05/12/2025
As a relationship and marriage therapist, I want to speak on a very painful – but very real – situation:
A woman caught her fiancé cheating with her own bridesmaid on his bachelor’s night.
She says she has moved on and is no longer interested in the marriage.
First, let me say this clearly:
Moving on is not always a sign of weakness. Sometimes, it is a powerful act of self-respect.
Cheating before marriage is not “a mistake” or “last fun.”
It is a revelation of character, boundaries, and self-control.
When betrayal happens at the very foundation of a relationship, it shakes trust at its core. And without trust, there is no real marriage — only endurance, suspicion, and silent pain.
Her choice to walk away does not mean she doesn’t love him.
It may simply mean she finally chose to love herself more.
To the men: A bachelor’s night is not a license to betray.
To the women: Being a bridesmaid is not an invitation to destroy a sister’s future.
Sometimes, cancelling a wedding is not a failure.
It is the first step toward a healthier life.
What would YOU do in her position — forgive, postpone, or walk away?
Let’s talk in the comments. 👇🏽💭
