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Health and Relationship Tips, Lekki, Eko (2025)

12/06/2024

Good morning sir ,
Please post for me and conceal my identity .
This isn’t my account though
I’m a Nigerian graduate and I do an online business to assist myself and I’m 25 years old.
I and my bf have been dating for 3 years , during the first 2 years plus he wasn’t supporting me financially., in 2 years he only gave me money twice to make my hair , whenever I asked for assistance he would ghost me for days (cut off communication with me for days) and wouldn’t give me anything.,,sometimes he would promise me things on his own but he wouldn’t do them and will disapp0int me big time, (I was still a student then tho)since I had a way of supporting myself I didn’t really care much but I was bothered as to why he would say he loves me and doesn’t support me in the little way he can , I’d get him gifts and I’ve sent him money too when he was d0wn financially ..,, so this year like 3 months ago(this is our 3rd year together) he changed and started giving me money like 30k,20k.
Let’s say he has given me like 70k in total but the thing is I’d give him too like 100k, 50k and I’d get him gifts too
He told me we would be supporting each other and he had changed but I’m scar3d if this is true because we’ve br0ken up many times and reconciled after he begged with t3ars in his eyes
Now the problem is I think I’m giving him more than expected ,the truth is he’s super rich so money isn’t his problem , he doesn’t want me to leave him because he loves me and all that but these days he keeps saying he has no money when I asked him to give me some money to get my hair done.
This week his boy had asked him for money and he gave him same day he asked , whereas I’ve been asking him for weeks and he said he’s not financially stable for now .
Does it mean he doesn’t prioritize me??
I support him too because I don’t wanna be the kind of girl that doesn’t bring anything to the table.
Whenever he’s in need of money I’d send him money if I have ,he’s rich tho but you know sometimes u can get br0ke so I’d assist him
I’ve never ch3ated on him all these years
Pls advise me responsibly 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Does he love me ??
I’ve money to get my hair done but I just want my bf to atleast assist me too , I don’t want the relationship to be one sided you know , as a result of how he always ghosted me in the past whenever I asked him for the least amount I get scar3d till date whenever I wanna ask him for anything because of the f3ar of being ghosted on ,he’d give money to many people but not me

11/06/2024

Good morning admin, I salute you. Plz, hide my ID. My husband is an engineer and a lecturer and I am federal government worker with three kids( two boys and one girl). My husband is 43,and I am 38. This is 11 years old marriage and legally both tradition and white wedding but we are from different states. My father in-law and mother in-law are both alive.They have 9 children including my husband as the first, three girls and 6 boys. They do things in their family without my knowledge. Nobody carries me along. They call me when they need money. My husband includes me when he knows he cannot afford to give them. The sisters ins*ult me anyhow including their mother. The family us3 my husband as a rag. if I talk my MIL (mother in law ) will sparkk like fiire. presently, my husband is training his three siblings in the University. Two have graduated , trained by him. He does not feed us well except if i do. presently, our house rent has expired and he said he does not have cash to pay. Imagine the bul$hit! But he is paying achool fees and house rent for his siblings. Because he rented an apartment for them outside the campus. If I did not pay school fees nor house rent, he will not pay. I mentioned it to his mum and the woman told me to use my money and pay. That they suff.ered to train my husband in the University. It Is his turn to train his siblings now. That I should not complain. Always borrowing money to take care of his family. He went and opened cement business in the village without my knowledge and the business did not last for one year. I later realized that my MIL told him not to tell me. I bought a land 4M and he had refused to help me develop that land til today rather he told me to be patient till he finished training his siblings in d university. He drives my car around without fueling it. He wears non.sense clothes around. Sometime I will be asham3d of myself. This will make me to shop some good wears for him. But for how long? He prefers to protect his family and siblings than me and my children. One of his sisters was impr3gnanted by one of our security guards, a student too. Do u know that up til today, no body told me about it including my husband. I heard it outside and I pretended that I did not hear. Sir this is the height of it. My husband bought a bike for his brother without my knowledge until he had an acciident with it. All the family call my husband every day but no body call me , ask of my kids. Are they using him or what? Can this be charm? who will help me? And I don't hear their language that is the worst of it. Even my kids call him a wic.ked father but I will tell them to keep quite. They are 10, 8 and 6. If I travel for official assignment, they will cry because of the ill trea.tment of their father. He does not take care of them nor do their assignments. A lecturer for that matter. He wears one boxers from January to December except if i replace them. Why are they wic.ked to me including my husband?

The family does not use eyes to see my family including my husband. This is Four years now he does not call my people. My dad di.ed four years ago and my husband did not contribute one naira for his funeral. For how long will i cover up that all is well? I want to secretly seek for transfer to my state and run away with my kids without him knowing. I am tir3d of the situation. Pls advise me

11/06/2024

Good evening sir. Please post for me and hide my I'd...
I did something really stv-pid and I feel like slappping myself now. I don't normally do that,I don't know what came over me.
My ex is using my nvdes to thr3aten me.
When we were dating I sent him a picture of my br3asts ( my face didn't show), and he's using it to blackkmail me now. He thr3aten to post it online unless I sle3p with him. But I told him no and that he should do what he wants... seriously im just pretending to be hard because I don't want him to feel that im scar3d or w3ak.
But im really scar3d sir,I don't want my present boyfriend ( we're engaged) to find out, so he won't think I'm loose.
My ex is thr3atening to post the picture online
I told him to go ahead because my face didn't show and that no one will believe him, But he's saying they will believe because the chat was from my Facebook account ...
I'm now scar3d
My face didn't show in the picture but how would I defend the picture because I sent it myself from my account.,..
I don't want to disgr@ce my mom..
Since I and my present boyfriend have done introduction already….
This is the first nvde picture I've ever sent to someone in my life..
I'm confus3d, Pls help me house

10/06/2024

Please help me post and hide my id, am a guy. I clocked 35 years this month . I have one lady since about 5 years ago, as soon as we met this lady asked me to come over to her village to meet her family which I did. When I got there ,all her family both father and mother liked me like seriously just that they told me that they want their daughter to travel out of the country for two years , they asked me if I can wait or she should not go. I told them that I will wait , so where I need everybody’s advice now is the girl has spent 5 years there and she usually block me for no reason and sometimes I will beg, beg and beg before she will unblock me. Sometimes she will block me for like six months, now all my family and friends have been disturbing me to get married and she just unblocked me like three weeks ago.
Two years ago she told me that she has one guy that he’s ready to get married to her, that it’s the guy that helped her to get papers of the country she is living in. She said she doesn't love the guy for anything , she told me to do my papers and come over to where she is so that we can start our life together there. Later she told me to do another country visa that she will come over and meet me when I get there . She said the country she is there is no work like that. The big problem I have now is that since she unblocked me three weeks ago she said she lost her job said, that she is looking for a new job and she doesn’t have time for me. I am ready to process my visa to another country and ask her to come and meet me there but my f£ar is I don't no if the girl still love me like before because I love the girl more than anything in my life. Pls I need advice. Thanks , pls let me know when you post.

09/06/2024

Good day admin. Please post urgently for me and hide my id. I saw a chat between my husband and his elder sister. My husband is 34 years, i am 28 years old. I gave birth last month and my mum came for omugwo. 2 years of marriage. My husband was telling his sister that since my mother came, our house aroma changed. That my mum has thick body od0ur, that he is feeling for our son that my mother do bath and carry him around the house and he can't wait for her to leave. So his sister was now laughing. She was telling him that what does he expect from a village w0man. He told her that he doesn't like getting close to my mum, that he talks to her from a distance. Sir, I am very angrry at my husband and I want to confront him. What should I do? This is our first child.

09/06/2024

Hello sir please I need advice and pls hide my ID.....I have been dating this guy for a year+ now and I really love him so much nd he loves me too ,he's so caring nd understanding but Sir the thing is that he doesn't give me money but he only advice me to hustle, since I met him he has never surprise me with anything like gift and I have been an understanding girlfriend to him. We are going to two years now in the relationship ...but last year I met another guy who is married with two kids in Nigeria, meanwhile I base here in south- Africa...so I started dating this guy secretly without my boyfriend knowing...and this very particular guy is so caring, he gifts me and also help me with my families needs..so the dating has been going on…now finally I got pr3gnant for him ..sir the thing is that I wanted to ab0rt the baby but he refused me doing the ab0rtion ...he's saying that he want's the baby and he will marry me as second wife and will take good care of me and my youngers siblings...now the pr0blem is that I dont love this very particular guy to the extent of marrying him ...I love the first guy so much and he's very serious about me but the main reason why i ch3ated on him at first was that he doesn't take care of my needs but he loves me very much aside that....Back to this second guy he is so serious to the extent he told all his family members about the pr3gnancy and now he's thr3atening me ..saying that if anything should happen to the baby ..he will be the one to personally return my d3ad body to Nigeria and sir am so scar3d and confus3d. At the same time am thinking about my first guy because he's not ready to let me go..because he has been saying he has plans for me and ready to marry me and he's so serious about it ...how am i gonna break the news to my first guy now ...am confus3d , please I need advice.

09/06/2024

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Please help me post. My husband dated this lady while he was in secondary school. They both lost contact they reconnected back through their old school WhatsApp group. Mum Fegor since my husband reconnected back with this lady it has been problem. This lady is divorced and she now uses my husband as her husband. Once my husband hears her calling he will start behaving like she’s the queen of the world. This woman has practically stole my husband away from me. I called her last week to leave my husband alone and when she told my husband my husband said I must apologize to her, that I have no right to call her. Mummy we have 4 kids together, I don’t even know what to do, I saw a message my husband sent to her that how I wish he saw her he would’n have married me. My husband stopped eating in the house and act like I don’t exist until I call the lady. My husband said he have right to marry as many woman as he likes and I can’t stop him. Help me, the house we are living in is built by the both of us. What should I do, I don’t want to loose my husband to another woman. I am 44, my husband is 45 while the woman is 48.

08/06/2024

Good evening admin hide my ID and post for me ,am Zambian lady aged 30yrs. In 2022 I met this man whom we started dating , now last year September the guy got a chance of going to a certain military training which is supposed to last for one year, now my issue is since the time my guy went for his training he has never communicated . I hear my other friends they do talk to their partners at least maybe for a minute but for me since that day he went ,we just spoke or communicated when he reached up to now .I have tried to ask other people are there things like that one can be there for the whole year , not even a chance to check on his family/loved ones or maybe he has nothing to do with me ,now the responses I got were discouraging me that those people who go there they do change mind to the ladies they use to date because they have found their levels and class.
Am heartbro0ken now am asking for advice what should I do , should I continue to wait for him coz mwandi am confus3d and s1ck.
Note that he has not graduated or pass out….thank you

07/06/2024

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Good evening, mother is 56 years old and my father is 60. I caught my mother ch€ating with a married man who is younger than her. This man is not up to 40 years. I’m the oldest child of 4, when I found out through her phone My God! I was shaken i couldn‘t believe it in the first place, i have to pinched my self, my mother telling him she loves the way he f cked her😭that she can’t live without him😭I don’t know how to tell my siblings this. I have investigated this and they have been seeing each other for long now. I am ashamed and felt pity for my dad. I knew their marriage hadn’t been great, but it saddened me that she could do this to him. i kept this all to myself simply becos i really trusted n loved my mum. What should I do , I’m 27 years old and confused.

05/06/2024

Good morning sir. Please hide my id. I'm a lady aged 31 living in Lusaka Zambia, am seeing a man aged 32, he's still 31 though since his birthday is in September. I work as a Nurse & my boyfriend works at a private institution. We have been seeing each other for over 8 months now i.e since September last year. I met my boyfriend at church, he plays the piano while I sing praises. I knew him since 2021 when he started making advances on me but I always used to ignore him coz I thought he was a play boy because of his looks (he's very handsome). Last year I was compelled to accept his proposal because he always wanted to be closer to me & when I go quiet he'll write me a text saying I'm ignoring him. Problem that brought me here is when I asked him when he wants to settle he told me he's still putting things together since marriage is a life long commitment & since he's not a lady those going into marriage. He's also one person that has never given me money, apart from the money I asked him when I got stuck when fuel finished on the way as I was driving. Sometimes when I ask him for help when I'm stuck, he'll not give me & he seems br0ke most of the time. Note he hasn't been to any college & I don't know his salary but what I know is that in my country, people who work in the private sector get more money than those in the government. Though talking from things he has in his house, they're like those of someone who doesn't have a stable job.One thing I like about him is that is that he's s3xually disciplined. I have spent about 3 nights at his place & when he asks if he can touch me, I tell him we can't have s3x outside marriage & he doesn't pressurize me further . 4th time I asked to spend a night at his place since I was stuck with where to sleep, he made it clear to me that it should be the last time because he can't continue spending continuous nights with a lady he hasn't married yet. Pls Help me to check if this relationship has a future & if I should give him time to make more money since he doesn't seem to have enough. Note: he tells me how even his family wants him to get a woman he can marry. Sorry for the long message but I want clarification. God bless

05/06/2024

Hi sir,post for me please but hide my ldentity. Once upon a time l used to live with my dad and step mum, a time came when dad feel siick and diied,l felt insecure in the hands of my step mother,l explained the matter to my high school principal who took me to stay with her in the convent because she was amu, after my form four exams l had to find out where my real mum was, eventually I found her but she was not in position of furthering my education, too baad for me, this step mother knowing that l’m a girl and l might get married,she bewiitched me never to get a husband, whenever l fall in love with anyman, after getting pregnant, the man developed that rej3ction spirit towards me,coz l fear God l had never attempted to carry out ab0rtion,so l have four kids from different guys,also i’m b0red with this kind of life i’m in. Men are still proposing to me for marriage but l fear the rejecti0n might continue,l have tried to speak to my step mother to find favor in her,her response is l don't know you , like wise to my step siblings. May l have advise from the group please, am so ups3t. Pls what can I do to remove the spirit of rejecti0n from my life ?

04/06/2024

Good morning sir please post and hide my I'd, I got married to my husband about 5yrs now, but I have not miss period with him before, and kept telling me that if he discovered that am the cause of this childlessness we are going to divorce I said no problem, but right now he doesn't care about me anymore, he is running after another girl he doesn't give me feeding money again he insultts and also abus3 me openly, he keeps late night, so one day he went to see a native doctor with me knowing when he came back he said the native doctor told him that his ex girlfriend vowed that he will not hear the cry of a baby, someone invited us again to church the pastor still told him that, he slept with his ex and the lady took his sp3rms to their altar and vow that he will not hear the cry of a baby, we went to hospital they did some tests and discovered that my husband didn't have reproductive sp3rm in his system. What should I do ? I need advice , please am 40yrs and he’s 42yrs

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