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Singles Roundabout, Akure (2025)

18/05/2025

*FAITHFULNESS AND LOVE*

Did you know a man may love you and still won't be faithful to you?

Yes it's possible.

Such a man lack the ability to be faithful.

It's a capacity every man must struggle strife to have.

Ability to love and ability to be faithful are two different things.

A man may genuinely love you but may never be faithful to you.

This remain agitated to many women in the world how it's possible to be unfaithful to some you claimed you loved.

The language of love to men is not the same with the language of been faithful...

Get it right!
I am not saying we don't have faithful men who genuinely loves their spouse and remained on that track.

But some men can be tempted to unfaithful to their spouse despite loving her.

It's therefore a key struggle to every responsible man to lean on a faithful ground cleaving to his wife alone irrespective of what other women tense to offer.

Good morning
Have a wonderful Friday!.
©️CRJ
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18/05/2025

*SHOULD I TELL MY SPOUSE ABOUT MY EX?*

Many of us believed that when a relationship is over it's all over. No, it's not so easy or easily to get rid of a relationship like that. especially when you have counted down years in such relationship.

It's sad to know that alot of brojen relationships are still connected emotionally but distracted bodily.

Such relationship might ended up been re-visited in future.

However, disclosing your ex(exes) to your spouse is very important

Tell your spouse about your ex. don't be too tensed to keep such encounter away from your spouse.

Sometimes the come back situation might be very heavy enough to destroy your marriage.

This is what many married couples are facing today. Still facing some unfinished battles In their past experiences from their ex.

This is not about considering your ex the second time.... it's simply making sure your spouse is aware of your exes and how you or they dealt with yourselves in the past because the situations might surely still bounce back.

SHALOM!
Always Love Genuinely
©️ CRJ
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18/05/2025

Now I Understand Why My Father Was Silent.
😭😭😭

When I was a boy, I used to wonder why my father came home some nights very late without saying a word. No smile. No stories. Just silence, and a heavy walk to his room. Back then, I thought he was just tired. Now I know better—he was fighting battles he couldn’t explain.

He was broke but couldn't cry. 😭😭😭😭
He was sick but couldn't stop.
He was overwhelmed but couldn’t show weakness.
Because men don't have the luxury of falling apart.

The world is BRUTAL to men. You either produce or perish.
No break. No vacation. No soft landing. Just expectations.

Provide. Protect. Lead.
Even when your back is broken, and your soul is exhausted.

Now that I’m grown, I get it.
I get the pain he hid.
The nights he slept hungry so we wouldn’t.
The dreams he buried so we could dream freely.
The times he held his tears just so we’d feel safe.

To every man out there grinding silently—I see you.
To every father sacrificing his health, sleep, and peace for his children—you are the real king.
To the men who died before they could see their children succeed—may your souls rest like warriors.

This post is for the unsung heroes. The men with cracked hands, bleeding hearts, and unbreakable spirits.

You’re not forgotten. You’re not weak. You’re not invisible.

You are the reason families stay standing.

God bless our fathers.
God strengthen our sons.
And may we, as men, carry this legacy with honor.

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18/05/2025

What Nepa Caused pained me

18/05/2025

*WHO IS TO SEARCH?*

I was in a meeting with one aunt on this platform this afternoon disclosing her marital status to me as _Single And Searching_ As a relationship coach and a marriage counselor I discovered the phrase was wrong.

Listen please

This conceptual phrase is often misused by singles. _I'm single and searching_ Who should be searching?

The guy?
or
The Lady?
or
Both.

To perfectly understand this message we need to answer this similar question.

*who needs marriage the most the man or the woman?*

This on the other side can be answered based on the activity in the garden of Eden..The man is made the head. Head of the family, Manager of the marriage, The man is the one in the journey taking the woman along as partner, as helper, as adviser, as helpmeet. for a smooth and easy journey.

*Back to who is to search!*
Unarguably the man needs marriage the most. It's the person who needs marriage the most that is expected to search for who is to help him, or who is qualified to advice him in the journey.

With this simple context, It's wrong and it's unacceptable for any single lady to say _I am single and searching_ because they can never find who is not looking for them. it's a non realistic dream. the best phrase to say is *_I am single and waiting.._*

leave the searching for the guys.
thanks.

Always Love Genuinely
©️CRJ
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06/02/2025

*QUESTION I HAVE NEVER BEEN ASKED BEFORE*

Someone asked.
Sir, when do I need my wife the most?

I haven't come across such important question before. I had to think deep before answering with the help of the holy spirit.
Here is my answer.

The best time husband and wife need each other is hard times and difficult moments where all hopes seems to be gone!

See as a wife,
One of the things you are made to manage in marriage is your husband's minds.

Having a voice that will cool him down after the long way and the hectic days at work is big deal for men.

Having a consoler when things are bad is a virtue a man desires in marriage.

Someone that'll assure him all will be well even when things are very hard and tough is a type that every man will be grateful to God he has in marriage.

Be the diplomatic wife not the problematic one

You're made to serve each other and you can do this better when you both need each other the most.

Having someone to relax on at the peak of really tough battles is an assurance of great restrengthening, reemployment to victory.

Be there for each other at this moments.
Shalom!

Always Love Genuinely
©️CRJ
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13/03/2024

*CRJ'S LETTER TO SINGLES*

Dear Singles,
I heard that some of you are interested in dictating what your lady will do, where to go, how to walk and whom to mingle with now in your Relationships.

NO! mistakes overloaded.

Until you pay a lady's bride price you certainly do not have any right to oversee their lifestyles, movement and words.

You certainly do not have any right to assign kitchen/domestic responsibility on her.

See, some guys are really almighty in their relationship. they are alpha and omega, They are the Ogundiji and Ogungbade of their relationship. they are scarefuly and fearfully made to their lady. they are the true character of dehumanization when things get wrong. if your relationship is like this you're in a wrong hand.

See, until a man pay your price they do not deserve to be your manager.

So Questions like this shouldn't be reflecting in your relationship
❌Where are you coming from?
❌Who just called you?
❌Where were you? yesterday?
❌ Why did you say that ?
❌Who is chatting with you? etc.
As a matter of fact it's not an offence meeting suitors in your relationship as a lady but it becomes an offence when you play games and keeping more than 1 man.

A relationship isn't a marriage yet so there are lots of freedom in it. freedom to act rights not freedom to mess around.

Shalom!
Always Love Genuinely
©️CRJ
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06/12/2023

*WHEN YOU CAUGHT YOUR HUSBAND CHEATING*

It's better you don't have a cheating man. I mean it's better you strife never to have one as your husband. than to loose your crown and be looking for how to chop your head. what an irony.

Listen,

When a wife caught her husband cheating simply means she is a FAILURE.

*FAILURE in bed* sole reason any man can cheat. cheating is choice that you can't dictate how a man can decide it. it all began when you think you are tired and can't give your body for him when he requires it.

*FAILURE in the kitchen* A way to a man's heart is it's belly not his head. you can't continue giving him headache and you expect his faithfulness. NO!

*FAILURE in submission* Disrespectful begin from how you offer yourself to a man. during s*x some women are known for insultive and derogatory words to their husbands..

*FAILURE to change the beat* sometimes what makes a music dancable isn't the songs but the beat. many times it's the same songs but different beats that makes it looks like the songs is been changed.

🔥A man will cheat when the s*x styles doesn't change
🔥A man will cheat when the Maggi/aroma doesnt change.
🔥A man will cheat when nothing new happens about you, your appearances, your upbringing.

🔥A man will change when you have defined your adult from your youthhoods. How can a youth wife be tyeing ramper in the house like a house maid

🔥A man will cheat when you don't feed his eyes with beauties.

Remember a man can cheat for anything when you fail to be his everything.

Shalom!
Always Love Genuinely
©️ Raphael Jimba
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18/07/2023

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11/01/2023

COUPLE'S PARTNERSHIP*

The best way to prosperity that will land your marriage into an unbelievable wealth is when you and your spouse is co joined together to manage a business. I have never seen what is as profitable as using such pattern.

Two the scripture told us is better than one.

Listen to this again.

Best way to know a standard Marriage or a great Marriage is when the couple are into same trade, Business, work *and Everything is fine and the Marriage is healthy*

Reason with this.

To partner with your spouse in a business is isn't an easy thing. it demands alot such as Genuine love, Trust, Confidence, Patience, Dedications, perseverance and loyalty especially if you're the wife. Some government works don't allow this because they don't want husband and wife to resume work in the morning and started fighting over biscuit bone in the office where official tasks are carried out.

In my tribe, best way to know someone's character is when you partner with them. their real identity will be revealed in due time.

Best way to be a responsible and a great husband and wife is to engage in alot of devoted partnership most especially businesstry.

The husband's progress is in his wife's hand and the wife's progress is in her husband's hand.

Progress becomes double when the two can partner together

Shalom!

Love Life Is Good
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©️Raphael Jimba

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