Relationship red flags and warnings

Relationship red flags and warnings To avoid and prevent wrong relationships and marriages, know how to build and sustain a relationship.

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How Can I Know That This is The Right Person?This question has been one of the most asked and common question that boggl...
20/04/2024

How Can I Know That This is The Right Person?

This question has been one of the most asked and common question that boggles the mind of many singles when it comes to knowing who to marry. Many have been given superficial tips by some relationship bloggers, counselors or self-made relationship therapist.

What I'm about to share with you would help you get it right if you could adopt these tested and proven tips.

Many I add this: marriage becomes successful when the right person marries the right person, and they apply the right principles for a successful marriage and they involve the right person. It just have to be right, otherwise, it'll be wrong.

How can I know if this person is the right person?

Only a right person can know who is right, and who is wrong under the right condition and influence.

The following tips would help you to know who is the right person.

1. Be the right person

It takes a thief to know a thief.

If you're not the right person, it'll be difficult for you to know the right person.

Are you the right person?

What makes you the right person has to do with the rightness of your heart (spirit and soul) and your right understanding about marriage and life in general.

You may pass all the basic maturity test (mental, physical, financial, social emotional or spiritual), but it doesn't mean you are the right person.

A person may walk up to you for marriage but their heart isn't right with you because they have an hidden agenda or motive for coming into your life. This is why you can't fully know the right person through physical observation because the heart of men and women is evil, deep and desperately wicked, only God can know it.

See, you are not the right person when your understanding about marriage is wrong.

If you believe that women are done a favor by marrying them; that all men are polygamous in nature; that divorce is an option in marriage or cheating is one of the inevitables of life; then you have a wrong understanding of marriage.

If you even marry angel Gabriel or virgin Mary, you will still end up with a bad marriage if you are not the right person.

If the right person marries the wrong person or vis-a-vis, the marriage will fail or become an enduring one.

Next is that you must...

2. Be connected to the person who will make you know the right person

Sounds confusing? Read on!

Man, with the best of all his acquired knowledge and understanding can't know the right person unless God opens his eyes to see the right person.

Many are not connected to the right person (God) but wants to know the right person without Him. How possible it that?

You need a personal and intimate relationship with God so He can reveal or guide you to the right person.

Don't ever think you can know the right person without God because only Him knows the right person that will accept your past, present and future.

Dear ladies, be so connected to God that it will take a man whose heart is right with God to find you as his help meet.

Dear men, be a man after God's own heart that God will have to bring one of His daughters that He has made to you as a wife.

Please, treasure your personal relationship with God more than church activities or being religious.

Ask for the grace to love Him and fellowship with the Holy Spirit, as this would sharpen your spiritual senses to know the right person.

More so...

3. Be at rest

Adam wasn't "dating" all the animals in search of the right person. God gave him a divine anesthesia and he fell into a deep sleep.

Brother, go and rest.

My sister, quit looking for Mr. Right.

When you are at rest, you will be calm enough to recognize the right person when they come. But if you are jumping from Jane to Janet, or from John to Justus, you will be confused, anxious or frustrated in your human search for the right person.

Rest puts you into a hibernate mode, while God is busy working out the right person for you. But if you are busy looking for Mr or Miss Right, God becomes at rest while He watches you doing it in your own way.

Those who are at rest leaves everything in God's hands while He gives them His best.

4. Compatibility

Having adopt items 1-3, you will know the right person through your agreement in so many ways.

The right person will be compatible with you in your desire to fulfill your divine purpose. There will be mutual agreement in almost all critical issues of life, or you two can easily align your differences to reach an agreement.

Compatibility has nothing to do with s*x. Don't seek to practicalize it before marriage. You can talk things out if there are differences.

There must be compatibility in goals, visions, divine purpose and in other important areas.

5. Through divine revelation or spiritual discernment

Last but very important, your ability to know the right person is tied to how functional your spiritual senses are.

Adam could spiritually discern the woman as his bone of bones and flesh of flesh. The Bible didn't tell us that he dreamt or saw visions, there was a knowing in his heart that was deep enough and it was beyond her physical appearance, material possessions or personality impression - it is called discernment.

More so, divine revelation comes through dreams, vision or trance. Only God determines whether the right person will be revealed to you through that means.

Do not also forget that dreams could be manipulated by the devil or originates from your own thoughts.

Dear readers, knowing the right person is not a rocket science, and it's not something you will know suddenly if you don't have a track record of an intimate relationship with God.

Don't wait till you are ready for marriage before you draw closer to God. It takes time to know God and His ways. Start now, don't wait until you're "ripe" for marriage before you begin the journey.

Remember, love is best expressed, and marriage is sweet when the right person marries each other and they apply the right principles, with their involvement of the right person (God).

7 REAL REASONS PEOPLE MISS GOD'S WILL1) SMALL BREASTS. Yes, some guys actually over look Virtuous Sisters with enough wi...
20/04/2024

7 REAL REASONS PEOPLE MISS GOD'S WILL

1) SMALL BREASTS.
Yes, some guys actually over look Virtuous Sisters with enough wife material yards, because of the size of their chests, I kid you not. Awon Manchester lovers.

Most Men are naturally attracted to ladies with big breasts, even after salvation/sanctification,
and Many brothers intentionally or unintentionally allow this natural instinct to dictate their choice of a life partner.

Dear Brother in Christ,
You see those things, they can grow.

Yes, even the Bible says "despise not the days of humble beginning, for though your beginning be small, your latter end shall GREATLY INCREASE" so also it is with this things we are talking about

Marry her if God is bringing her to you Sir.
Don't reject true love,
Don't let go a Jewel, a Help Meet for you, a favor bringer because of something as mundane as this.

If she starts eating and sleeping well growth can happen.
Haven't you seen ladies who are like 1 before Marriage, after marriage they become like O.
I have

They say "Don't judge a book by its cover.
I say 'Don't judge a Woman by her chest"

(Same goes for the Backside, she may be flat, my brother, Marry her, if the size is really bothering you, kuku put it in Prayer, Luke 1:37)

2) SHAPE.
She's not well shaped.
It's Figure 8 or nothing.

Bros, May you not marry a Woman with shape and figure that will now later disfigure the shape and figure of your destiny.
I say Amen on your behalf.

Now I'm not saying don't seek a woman with shape, I'm saying don't reject God's will if she doesn't have the shape you want.

Because God has given her to you to shape your life, shape generations with you, shape kingdoms, and you are saying she doesn't have shape. Shape fall on you Sir.

3) COMPLEXION
This one is Self explanatory.
Initially I used to dream of a fair Jane, but now ehn, as I am, if her color is even the one they cannot see in the night, straight to the altar.
As long as its God's will.

4) COLORED DENTITION/SCATTERED DENTITION

For Pete's sake, this is something a visit or two to the Dentist can fix.

Many Men and Women do not want to stand by anybody and work on them to become the kind of Person that they like.
We just want already made food

Dentition can be fixed
Teeth Color can be fixed
Try fixing a bad Marriage.

5) DRESS SENSE
You love Her,
She loves you
God says yes, but your own is that she/he doesn't know how to dress, how to mix colors,

it's that Brother, that sister that always wins best dressed in the fellowship that you want.
God forgive you

Dress sense can be learnt
You can repackage/rebrand him or her since you have the dress sense.

6) NO BEARDS/BALD HEAD
Aunty beard gang lover,
I'm not condemning you oh, but don't because of no beards or bald hair Miss God's will for your life, it will be a mistake that will cost you gravely

7) HE'S TOO BROKE
Pastor Adeboye was once broke
Mark Zuckerberg was once broke
Two Face idibia was once broke,

Every young Man out there has a future,
Don't reject God's will for you because he's not very rich now,
That young Man drinking garri and jumping taxis today can so be promoted by God tomorrow that he'll be buying estates.
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Some of the Married Women/Men you admire today were not half as beautiful when they got Married as they are now.
Their Partners worked on them, with love, money, patience. Etc.
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Dearly Beloved,
I'm not saying Marry someone that you do not fancy,
I'm simply saying relax, find out God's will, and give it a try.
You'd be amazed how you'd soon be enjoying the friendship with that person you wrote off on the very first day you met them or discovered they were God's will for you.
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Whatever you do,
Marry God's Will.

31/01/2024

HOW TO APOLOGIZE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE

1. ADMIT YOU ARE WRONG
Many grown-ups are not humble enough to admit to their fault. Will you mess up your love just because of your pride?

2. EXPLAIN WHY YOU DID WHAT YOU DID
Give the background sequence of events that led to you being on the wrong. A blank apology doesn't address the issue

3. HEAR FROM YOUR PARTNER HOW HE/SHE FEELS
Allow your partner to vent, cry, shout, and tell you how much your actions/words pain him/her. Emotions and hurt shouldn't be hidden if true reconciliation and healing are to occur. This also shows you care for your partner's feelings

4. SAY SORRY
Let your partner hear you say those words, 'I am sorry, please forgive me'

5. COMMIT TO NOT DOING IT AGAIN
Say you won't repeat the mistake and mean it. An apology is empty if it's not sincere

6. HEAR FROM YOUR PARTNER IF YOU ARE FORGIVEN
Get to hear your partner tell you 'I forgive you'. It has to be official

7. THANK YOUR SPOUSE FOR FORGIVING YOU
Appreciate the goodness of your partner's heart to forgive you. It takes love to overlook your wrong, don't take that for granted

8. AGREE ON A PLAN TO KEEP THE WRONG FROM BEING REPEATED
This is why it is important to know the history that led to you doing or saying wrong; you two get to agree on what to do to prevent it from happening again

9. SEAL IT WITH A KISS
Kiss as soon you are given an official forgiveness. Now that your partner has forgiven you, your lips will be well-received

10. MAKE LOVE
Your spouse's heart feels safe because you care, you feel pardoned; make passionate love to bring you two even closer. Make-up s*x

11. DO SOMETHING SWEET
Go out of your way to make your partner smile: leave a love note under the pillow, buy her flowers or a gift, cook his favourite meal, take a photo of the both of you happy and frame it, cater to each other

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31/01/2024

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