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27/03/2025

Advice for 100 Level students

1. Try to know as many people as you can, but don’t make many friends
2. Get a power bank
3. Don’t worry about your natural looks, trust me, it gets better with time
4. Don’t date your course mate
5. If you’re a guy, look for a female friend in your department, it saves a lot
6. Make good friendship with your class rep or class governor. Somehow the future of your AGPA is in their hands
7. Try and do your registration before lectures, saves a lot.
8. Try and make friends with people in higher level most especially 300level, run to them before you run to a 100level friend if you’re in a problem. Trust me
9. You’ll meet new people with different personalities. Watch the people you want to move with. They’ll determine how your life will look like in your final year
10. Make friends with cyber cafe owners, trust me you’ll need them.
11. Don’t be afraid to hurt anybody’s feelings. Think with your brain not your heart.
12. Try and stay in your own space (Hostel). Trust me, it saves you from see finish
13. Remove the mindset you’ll find love in 100level, everybody wants to explore.
14. Don’t go too much parties, it drives you away from your books
15. Read ahead of time, don’t wait for tests or exams.
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03/03/2025

6 SIGNS THAT A GUY IS PLAYING YOU.

1.... He never messages you first and only reaches out to you when he wants something..... He doesn't bother to call, text or check up on you except when he wants to knack you or when he needs something from you.

2.... He is affectionate in private but not in public..... Nothing like public display of affection, he only shows you affection when you guys are in private, that is because he doesn't want important people in his life to know you are his woman, he is playing you, you are not the main babe.

3.... He fl!rts with other girls and you always feel like you are in competition..... His actions always make you doubt his love for you and his actions towards you also makes you feel like you are not the only woman in his life.

4.... Some days he seems interested and some days he seems distance. He is on and off in the relationship, he is not committed to you and his actions always makes you doubt his love for you.

5.... He won't take any pictures with you and he won't post you on his social media handle..... This is because you are not the only woman in his life so he won't post you so that other ladies in his life will not leave him because of you.

26/02/2025

MEANING OF KISSES.

Kiss on the stomach = I'm ready
Kiss on the Forehead = I hope we're together forever.
Kiss on the Ear = You are my everything

Kiss on the Cheek = We're friends
Kiss on the Hand = I adore you
Kiss on the Neck = We belong together
Kiss on the Shoulder = I want You
Kiss on the Lips = I love You

WHAT SOME GESTURE MEANS..

Holding Hands = We definitely love each other
Holding on tight = I don't want to let go
Looking into each other's Eyes = I just plain love you.

Playing with Hair = Tell me you love me
Arms around the Waist = I love you too much to let go.
Laughing while Kissing = I am completely comfortable with you

ADVICE - Don't ask for a kiss, steal it
If you were thinking about someone while reading this, you're definitely in Love. ❤️🥰

30/11/2024

You broke her heart💔
She said it's fine with tears😭
She didn't keep grudges with you😢
You still talk and chart
But she's hurt💔
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After 2 months you told her u have a new girlfriend, she said it's fine😢

Do you know the feelings of her pain?
She changed towards her friends😩

She changed at home
Her mom complained about her
She cries at night but people didn't see her pain 😔

She tried to move on but memories kept holding her back 😢💔
She started drinking to get ur thoughts off her broken heart💔

You know you changed her ways
She couldn't be strong, you made her weak😢

If you know you don't trust yourself enough plssss 🙏🙏
Don't ask a girl out
Female heart 💝 is fragile and needs to be treated with care and respect..

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23/11/2024

-A boyfriend that spends the whole day texting you🥺❤️💍a boyfriend that tells you he misses you🥺😻A boyfriend that will hold your hand y"all pass a group of chicks😭🥺🔥 A boyfriend that will defend your name🥺🥺🦋A boyfriend that will do everything to make you smile😻🔥A boyfriend that won't allow anyone to talk trash about you🥺❤️🔥🥂A boyfriend that will always kiss you🥺❤️on your chick🥺,Lips😭,Forehead😩..A boyfriend that won't make you fell worthless😩❤️A boyfriend that will flirt with you all the time😭❤️🔥A boyfriend that corrects you whenever you wrong without making you feel stupid😭❤️🔥
🥂:: Most of all a boyfriend that respects you🥺❤️ that's😭❤️a Wholemood🥺❤️😭🥂
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22/11/2024

I understand why people hold hands:
It is not about possessiveness, that says
"this is mine". It’s about maintaining contact, an intimate connection and sharing in its warmth. It is about speaking without words. It is saying, I want you with me ♥️

19/11/2024

RULES THAT SHOULD GUIDE YOUR RELATIONSHIP

No relationship can succeed without both partners putting in the effort to make it work. Below are 14 rules that should guide your relationship.

1. Never push a loyal woman to the point where she no longer cares.

2. There is a difference between somebody who wants you and somebody who would do anything to keep you. Remember that.

3. Communication and trust are important if you want to secure your spot in someone’s heart.

4. Never fall in love with someone who left his girl for you because he might do the same and leave you for someone else.

5. A real man never gives up on the woman he loves with all his heart no matter how much it hurts.

6. Don’t play with someone’s feelings just because you’re unsure of your own.

7. One of the worst mistakes you’ll make is walking away from the person that stood there and waited for you.

8. Just because one man treated you badly doesn’t mean all men will. Get this into you skull.

9. Be careful what you say. A girl remembers everything. They will never remember the good word you said to them but they will remember the bad ones you have ever spoken that is women.

10. When two people care about each other, they will always look for a way to make it work.

11. Love someone who loves loves you too.

12.A heartbreak is a blessing from God. It’s just his way of letting you realize he saved you from the wrong one. So you better stop crying now.

13. Letting go isn’t a sign of weakness. It’s a sign that you’re strong enough to move on.

14. It’s better to be alone for the right reasons than to be with someone for the wrong reasons. I sincerely have found out that any person who always see reasons to give flimsy excuses is a great liar, be far from such person.

17/11/2024

HOW TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR WOMAN'S EMOTIONS...✍🏾

1. Give her eye contact when she is talking to you, it makes her feel important

2. When she is venting, allow her to speak. It is healthy for her not to bottle things inside

3. Touch her. Rub her hand, hold her waist, kiss her. Physical touch is a window to her emotions

4. When she is crying, don't leave the room. Hug her, comfort her, whether she is crying because of you or of another issue

5. Ask her how she is, how she slept, how her day has been. Good morning, good night makes her feel cared for

6. When she is worked up over an issue that you don't find a big deal, don't tell her she is petty. This makes her feel understood

7. Get to know more about the family planning methods she uses. Some of them affect her hormones, her hormones affect her emotions

8. Learn how she behaves during her menstrual cycle. Some women get moody during that time of the month. Study your Queen

9. Love on her publicly and privately. Give her clarity that she is the only one, don't entertain other women. This will make her feel secure

10. Understand when she cries tears of joy. It means alot to her when you touch her heart to the point of tears

11. When she doubts her beauty, remind her of her beautiful and s*xy she is

12. When she complains about something don't take it as an offense, she is actually giving you a tip on how to love her better. Make use of the tip so that she won't have to complain again

13. When she is mad and unsettled, don't join her and become mad and unsettled too. Be that calm and assuring voice that makes her feel less defensive and less edgy

14. Appreciate her, tell her thank you and recognise all she does. Sometimes, this is all a woman needs to feel loved

15. Don't emotionally abuse her by speaking words that hurt. Such words can haunt her for years

02/11/2024

COMMON NEEDS OF A WOMAN IN A RELATIONSHIP

1. Emotional Support: To feel heard, validated, and supported.

2. Communication: Open, honest, and regular communication.

3. Trust: To trust her partner and feel secure.

4. Respect: To be treated with respect, kindness, and compassion.

5. Affection: Physical touch, intimacy, and emotional connection.

6. Quality Time: Spending quality time together, sharing experiences.

7. Independence: Maintaining her own identity, interests, and autonomy.

8. Emotional Intelligence: A partner who understands and manages their own emotions.

9. Supportive Partnership: A sense of teamwork and collaboration.

10. Personal Growth: Encouragement and support for her goals and aspirations.

11. Honesty and Transparency: Truthfulness and openness in all aspects.

12. Consistency and Reliability: Following through on commitments and being dependable.

Remember, every individual is unique, and what matters most can vary from person to person. .
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02/11/2024

17. Ladies, the more you complain to your man time that he doesn't spend with you or talk to you like he used to, the more you will push him away. Inspire him to talk to you by being inviting, peaceful, drama free, light hearted and not fault finding

18. Gentlemen, ladies interpret love through conversations. In fact, they fall in love and stay in love because of companionship which is evident in conversations

19. When a man is into a woman, he will love talking and chatting with her. He will study her

20. Healthy conversations boost your s*x life as a couple and heighten intimacy

21. Give eye contact when your spouse is talking to you. It shows respect

22. Laugh together. Don't be too serious. It makes it easy to share the good and the bad

23. Keep your spouse's secrets, don't judge or consider your spouse petty when he/she confides in you lest you discourage him/her from sharing things with you

24. Even when you are too busy, say something warm and brief to your spouse. It keeps the flame alive

25. Apologize when you're wrong. Take care of your spouse's feelings to make him/her feel comfortable with you

26. Don't talk down at your spouse in a condescending way or ordering your spouse around if you don't want your spouse to avoid you. Talk with your spouse. Don't let your communication be one sided.

02/11/2024

26 FACTS ABOUT COMMUNICATION IN RELATIONSHIP /MARRIAGE

1. The communication of a couple gets richer when they talk about more than s*x. S*x talk all the time is empty and boring

2. Communication doesn't happen by accident. You two must invest in it

3. The depth of a conversation depends on the subject matter. If all you talk about as a couple are pleasantries, house chores and to do lists. You need to go deeper

4. No relationship/marriage can survive without communication

5. Healthy communication requires honesty, no lies. No matter how hard it is. When you're honest, you reinforce your credibility

6. The more you kiss, the warmer your communication as a couple

7. It is not only about what you tell your spouse, but the tone with which you say it

8. Great conversations need the right questions. Ask your spouse the right questions, show interest

9. How you greet your spouse in the morning on when your spouse comes home, determines the quality of your conversation. A warm greeting ushers in a desire to talk

10. The more you use curse words in your conversations the easier it is to show disrespect

11. A healthy prayer life communicating with God, leads to healthy communication with your spouse

12. If you have a hot temper, it will ruin your communication as a couple. Have self control over your tongue

13. Sometimes the best conversations are not spoken. Silence can be beautiful as you cuddle, stay in a room as you both work, read or just be. Enjoy each others silent company

14. When you call your spouse with a loving name, "My love", "Darling", "Sweetheart"... It communicates love. Refrain from calling your spouse by his/her official name as you do your friends

15. Intimate conversations are not rushed. Spend adequate time with your spouse

16. Do not emotionally focus on another besides your spouse, it will negatively affect your communication with your spouse@followers

02/11/2024

A confident woman also doesn’t need a man to validate her to feel good about herself. She already has a solid foundation of self-esteem, and while she appreciates the praise, she doesn’t need it to feel good.

👉. WOMEM WITH ONLY GOOD VIBES :;...
Basically, your vibe is everything. It determines whether people are attracted to you or want nothing to do with you.

The term I use here is your “VIBE ”, but you could call it “ENERGY ” or “WAY OF BEING ” or “HOW YOU RELATE TO PEOPLE ” or “CHARM ”, you get the idea?.

To have a great vibe, you need to understand that the way you present yourself to people is a clear reflection of how you feel inside. Not just the things you say, but even the things you think within the privacy of your own mind.

Your thoughts affect your emotions, and your emotions affect your facial expressions, body language, tone of voice, etc. And we have thousands and thousands of thoughts all day. This “soup” of constant thinking and emotional reactions to our thoughts manifests itself in an immediate “vibe” that other people can pick up on.
When you are in a great mood, you transmit a great vibe to others. When you are in a loving mood, you transmit a warm and loving vibration to others.

People can’t read your mind or know what you’re thinking, but they can certainly tell if you’re someone who has happy, loving, positive thoughts or worrisome, fearful, paranoid thoughts… or anxious, tense, stressful, or mean thoughts, negative and unpleasant, that’s the idea.

When you feel good on the inside, you manifest it out, and people will be attracted to you. So, how do you get that awesome vibe? You manage your thoughts. You actively fight the negative thoughts that appear and choose to replace them with positive thoughts. It may seem strange at first, but the more you do it, the more it just becomes your natural way of being.

👉. WOMEN WHO DON'T STRESS ABOUT THE STATE OF THEIR RELATIONSHIP ;:...
There is nothing pleasant or attractive about anxiousn

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