02/11/2025
Nobody told us that getting help for PCOS would feel like a full-time job.
That you could walk into a hospital for one problem and walk out questioning your worth.
In 2023, I went to the hospital because of severe knee pain.
Iāve always had mild arthritis, but this time it was worse.
After an ultrasound, they found I had popped my synovial cavity.
But before I could even explain my medical history, the orthopaedic doctor looked at me and said,
āStop eating too much. Lose weight ā or next year youāll need a hip replacement. And when you come to me, Iāll charge you a lot of money.ā
He never asked about my health background.
He just kept repeating, āYouāre eating too much,ā and threw in other demeaning comments.
That day, I realised something:
Sometimes the hardest part about living with PCOS isnāt the symptoms, itās the people meant to help you heal.
Iāve sat through appointments where I knew something was off but I didnāt have the words or confidence to fight back.
And thatās what this episode is about: learning to find your voice in a system that keeps trying to quiet it.
Iām still figuring it out.
Still learning how to ask, how to insist, how to walk away when Iām not being heard.
But Iām on my way. š
Because healing shouldnāt require fighting but for women with PCOS, it often does.
And if we have to fight, at least letās fight together.
If youāve ever walked out of a doctorās office feeling small, dismissed, or misunderstood share your story below.
Letās turn our experiences into awareness, our pain into purpose, and our silence into change.
Your story might be the one that helps another woman find her voice. š
š§ Episode 6 ā Doctors: The Medical Maze Nobody Prepares You For