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15/12/2025

A WORD FOR WOMEN WHO WANT A PEACEFUL, LASTING HOME
by Ogwuche Godwin- Marriage Counselor, Therapist & Coach
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Let me speak to you from my heart as a counselor.

Many relationships and marriages are not breaking because of witches or enemies. They are breaking because of attitude.

A woman who is always harsh, stubborn, disrespectful, and unyielding slowly drains the life out of her relationship. When you don’t listen, when everything must be your way, when correction feels like insult, and submission feels like weakness, love will struggle to breathe.

Disrespect kills affection. Harsh words kill desire. Stubbornness blocks growth. Disobedience and pride invite constant conflict.

No man feels safe, respected, or motivated in an environment where he is constantly shouted down, corrected aggressively, or treated as irrelevant. Even a loving man will withdraw emotionally when he feels constantly dishonored.

Submission is not slavery. It is wisdom, humility, and strength under control. Respect does not make you small; it makes your home strong.

If you truly desire peace, learn to listen. Learn to speak gently. Learn to choose wisdom over ego. Learn to be teachable. A soft answer still turns away wrath.

And if you see yourself in this message, don’t be defensive; be intentional. Change is possible. Healing is possible. Growth is possible.

A wise woman builds her home. An unyielding attitude pulls it down with her own hands.

If you need guidance, counseling, or support to become a better partner and build a healthier relationship, help is available. Don’t walk this journey alone.

Ogwuche Godwin
GoRu Marriage Academy

15/12/2025

A CANDID ADVICE FOR MEN WHO DESIRE TO BUILD A HAPPY, STRONG AND LASTING MARRIAGE
by Ogwuche Godwin- Marriage Counselor, Therapist and Coach
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My brothers, I want to speak to you with love, sincerity, and responsibility.

Many marriages today are struggling, not because most of the women are too difficult, but because leadership is missing, weak, or unhealthy. And as men, we must be honest enough to accept this: the weight of leadership in marriage rests more on the man.

Leadership is not shouting. Leadership is not controlling. Leadership is not intimidation. Leadership is not silence, neglect, or emotional absence.

Leadership is responsibility. As a man, your wife will often respond to how you lead, how you speak, how you treat her, and how safe she feels with you. Many men focus only on their wife’s reactions but refuse to look inward at their own actions.

Ask yourself:
Do I speak to my wife with respect, even when I’m angry?

Do I listen to her and validate her feelings, or do I shut her down?

Do I correct with love, or with insults and harshness?

Do I make her feel loved, valued, cherished, appreciated, or tolerated?

Do I lead by example, or by fear?

A good leader is loving, patient, and emotionally present. A good leader is one who is emotionally intelligent, mature and stable. A good leader sets the tone of peace in the home. A good leader protects his wife emotionally, mentally, and physically. A good leader takes responsibility when things are not working, instead of blaming all the time.

Many women become harsh, withdrawn, disrespectful, or bitter because they are responding to years of emotional neglect, trauma, poor communication, lack of affection, or disrespect from their husbands. This does not excuse wrong behavior, but it explains where some reactions come from.

Men, love your wife intentionally. Be affectionate, caring and romantic, not only when you want s*x. Communicate effectively, not command. Correct gently, not violently. Lead spiritually, emotionally, and practically. Being authoritative, bossy, domineering and controlling is NOT the best way to lead as a husband.

Your wife is not your enemy, she is not a slave, she is not your punch bag, she is your partner. When you lead her right, you make it easier for her to respond right.

Marriage does not break overnight. It breaks slowly through bad leadership, harsh words, pride, wrong behaviours, characters, attitude and emotional distance.

If you want a peaceful home, start with yourself. Change your attitude, character and habits. Check your tone of communication. Heal your ego. Learn to apologize sincerely and accept your faults. Avoid gaslighting and manipulation. Learn to listen, show understanding and empathy.

Strong marriages are built by loving, affectionate, caring, humble, and responsible men.

If you’re struggling to lead well, don’t suffer in silence. Leadership can be learned, healed, and improved. You can become a better husband.

Your marriage can be better, sweet, and lasting; but it starts with you as the leader.

Ogwuche Godwin
GoRu Marriage Academy

11/12/2025

Trust is not built overnight. It is a quiet, steady process. Think of it like a tree; planted with care, watered with honesty, and nurtured with consistency. Every word you keep, every promise you honor, every time you show up when it matters, it all adds up. That is how trust grows.

But here’s the truth: trust can be broken in a second. One careless word, one hidden action, or one betrayal can shake even the strongest bond. And when that happens, it takes effort, patience, and humility to rebuild it.

Here’s something important to remember: trust is not about being perfect. It’s about being reliable, transparent, accountable, and intentional. It’s about showing your love in action, not just in words.

So today, ask yourself:

Am I being consistent in my actions?

Do my words match my promises?

Am I creating an environment where trust can thrive?

Relationships grow when trust is nurtured, and they falter when trust is neglected. Make trust your priority today, and you’ll see the difference it makes.

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10/12/2025

One major issue that damages relationships is not always what happened; but how it was handled.

Many people react emotionally. They raise their voice, shut down, say hurtful words, or walk away without resolving anything. Reactions give temporary relief, but they often create long-term damage.

Healthy relationships are built by people who have learned how to respond, not react. Responding means you pause, think, and choose your words carefully. You express your feelings without attacking. You seek understanding instead of control.

Emotional stability and control is not weakness; it is maturity. When you master your emotions, you protect your relationship. When emotions control you, relationships suffer.

Before you speak today, pause. Before you react, breathe. Before you decide, think long-term.

Strong relationships are not built by perfect people, but by emotionally disciplined people. Choose emotional wisdom today.

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09/12/2025

Let me talk to you honestly today; healthy relationships don’t survive on love alone; they survive on understanding, emotional maturity, and intentional effort.

Many people pray for a good partner, but few prepare to be one. Whether you’re single or married, your ability to listen, communicate calmly, control your emotions, and take responsibility for your actions will either heal your relationship or damage it.

If you’re single, work on yourself now. Heal your wounds. Learn how to communicate without anger. Learn patience. Because marriage does not heal brokenness, it exposes it.

If you’re married, don’t ignore small issues. What you avoid today will become the conflict you fight tomorrow. Talk. Listen. Apologize when you’re wrong. Be kind even when it’s difficult. Love is not proved during happy moments alone, but in how you handle misunderstanding.

Relationships don’t break suddenly; they weaken slowly when care, effort, and emotional connection are neglected.

Today, choose growth. Today, choose understanding. Today, choose to build intentionally.

Your relationship is worth the work.

01/12/2025

THE REAL WORK BEHIND THE BEAUTY
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We admire beautiful marriages, but behind every peaceful home are sacrifices, honest conversations, forgiveness, and intentional decisions no one sees. Love is not sustained by feelings; it’s sustained by daily choices. There will be days your partner doesn’t meet your expectations, days you feel misunderstood or unappreciated. Maturity is choosing wisdom over emotions, peace over pride, teamwork over being right, and building instead of tearing down.

Healthy relationships don’t happen by chance; they are created through intentional work. It’s two people choosing to communicate with respect, listen with empathy, correct with love, apologize when wrong, protect what they’re building, and grow together. Great relationships come from partners who refuse to give up on each other.

You don’t need a perfect partner to have a beautiful marriage; just two willing hearts and humble spirits ready to walk the journey together.

If you’re single, prepare yourself to love, listen, forgive, and build.

If you’re married, invest in your home. Heal where needed, communicate more, reconnect where distance has formed, and love intentionally.

Don't die in silence if your relationship and marriage is not working effectively. Seek for help, support, guidance and counseling from a trusted Counselor and Therapist.

Ogwuche Godwin
Marriage Counselor and Coach
GoRu Marriage Academy

01/12/2025

🌹SPICE YOUR RELATIONSHIP 🌶️
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There should be no dull moments in your marriage. Be intentional every single day about spicing up your relationship. Do small things every day that makes your spouse feel loved, respected, valued, cherished and emotionally safe. Don’t get so busy building your career, business, job, ministry, academics, or any other pursuit that you neglect your marriage and family. Learn to balance things wisely.

What will it profit you if you gain money, influence, power, awards, and certificates; yet lose your spouse and children emotionally or physically? Be wise. What you sow today is exactly what you will reap tomorrow.

Avoid regrets. Invest in your home. Invest in your partner. Invest in your children.

And don’t just give them presents while denying them your presence. Your presence is the real gift that builds connection, peace, and love in the home.

Be intentional! Be present! Be wise! Please spice your relationship! Make your family a priority!

Ogwuche Godwin
Marriage counselor, therapist and coach

18/10/2025

Some time ago, I met a couple who had reached their breaking point. The husband was emotionally distant, and the wife was tired of feeling unseen and unappreciated. They had stopped talking to each other, and even when they did, it always ended in arguments.

One day, the wife said to me, “I think I’m done. Maybe I should just move on and find someone who understands me.” The husband, on the other hand, said quietly, “I don’t know what else to do. Everything I say seems wrong.”

I paused for a moment and asked. “Why do you want to destroy everything you’ve built over the years? Why not look deep within and give peace a chance instead of choosing war?”

Sometimes, it’s not the situation that needs fixing; it’s our heart that needs softening.

You see, that’s how many people treat marriage today. The moment a challenge appears; communication breaks down, love seems cold, or expectations aren’t met; one person starts thinking of leaving or replacing their partner. But the truth is, you don’t fix a problem by running away from it.

Every marriage will face tough moments. Sometimes the person you once adored will frustrate you deeply. But that doesn’t mean the love is gone; it may just mean healing, growth, and understanding are needed. Instead of pointing fingers, take a moment to look inward. Ask yourself, “Where have I not been doing well?”

Then, choose to talk. Not to argue, not to win; but to understand each other again. If it’s too heavy to handle on your own, don’t keep suffering in silence. Seek professional marriage counseling or therapy. That’s what we do at Go-Ru Marriage Counseling and Therapy Services; helping couples find their way back to peace, love, and emotional connection.

Divorce is not always the best solution. In fact, it often becomes one of the most painful decisions made in moments of anger or disappointment. But if your life or safety is in danger, please take a step back, find safety, and seek help; not as an escape, but as a path to healing and possible reconciliation.

Remember this: no marriage becomes beautiful by accident. It’s built by two people who refuse to give up, even when it’s hard.

Ogwuche Godwin
Marriage Counselor, Therapist & Coach
®️Go-Ru Marriage Academy

02/10/2025

WHAT TRUE LOVE REALLY MEANS 🌹❤️

Many people mistake true love for just feelings, butterflies, or the excitement of someone new. But true love is deeper than that. It is not only about what you feel; it is about what you choose and what you do consistently.

True love means choosing to stay when the excitement fades. It means respecting your partner’s feelings, not just your own. It is patience when things are not going your way, supporting each other’s dreams instead of competing, and forgiving quickly so you can move forward.

True love is not perfect people finding each other. It is two imperfect people deciding every day to keep working, growing, and loving.

If you are single, don’t be carried away by sweet words or gifts. Look for actions that prove commitment. If you are married, don’t wait for romance to happen on its own; create it daily with small acts of kindness and understanding.

Love is a verb. It is what you do, not just what you say.

What does true love mean to you?

Ogwuche Godwin
Marriage Counselor, Therapist & Coach
®️ GoRu Marriage Academy

29/09/2025

🌹💞Marriage Is Sweet; If You Sow the Right Seeds

by Ogwuche Godwin
Certified Marriage Counselor and Therapist
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My dear friends, let me tell you the truth as a counselor and therapist: marriage is very sweet, but it all depends on what you put into it. Marriage doesn’t just work by chance; it works because two people decide to work it out intentionally every day.

If you sow love, you will reap affection. If you sow respect, you will reap honor. If you sow faithfulness, you will reap trust. If you sow appreciation, you will reap joy. And when you sow the fear of God, you will reap peace, unity, and lasting happiness in your home.

Don’t let anyone deceive you that marriage is a necessary evil; it is not. What spoils marriages are the wrong seeds couples keep sowing: pride, neglect, selfishness, disrespect, unfaithfulness, bitterness. If you sow these things, you will reap pain and regret.

But if you decide today, as husband and wife, to love genuinely, to honor, to value, to support, to forgive quickly, to be faithful, to communicate, and to keep God at the center; your marriage will not only survive, it will flourish.

I’ve seen marriages that were bitter turn sweet. I’ve seen couples on the brink of divorce reconnect and glow again. And I can tell you, if you choose to obey the principles of a healthy relationship, you too can build a godly, happy, strong, and lasting marriage.

Marriage is not magic; marriage is what you make of it. Sow rightly, and you will reap joyfully.

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✍️ Mr. Ogwuche Godwin
®️Go-Ru Marriage Academy

12/07/2025

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Whether you're single, dating, or married, you're not alone.

At GoRu Marriage Counseling & Therapy Services, we provide professional, confidential, and life-transforming sessions tailored just for you.

We offer:
✅ Premarital Counseling
✅ Couples Therapy
✅ S*x & Intimacy Therapy
✅ Mental Health & Emotional Healing
✅ Relationship Coaching
✅ Grief & Trauma Recovery
✅ Conflict Resolution
✅ Addictions & Betrayal Recovery
✅ Purpose Discovery & Mentorship

Whatever you're going through, there is hope, healing, and help available.

Let’s walk this journey together. Your transformation begins here.

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05/05/2025

®️ GoRu Marriage Academy Relationship Tonic
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INTIMACY HEALS

🔥 Counsel: Intimacy isn’t just about s*x; it’s about closeness, attention, showing affection, being romantic, meeting your partner's emotional needs and passionate about your spouse. Be intentional! Reignite the spark! Spicy your relationship! Make love!💞🌹

✝️ “Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.” – 1 Corinthians 7:3 (KJV)

🙏 Prayer: Lord, restore passion and emotional closeness in our marriage.

💬 Quote: “S*x is not just about the body; it’s the glue of hearts in marriage.” – Unknown

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