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08/12/2024

My Wife does this thing too.

She can "forget" her footwear in my car for days until I take them out..

I never thought much about it until I ran into this pic and a post about it on Facebook

Women and marking territory, it's in their DNA..

PS; if your fiancé/wife does it or things like that, it's not because she doesn't trust you, in fact she doesn't even know what she's doing, it's often an unconscious act they do.

Talk about Nature.

Other ways women mark their territory include:

1) Leaving random items like their earrings, wigs, purse, footwears in their man's house/car/office.

It's not a mistake oh.

2) Ask him to hold their bag/purse especially in public.

3) Sit close/next to him in public gatherings and events.

This is called "close marking".

4) Public display of affection especially when there are many other ladies around.

They'll be holding him, hugging him, snapping selfie with him for everyone (other ladies) to see and know.

They are simply saying "he's taken, I have took him, this is my copy, back off in Jesus Name"

5) Demand that he posts their picture on his social media handles regularly.

"babe, it's been long (last week oh) you posted me on your WhatsApp status, what's happening, oya post today na?"

6) Introduce themselves by themselves.

"Hello Sis, Hi, YOU MUST BE MY BABY'S neighbour (or colleague), I AM his Wife/Fiancé"

Point made..
7) Give him the baby to carry.
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21/11/2024

Hi
Secret Lovers,

10 WAYS TO AVOID FINANCIAL CHALLENGE IN MARRIAGE ‼️‼️

Every marriage needs money to thrive!
Rent must be paid, bills must be settled, school fees are there, you must wear good clothes, Eat a balanced diet And a lot more....

In fact, financial problems are one of the biggest problems facing marriages today. Lack of finance has caused havoc to families and separated many lovers.

THE FOLLOWING ARE THE WAYS TO AVOID FIGHTING OVER MONEY IN MARRIAGE

1. HAVE A REGULAR INCOME BEFORE YOU GO INTO MARRIAGE :

It is unreasonable to go into marriage without a stable source of income.

Marriage is not an emergency so don’t rush into it. Get a job before you get married. Because People may sponsor your WEDDING but nobody will sponsor your MARRIAGE. Love is powerful but it won’t pay your house rent, hospital bill, or your children's school fees. So get a job to sustain your marriage. Marriage is a responsibility. There is no true romance without finance in marriage. Financial hardship or poverty can destroy love. So get a stable source of income before getting married.

Make sure you and your intending spouse have a source of income before planning your wedding. A reliable source of income is a must if you don’t want to suffer in marriage. That’s wisdom.

2. LEARN HOW TO GIVE YOUR BEFORE GOING INTO RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE ‼️:

You Are Not A True Lover If You Are Not A Generous Giver Because The Proof Of Love Is GIVING! Before you get married, you must destroy every spirit of stinginess, greediness, and selfishness because they are major enemies of marriage. Marriage is not for those who are not givers.

Learning How To Give Is One Of The Preparation You Must Make Before Marriage Because Marriage Is All Giving 100% to your spouse. So Both Single Guys & Ladies Should Learn How To Give. Marriage is between two people who love each other and are willing to be a blessing to each other. They are not stingy to each other. Beware of someone who is not ready to contribute to your life but only interested in receiving.

3. NEVER KEEP FINANCIAL SECRET FROM YOUR SPOUSE:

BE 100 % Open about money in marriage. Never hide anything from your spouse. Talk about your money together and be flexible about your money. There must be 100% openness and transparency about finance. No secret account. No secret property. What God has joined together, let no secret put asunder

Genesis 2:24 says: And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.

As husband and wife, you need to be spiritually, emotionally, s*xually, financially, and physically naked to each other. You must be Open and transparent

Your spouse should know your phone, email, and bank account password. Be free to have access to your phone. Don’t hide anything from your spouse. That’s marriage

4. NEVER SEE YOUR MONEY AS YOUR MONEY BUT SEE AS OUR MONEY:

For you to go far in marriage, you must not have this mentality that “my money” is my money while my husband's money is our money. You must know that any money you make in marriage either by the wife or husband belongs to the family. There is nowhere in the bible that commands only the husband to provide for the family.

MARRIAGE IS A TEAMWORK.
MARRIAGE IS A PARTNERSHIP.
So both of you should use your money to run the family. Put your resources together to run your family. Two are better than one because they have a better result for their labor. Work as a team.

You see, one of the reasons many men go into depression is because of financial pressure/loads. He wants to pay house rent, children's school fees, feeding of the family, medical bills, electricity bills, security bills, clothes for the children, generator fuel and repairs, car fuel and repair, his wife's financial needs, parent monthly bills, etc., for example, his monthly bills is 2 million naira but his salary is only N500,000. It is not right for a woman to watch her husband go through financial stress without any support. If you don’t want to lose that man, support him 100/%

Marriage is a partnership. So both husband and wife should provide for their home. Marriage is a teamwork. It is a covenant. If both parties are willing to be covenant-minded and put the principles of God above all, then they can enjoy a good marriage.

Once you are married, you are now one. It is now “our money”, not “my money”. It is Our car, our children, our property. So both of you should put your resources together to run your family. Two are better than one because they have a better result for their labor. Work as a team.

You must know that anything you have before marriage belongs to both of you in marriage.

Your money becomes our money

Your cars become our cars

Your house becomes our house

Your children become our children

5. AS A MARRIED COUPLE, NEVER COMPARE YOUR FAMILY WITH ANY FAMILIES WHO ARE FINANCIALLY DOING WELL THAN YOU:

Be content with what you have. If you must have peace of mind in your marriage, you must be content with what you have. Enjoy the little you have while you work hard for more. Don’t envy other families. Celebrate the level you are now as you believe in God for the next level.

6. DON'T LIVE IN A HOUSE YOU STRUGGLE TO PAY THE RENT EVERY YEAR:

Make sure you rent a house you can pay for the rent without borrowing. Start with what you have. I and my wife started with a room and parlor self-contained but today, we have passed the level. Remember there are other bills like transport bills, electricity bills, medical bills, etc. Don’t rent a house in an environment you can’t afford. There is no need to try to impress anybody when you know you don’t have the capacity. Be yourself. Start with what you have. Never try to impress anybody. Some use their 7 months' salaries to pay rent just to impress people. That’s foolishness. Instead of paying millions of naira for rent, why can’t you plan and save to buy your own land and build your house?

7. AVOID TOO MANY RESPONSIBILITIES:

Only Give birth to the number of children you can adequately cater for. Some married couples are giving birth to children every year. Their income is not increasing but their responsibilities are increasing by the day. There is no way you can make financial progress in these kinds of homes. Plan your family size. Large families are not advisable today.

As a couple, you must not be afraid of rejecting “heavy load” or heavy responsibility from your extended family, if they suggest that their children should live with you. If you know that you don’t have the financial capacity, never accept extra responsibility. This is not a lack of faith. It is wisdom

8. NEVER PUT YOUR CHILDREN IN A SCHOOL YOU CANNOT AFFORD:

Because expensive school does not guarantee a brighter future. It does not make sense if you have to struggle or borrow money to pay their school fees. Make sure your children attend a good affordable school.


9. NEVER DEPEND ON ONE SOURCE OF INCOME:

Create multiple streams of income. Multiple streams of income simply mean many sources of income. Don’t depend on one business or salary. Your money must never come from one source. It is better for N5000 to be coming from five sources than for N10,000 to be coming from one source. Invest your money in profitable businesses. Your income must grow as your family is growing. Sit down, think, and plan with your spouse on how to generate more income to cater to the needs of your family.

10. ALWAYS TAKE YOUR FINANCIAL NEED TO GOD IN PRAYERS:

Instead of fighting, take every financial need to God in prayers. Pray about your finances. Trust God for your finances. Pray that God will give you ideas that will change your financial life. God can release ideas into your mind that will change your life forever. Everything will be fine

You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name

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Photo credit - Yinka Okeleye x sunmisola_agbebi

19/11/2024

LEARN TO PLAY TOGETHER MORE OFTEN
AS SPOUSE ( HUSBAND & WIFE )

Marrying someone you can not play or joke around with can make life boring in the marriage. Marriage is not a military ground. It is a place of love, romance and fun.

Play isn’t just for kids! Play is an essential part of maintaining a happy, healthy long-term relationship, especially in today’s world.

Playing together increases bonding, reduces stress, improves communication, enhances intimacy, conflict resolution, and relationship satisfaction

1. As a married couple,
Play romantic games with your wife.
The couple that plays together stays together.
2. Tickle your wife.
3. Go out for a date. Go to the beach. Take her out for dinner, just the two of you, and enjoy yourself.
4. Go to a cinema and watch films together
5. Plan a mini honeymoon when both of you can spend quality time together.
6.Visit Beach & Cinema Together
7. Play a board game
Make your own board game
8. Play ball and table tennis together
9. Take a cooking or baking class
10. Try something new in the bedroom
11. Romance Together,
12. Rejoice Together,
13. Attend Special Events Together,
14. Laugh together,
15. *Take A Stroll Together,
16. *Dance together (Dancing helps us to release happy hormones.Try Dancing with your partner.
17. Sing together,
18. Eat together,
19. Bath together. It enhances your friendship: as it brings you closer. It makes you free with each othe
20. Spend quality time together,
21. Do exercise together,
22. Play football together,
23. Sleep Together,
24. Kiss Together,
25. Do House Chore Together,
25. Plan Together,
26. Celebrate together
27. Enjoy Regular S*x Together with your spouse.

Doing These Keep Your Marriage Fresh And Lively.
Treat Your Spouse As Your Best Friend And A Treasure Not As Your Enemy.”

Love your spouse like there is no tomorrow, and if tomorrow comes, wake up and do it over again. Marriage Is A True Test Of Love!

30/09/2024

When a married woman is covering her body or hidding her private part for her husband to see or putting on clothe while sleeping on the same bed with her husband. What does it mean?

Answers... Plsss

21/09/2024

MARRIAGE INTIMACY TIP WITH GOD

Marriage is God’s idea, and He has a good reason for designing it the way He did. Marriage is an assignment not a reward but many have turned it into their own assignment.

When you see a long term marriage working and happy, behind that happiness & intimacy is Many years of forgiveness,resolving conflicts,trying again, loving again , dedication, healing from hurt….

Most couples who make it have thought about ending it at some point , but they decided to hold on and fight for the marriage , they choose commitment, intentionality and sought counsel.
Don’t give up when it’s hard. Work hard. God got you.

STAY BLESSED. 🙏🙏


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18/09/2024

Hello
Secret Lovers

So,
Wives.🤣😂😅😆
What's Your Take on This.??




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11/09/2024

SILENT S*X STRUGGLES MARRIED PEOPLE GO THROUGH.

Disclaimer:This post is strictly for married people and those planning to:

1. A SPOUSE WHO WANTS TOO MUCH S*X
Some are married to a spouse (often times the husband) who wants s*x regularly. This can easily make one feel used. Usually in such situations, the emotional connection is also weak. Address this by learning to do other things as a couple that don't involve s*x

2. A SPOUSE WHO IS NOT INTERESTED IN S*X
Some are married to a spouse (often times the wife) who shows no interest in s*x, perhaps because of emotional strain, past wounds, hormones, negative view towards spouse or as a result of conflict. Address this by talking things out, open up, change contraceptives. Realize that love making is important in marriage

3. A SPOUSE WHO DOES NOT TAKE CARE OF PERSONAL HYGIENE
It is a struggle to kiss, lick, touch, rub or even make love to someone who doesn't brush their teeth, shower, wears the same underwear for days or doesn't care about presentation. If you have such a spouse, encourage each other to shower together, buy him/her underwear and recommend they be worn to excite you, form a couple's routine. If you are the culprit, remember that hygiene inspires intimacy

4. LUST
Lust will make you struggle to be faithful, it will make you flirt with others over the phone, at the wotk place, in the neighbourhood and social media making it uncomfortable for your spouse. It can affect your desire for your spouse. Lust dies when you stop feeding it. Check out of lustful conversations, see people around you with respect, not s*xual objects

5. UNMET S*XUAL EXPECTATIONS
There is nothing as frustrating as being married but your s*xual needs are not being fully met. Most likely they are not being fully met because you have not lovingly communicated to your spouse what you want, your favourite s*xual positions and your fantasies. But remember, before you expect your spouse to meet your s*xual needs, meet his/her s*xual needs

6. MEMORIES OF AN EX WHO USED TO BE GREAT IN BED
Some people are fighting the memories they had of their ex/exes in bed. As they have s*x with their spouse, they have images of the ex in mind. Let go of the past. See your spouse for the uniqueness he/she is. Start to praise your spouse s*xually and your mind will register your spouse as the new definition of s*xy

7. PO*******HY
Po*******hy will distract you from cultivating intimacy with your spouse. It will make you ignore your spouse without you knowing it just to look at videos and pictures of naked strangers banging. Address this by desiring the real thing, not illusions and p**n stars. Train yourself to say no

8. MA********ON
Ma********on will make your spouse compete with your fingers. Your fingers will most likely win because you know how to please yourself but your marriage will lose. Address this by teaching your spouse how you want him/her to please you since you have already learnt your body

9. A P***S THAT CANNOT SUSTAIN AN ER****ON
Most men lose their er****on due to panic or lack of concentration because s*x starts in the mind. Address this by calming down, relax, be in the moment, enjoy every sensation

10. AN OVERTHINKING WIFE WHO STRUGGLES TO CLIMAX
Most wives who struggle to climax is because they over think. "Have the kids eaten? Is my va**na smelling? Is he really enjoying it? Am I moaning too loud? Am I too wet? Have we paid rent? Did I remember to pay the chama? Is the salon open tomorrow? Which weave should I put on next? I forgot to call Njambi"... These are some of the thoughts running through her mind as he is pumping. Lady, relax

11. A P***S THAT EJ******ES TOO QUICKLY
If she makes you ej*****te that means she is so sweet and that is a good thing but what she desires is that you stay hard longer. Last by stopping the pumping when you feel you are about to climax, change positions at that time so that you look cool while at it

12. LOW SELF-ESTEEM
If you doubt your own s*xiness and performance then intimacy will suffer. Confidence is crucial when it comes to all things s*x. Embrace your body, your tummy, sagging breasts, stretch marks, balding head, your physique. Take care of your body, work out. Flaunt to your spouse what is good about you. Praise each other's looks and performance to boost confidence

13. AFFAIRS
When another is already servicing your body, you will come home to a spouse you are not interested in. On top of that, you will be filled with guilt to the point that you struggle to connect with your spouse; and if your spouse suspects or knows, he/she will shut you out. Just let the affair end

14. COMPARISONS WITH OTHER COUPLES
When you hear or read the colourful s*x stories of other couples, of how the wife squirts, how the husband lasts for forty minutes, how the wife rides like a pro, how the husband feasts on her cl****is till she cries; you might begin to question your own marriage and whether you two are happily married. Each marriage is unique, make your own special memories.

As we agreed as a biology teacher....every sunday we will be talking about issues that people don't want to talk about but are happening Kwa ground.We must protect the marriage industry.


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23/07/2024

Hi Lovers

TOPIC: PÜSSY LÖCKING!!

How to lock your püssy during sêx

The Question...What is pû-ssy locking?

Don't think pü-ssy locking is when you close your va**na .

Pûssy locking is the ability to make your pûssy hold hubby's penîs tight during sèx...

Let's go... .

Pû-ssy locking is the process of drawing your pûssy in internally, while your husband dîck is inside of you, with your legs widely spread out, Locking your pûssy will make your pûssy to wrap his dîck so well that it drives him cràzy, he will be able to use his dîck to touch all the walls of your püssy, lock up your pûssy and allow his dîck grip on.

The easiest way to learn and understand pû-ssy locking is when you are urinating and try to stop the urine half way, you know how you hold the urine in with your pû-ssy, that's what pûssy locking is.. It's also known as kegel exercise! now, try doing exactly that when your husband dîck is inside of you, your husband will never get tired of fú-cking you.

This method also helps people that has loose vagîna to feel the dîck, no matter the size. You don't need to close your legs for your pûssy to be tîght, because it won't, you will just be fooling yourself biko spread your legs and lock up your pûssy for maximum pleasure

Most a times when the penís is inside the vagínal, if you still notice any looseness, wíthdrawal and use cold wàter to wash up....i mean very cóld one

It makes the vagîna shrink in size...

And it reduces the level of secretions that comes out from the vagínal....you will still be wèt but at a moderate level...
P***y LÖCKING is very necessary during sèx

Have Lovely Romance & Intimacy

26/05/2024

25/12/2023

12 THINGS TO SAY NO TO....IN YOUR MARRIAGE

1. Say NO to going to bed with unresolved issues. The longer issues pile up the messy things become and the climate in your home worsens

2. Say NO to involving parents or family in solving marital matters. Instead, see a counsellor, a pastor or a neutral person of authority who believes in marriage if you can't manage a breakthrough as a couple. Parents and family are biased and after you two have solved issues, they will remember the wrongs done to their son/daughter and it will affect family relations. Minimise the amount of people involved in your domestic affairs

3. Say NO to coming to big decisions without giving the other an opportunity to be heard and considered. This is how to build unity

3. Say NO to using the words "My" in marriage. "My car", "My child", "My house", "My money"... Instead say "Our car", "Our child", "Our house", "Our money" regardless of who contributes the most financially. You two are a team

4. Say NO to arguing in front of the children. Don't expose them to tension that will emotionally stress them

5. Say NO to ending a s*xual moment with only one of you s*xually satisfied. Both of you ought to enjoy love making

6. Say NO to using insults no matter how angry you get. Your spouse will easily remember the insults spoken in moments of anger than the loving words spoken in times of peace

7. Say NO to eating outside yet your spouse has taken the time to prepare a family meal for you. Make it a habit to eat together

8. Say NO to visits by your relatives without informing your spouse. It is not your home alone. If you want your spouse to be a good host to your relatives, consult with him/her when the visit will happen and for how long

9. Say NO to entertaining another or flirting with others. You two are allowed to have a healthy social life and friends even of the opposite gender but with boundaries and transparency

10. Say NO to sleeping in different beds/rooms yet you are in the same house. It sets a bad precedence and escalates the situation. Be like "Honey, we didn't have the best of days today but I still love you". You walking out to sleep somewhere else or kicking your spouse out of the room communicates rejection and disgust

11. Say NO to letting a relative come stay in your house who disrespects your spouse. Don't let your spouse be attacked at home

12. Say NO to suggesting divorce when things get difficult. You don't solve problems by threatening to walk out. When you tell your spouse divorce is an option it can easily discourage your spouse or make your spouse defensive. Unfortunately, some ask for a divorce not because they are serious but to scare and manipulate and in so doing planting seeds of doubt in their marriage

01/11/2023

17/06/2023

31/05/2023

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06/03/2023

Hi Secret Lovers,

TRUTH YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT S*X...

1. S*x is a beautiful creation of God, created to be enjoyed under marriage.
2. God can control your s*xual desires for you but you have to make decisions.
3. S*x is never without consequences, every s*xual act goes with responsibilities either pregnancy,disease etc.
4. S*x is not the most important thing.
most relationship that begins in s*x ends in up disaster.
5. S*x obeys the law of progression, if you start kissing, it's just a matter of time...s*x follows.
6. Never advertise what is not for sale, Real s*x is never for sale.
7. Count the cost before removing your clothes.
8. Never give s*x to prove love...NEVER
9. Premarital s*x is never free,someone usually pays, now or later.
10. S*x never makes people to love each other,else the world would have been a lovely place.
11. S*xual stimulation (foreplay or romance) only gives rise for more..
12. S*x makes two people tobecome one flesh (soul,spirit and body ties).
13. Men are s*xually aroused by
sight.
14. Women are s*xually aroused by what they hear or touch.
15. S*x is the greatest cause of heartbreaks And Also Remedy curing alot of HeartBreaks.
16. Listening to s*xual musics and lyrics arouses your s*xual passion. Watch it, I mean what you listen to!
17. The more you know the purpose of s*x,the less likely you are to abuse it.
18. If you have made any s*xual mistake,don't remain there, get up and move on the positive side.
19. The best wedding gift to your spouse is your virginity, if you have lost yours, you can still retain your secondary virginity with your loyal Partner.
20. S*x opens the door for demonic possession, exchange of destinies,transference of spirits,scattered souls, destroy future, s*x has made many youth murderer.

Do you agree with me?
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