

One day, someone who sat in a classroom will build something so big, even the world’s richest will have to acknowledge the value of learning.

Balance is key. Let’s respect both the streets and the schools.

I have never seen a teacher driving Rolls Royce- Shatta Wale

Dancehall musician, Shatta Wale has said that he does not see any sense in the saying that without school one cannot become successful…

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07/05/2025

"MAY NIGERIA HAPPEN TO ME!"

We must stop echoing the words, "May Nigeria never happen to you."
That is not just a statement; it's a curse, a rejection of our roots, and a denial of our potential.
Yes, Nigeria has its challenges.
But tell me, where in the world is free from struggle?
Even the so-called developed nations have their scars; economic crashes, injustice, violence, homelessness.
And yet, from the soil of this same Nigeria, greatness has risen.
Entrepreneurs are thriving.
Innovators are building.
Artists are breaking boundaries.
Men and women are living lives of impact, influence, and affluence right here, in Nigeria.
So I speak life, not death.
I speak hope, not despair.

I declare boldly: MAY NIGERIA HAPPEN TO ME—ON THE POSITIVE!

May this nation mold me into someone resilient, wise, and full of vision.
May it stretch me, sharpen me, and strengthen me.
May it bless me with divine opportunities and uncommon favor.
And may I, in return, rise to build, to serve, and to shine.
Nigeria is not just a place—it’s a destiny.
And I choose to believe in the greatness within it.
MAY NIGERIA HAPPEN TO YOU, TOO—ON THE POSITIVE.