11/09/2022
COSTLY MISTAKES SINGLE LADIES USUALLY MAKE.
PASTOR MILDRED KINGSLEY OKONKWO.
There are so many things that I see single ladies do that are jeopardizing their chances of changing their status.
*Being desperate: So many ladies are making alot of mistake and one of them is desperation. Most ladies donot know that men can smell desperation a mile away. When you make decisions when you are desperate, you will end up making the worst mistake ever.
Desperation will make you choose people you have no business being in a relationship with them. Don't rush into marriage or relationship because you think you are the only one that is not doing anything, so because of that, it makes you look awkward in the midst of your friends, you need to understand that you are the one going into that marriage not your friends.
Desperation makes you do stupid things. Don't do things you would not normally do just because you are desperate to be in a relationship.
Most ladies end up giving in their bodies due to desperation. You need to understand that men are not externally motivated, they are internally motivated, so no matter what you do, if a man does not like you, he won't force himself to like you, because a man has to genuinely love you before he will think of being in a relationship with you.
Please don't lower your standard because you desperately want to be in a relationship.
* Having unrealistic list: most times, the list people write, is not actually what they need, you need to know that no man can have everything all to himself, he must be lacking at least in one aspect of his life, he must not be all that perfect, so when you are looking for a partner, think of someone that is really accessible.
* Having premarital s*x: The Great mistake a lady can ever make is to sleep with a man she is not yet married to. Most ladies think that they can change a man's mind by sleeping with him. Please premarital s*x is not good, so avoid it.
* Fighting everybody when you finally find someone you want to marry: Because you think you are in love, nobody can talk you out of that relationship if it is not moving fine. Please stop fighting people that are really looking out for you.
Don't fight every important person in your life because you think you have met "the one"
