25/06/2024
Things dey sup sha...
One thing I wish to share with my husband before it's too late is the fact that two of our kids aren't his. Unlike most women consciously having a relationship with their ex's, this wasn't my mistake, but his.
He had a job at Kumasi that he went and returned every three months. We all could have moved, but he insisted we stayed here in Accra because he didn't want the stress and he doesn't like the environment at Kumasi. That was just about two years into marriage (2010). Our first baby was barely a year old. That job was good, it's what has changed the situation of our family till now so I'm glad he had it.
Before he left for the job, he suggested that my younger brother come to stay with the kid and I because back then, our place wasn't soo developed so he wanted someone to protect baby and I. He let my brother come because I wasn't comfortable living with his brother.
Unfortunately, when my brother came to stay with me, I started having s3x with him. It wasn't like I loved him, I didn't. He was my blood brother, so I couldn't even develop any proper feelings for him, I was just in need of s3x, and he was the only male available do I used him. Even him (my brother) didn't like the idea. It took me a while, and a lot of begging to have him s3x me. I don't really know why Kwaku, but I suddenly developed this strong desire for frequent vigorous s3x that I had no choice but to force myself on my brother. He is a man, so after I continuously seduced him, he fell.
He got me pregnant twice, and my husband also did twice, but I pushed all the kids for my husband.
When hubby changed his job, he came back to settle with us in Accra while my brother left. He is also married with his own family now. He doesn't get very close to me because of what happened, but I don't blame him. I blame my husband for letting a man come and stay with me, knowing I was a woman with s3xuaI needs.
I am glad hubby is okay and taking good care of all the kids. The two fathered by my brother look exactly like me, so no problem at all. I just feel bad sometimes. I feel like I haven't been a good woman to my husband and a good elderly sister to my brother. I want to fix things because nothing is hidden under the sun forever, especially now that the issue of DNA is all over. Even my husband wants to do it, especially because he spent five years travelling and returning. I see it in his eyes anytime that issue pops up. I don't want to destroy my own marriage, so I want to confess now before it's too late. I'm here to ask if I'm doing the right thing. I want to know if telling him the truth now is better than holding on till he finds out, and if my marriage can work after that, advise me. Thank you 🙏🏿
Iyk Joseph
