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Helping couples heal, reconnect & build love that lasts
As a Marriage & Premarital Counsellor and Couples Coach, I guide partners toward emotional clarity, healthy communication & mental well-being in every relationship.

12/10/2025

You don't have to worry about any matters of the heart concerns when I'm here, no no no! I g*t you 💯

If you can't find me here, you'll find me on Facebook, X and even on Google (yes I'm Google verified and that's where most of my abroad clients connects with me).

Now understand this, nobody said you'll never have issues in your marriage or relationship and that's not the problem but how you deal with these issues is a problem.
There's no book anywhere in the world that gives you a blueprint you'll not have any issues concerning matters of the heart, but there's always a book to guide you on how to deal with your matters of the heart concerns and get back your bliss. And this is where I come in guys, to help you deal with these issues and get a resolve.

There's no shame in coming for marriage counselling, mental wellbeing therapy or investing in your marriage by committing to do premarital counselling class.

Marriage counselling has helped thousands of couples resolve their marriage challenges. So don't wait until things gets bad before you seek help.
In my years of practicing, I have acquired more knowledge on how to deal with matters of the heart concerns, and I can't wait to give you this knowledge.

Now, all you have to do is book a session, and I made the price affordable for anyone willing to prioritize their happiness and get back their peace of mind. The result is bigger than the price, but I don't mind, I'll be rewarded fully when I see you giving me a testimonial after our session😉

Visit the link in the bio to view session packages or dm for consultation and inquiry

Communication is critical in any relationship but imperative in a marriage. When you’re married, you’re sharing your lif...
10/10/2025

Communication is critical in any relationship but imperative in a marriage. When you’re married, you’re sharing your life with someone else, and you need to communicate effectively to ensure both of your needs are met.

IMPORTANCE OF EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION:
1. Reduces misunderstandings; Misunderstandings can be a common occurrence in any relationship, especially in marriage. These misunderstandings can lead to anger, resentment, and even divorce when these misunderstandings occur. To combat this, we must learn how to avoid misunderstandings and deal with them when they happen.
One fundamental way to avoid misunderstandings is by respectfully communicating our needs and feelings with each other.

2. Builds respect and trust: Respect is critical in any relationship–be it with a spouse, friend, or family member. However, it’s important to remember that respect starts with listening. When you genuinely listen to your partner, you show them that you value their opinion and care about what they say. That is the first step towards building a respectful relationship where both partners feel heard and valued.

3. No need to keep guessing what is said; Keeping communication open in a marriage can be challenging, especially when things get tough. Please don’t assume you know what’s going on in your spouse’s head–talk to them! Please find out the truth behind their stories and work together to find solutions. Marriage is hard, but there are ways to make it easier. Clear communication also saves time in a relationship, as you won’t leave your partner guessing the meanings of your words.

The complete newsletter on "effective communication in marriage" will be available to you when you work with us on restoring your marital bliss (couple counselling)
There's no way you'll work with me and not come back to drop a testimonial 💯
Click on the link in bio for session packages and booking or send a DM for free consultation on sessions booking

✨ Why You Should Prioritize Yourself First, Even in Love ✨As a marriage counselor and therapist, I often remind couples:...
07/10/2025

✨ Why You Should Prioritize Yourself First, Even in Love ✨

As a marriage counselor and therapist, I often remind couples: "You can't pour from an empty cup."

When you constantly give to others your partner, children, work and forget yourself, you're slowly draining the core of your emotional and mental well-being.

💭 Prioritizing yourself isn't selfish. It's survival.

Here’s why it matters:
✅ When you’re whole, your relationships thrive.
✅ You become more emotionally available to love and be loved.
✅ You model healthy self-respect, boundaries, and confidence.
✅ You reduce burnout, resentment, and emotional fatigue.

🧠 Therapy teaches this: Healing starts inward. Growth begins with you.
Whether single or married, don’t lose you trying to keep everyone else happy.

📌 Prioritize your rest.
📌 Invest in your peace.
📌 Make space for your passions and purpose.

A better you = a better “us.”

Have you been neglecting yourself lately? Let's talk about it in therapy.

03/10/2025

Imagine if she had pursued after the man that took her phone.

“Society is set up to satisfy business interests, not family interests,” but then we all see the mess it's creating in f...
03/10/2025

“Society is set up to satisfy business interests, not family interests,” but then we all see the mess it's creating in families today. Broken relationship and marriages everyday, because we give our business the best attention and feed the family with the crumbs.

Nobody is going to make your marriage a Blissful marriage except you make it your duty to create that bliss you want. Since married people are now dictating who's job is it to tolerate, communicate and commit to the marriage, your marriage will always face unresolved issues which will pill up and lead to resentment that will eventually end in divorce or separation.

As you invest in your business and give it attention, also invest in your marriage and relationship and give it attention. Don't wait till when there's too many issues, then you start seeking solution to resolve it.

Go for marital counselling or relationship counselling, it gives room to speaking up things in your mind that has been disturbing you and it also helps your partner to understand you more and pay attention to their challenges.

In all these it's your choice to create a Blissful marriage but don't forget I can also help you achieve that.
Click on the link in bio to book a session today, don't wait till it becomes a fight and your mental health is involved before getting a certified marriage counselor to help you.

26/09/2025

Imagine in few years to come, this is how your children's friends talk about you as their parents.

If you like keep misbehaving online calling it content, keep doing "don't tell an adult how to dress or live their life".

Oloriburuku!
Video not mine

19/09/2025

Sensitive Video
Saw this video online and this doesn't sit well at all.

Instagram; this video is for educational purposes and awareness.

We need to dey show workings all the time, the heart of your business is the testimonials and recommendations. That's yo...
25/03/2025

We need to dey show workings all the time, the heart of your business is the testimonials and recommendations. That's your proof that you're putting in your best in your brand.

I almost forgot this testimonial from our last year Dec couple premarital class batch. Now I don post make you see my handiwork na🫡

When we share testimonials like this it encourages someone in doubt to make up their mind in booking a session, now if you're still in doubt of investing in your marriage by coming for a premarital counselling class before your wedding, here's your proof you need to come book your premarital counselling session quickly and today.

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This year be intentionalChoose your happiness first!Go for Marriage Counselling Session!Go for Couple Coaching!Go for pr...
24/03/2025

This year be intentional
Choose your happiness first!
Go for Marriage Counselling Session!
Go for Couple Coaching!
Go for premarital counselling before your wedding!
Go for Mental Wellbeing Therapy!
Spice Up your S*x Life and Intimacy

Make an effort to be a better husband/wife!
Be committed to your partner!
Make it work and let the work start from you being intentional.

life is like a box of goodies, you never know what you’re going to fall for”. And love relationships are the same: you n...
18/03/2025

life is like a box of goodies, you never know what you’re going to fall for”.
And love relationships are the same: you never know what or who you will be able to fall! 

Some people end up meeting the love of their life and live a stable and balanced love relationship, based on the principles of respect, sharing, devotion; others on the other hand, have more trouble and sometimes fall on real “pearls”! Men who do not spare you or your feelings and you know this man it's not someone to fall for.

Here is overview of men not to marry especially if you want to be and stay happy: Read the slides.

Join our singles path to love and it's the best thing you did for yourself this year. Don't let this year end without you getting ready for what you want for yourself.
Send a DM for consultation and enquiry on booking.





You’ve heard it a million times but it bears repeating: even the strongest relationships face challenges.Here are some t...
17/03/2025

You’ve heard it a million times but it bears repeating: even the strongest relationships face challenges.

Here are some tips to get you started, whether you’re dealing with the fallout from a betrayal or trying to keep your marriage going.

1. *Take full responsibility if you’re at fault*

If there has been infidelity or trust has been broken, it’s important to take full responsibility for what happened and be understanding of how your behavior hurt your partner.

Avoid becoming defensive or sidestepping your mistake, but don’t fall into self-loathing either. “You should own it in a loving way that creates the space to start to rebuild trust,”.

2. *Give your partner the opportunity to win your trust back*

While you have every right to feel hurt and angry, there should be a desire to work on the relationship.
“Trust can never be restored until the person whose trust was broken allows their partner a chance to earn it back,”.

3. *Learn to compromise*

All relationships require give and take. When you’re living in close quarters, being accommodating of the other person’s needs and preferences without sacrificing your own can help foster more happiness and fulfillment.

5. *Engage in affectionate physical contact*
regularly hug each other in a fully present and connected way. Holding hands or hugging releases oxytocin which can reduce stress and boost your mood.

Listen my dears, picking up the pieces after a big fight can feel like an impossible task. Try these techniques to help you both move forward.

It’s also wise to make sure everyone involved is committed to saving the relationship. If you’re the only one willing to put in the work, reconciliation probably isn’t likely.

Reviving your love it's a gradual process, as far as you both work together the love or affection that has drifted will be revived in no time.

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12/03/2025

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