07/07/2025
Don’t Conclude on Someone Who’s Still Breathing.
Many people make this mistake—especially when it comes to choosing a life partner.
A young man shows interest in marrying a lady, but because he doesn’t fit the “perfect picture” of success, he’s immediately dismissed.
Yes, it’s okay to be cautious.
You want to be sure he can take care of you.
But you must do so with wisdom.
Some families have chased away promising young men simply because they didn’t look like the future they had in mind.
From elder sisters labeling him as “poor,”
To parents discouraging the relationship entirely,
To the lady herself—confused, unsure, and swayed by everyone else’s opinions.
Let’s be honest: fear is real.
But that fear must not lead to premature judgment.
Don’t write off someone who’s still breathing.
I’ve seen God turn people’s lives around in just days.
That man you’re judging today could become the answer to your family’s prayers tomorrow.
So ask yourself:
Do you see a future with him?
Have you received any personal confirmation from God?
Are you convinced in your heart—not just influenced by others?
Your siblings won’t live with him.
Your parents can advise, but they won’t carry the marriage.
Let God lead you.
Let wisdom guide you.
And never conclude on someone who’s still breathing.
