Relationship Issues

26/05/2024

JUSTICE FOR MEN.

If a man often ask his wife for s*x, she will say he's asking for too much. She'll say to him..

"Are you a dog?
"You won't allow me sleep in peace" "Always disturbing my sleep"
"Are you not tired, me am tired"
"I don't have strength"
"I'm not in the mood"
"Leave me alone"

Sometimes, she'll use mood swings and menstrual cramps to excuse the man. Or even use stress from work or house chores to deny the man his cravings.

Depending on the type of man you're and the type of woman you have as wife, it's either you give in and buy her excuses, or you persist in asking, pleading and begging maybe she's actually doing their normal shakara. If you try harder shaa, she might give in and give it to you wotowoto. That's someone that don't have strength oo. But if na man you marry in woman shape, you beg she no gree, you beg tire, she no gree. Come tell you say, she no dey gree for anybody. My brother hope no dey for you.

However, if after giving these excuses over and over again, the man gets tired and exhausted from begging while being starved s*x and romance. What becomes of him?

If the man decides to stay away from s*xual desires from his s*x-denying wife. Maybe for sometime, decide to be celibate or even sought for external options to satisfy his cravings, as he couldn't get it from inside his own bed room.

Immediately, the woman and the society will change the whole story that started from the man's bedroom. You'll begin to hear statements like ...

He's a beast.
A cheat.
Polygamist
Womanizer
He's promiscuous
Lack self control
His high libido is too much

People will begin to judge the man based on the emotional story the woman had given out to the public. Nobody wants to hear from the man. Bloggers and content creators will pounce on the gossip to get more clicks.

What am I saying?

Society has been so lopsided in their rash judgemental dispositions in matters concerning man and woman, especially husbands and their wives. People always rush to accept the story of a woman, who comes to the public to say the bad things her husband had done to her more than the story of a man. She will be pitied, emotions and sentimental condemnation on the man will begin to fill the places. Nobody or few people believes the man's story.

Example, when Emeka Ike my brother came out to spill the spoilt milk in the public, many people refused to believe him, some remembered that they won't make their judgements untill they hear from his wife's side of the story. Many disbelieving Emeka Ike went on to ask for the wife to come out and clear the air. To get more support and backing from the public and also to present more convincing show to the people out there, Emeka Ike's wife took their son into that infamous interview. And the boy was there spewing trash on his Dad, utu rara ọtụ mụtara ya.

What happened?

Immediately, sentimental Ndị mmadụ now turned 360 to start condemning Emeka Ike for what he did to his son and no longer his wife. Are you seeing the psyop display the wife employed there? This is what the world wants.

As far as it's coming from the weaker vessel, they will believe it more than when the man is telling his own story.
This is too bad.

Women, wetin be una problem sef?

Nawaoh.

© CUM 1

03/02/2024

When you start dating someone, take it slow. Don't confuse your intense feelings for what is necessary for a relationship. Because eventually the intensity will subside - this is a guarantee. And then what you're left with are two flawed people with specific values, goals, traumas and histories. This is when you find out if you have what it takes to build a life together.

20/12/2023

S*XUAL SECRETS OF WOMEN THAT WANT TO SN**CH YOUR HUSBAND WHICH YOUR RELIGIOUS LIFE HAS NOT ALLOWED YOU TO DO.

Lots of women are losing their husbands to strange women out there and most women are yet to know what these men see in these women that make them get glued to them even though they know that these women are more expensive and most are full of s*xually transmitted diseases.

Hi wives, you need to know the s*xual secrets of these faceless women, sorry they are better than you in the bed, you need to step up to match up with them and beat them in their dirty games. Take your time to read this and get your husband back, these are their secrets:

1) THEY UNDERSTAND THE S*XUAL WEAKNESS OF MEN: They understand that one of the weaknesses of most men is s*x and they make good use of this. Wives are careless about this, instead of using s*x to create intimacy with their husbands; they use it to create animosity, anger, and bitterness between them and their husbands.

WHAT TO DO: Use s*x as a tool of love to create intimacy in your marriage, don’t use s*x to destroy your marriage, use it to build it.

2) THEY KISS LIKE MAD: In a report, most married men reported that their wives hate kissing; they said it is difficult to get a decent kiss from their wives. Strange women are experts in this area they use kissing as a weapon.

WHAT TO DO: Don’t turn kissing into wrestling in your marriage, stop being local. Kiss your husband even when he is not expecting it.

3) THEY USE KILLER UNDERWEAR: A man said he hates to see his wife in panties because according to him, she always looks like a wrestler. Lots of wives are like this, they are fond of wearing pants whose colours are different from their bras, looking like a rainbow, dirty pants, outdated underwear, a bra that looks like tarpaulin, wearing boxers that are meant for men, wearing knickers and tying of wrapper to bed. Strange women are creative in this regard they are fond of using neat, s*xy panties and bras. They always balance colours under there.

WHAT TO DO: Wives wake up, fashion starts from under, not from head gear or rope sieve bag, the real fashion is looking s*xy when you undress before your husband.

4) THEY USE KILLER NIGHTIE: Strange women not only wear s*xy underwear, but they also wear killer nighties. While wives dress to bed and look like a soldier in bed, strange women dress to capture the man even before getting to bed

WHAT TO DO: When you are going out dress up, when you are going to bed dress down. Dress to capture the imagination of your husband, and get a very s*xy, nasty nightie for your husband’s eyes only. Men are moved by what they see, let your husband she the angel in you

5) THEY SEE S*X AS A SERIOUS BUSINESS: You see it as a chore, you see it as dirty, you even wish it is removed from marriage, it never crosses your mind. But these strange ladies, see s*x as a serious business and do everything to keep their clients and customers. They use all marketing strategies, branding, product, packaging, marketing, and advertisement.

WHAT TO DO: Begin to see s*x as a serious business, rebrand yourself, and repackage yourself because you are the real product.

6) THEY TREAT S*X AS FOOD OF MEN: Wives are fond of saying “Is it food?” What a foolish statement! It’s not food, it’s more than what the Bible says it is water (Proverbs 5:15-19). Strange women are aware of the fact that men see s*x as food and they serve it hot and better

WHAT TO DO: Get into the fray, and treat it as the food of your husband. Serve it better than before, and never say, “Is it food?” again in your life, it is more than that

7) S*X IS IN THEIR MIND: Babies, house cleaning, cooking, and washing are in the minds of wives; s*x is never in their minds, they never think of it, but women put it in their minds and their body is ready no wonder they hardly look tired for it.

WHAT TO DO: At least two or three times a week, put s*x in your to-do list, put it in your mind, and see how your marriage turns out to be

😎 THEY PLAN FOR S*X: Strange women plan for s*x the way you plan for your cooking; they look forward to it and carry their catch along in their plans.

WHAT TO DO: Plan for s*x in your marriage; don’t make it your husband’s affairs to plan for s*x in your marriage. Let it be part of your schedule.

9) THEY SET TABLE FOR S*X: Strange women do set table for great s*x, soft music, blue light, candlelight, perfumed bed, velvet bed sheet, s*xy outlook, and slippery fingers. Do you still wonder why men are running to them?

WHAT TO DO: Begin to set a table for s*x in your marriage, be creative, and surprise your husband with a s*xy outlook when he arrives from work. Children are already in bed, you look “Smatching”, the whole house looks romantic, soft music, dinner with candlelight, Hug by the door and kiss on the lips. Who says your husband will not rush home tomorrow?

10) THEY ARE VERY ROMANTIC: Romance is a strange thing to some women, the away women don’t joke about it, they are experts in this. Whole lots of wives are romantically bankrupt but strange women are professional in it. Men love romantic women and strange women know this.

WHAT TO DO: become romantic, marriage is a love affair, don’t allow motherhood and wifehood to destroy your girlish instinct. Be romantic.

11) THEY FLIRT WITH THEIR MEN: Strange women are not only romantic, they are flirty. they give “come and do” eye contact, if you sit with them at a table they make sure their legs touch yours, and they put hands on men’s shoulders and touch men’s Legs as they discuss. They greet men with a good smile, they laugh excessively at men’s dry jokes. All these signals immoral men understand perfectly and they quickly go for them.

WORK TO DO: Get flirty with your husband, hold his hands in public, place your head on him when on a bus, touch his legs as you talk, sit close to him and sure to make your body touch his own, hold him longer when hugging, he is your husband girl, get flirty with him.

If anybody snatched your husband after you might have read this, then it’s your fault.

From today start improving your s*x life don't come here to complain unless you have done this and it didn't work out. To all my haters because of s*x issues, kindly go to Court tomorrow, you will see the no of people getting divorced because of s*x.

19/12/2023

HOW TO AVOID EMOTIONAL AFFAIR...✍🏾

Even if you are married to the best spouse in the whole world, if you do not guard your heart, you may end up "falling in love" with someone aside from your spouse and eventually ruin your marriage.

No one gets married and plans to have an affair but lots of married men and women are into affairs today because they slept when they should have been wide awake with their five senses alert.

1. Don't be too friendly with the opposite s*x. This is where lots of married people land in trouble. Over spirituality and pride will destroy your marriage! You can't handle close friendships with the opposite s*x as a married person. Your heart is involved. Set boundaries. Be disciplined. Be cordial. Be respectful. Be godly. Be holy.

2. Don't share your problems with an opposite-s*x friend. It will bond you together. Problems bond people.

3. Don't contact any opposite s*x you are fond of. If you secretly admire them, you are fond of them and there is a tingling in your heart at the mere thought of them, don't contact them!

4. Avoid unnecessary eye contact that lingers with the opposite s*x.
5. Don't tell the opposite s*x you are romantic or s*xy, that private information is for your spouse only.

6. Avoid discussions with the opposite s*x when you are tired, very sad, depressed, sorrowful, drowsy, sleepy, or very sick. This can cloud your judgment and make you say silly things. Talk to your husband/wife instead.

7. Avoid unnecessary compliments of the opposite s*x.
8. Stop saying "I love you" to the opposite s*x, for what?
9. Work on your marriage. Keep the fire of love and romance alive in your marriage!

10. Protect your family. Don't share your marital problem with your opposite-s*x friend, it will bond you.
11. Never flirt with the opposite s*x.

12. Mind the pictures you post on social media. Limit pictures that show your curves or portray you as s*xy.

13. Do not contact all your exes after marriage.

14. Don't chat with the opposite s*x on the days you are h***y.

15. Stop focusing on your spouse's weaknesses and appreciate their strengths. If you always see the bad side of your spouse, you will be angry, bitter, and critical and look for someone who can "understand" you and make you happy aside from your spouse, that is the beginning of an emotional affair and eventual s*xual affair. It is the beginning of the end of a once glorious marriage!

FLEE from all appearances of evil is what the Bible says.
What you will not eat, don't bring it to your nose, don't smell it!
Don't start what you cannot finish!

Avoid all emotional and s*xual affairs, they will destroy your marriage!

May you not take a step that will lead to eternal regret.

11/12/2023

WHY SOME PEOPLE DON'T ENJOY S*X...✍🏾

1. LACK OF LOVE
Love is the greatest aphrodisiac; when you are in love with someone, you find everything about them s*xy, you surrender to pleasure. S*x is more than getting to the climax, it's an act of intimacy, it's also about the journey that leads to the climax and the reason why the climax is special. That's why you should marry the one you are in love with.

2. THINKING TOO MUCH
When you are making love, free your mind and pleasure will follow. Put the stress aside, stop thinking about the baby, about the bills, about your responsibilities, whether your skin is too sweaty, whether you're making too much noise, whether you're doing it right, whether you are hard or wet enough. Stop worrying, you and your spouse deserve this moment of pleasure. Pleasure is first sought after in the mind.

3. COMPARISONS
When you compare and make your expectation of what good s*x is based on what you read in magazines, what you read online and what you hear from friends; when you compare the size of your hubby's tool with what you hear from friends, compare your wife's body and tricks with what you hear; you will not enjoy s*x with your spouse. S*x is custom-made for every couple, leave the world behind, it's just you two.

4. PO*******HY
Po*******hy confuses you, it plants images of strangers in your mind. Po*******hy becomes addictive as you are ever searching for the next steamy scene by strangers on screens. Slowly you become numb to your spouse's s*xiness as you drool over strangers; even when you climax, it's not because you are thinking about your spouse but because you are thinking of p**n stars. Po*******hy is like taking a walk with your spouse in the streets and desiring every person who passes your way, you wouldn't do that in the streets, why do that on screens?

5. PROMISCUITY
Sleeping with many people drains you, eventually, you feel lost. Eventhough s*x takes you to a form of high, s*x comes with deep feelings of emptiness in you. S*x is best enjoyed exclusively, that's why we marry.

6. SUSPICION
When you suspect your spouse of unfaithfulness your body will automatically become defensive. You keep asking in your head where has your spouse been, will you contract a disease, how dare your spouse do that?

7. FIGHTS WITH YOUR LOVER
It is difficult to enjoy s*x with a spouse you are mad at, a spouse you despise, who keeps hurting you or who makes you feel taken for granted. S*x is not for people who consider themselves enemies. Resolve disputes quickly, don't end the day with grudges, make up before before you go to bed; your s*xlife is at stake. Once arguments make the fire fade, it will be hard to get it back.

8. POOR MOOD SETTINGS
Is your bedroom conducive for s*x? Is your bedroom an eye sore or neat? Is the decor and lighting good ambiance for passion? Do you dress up for s*x, investing in lingerie? Do you shower up to give you a fresh natural scent, or are you full of foul smell? Do you clean your p***c area, do you shave if your spouse loves it shaved? Your body is a meal, package it ready to eat; your bedroom is your s*x haven, decorate it as such.

9. RUSHING
Unless it's a quickie, don't rush s*x. Take your time, there is so much treasure hidden in your spouse's body. Explore. Tease your spouse, prolong the climb so that when the climax comes it is a massive volcano and to her, multiple eruptions.

10. S*XUAL INCOMPATIBILITY
It is very important to marry someone you are s*xually compatible with, that you two naturally flow. A person may be good in character and heart but not s*xually compatible with you and so s*x will be something you both struggle to do, you'll find friction and walls on your way to climax, it will exhaust you. S*xual compatibility is cultivated, you get it by learning each other.

11. PAST PAIN
If the abuse of s*x in the past brought you pain then you will never enjoy s*x if you don't heal. If you were r***d or s*xually assaulted, if you were crashed s*xually, if you aborted, if you used to sell your body for favors; then you need to heal to get to enjoy s*x. Your spouse will help you heal if you open up, don't let something so beautiful be ruined by past pain. Let God redeem s*x to how it should be- sweet and pleasurable

12. RIGIDNESS
S*x is like a graceful dance, you will not enjoy it if you are rigid and have rules and fixed patterns. Remember it's is not just about you getting pleasure your way, your spouse has desires too. Your spouse could be taking you to pleasures unknown if only you relax, let loose, be open and free.

13. HYGIENE CONCERNS
S*x sometimes can get sensually messy. Yes, your fluids mix, tongues collide, sheets get wet. If you're busy being made love to but still playing your neat freak role you will not enjoy s*x. In fact, you will find yourself repelling your spouse, you don"t want to lick your spouse, don't want the tongue on you, you'll be scared of fluids mixing, and worse off, especially for women, when he climaxes you push him aside and want to run to take a shower. Your spouse can tell when you wear disgusted eyes.

14..SAME OLD ROUTINE
Boredom eventually makes you get tired of s*x, s*x shouldn't always be predictable. Be creative in bed, your s*xlife depends on it.

15. HAVING S*X AS AN OBLIGATION
S*x should be an expression of love not a duty. Tragedy is when you get to the point of s*xing your spouse because you feel obligated to give your spouse conjugal rights. S*x should not be one sided where one spouse gets pleasure and the other feels forced to play the part. This is where most women fake or***ms and end it quickly, soon s*x becomes undesirable.

16. PATHETIC FOREPLAY
No foreplay or pathetic foreplay puts off the act. S*x should be like a concert, where foreplay is the curtain raiser and in*******se the main act. When the curtain raiser is a bad performance, it taints the quality of the entire concert.

17. COLD HINDPLAY
The foreplay may be amazing, the in*******se could be incredible, but what happens after the climax shapes the view of s*x. If after s*x your spouse becomes cold towards you, treats you like you are no longer needed or walks away like you are some dirty thing; you will begin to feel used. Every time you'll think of s*x, you will remember that feeling of being used.

18. VIEWING S*X AS EVIL
In a world where talking about s*x has been made a taboo, s*x has been made so cheap, the abuse of s*x has led to much pain and we grow up being told to shun s*x; many end up viewing s*x as evil. Godly people become programmed to frown at the thought of s*x. Evil shouldn't steal what God invented. S*x is Godly and is God's idea. In your marriage, talk dirty with your spouse, get kinky, hold nothing back; for even God expects, desires and demands you two to enjoy s*x.

19. FEAR OF PREGNANCY
No one, married or not desires to get a child when they are not ready. We plan our families because we want to bring children into this world when we can give the best. The fear of getting pregnant can take away the peace, one can't relax fully though the want for pleasure exists. And even after the s*x, the mind stays anxious waiting for the monthly periods, and gets worried when the periods are late. That worry keeps eating up the joy of s*x. Save yourself the stress, discuss with your spouse and doctor on the right contraceptive so that you enjoy s*x and plan when to have children or your next child.

20. ROUGHNESS
When your spouse is clumsy, hurtful or rough on you and in touching you it can easily kill the pleasure. Teach each other how to handle each other, be sensitive. There is a difference between wild good s*x and hurtful handling.

21. WRONG WORDS OR NOT WORDS SPOKEN
Don't be silent, go on and moan, say something, say what you want. Your moan turns your spouse on even more, the more your spouse hears you enjoying, the more your spouse gets into it and enjoyment is heightened. Be careful also not to say something that turns your spouse of

07/12/2023

Dear Men,

A woman who doesn't listen to you does not belong to you.
A woman who doesn't take corrections from you;
a woman who doesn't take instructions from you;
a woman who doesn't take direction from you;

That woman is condescending and arrogant. She thinks she's doing you a favor by being in a relationship with you.
That woman thinks she's better than you and she deserves to be with someone who's better than you, richer than you, more successful than you.
That woman is disrespectful; always arguing with you; always creating unnecessary drama; giving you no peace because she wants to prove a point.
That woman loves materials for trade. she will humiliate you and abandon you. So, stop trying to change her.
That woman will ruin you.

Run when you still can.

24/11/2023

FIVE TYPES OF WOMEN WHO CAN'T MAINTAIN A MARRIAGE

1: The Most Beautiful Women
-It takes holyspirit only to make a beautiful woman to be in a marriage.
-They are on high demand
-Many beautiful ladies are still single, and you keep wondering what is keeping them
-They use their beauty as a capital for money making

2:. The Most Educated Women
-A woman having a degree, masters, PhD to have to stay in a marriage, its the grace of God.
-Their qualifications makes them independent.
-Visit offices in the companies, most high ranked women and rich are single, divorced.

3: WOMEN FROM RICH FAMILIES
-Women raised under rich families find it difficult to get married because they want same environment they grew up with it a marriage.
-They want no on to advise them

4: The Most Anointed Women Of God
- Most women with the calling of God have no husbands ,either divorced
-No time to do house works
-No time to care for their husbands
-Their husbands can't advise them because they only listen from the holyspirit.
You will find a man with a phd goes to the village and marries a grade 5 woman,what is he looking for ??? Because that is the one that would understand and respect him better.
Speaking in tongues will never make you a wife, only a submissive woman will stay in a marriage and not the beauty and the like.
I know you will oppose this message, but read it again and again before you oppose it

5. Drunkards or clubbing women.. most men don't want to settledown with these kind of women but if they are to go for a one night stand, they will.. thats how some of these girls have kids that they dont even know who the father is.. just for hit and run.

23/09/2023

All What he said in his Lyrics came to pass, He said bami doju ti Awon ti mo text ti won reply mi( help me disgr*ace those I text that didn’t reply me) IT HAPPENED( Rema and Oxlade) There is something about him, maybe a disguised prophet, who knows, he said fi ife mi si okan Awon fans mi( make my fans love me more) Ki okunkun yin parada toripe imole tin nbo(let all your darkness disappear because the LIGHT IS COMING)it’s happening IMOLE 💥💥

09/09/2023

09/09/2023

When someone is no longer interested in you, you would know. Trust me, their attitude towards you will change, just pay close attention to them. You will notice things like:

They don’t want to spend time with you anymore.

They Find it hard to call you or text it. It is almost like calling you or texting you or spending time with you is a waste of time to them.

They always come up with reasons why they can’t be available for you. Or why they can’t spend time with you. Once they start giving those silly excuses, just know something is wrong somewhere.

They are often irritated with you! It’s like everything you do is annoying to them. They just keep yelling at you or pushing you away.

They are no longer open with you. They don’t want to share any intimate discussions with you. They shut you out of their life and they don’t want you around them.

You can feel that there’s something wrong but you don’t know exactly what it is. Their attitude towards you is changing and you are unhappy when you are around them.

These are some signs that your partner is losing interest in you!

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03/06/2023

Hello fams I have been away for a while now, but I'm back, I want to use this medium opportunity to apologize for those I have promised recharge card, something comes up during the time please forgive me it's not intentional. Please I need your support to move this page forward.