Go-Ru Marriage Academy

05/05/2025

®️ GoRu Marriage Academy Relationship Tonic
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INTIMACY HEALS

🔥 Counsel: Intimacy isn’t just about s*x; it’s about closeness, attention, showing affection, being romantic, meeting your partner's emotional needs and passionate about your spouse. Be intentional! Reignite the spark! Spicy your relationship! Make love!💞🌹

✝️ “Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.” – 1 Corinthians 7:3 (KJV)

🙏 Prayer: Lord, restore passion and emotional closeness in our marriage.

💬 Quote: “Sex is not just about the body; it’s the glue of hearts in marriage.” – Unknown

For Counseling, Therapy, Coaching and Mentorship Sessions, Contact:

Ogwuche Godwin
Marriage Counselor, Therapist and Coach

05/05/2025

®️ GoRu Marriage Academy Relationship Tonic
Learn, Thrive and Grow
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TALK, DON'T ASSUME!

*Counsel:* Don’t assume; ask. Don’t guess; talk. Healthy and effective communication clears confusion and strengthens connection between partners. Assumption and lack of communication destroys relationships and marriages. Don't conclude on what you have not verified from your partner.

✝️ “Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt…” – Colossians 4:6 (KJV)

🙏 *Prayer:* Father, teach me to express myself in love and not in anger.

*Quote:* “A lack of communication breeds assumptions of what the other is thinking.” – Unknown

For Counseling, Therapy, Coaching and Mentorship Sessions, Contact:

Ogwuche Godwin
Marriage Counselor, Therapist and Coach

27/03/2025

Is Your Marriage on the Brink? Let’s Rebuild It Together!

Are you feeling disconnected from your spouse? Are constant arguments, misunderstandings, or unresolved issues tearing your marriage apart? You don’t have to go through this alone.

I’m Mr. Ogwuche Godwin, a certified Marriage Counselor, Therapist, and Coach, and I specialize in helping couples heal, reconnect, and restore love in their marriages. No matter how deep the wounds may be, with the right guidance, your relationship can thrive again.

Our counseling and therapy sesions are highly confidential, empathetic, non judgemental and solution driven. Through of our counseling and therapy sesions, we help and support you to;

✅ Overcome communication barriers
✅ Reignite intimacy and passion
✅ Resolve conflicts with understanding
✅ Build a marriage filled with love and trust

Your marriage is worth saving! Take the first step today, reach out for professional counseling, therapy, and coaching sessions designed to help you rediscover joy in your marriage.

📞 Call or WhatsApp: +2348139450328
📧 Email: gorumarriageacademy@gmail.com

A happy marriage is possible—let’s work on it together!

17/02/2025

Marriage is like a walk in the park...

Jurassic Park!

You start out all excited, holding hands, and enjoying the scenery...🥰

But then, you encounter the first obstacle: the 'In-Laws-osaurus'!🤣

If you survive that, you'll face the 'Chore-o-saurus', the 'Bill-o-saurus', and the 'Who-Left-The-Toilet-Seat-Up-saurus'!🤣

But don't worry, with love, patience, and a sense of humor, you'll make it through the park... together!🌹

17/02/2025

SINGLES, LISTEN UP!

While waiting for your 'boo', don't forget to 'boo-ster' your relationship with God!

Love Him, serve Him, and build a foundation with Christ. Trust me, He's the best 'bae' you'll ever have!

Remember, a strong connection with God = a strong foundation for your future relationships.

Stay focused, stay faithful, and stay fabulous!

17/02/2025

SINGLES, GET READY!

Marriage isn't a 'trial-and-error' game! It's a beautiful, lifelong commitment that requires preparation, patience, and prayer.

While waiting for 'the one', work on becoming 'the one'!

Focus on personal growth, emotional maturity, and effective communication. These are the keys to a happy, healthy, and holy marriage!

Don't settle for less; pray for the best! And when you find 'the one', make sure you're both ready to build a strong, God-centered relationship.

A successful, happy, loving, sweet, model and fulfilling marriage is possible if you lay a solid foundation and build on it.

Stay prepared, stay prayerful, and stay positive!

17/02/2025

BUILDING A HOLY MATRIMONY

As you journey together in marriage, remember that your love story is not just about you and your partner, but about the Three-Stranded Cord that makes your bond unbreakable (Ecclesiastes 4:12).

Christ is the foundation, the cornerstone, and the glue that holds your relationship together. When He is at the center, your marriage becomes a beautiful reflection of His love.

Here are some keys to building a holy matrimony:

1. PRAY TOGETHER: Invite God into your daily conversations and decisions.

2. STUDY SCRIPTURE: Learn from God's Word and apply its wisdom to your relationship.

3. SERVE TOGETHER: Use your gifts and talents to serve others and grow together.

4. FORGIVE AND LOVE: Extend grace, mercy, and unconditional love to each other.

As you prioritize Christ in your marriage, you'll experience a deeper, richer, and more fulfilling love.

May your love story be a testament to God's love and grace!

23/01/2025

*ADVICE FOR WIVES: HOW TO CAPTURE THE HEART OF YOUR HUSBAND* by Ogwuche Godwin - Marriage Counselor, Therapist, and Coach
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As we navigate the ups and downs of life together, let's not forget the spark that ignited our love story. Let's not allow our busy schedules to hinder us from being romantic to our husbands.

*Being romantic doesn't have to be grand or expensive; it's the thought and effort that counts.* As a counselor, many men have shared with me that their wives are not romantic towards them, and they feel it's only their responsibility to show love and affection. Wives, please understand that your husbands also desire romance from you. *If you follow my humble counsel and guidance, you will have a happy and successful marriage, and you will capture the heart of your husband.*

Here are some practical tips to be romantic to your husband:

-Surprise your husband with his favorite meal or dessert.

-Write love notes and hide them in places he'll find them.

-Check up on him often when he's not at home with love messages or calls.

-Give him a thoughtful gift that shows you've been paying attention to his interests.

-Encourage and support his dreams and aspirations.

-Be his cheerleader.

-Dress attractively at home and be enticing.

-Engage in romantic conversations with your husband from time to time.

-Always let your husband know he's handsome, especially when he's dressed up or has a new haircut.

-Welcome him warmly when he comes home, and offer to help him with his belongings.

-Playfully initiate humorous conversations at home.

-Spend quality time together, going out on dates or just taking a walk.

-Show appreciation for your husband during and after intimate moments.

-Spice up your relationship and don't leave it to him alone.

-Always praise and appreciate his efforts in the family.

-Balance your attention between your children and your husband.

Most importantly, make time for regular date nights, even if it's just a walk around the block or a quiet evening at home. Look into his eyes, hold his hand, hug him, and remind him of your love.

*Please learn how to communicate politely with your husband, avoiding nagging, criticizing, and complaining. Handle issues carefully and gently, even when you feel hurt, to avoid overreacting and making the wrong decision.*

Being romantic is not just about keeping the spark alive; it's about nurturing a deep emotional connection with your partner. So, take the initiative, be creative, and make your husband feel loved and cherished.

-Be s*xy and flirty with your husband.

-Initiate intimate moments; don't leave it to him alone.

-Husbands love it when their wives make romantic advances towards them.

-Bring variety to your intimate moments.

-Support your husband financially and be prudent in managing your family's resources.

-Call him pet names and greet him like a king.

-Learn to massage and touch him often.

-Carry your husband along in all you do.

-Be patient with him.

-Love and appreciate his family members.

-Avoid being negatively influenced by friends or social media.

-Help your husband grow in all aspects of his life.

-Give him peace of mind through your words, actions, and attitude.

-Avoid competition, confrontation, and arguments.

-Study your husband to understand what he likes and dislikes.

*If you have a difficult husband, follow him with wisdom, knowledge, and understanding. It's not about being hard or forceful; it's about winning him over with unconditional love, respect, and submission, coupled with prayers and the grace of God."

Wives, always remember that *a happy husband = a happy home! Above all, respect, honor, cherish, value, and celebrate your husband always.* Let Jesus dwell in your life richly, and let the Spirit guide your words and actions. With your good virtues and character, your husband will love and appreciate you more and adore you.

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23/01/2025

*ADVICE FOR HUSBANDS: HOW TO MESMERIZE YOUR WIFE AND MAKE HER FEEL LOVED* by Ogwuche Godwin - Marriage Counselor, Therapist, and Coach
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As husbands, we have a profound impact on our wives' emotional well-being. It's essential to understand that our wives are highly emotional beings, and their emotional needs are crucial to a happy and fulfilling marriage. While providing for the family is important, it's not the only thing that matters. Many men mistakenly believe that everything revolves around money, but neglecting their wife's emotional needs can lead to significant challenges in the marriage.

As a marriage counselor, I've seen many men struggle with being romantic, loving, and caring towards their wives. Some men are not naturally romantic, but it's essential to make an effort to show affection and appreciation towards your wife.

Here are some practical tips to mesmerize your wife and make her feel loved:

*Be Faithful to your wife*: Avoid any form of infidelity, as it can demoralize your wife and damage your relationship. Remember, fidelity is the foundation of a happy marriage.

*Be Transparent to your wife*: Carry your wife along in financial decisions and keep her informed about your activities. Transparency builds trust, and trust is essential in any relationship.

*Be Gentle with your wife*: Communicate with your wife gently, avoiding harsh words and tone. Remember, your wife is your partner, not your adversary.

*Be Patient with your wife*: Understand that your wife may make mistakes, and be patient with her. Patience is a virtue, and it's essential in any relationship.

*Avoid all Form of Abuse on your wife*: Avoid physical, emotional, and verbal abuse. Treat your wife with respect and kindness. Remember, your wife is a precious gift, and you should cherish her.

*Be Romantic to your wife*: Surprise your wife with gifts, write love notes, and plan surprise getaways. Romance is essential in any relationship, and it's not just for Valentine's Day.

*Show Affection to your wife*: Hold hands, give hugs, and kisses. Physical touch is essential in any relationship, and it releases oxytocin, the love hormone.

*Appreciate your Wife's Efforts*: Praise your wife when she dresses up, cooks a delicious meal, or takes care of the children. Appreciation is essential in any relationship, and it boosts self-esteem.

*Support your Wife's Dreams*: Be supportive of your wife's aspirations, goals, and passions. Remember, your wife is your partner, and you should support her in all her endeavors.

*Spend Quality Time with your Wife*: Make time for regular date nights, even if it's just a walk around the block or a quiet evening at home. Quality time is essential in any relationship, and it strengthens the bond between you and your wife.

*Communicate Effectively with your Wife*: Listen to your wife, validate her feelings, and communicate openly and honestly. Effective communication is essential in any relationship, and it prevents misunderstandings.

*Show Interest in your Wife's Life*: Ask your wife about her day, her interests, and her goals. Showing interest in your wife's life is essential, and it makes her feel loved and appreciated.

*Don't let anything Distract you from your Wife*: Make an effort to be present in the moment, put away distractions, and focus on your wife. Being present is essential in any relationship, and it strengthens the bond between you and your wife.

*Be Selfless as you Relate with your Wife*: Prioritize your wife's pleasure and satisfaction. Remember, s*x is not just about you; it's about your wife too.

*Understand your Wife's Love Language*: Show affection and love in ways that matter to her. Remember, everyone has a unique love language, and it's essential to understand your wife's love language.

Remember, being a good husband is not just about providing financially; it's about being a leader, a partner, and a friend. Be an example in your words and actions, and treat your wife with love, respect, and kindness.

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23/01/2025

DON'T DIE IN SILENCE!

Is your relationship/marriage struggling? Are constant quarrels, arguments, and fights tearing you apart?

DON'T WAIT UNTIL IT'S TOO LATE! Seek professional help NOW!

Book your Individual/Couple's Counseling and Therapy Sessions with me TODAY!

Remember, NO MARITAL PROBLEM IS UNSOLVABLE! "Every challenge has a solution, and I'm here to guide you through it! Don't suffer in silence! Take the first step towards healing, restoration, and a stronger, happier marriage!

01/12/2024

Marriage counseling and Coaching

WOMEN, PLEASE PAY ATTENTION!!!

Men have two main reasons for being with women: S*X and LOVE. However, when it comes to marriage, most men don’t marry for either of those reasons. They marry for STABILITY.

Here’s what I mean:

A man can love you and not marry you. He can have s*x with you for years without marrying you. But once he finds someone who brings stability into his life, he will marry her.

By "stability," I mean "Peace of Mind." I've heard men say, "I love this woman, but I don’t think I can spend my life with her." When men think about marriage, they don’t focus on things like wedding dresses or bridesmaids, like many women do. Instead, they think, “Can this woman build a home with me? Can she take care of our kids and me? Will she bring me peace and comfort?”

Men want peace. They don’t like women who cause them stress. That’s why a man might stay with one woman for years but marry another one after only a short time.

For men, it’s not just about s*x or love. It’s about RESPECT, because that brings STABILITY.

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