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05/05/2025

Hi Lovers

“WHEN YOU CHASE S*X, YOU DELAY SUCCESS”

(How lust keeps men distracted and broke)

Let’s tell the truth a lot of men won’t admit:

It’s not village people holding you back — it’s va**na.
You’re not broke because of bad luck…
You’re broke because you keep trading focus for pleasure.

Every time you chase s*x, you’re pushing success further away.

Let’s break it down like men:

1. S*x Is the Most Expensive Free Thing

You think it’s just “ordinary” s*x?
No problem.

But check your life…

Since you started jumping from woman to woman, what has grown?
Your goals?
Or your excuses?

You’re wasting time, money, and mental space trying to impress women…
While your destiny is stuck on pause.

2. Lust Makes Men Lazy

You were meant to build.
You were born to conquer.
But now you’re just h***y, hungry, and distracted.

Instead of chasing purpose, you’re chasing panties.
Instead of building skills, you’re building body counts.

No great man was ever built in a woman’s DM.

3. Every Round Is a Round Lost

Every round of s*x you’re having with women you don’t love, don’t respect, and don’t plan to marry…

You’re losing time, clarity, and ambition.

Your mates are investing in business — you’re investing in waist.
They’re building empires — you’re building libido.

This is why you’re always tired. Foggy. Empty.

You’re draining your greatness in hotel rooms with nothing to show for it.

4. The Most Dangerous Woman Is the One Who Feels Like “Escape”

She’s soft. She’s sweet. She listens. She rubs your back.
You feel like a king in her arms — but you wake up with nothing.

That’s not a woman. That’s a distraction with makeup.

She’s not building you. She’s draining you.
And you’re addicted to the illusion of comfort.

5. Women Are Not the Problem — Your Discipline Is

S*x is not evil. Women are not the enemy.

But lack of control? That’s your downfall.

You can’t blame women when it’s your zipper that won’t stay up.
You can’t blame seduction when it’s you that keeps answering “Come over.”

You don’t need more women. You need more focus.

6. You Can’t Plant in Every Soil and Expect a Harvest

Your energy is like seed.

And you keep planting it in toxic soil — broken girls, unserious women, emotionally damaged distractions…

And you expect to reap success?

No sir.

You’ll reap confusion. Poverty. Setbacks.

Every or**sm with the wrong woman is a step away from your purpose.

7. Great Men Aren’t S*x-Addicted — They’re Purpose-Addicted

Want to rise in life?

Start saying NO to cheap pleasure.

Start saying YES to late nights building.
Early mornings grinding.
Weekends learning.

Your mates are focused. You’re h***y.

That’s why they’re succeeding… and you’re just scrolling, chasing, and struggling.

Final Word:

S*x will always be there. But opportunity waits for no man.

You must decide:

Will you chase the temporary rush of s*x — or the long-term reward of success?

Because you can’t serve two masters.
You either build… or you keep begging.

゚

By *About That Street*
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26/02/2025

Hi
Secret Lovers,

From Our Doctor Desk: A MUST READ
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UNTIMELY TOOTS😏🤔
Yep,

FARTING DURING S*X IS A THING THAT HAPPENS

— Here’s Why

So this is... normal?

S*x can be awkward at the best of times, whether it's being intimate with a new partner or having s*x again after a dry spell. Then when you factor in everything from queefs to leg cramps to being on your period, s*x can also be hella awkward and uncomfortable at the worst of times.

A couple lies on a bed, smiling and playfully engaging with each other. Soft bedding and a relaxed a...
Georgijevic/Getty Images
S*x can be awkward at the best of times, whether it's being intimate with a new partner or having s*x again after a dry spell. Then when you factor in everything from queefs to leg cramps to being on your period, s*x can also be hella awkward and uncomfortable at the worst of times.

Let's not forget about farting.

Maybe you ate too many cruciferous vegetables at dinner or are experiencing a bout of bloating. However you got here, you should know that experiencing a case of the untimely t***s while getting down is a real-life experience that can happen to anyone.

Though it can be embarrassing and awkward, farting is a natural bodily function, and as recent surveys have shown, couples who are open enough to fart in front of each other may have stronger bonds and better emotional health as a couple.

Whether you find it humiliating or hilarious, letting one rip during a hot and heavy bedroom session is (mostly) normal. If you're wondering how many is too many t***s, and if there are ways to control the urge to pass gas while being passionate, below are some expert tips on what you need to know about farting during s*x.

Is farting during s*x normal?
Yes, farting during s*x is super normal.

There are various reasons explaining why you might fart during s*x. The first of which, she says, is increased abdominal pressure since s*x involves movement and pressure on the abdomen, which can push gas out of the intestines or re**um.

Another common reason? The food you're eating prior to s*x: "The foods consumed before s*x can play a role. Foods high in fiber, sodas, and dairy (for those lactose intolerant like me) can cause excessive gas production, making it more likely to be released during intimate moments,"

What are the best positions to avoid this?

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Untimely T***s
Yep, Farting During S*x Is A Thing That Happens — Here’s Why
So this is... normal?

by Brianne Hogan
Feb. 18, 2025
A couple lies on a bed, smiling and playfully engaging with each other. Soft bedding and a relaxed a...
Georgijevic/Getty Images
S*x can be awkward at the best of times, whether it's being intimate with a new partner or having s*x again after a dry spell. Then when you factor in everything from queefs to leg cramps to being on your period, s*x can also be hella awkward and uncomfortable at the worst of times.

Let's not forget about farting.

Maybe you ate too many cruciferous vegetables at dinner or are experiencing a bout of bloating. However you got here, you should know that experiencing a case of the untimely t***s while getting down is a real-life experience that can happen to anyone.

Though it can be embarrassing and awkward, farting is a natural bodily function, and as recent surveys have shown, couples who are open enough to fart in front of each other may have stronger bonds and better emotional health as a couple.

Whether you find it humiliating or hilarious, letting one rip during a hot and heavy bedroom session is (mostly) normal. If you're wondering how many is too many t***s, and if there are ways to control the urge to pass gas while being passionate, below are some expert tips on what you need to know about farting during s*x.

Is farting during s*x normal?
Yes, farting during s*x is super normal.

According to s*xologist Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaip**n, there are various reasons explaining why you might fart during s*x. The first of which, she says, is increased abdominal pressure since s*x involves movement and pressure on the abdomen, which can push gas out of the intestines or re**um.

Another common reason? The food you're eating prior to s*x: "The foods consumed before s*x can play a role. Foods high in fiber, sodas, and dairy (for those lactose intolerant like me) can cause excessive gas production, making it more likely to be released during intimate moments," Suwinyattichaip**n explains.

Pelvic floor and a**l sphincter control may be another reason, says Suwinyattichaip**n, since the pelvic floor muscles play a big role in controlling bowel movements and gas release. If these muscles weaken or relax during in*******se (especially in penetrative s*x), it can cause the unintentional release of gas.

And people who have IBS, eat a high-fiber diet, are lactose intolerant, or have weaker pelvic floor muscles are also more susceptible to releasing gas during s*x.

What are the best positions to avoid this?
If you've eaten some Taco Bell takeout and you're worried that some tooting is definitely in the cards, Suwinyattichaip**n says there are a few positions that are good for fart prevention.

She recommends spooning since, in this side-lying position, "both partners face the same direction, reducing pressure on the abdomen and allowing for more controlled muscle engagement."

Also, she suggests a relaxed missionary position with minimal deep thrusting and pressure on the stomach, which can help avoid unnecessary gas movement.

If you're concerned about positions to avoid that would encourage farting, Suwinyattichaip**n advises against doggy style, which can put pressure on the stomach and intestines, increasing the chance of farting. The same goes for any deep pe*******on positions. "Positions with deep thrusting can stimulate the intestines, shifting trapped gas," she explains.

What can you do to prevent farting during s*x?

Number one tip to prevent farting during s*x is to focus on your diet first. "Eat a moderate amount of natural foods that don't cause gas and bloating before s*x or have s*x before lunch or dinner," she suggests. Basically, skip the bowls of chili and high servings of broccoli and ice cream before heading to the bedroom.

Swallowing a lot of air, such as eating or drinking quickly or chewing gum, can also increase flatulence. "Try taking your time while eating and drinking, and don't chew gum before s*x," Suwinyattichaip**n advises. If you want that fresh breath feeling, "opt for mints instead!"

Constipated? Then, you're more likely to fart during s*x. If you struggle with constipation,
Suggests trying fiber supplements to help with your daily bowel movement or seeking advice from your doctor for a long-term solution.

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08/12/2024

My Wife does this thing too.

She can "forget" her footwear in my car for days until I take them out..

I never thought much about it until I ran into this pic and a post about it on Facebook

Women and marking territory, it's in their DNA..

PS; if your fiancé/wife does it or things like that, it's not because she doesn't trust you, in fact she doesn't even know what she's doing, it's often an unconscious act they do.

Talk about Nature.

Other ways women mark their territory include:

1) Leaving random items like their earrings, wigs, purse, footwears in their man's house/car/office.

It's not a mistake oh.

2) Ask him to hold their bag/purse especially in public.

3) Sit close/next to him in public gatherings and events.

This is called "close marking".

4) Public display of affection especially when there are many other ladies around.

They'll be holding him, hugging him, snapping selfie with him for everyone (other ladies) to see and know.

They are simply saying "he's taken, I have took him, this is my copy, back off in Jesus Name"

5) Demand that he posts their picture on his social media handles regularly.

"babe, it's been long (last week oh) you posted me on your WhatsApp status, what's happening, oya post today na?"

6) Introduce themselves by themselves.

"Hello Sis, Hi, YOU MUST BE MY BABY'S neighbour (or colleague), I AM his Wife/Fiancé"

Point made..
7) Give him the baby to carry.
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21/11/2024

Hi
Secret Lovers,

10 WAYS TO AVOID FINANCIAL CHALLENGE IN MARRIAGE ‼️‼️

Every marriage needs money to thrive!
Rent must be paid, bills must be settled, school fees are there, you must wear good clothes, Eat a balanced diet And a lot more....

In fact, financial problems are one of the biggest problems facing marriages today. Lack of finance has caused havoc to families and separated many lovers.

THE FOLLOWING ARE THE WAYS TO AVOID FIGHTING OVER MONEY IN MARRIAGE

1. HAVE A REGULAR INCOME BEFORE YOU GO INTO MARRIAGE :

It is unreasonable to go into marriage without a stable source of income.

Marriage is not an emergency so don’t rush into it. Get a job before you get married. Because People may sponsor your WEDDING but nobody will sponsor your MARRIAGE. Love is powerful but it won’t pay your house rent, hospital bill, or your children's school fees. So get a job to sustain your marriage. Marriage is a responsibility. There is no true romance without finance in marriage. Financial hardship or poverty can destroy love. So get a stable source of income before getting married.

Make sure you and your intending spouse have a source of income before planning your wedding. A reliable source of income is a must if you don’t want to suffer in marriage. That’s wisdom.

2. LEARN HOW TO GIVE YOUR BEFORE GOING INTO RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE ‼️:

You Are Not A True Lover If You Are Not A Generous Giver Because The Proof Of Love Is GIVING! Before you get married, you must destroy every spirit of stinginess, greediness, and selfishness because they are major enemies of marriage. Marriage is not for those who are not givers.

Learning How To Give Is One Of The Preparation You Must Make Before Marriage Because Marriage Is All Giving 100% to your spouse. So Both Single Guys & Ladies Should Learn How To Give. Marriage is between two people who love each other and are willing to be a blessing to each other. They are not stingy to each other. Beware of someone who is not ready to contribute to your life but only interested in receiving.

3. NEVER KEEP FINANCIAL SECRET FROM YOUR SPOUSE:

BE 100 % Open about money in marriage. Never hide anything from your spouse. Talk about your money together and be flexible about your money. There must be 100% openness and transparency about finance. No secret account. No secret property. What God has joined together, let no secret put asunder

Genesis 2:24 says: And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.

As husband and wife, you need to be spiritually, emotionally, s*xually, financially, and physically naked to each other. You must be Open and transparent

Your spouse should know your phone, email, and bank account password. Be free to have access to your phone. Don’t hide anything from your spouse. That’s marriage

4. NEVER SEE YOUR MONEY AS YOUR MONEY BUT SEE AS OUR MONEY:

For you to go far in marriage, you must not have this mentality that “my money” is my money while my husband's money is our money. You must know that any money you make in marriage either by the wife or husband belongs to the family. There is nowhere in the bible that commands only the husband to provide for the family.

MARRIAGE IS A TEAMWORK.
MARRIAGE IS A PARTNERSHIP.
So both of you should use your money to run the family. Put your resources together to run your family. Two are better than one because they have a better result for their labor. Work as a team.

You see, one of the reasons many men go into depression is because of financial pressure/loads. He wants to pay house rent, children's school fees, feeding of the family, medical bills, electricity bills, security bills, clothes for the children, generator fuel and repairs, car fuel and repair, his wife's financial needs, parent monthly bills, etc., for example, his monthly bills is 2 million naira but his salary is only N500,000. It is not right for a woman to watch her husband go through financial stress without any support. If you don’t want to lose that man, support him 100/%

Marriage is a partnership. So both husband and wife should provide for their home. Marriage is a teamwork. It is a covenant. If both parties are willing to be covenant-minded and put the principles of God above all, then they can enjoy a good marriage.

Once you are married, you are now one. It is now “our money”, not “my money”. It is Our car, our children, our property. So both of you should put your resources together to run your family. Two are better than one because they have a better result for their labor. Work as a team.

You must know that anything you have before marriage belongs to both of you in marriage.

Your money becomes our money

Your cars become our cars

Your house becomes our house

Your children become our children

5. AS A MARRIED COUPLE, NEVER COMPARE YOUR FAMILY WITH ANY FAMILIES WHO ARE FINANCIALLY DOING WELL THAN YOU:

Be content with what you have. If you must have peace of mind in your marriage, you must be content with what you have. Enjoy the little you have while you work hard for more. Don’t envy other families. Celebrate the level you are now as you believe in God for the next level.

6. DON'T LIVE IN A HOUSE YOU STRUGGLE TO PAY THE RENT EVERY YEAR:

Make sure you rent a house you can pay for the rent without borrowing. Start with what you have. I and my wife started with a room and parlor self-contained but today, we have passed the level. Remember there are other bills like transport bills, electricity bills, medical bills, etc. Don’t rent a house in an environment you can’t afford. There is no need to try to impress anybody when you know you don’t have the capacity. Be yourself. Start with what you have. Never try to impress anybody. Some use their 7 months' salaries to pay rent just to impress people. That’s foolishness. Instead of paying millions of naira for rent, why can’t you plan and save to buy your own land and build your house?

7. AVOID TOO MANY RESPONSIBILITIES:

Only Give birth to the number of children you can adequately cater for. Some married couples are giving birth to children every year. Their income is not increasing but their responsibilities are increasing by the day. There is no way you can make financial progress in these kinds of homes. Plan your family size. Large families are not advisable today.

As a couple, you must not be afraid of rejecting “heavy load” or heavy responsibility from your extended family, if they suggest that their children should live with you. If you know that you don’t have the financial capacity, never accept extra responsibility. This is not a lack of faith. It is wisdom

8. NEVER PUT YOUR CHILDREN IN A SCHOOL YOU CANNOT AFFORD:

Because expensive school does not guarantee a brighter future. It does not make sense if you have to struggle or borrow money to pay their school fees. Make sure your children attend a good affordable school.

9. NEVER DEPEND ON ONE SOURCE OF INCOME:

Create multiple streams of income. Multiple streams of income simply mean many sources of income. Don’t depend on one business or salary. Your money must never come from one source. It is better for N5000 to be coming from five sources than for N10,000 to be coming from one source. Invest your money in profitable businesses. Your income must grow as your family is growing. Sit down, think, and plan with your spouse on how to generate more income to cater to the needs of your family.

10. ALWAYS TAKE YOUR FINANCIAL NEED TO GOD IN PRAYERS:

Instead of fighting, take every financial need to God in prayers. Pray about your finances. Trust God for your finances. Pray that God will give you ideas that will change your financial life. God can release ideas into your mind that will change your life forever. Everything will be fine

You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name

Kindly share this post to reach all men and woman

Photo credit - Yinka Okeleye x sunmisola_agbebi

19/11/2024

LEARN TO PLAY TOGETHER MORE OFTEN
AS SPOUSE ( HUSBAND & WIFE )

Marrying someone you can not play or joke around with can make life boring in the marriage. Marriage is not a military ground. It is a place of love, romance and fun.

Play isn’t just for kids! Play is an essential part of maintaining a happy, healthy long-term relationship, especially in today’s world.

Playing together increases bonding, reduces stress, improves communication, enhances intimacy, conflict resolution, and relationship satisfaction

1. As a married couple,
Play romantic games with your wife.
The couple that plays together stays together.
2. Tickle your wife.
3. Go out for a date. Go to the beach. Take her out for dinner, just the two of you, and enjoy yourself.
4. Go to a cinema and watch films together
5. Plan a mini honeymoon when both of you can spend quality time together.
6.Visit Beach & Cinema Together
7. Play a board game
Make your own board game
8. Play ball and table tennis together
9. Take a cooking or baking class
10. Try something new in the bedroom
11. Romance Together,
12. Rejoice Together,
13. Attend Special Events Together,
14. Laugh together,
15. *Take A Stroll Together,
16. *Dance together (Dancing helps us to release happy hormones.Try Dancing with your partner.
17. Sing together,
18. Eat together,
19. Bath together. It enhances your friendship: as it brings you closer. It makes you free with each othe
20. Spend quality time together,
21. Do exercise together,
22. Play football together,
23. Sleep Together,
24. Kiss Together,
25. Do House Chore Together,
25. Plan Together,
26. Celebrate together
27. Enjoy Regular S*x Together with your spouse.

Doing These Keep Your Marriage Fresh And Lively.
Treat Your Spouse As Your Best Friend And A Treasure Not As Your Enemy.”

Love your spouse like there is no tomorrow, and if tomorrow comes, wake up and do it over again. Marriage Is A True Test Of Love!

30/09/2024

When a married woman is covering her body or hidding her private part for her husband to see or putting on clothe while sleeping on the same bed with her husband. What does it mean?

Answers... Plsss

21/09/2024

MARRIAGE INTIMACY TIP WITH GOD

Marriage is God’s idea, and He has a good reason for designing it the way He did. Marriage is an assignment not a reward but many have turned it into their own assignment.

When you see a long term marriage working and happy, behind that happiness & intimacy is Many years of forgiveness,resolving conflicts,trying again, loving again , dedication, healing from hurt….

Most couples who make it have thought about ending it at some point , but they decided to hold on and fight for the marriage , they choose commitment, intentionality and sought counsel.
Don’t give up when it’s hard. Work hard. God got you.

STAY BLESSED. 🙏🙏

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18/09/2024

Hello
Secret Lovers

So,
Wives.🤣😂😅😆
What's Your Take on This.??

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11/09/2024

SILENT S*X STRUGGLES MARRIED PEOPLE GO THROUGH.

Disclaimer:This post is strictly for married people and those planning to:

1. A SPOUSE WHO WANTS TOO MUCH S*X
Some are married to a spouse (often times the husband) who wants s*x regularly. This can easily make one feel used. Usually in such situations, the emotional connection is also weak. Address this by learning to do other things as a couple that don't involve s*x

2. A SPOUSE WHO IS NOT INTERESTED IN S*X
Some are married to a spouse (often times the wife) who shows no interest in s*x, perhaps because of emotional strain, past wounds, hormones, negative view towards spouse or as a result of conflict. Address this by talking things out, open up, change contraceptives. Realize that love making is important in marriage

3. A SPOUSE WHO DOES NOT TAKE CARE OF PERSONAL HYGIENE
It is a struggle to kiss, lick, touch, rub or even make love to someone who doesn't brush their teeth, shower, wears the same underwear for days or doesn't care about presentation. If you have such a spouse, encourage each other to shower together, buy him/her underwear and recommend they be worn to excite you, form a couple's routine. If you are the culprit, remember that hygiene inspires intimacy

4. LUST
Lust will make you struggle to be faithful, it will make you flirt with others over the phone, at the wotk place, in the neighbourhood and social media making it uncomfortable for your spouse. It can affect your desire for your spouse. Lust dies when you stop feeding it. Check out of lustful conversations, see people around you with respect, not s*xual objects

5. UNMET S*XUAL EXPECTATIONS
There is nothing as frustrating as being married but your s*xual needs are not being fully met. Most likely they are not being fully met because you have not lovingly communicated to your spouse what you want, your favourite s*xual positions and your fantasies. But remember, before you expect your spouse to meet your s*xual needs, meet his/her s*xual needs

6. MEMORIES OF AN EX WHO USED TO BE GREAT IN BED
Some people are fighting the memories they had of their ex/exes in bed. As they have s*x with their spouse, they have images of the ex in mind. Let go of the past. See your spouse for the uniqueness he/she is. Start to praise your spouse s*xually and your mind will register your spouse as the new definition of s*xy

7. PO*******HY
Po*******hy will distract you from cultivating intimacy with your spouse. It will make you ignore your spouse without you knowing it just to look at videos and pictures of naked strangers banging. Address this by desiring the real thing, not illusions and p**n stars. Train yourself to say no

8. MA********ON
Ma********on will make your spouse compete with your fingers. Your fingers will most likely win because you know how to please yourself but your marriage will lose. Address this by teaching your spouse how you want him/her to please you since you have already learnt your body

9. A P***S THAT CANNOT SUSTAIN AN ER****ON
Most men lose their er****on due to panic or lack of concentration because s*x starts in the mind. Address this by calming down, relax, be in the moment, enjoy every sensation

10. AN OVERTHINKING WIFE WHO STRUGGLES TO CLIMAX
Most wives who struggle to climax is because they over think. "Have the kids eaten? Is my va**na smelling? Is he really enjoying it? Am I moaning too loud? Am I too wet? Have we paid rent? Did I remember to pay the chama? Is the salon open tomorrow? Which weave should I put on next? I forgot to call Njambi"... These are some of the thoughts running through her mind as he is pumping. Lady, relax

11. A P***S THAT EJ******ES TOO QUICKLY
If she makes you ej*****te that means she is so sweet and that is a good thing but what she desires is that you stay hard longer. Last by stopping the pumping when you feel you are about to climax, change positions at that time so that you look cool while at it

12. LOW SELF-ESTEEM
If you doubt your own s*xiness and performance then intimacy will suffer. Confidence is crucial when it comes to all things s*x. Embrace your body, your tummy, sagging breasts, stretch marks, balding head, your physique. Take care of your body, work out. Flaunt to your spouse what is good about you. Praise each other's looks and performance to boost confidence

13. AFFAIRS
When another is already servicing your body, you will come home to a spouse you are not interested in. On top of that, you will be filled with guilt to the point that you struggle to connect with your spouse; and if your spouse suspects or knows, he/she will shut you out. Just let the affair end

14. COMPARISONS WITH OTHER COUPLES
When you hear or read the colourful s*x stories of other couples, of how the wife squirts, how the husband lasts for forty minutes, how the wife rides like a pro, how the husband feasts on her cl****is till she cries; you might begin to question your own marriage and whether you two are happily married. Each marriage is unique, make your own special memories.

As we agreed as a biology teacher....every sunday we will be talking about issues that people don't want to talk about but are happening Kwa ground.We must protect the marriage industry.

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25/12/2023

12 THINGS TO SAY NO TO....IN YOUR MARRIAGE

1. Say NO to going to bed with unresolved issues. The longer issues pile up the messy things become and the climate in your home worsens

2. Say NO to involving parents or family in solving marital matters. Instead, see a counsellor, a pastor or a neutral person of authority who believes in marriage if you can't manage a breakthrough as a couple. Parents and family are biased and after you two have solved issues, they will remember the wrongs done to their son/daughter and it will affect family relations. Minimise the amount of people involved in your domestic affairs

3. Say NO to coming to big decisions without giving the other an opportunity to be heard and considered. This is how to build unity

3. Say NO to using the words "My" in marriage. "My car", "My child", "My house", "My money"... Instead say "Our car", "Our child", "Our house", "Our money" regardless of who contributes the most financially. You two are a team

4. Say NO to arguing in front of the children. Don't expose them to tension that will emotionally stress them

5. Say NO to ending a s*xual moment with only one of you s*xually satisfied. Both of you ought to enjoy love making

6. Say NO to using insults no matter how angry you get. Your spouse will easily remember the insults spoken in moments of anger than the loving words spoken in times of peace

7. Say NO to eating outside yet your spouse has taken the time to prepare a family meal for you. Make it a habit to eat together

8. Say NO to visits by your relatives without informing your spouse. It is not your home alone. If you want your spouse to be a good host to your relatives, consult with him/her when the visit will happen and for how long

9. Say NO to entertaining another or flirting with others. You two are allowed to have a healthy social life and friends even of the opposite gender but with boundaries and transparency

10. Say NO to sleeping in different beds/rooms yet you are in the same house. It sets a bad precedence and escalates the situation. Be like "Honey, we didn't have the best of days today but I still love you". You walking out to sleep somewhere else or kicking your spouse out of the room communicates rejection and disgust

11. Say NO to letting a relative come stay in your house who disrespects your spouse. Don't let your spouse be attacked at home

12. Say NO to suggesting divorce when things get difficult. You don't solve problems by threatening to walk out. When you tell your spouse divorce is an option it can easily discourage your spouse or make your spouse defensive. Unfortunately, some ask for a divorce not because they are serious but to scare and manipulate and in so doing planting seeds of doubt in their marriage

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