18/07/2025
Appreciation Of Oneself
When some people, particularly ladies dwell in comparison of themselves with other ladies, I would ask how much information do they have of those they wished they were like them? What is usually the ground for comparison are things that are ephemeral. Things that are of no real value to life. You would hear someone say Waoooooooo you needed to see the latest jeep such and such lady drove to the party. She was a cynosure of all eyes at the party. I felt miserable and I hated myself. Why would the kind of vehicle driven by someone be the basis for measuring the state of happiness or otherwise of the person? What gives the impression that because that lady is expensively dressed and with a huge bank account that she has the wholeness that is core to enjoying a meaningful life? Why do you think that the things that you admire in her are just a facade to paper over cracks of unhappiness dotting her being? What matters in life is to have an appreciation of oneself with no longing to be like someone else.That woman that you envy so much and wished you were like her or your husband like her husband can you tell the source of the wealth? There are a lot of women who are flamboyant outside but are in hell in their houses. Please find happiness for yourself in contentment and not comparison. Perhaps you have heard a number of times that it is not all that glitters. A lot are living fake and sorrowful lives wishing to be in your position.
Let us find joy in who we are and than wanting to be someone else.
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