06/06/2025
You love s*x before in your early marriage and suddenly you see yourself not having interest in it again?
Several factors can contribute to you losing interest in s*x, including hormonal changes, relationship issues, mental health challenges, and physical health concerns.
Causes of Reduced Sexual Desire in Women:
Hormonal Changes:
Menopause, perimenopause, and pregnancy can significantly impact libido due to fluctuating hormone levels.
Relationship Issues:
Conflict, lack of intimacy, or communication problems with a spouse can negatively affect s*xual desire.
When there is no intimacy between you and your spouse, s*x or love making becomes an issue
Work
On your intimacy and your communication
Mental Health:
Depression, anxiety, stress, and other mental health conditions can interfere with libido.
We have discussed severally on this platform how we women should take our health serious, take care of ourselves, get help, let people do for you what they can help you to do, so you can do what no one should help you to do
Make your own money no matter how little
When you depend on your spouse money it is an invitation to depression
Small thing that you should joke with will get you angry quickly
Physical Health:
Chronic illnesses, certain medications, and even pain during s*x can reduce s*xual interest.
Take care of your health, eat well and eat healthy (rainbow 🏳️🌈 food)
If you try any s*x position and you have pain it could be infection and it may not be infection
Pay attention and try another position that will not come with pain, don’t because of pain and go on s*x sabbatical leave
If doggy is painful for you, try cowgirl/reverse cowgirl, missionary has gone beyond daddy and mummy styles, there is a way you will do it and cry for joy, try spoon style, scissors, etc
Just make sure you enjoy what you do when it come to s*x in marriage, do not endure it
Sexual Dysfunction:
Pain during s*x, vaginal dryness, or difficulty reaching or**sm can make s*x less appealing.
Discussing with your spouse will help solve some of this problems
Help your husband to help you get or**sm, foreplay can not be overemphasized
Take water, take water, always drink water.
Communicate, forgive and pray 🙏🏾