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15/11/2025

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

A Story That Will Stay With You…

Her name was Ada.
A soft-spoken, brilliant young woman with a heart completely sold out to God.
Everyone who knew her said the same thing:
“She is destined for greatness.”

Ada served God faithfully.
She led prayers on campus.
She encouraged others to wait on the Lord.
But her test came quietly… wrapped in a smile she couldn’t resist.

His name was Daniel.
Handsome, confident, always carrying a Bible.
He prayed loudly in fellowship.
He quoted Scriptures impressively.
He looked like everything Ada thought a godly man should be.

She felt something strong for him… and she assumed it must be God.

She didn’t pray.
She didn’t wait.
She didn’t ask.
Her emotions drowned the gentle warnings in her spirit.

“God cannot be against something this beautiful,” she told herself.

The first cracks appeared after the wedding.
Small, almost invisible.
He stopped joining family devotion.
He complained about her church activities.
He said she was “too spiritual.”

But Ada kept hoping marriage would change him.

Then came the real storm.
Daniel started coming home late.
He stopped praying completely.
He mocked her for fasting.
He began to cheat, boldly and without apology.

One night, when she confronted him respectfully, he shouted,
“Did I ever tell you I wanted a prayerful wife? If you don’t like this marriage, get out!”

Ada froze.
Her tears fell silently.
Her heart broke loudly.

But the worst pain wasn’t his words.
It was the realization that God had warned her, gently, quietly, repeatedly…
And she ignored Him.

She remembered the dream where she saw herself crying.
She remembered the scripture that kept coming:
“Be still.”
She remembered the lack of peace she pushed aside.

She remembered the elder who told her, “My dear, wait.”

But she didn’t wait.
She didn’t listen.
She followed her heart… and lost her future.

Now Ada wakes up beside a man who is physically present but emotionally distant.
She attends church alone.
She hides her bruises behind smiles.
She cries on her pillow every night.

And the words that haunt her the most are the ones she whispered to a friend:
“If I had known God’s will, I would never be here.”

Dear reader, pause and think.

How many Adas are suffering today because they rushed into love without asking God?
How many destinies have been reduced because someone ignored the still small voice?
How many tears could have been avoided if they had waited just a little longer?

Marriage can make you, or break you.
One wrong choice can silence your purpose, your peace, and your joy.

This is why you need “Knowing the Will of God in Marriage” by The Olayemis.
It will help you:
• Recognize God’s voice
• Discern emotions from divine signals
• Avoid counterfeits wrapped in spirituality
• Escape the traps that swallowed Ada
• Choose peace instead of pain
• Marry into destiny, not disaster

Don’t become the next sad story.
Don’t let emotions bury your future.
Get the knowledge now, before regret becomes your teacher.

📖 Get your copy of “Knowing the Will of God in Marriage” today.
Your tears are too precious.
Your destiny is too important.
Your future is too valuable.

12/11/2025

RELATIONSHIP AGLOW NETWORK
WITH THE OLAYEMI’S
PRESENT

THENE: HEALTH CONNECTION.

Health is not just a personal matter; it’s a spiritual partnership. To experience lasting wholeness, our spirit, soul, and body must align. That’s why you cannot afford to miss this life‑transforming Online Program.

🔥 *Get ready to discover:👇
✅ The divine link between spiritual health and physical vitality.
✅ Practical prayers that activate healing and strength.
✅ How to maintain a balanced lifestyle that honors God.
✅ Secrets to nurturing a healthy marriage through health‑focused unity.
✅ Practical steps to cultivate spiritual discipline for total wellness.

📅 *Date:* Sunday, 23rd November 2025
⏰ Time:* 8:00 PM
🎙️ *Guest Minister:( Evang Odu Godbe)
👥 *Hosts:* Apostle Dr. Joshua & Dr. (Mrs.) Benita Olayemi

This is more than a program, it’s a divine encounter for singles, engaged couples, and married partners who desire wholeness, vitality, and a deeper walk with God.

📲 *Join Live on WhatsApp Call or WhatsApp:*
07031106076 | 07035451638

💡 *Don’t just dream of total health. learn how to sustain it spiritually and physically!

07/11/2025

WHEN SINGLE SISTERS PRAY 🔥
Theme: BREAKING LIMITS

There comes a time when heaven calls you to rise, to lift your voice, and to command a shift in your destiny, and that time is NOW!

Every limitation standing between you and your divine promise will crumble as we gather in the place of prayer.
This is not just another meeting, it’s a spiritual awakening for single sisters who are tired of cycles, delays, and stagnation.

Join Dr. (Mrs.) Benita Olayemi this Thursday, 7th November 2025 by 10PM on Relationship Aglow Network (Telegram) for a night of prophetic prayers, healing, and divine release.

🔥 Expect:
✅ Chains to break
✅ Closed doors to open
✅ Long-awaited answers to be released
✅ Fresh fire to pray and prevail

📅 Date: Thursday, 7th November 2025
🕙 Time: 10PM
📍 Live on Telegram:

It’s your time to rise above every limit and walk in divine possibilities!
Don’t just hear about it, be part of it. Your testimony is waiting! 🙌🔥

05/11/2025

HAPPY 3RD MARRIAGE ANNIVERSARY TO THE OLAYEMIS

It’s been three beautiful years of God’s unwavering faithfulness!

Three years of learning, unlearning, and relearning.
Three years of standing beside this great man of God, my visionary Apostle, my king, and my crown. 👑

Three years of doing life and ministry together, sharing dreams, prayers, and cooking his favorite delicacies.

Three years of remarkable growth, undeniable progress, and divine elevation.
Three years of astounding miracles and testimonies that bear witness to God’s grace.
Three years of love wrapped in sweetness, favour, and the beauty of God’s presence.

Oh, what a journey it has been!
Happy 3rd Wedding Anniversary to us! ❤️

We remain ever grateful to God for the gift of life, love, and purpose.
Family, please join us as we lift our hearts in thanksgiving to the LORD for His goodness and mercy.

04/11/2025

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

What Every Sister Must Know Before Entering a Relationship

Text: Proverbs 4:23, “Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.”
Theme: Preparing your heart before giving it away.

1. Know Your Identity in Christ

Before you can love anyone rightly, you must first know who you are.
You are not just any woman, you are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), a royal priesthood (1 Peter 2:9), and God’s beloved daughter.

If you don’t know your worth, you will settle for less.
Don’t let anyone define you by their attention or affection. Let God define you by His Word

2. Know Your Purpose Before Partnership

Many sisters enter relationships without clarity of purpose. A relationship should enhance your purpose, not erase it.
Adam was busy tending the garden when Eve was brought to him purpose came before partnership.
Before you say yes to any man, ask:

Does this relationship align with my God-given assignment?

Will it draw me closer to God or away from Him?

3. Know the Difference Between Love and Lust

Not every emotional excitement is love. Love is patient, kind, enduring (1 Corinthians 13:4–8).
Lust is impatient, selfish, and short-lived.

If he pressures you to do what displeases God, that’s not love, that’s lust.
True love protects your purity and respects your boundaries.

4. Know the Power of Spiritual Discernment

Sisters, not every man that prays is spiritually mature.
Some wear the garment of spirituality but lack the fruit of the Spirit.

Pray and seek God’s voice before you commit.
Ask the Holy Spirit: “Is this relationship Your will or my desire?”
1 John 4:1 — “Test every spirit.”

5. Know the Value of Emotional Healing

Don’t carry the wounds of your past into a new relationship.
If you are still hurting, angry, or bitter, take time to heal.

Healing before dating prevents heartbreak later.
Let God restore your confidence, forgive those who hurt you, and renew your mind.

6. Know What to Look for in a Godly Man

A godly man will:

Fear God and love righteousness.

Take responsibility and lead with humility.

Value your boundaries and honor your body.

Encourage your growth, not suppress it.

Don’t look for charm; look for character (Proverbs 31:30)

7. Know the Power of Waiting

Waiting is not wasting. God uses the waiting season to refine you, prepare you, and align you.

Don’t rush because others are in relationships.
It’s better to wait long than marry wrong.

8. Know the Place of Prayer

Before entering any relationship, kneel before God.
Prayer will reveal what excitement may hide.

A praying sister will not be easily deceived.
Ask God to give you peace or remove peace, He speaks through both.

9. Know the Counsel of Wisdom

Seek godly counsel from mentors, spiritual leaders, or mature believers.
Proverbs 11:14 says, “In the multitude of counsellors there is safety.”

Don’t isolate yourself in love. Wise counsel protects you from emotional blindness.

10. Know Your Worth and Set Boundaries

If you don’t set boundaries, people will cross them.
Boundaries are not signs of pride — they are signs of self-respect.

Say no when necessary.
You teach people how to treat you by what you tolerate.

Before you give your heart to any man, give it fully to God.
When God becomes your first love, He will guide you to the right one.

© The Olayemis

04/11/2025

HOW BRO. SAM DISCOVERED HIS MISSING RIB

Bro. Samuel had grown used to walking alone. He served God faithfully, worked diligently, and smiled often, but deep inside, there was an emptiness he couldn’t quite describe. Nights were the hardest. He would sit by his window, looking at the stars, whispering prayers that sometimes ended in quiet tears.

“Lord,” he would murmur, “You said it is not good for a man to be alone. I don’t seek perfection, only the one You’ve chosen for me, the one who will walk this journey of faith by my side.”

Years passed, but Bro.Samuel waited. Some mocked his patience, others advised him to settle. Yet, he refused to step outside God’s timing. He believed that love rooted in prayer would stand the test of storms.

One Sunday morning, while helping at church, his eyes fell upon Sister Ama. She wasn’t loud or showy, her simplicity spoke louder than words. Her laughter was gentle, her service sincere. She prayed with a heart full of fire and humility. Bro.Samuel felt something stir within him, not infatuation, but peace.

Weeks turned into months. They began praying together, sharing scriptures and life dreams. Each conversation drew them closer, not just to each other, but to God. Bro.Samuel realized that love was not merely found, it was revealed, one prayer at a time.

One evening, under the quiet glow of sunset, Bro.Samuel said softly to, “ Sister Ama, I used to ask God for someone to love me. But now I see, He was preparing me to love someone the way Christ loves the church. You are that answer.”

Tears filled her eyes as she whispered, “And you are mine.”

On their wedding day, as they stood before the altar, their pastor read, “And the two shall become one flesh.” Bro.Samuel could barely hold back his tears. He wasn’t just marrying a Sister, he was witnessing God’s faithfulness.

When they said “I do,” heaven felt near. It wasn’t about two perfect people, but two hearts perfectly surrendered to God’s will.

From that day, Bro.Samuel often told Brothers, “The true power of two is not just love, it’s purpose. When God is at the center, two hearts become one, and one purpose becomes eternal.”

Grab a copy of knowing the will of God by the Olayemis.

22/10/2025

📢 NEW BOOK ALERT! 💍

Knowing the Will of God for Marriage

By The Olayemis

Are you praying to know who the right person is for you?
Do you desire a marriage built on peace, purpose, and divine direction?

This book is your guide.

In “Knowing the Will of God for Marriage,” The Olayemis unveil powerful truths, real-life experiences, and divine principles that will help you discern God’s voice in the area of marriage.

It’s more than just a relationship guide, it’s a revelation that will open your eyes to what it truly means to walk in God’s plan for your marital destiny.

Inside this book, you will learn:
💫 How to hear God clearly about who to marry
💫 How to separate emotions from divine conviction
💫 The danger of rushing ahead of God’s timing
💫 How to confirm God’s will and enjoy peace in your decision
💫 Real-life encounters on how The Olayemis discovered each other through divine direction

Every page carries wisdom, spiritual light, and direction for singles who want to marry right.
Because when you marry outside God’s will, you marry into struggle but when you marry according to His will, you step into rest, purpose, and destiny.

✨ Knowing the Will of God in Marriage by The Olayemis is not just a book, it’s a roadmap for anyone who wants to get marriage right, God’s way.

📘 Now Available!
Don’t wait another moment of confusion or fear.
Grab your copy today and learn how to discern God’s voice, avoid mistakes, and walk boldly into your divine marriage!

17/10/2025

FOOD FOR THOUGHT:
RED FLAGS IN RELATIONSHIPS

Love is a beautiful thing, but not every love story is divine.
Some relationships are sent to grow you, others to warn you.
Sometimes, what looks like love is actually a lesson.

Before you fall too deep, pause and discern.
Because red flags are not decorations; they are divine warnings wrapped in emotions. Below are the following red flags you must take cognizance of before you say "I do!"

1. Love is not blind; people choose to close their eyes.

When you keep making excuses for wrong behavior in the name of love,
you are not being patient, you are being deceived.
True love opens your eyes, but manipulation closes them.

2. A red flag ignored today becomes the heartbreak of tomorrow.

That uneasiness you feel deep down is not overthinking;
it is the Holy Spirit whispering, "My child, be careful."
Do not confuse chemistry with compatibility, or potential with peace.

3. Consistency reveals character.

Anyone can act right in the beginning,
but time unmasks intentions.
Watch how they behave when they no longer need to impress you.
That is when you will see the truth.

4. Love does not silence you.

If you cannot speak, if you always walk on eggshells,
if your voice is shrinking just to keep peace,
you are not in love; you are in bo***ge.
Real love allows freedom, not fear.

5. When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.

Do not rewrite their actions with your emotions.
God often reveals truth early so that pain will not reveal it later.

6. You cannot pray away a red flag you keep entertaining.

Prayer gives discernment, but obedience brings safety.
Do not ask God to bless what He is warning you to leave.
Sometimes love means letting go before it destroys you.

7. A liar in small things will wound you in big ones.

If truth is not in the foundation,
the relationship will crumble no matter how beautiful it looks.
Trust is not built by words; it is built by consistency.

8. Any love that steals your peace is not love.

If you are constantly anxious, crying, or begging to be understood,
it is not God's will.
The love that comes from God does not drain you; it revives you.

9. Stop romanticizing toxicity.

Saying "That is just how they are" is not maturity; it is self-deception.
You cannot heal someone who enjoys being broken.
Do not stay loyal to dysfunction.

10. You deserve love that feels safe.

Love that makes you breathe easier, not question your worth.
The love from God will not confuse you; it will calm you.
You will know it is from Him, not by the butterflies, but by the peace.

Red flags are heaven’s early warnings.
Do not let loneliness make you settle for what will later shatter you.
A relationship that costs your peace is too expensive.

Remember this:
God’s will always aligns with God’s peace.
And when it is truly love, you will not have to force it. It will flow.
It will build.
It will glorify God

A broken courtship is better than a broken home.

Marry well!

©The Olayemis

15/10/2025

Happy birthday sir ! We love you from the relationship Aglow Network family. Please family let's wish him well.

07/10/2025

🌹 RELATIONSHIP AGLOW NETWORK WITH THE OLAYEMI’S 🌹

💍✨ EPISODE 6.0 MARRIAGE SUSTAINABILITY ✨💍

Marriage is not just about finding love; it’s about sustaining love, nurturing growth, and building a future that lasts. Many couples begin with passion but few learn the secrets of longevity. This is why you can’t afford to miss this life-transforming interactive session with Apostle Dr. Joshua & Dr. (Mrs.) Benita Olayemi.

🔥 Get ready to discover:
✅ Principles that keep love fresh and alive
✅ How to handle conflicts without losing connection
✅ God’s blueprint for lasting marriages
✅ Practical steps to strengthen intimacy and trust
✅ Secrets of building a marriage that stands the test of time

📅 Date: Sunday, 12th October 2025
⏰ Time: 8:00 PM Prompt (Online Interactive Session)
🎙️ Hosts: Apostle Dr. Joshua & Dr. (Mrs.) Benita Olayemi

👉 Theme: Marriage Sustainability

This is more than a program, it’s a divine encounter for singles, engaged couples, and married partners who desire to see their unions glow with love, purpose, and peace.

📲 Join Live on WhatsApp
Call or WhatsApp: 07031106076, 07035451638

💡 Don’t just dream of a lasting marriage, learn how to build and sustain it!

06/10/2025

THE HIDDEN CONSEQUENCES OF CONTRACEPTIVES AND CONDOMS

The other day, as I walked through the market, my heart broke.
I saw an NGO, men and women, with bold banners and bright smiles, distributing condoms freely to young people. They said they were protecting lives, saving the youth, promoting health. But deep within me, I heard the Spirit of God whisper, “This is not protection. This is corruption dressed as compassion.”

They were not just sharing condoms; they were planting seeds of moral decay.
They were not just promoting health; they were encouraging sin and silencing conviction.

Beloved, this is the tragedy of our generation, a world that teaches people how to sin safely instead of teaching them how to live righteously.

They say, “Use protection.” But the Word of God says:

“Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.” ( 1 Corinthians 6:18)

God never asked us to manage sin; He asked us to run from it.
No amount of latex can cover a guilty conscience. No contraceptive can protect the soul from spiritual death.

When NGOs and organizations go to markets, schools, and communities to hand out condoms and contraceptives, they are not solving a problem, they are shifting the boundary stones of holiness. They are telling our sons and daughters, “You can enjoy sin, just do it safely.”

But hear me: there is no safety in sin.
There is no condom strong enough to protect a soul from the wrath of God.
“For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:2)

Beloved, condoms can prevent pregnancy, but they cannot prevent perversion.
They may stop a disease, but they cannot stop defilement.
They may reduce infection, but they cannot remove iniquity.

This is why we must go back to the Akanpeers, the Heart of Man.
Until the heart changes, behavior cannot change.
Until a man’s heart is purified, he will always look for new ways to sin.

The Bible says:“Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.” Psalm 51:10

The solution is not distribution, it is transformation.
The answer is not condoms, it is conversion.
The need is not protection, it is purity.

When the Holy Spirit changes a person’s heart, everything changes, the mind, the desires, the choices.
That’s why Jesus said: “Blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall see God.” — Matthew 5:8

We must rise and cry out again for purity in this generation.
We must warn our youth: God’s plan is not “safe sin,” but sanctified living.
He calls us to holiness, not just to health.
“Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness.” Isaiah 5:20

When a society normalizes fornication and wraps it in health campaigns, that society is in danger. Because sin, no matter how well packaged, still separates man from God.

Our message must return to the cross, not condoms.
To repentance, not reproductive control.
To holiness, not human wisdom.

So today I call on every believer, every parent, every youth leader, every pastor:
Let us stop endorsing “safe sin.” Let us preach heart change.
Let us call the world back to purity, because true freedom is not the liberty to sin without consequence, it is the power to live above sin through Christ.
“If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.” John 8:36

© Dr. Mrs. Benita Joshua Olayemi
Ceo of the Olayemis advocacy foundation
( Sexual puritan)

05/10/2025

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

CAN A LADY VISIT A MAN IN HIS APARTMENT OR AN HOTEL?

Some girls, let me say ladies, have been asking if they can go visit a man who showed interest in them. Some of the men have never visited the lady once, some visited only once while others met theirs online and the man is putting pressure to come and see him especially in an hotel.

Honestly speaking, the high level of some ladies' st*pidity is alarming! You don't know a man from Adam! You met him online and he is putting pressure on you to come visiting in a hotel and you want to carry your two legs there???

No one has seen him with you! Nobody! Your parents, family members, friends, counsellor, Pastor have never met this man for once! For God's sake, where will you tell your parents you are going? Do you listen to yourself talkless of the news? Have you never heard stories of headless, lifeless bodies of ladies by the roadside, in the gutter or bush? Are you blind, deaf and dumb? Has your brain be suspended from thinking? Or you don't know ritualists are on the increase?

Okay, he came once! Visited you just once! And he wants you to come to his house and the guy goes completely crazy or malicious because you refuse to visit him in his apartment! You better use your senses dear! Let him visit you at least five times with your parents and siblings knowing everything they need to know about him before you step out of your father's house to meet somewhere in public once! I didn't say his apartment, I say public! Until you are safe, never visit any man who claims to be your fiance. That's how a lot of ladies end up becoming r@pe victims! Receive sense in Jesus' name!

I don't know what is wrong with some guys who put pressure on ladies to come to their bed, sorry, apartment shortly after meeting them. What's wrong with your p£nis? Why can't you control it once you set your eyes on a walking female figure?

Some ladies go spend days or weeks in a man's house, a man they are not married to and do everything degrading whatsoever till all her self esteem is completely destroyed!

Oh honey, why don't you just treat yourself like a real queen, let him pay your bride price and wed you properly before carrying out your marital responsibility with dignity and honour?

When a man gets milk for free, why will he buy the cow?

Please, get some sense, puuuleeeeaaaze!!!

Some questions you ask are unnecessary. You yourself know the answer. Check your heart!

May you not end up a victim.

Be blessed!

© Seun Oladele.

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