11/10/2025
WHEN IS IT SAFE TO RESUME S*X AFTER A CESAREAN SECTION (C-Section)?
Let's talk about Mary's story.
Mary is a 30-year-old first-time mom who welcomed her baby through a cesarean section just four weeks ago.
Between the endless midnight feeds, diaper changes, and attempts to grab a few minutes of sleep, she is still learning to navigate this new chapter of motherhood.
One night, her husband gently brings up a topic she hasn't thought much about—$ex. He misses their closeness and thinks it might be time to reconnect.
However, Mary isn't sure; her scar still feels a little sore, and her body doesn't quite feel the same.
Feeling confused, Mary decides to talk with her midwife. You might find yourself in her position too—torn between your partner's needs and your body's healing process.
Here's what her midwife explained:
After a C-section, your body needs at least six weeks to heal properly. The uterus, stitches, and abdominal wound require time to close and regain strength. Engaging in $ex too early may increase the risk of infection, bleeding, or pain.
Even after six weeks, it's crucial to get your doctor or midwife's clearance before resuming intimacy.
Mary and her husband took this advice to heart. They waited until her six-week postnatal check, during which her midwife confirmed that her wound had healed well.
The midwife also reminded them that even if Mary isn't seeing her period yet, pregnancy can still occur.
Therefore, she discussed family planning options, such as breastfeeding-friendly methods like condoms, implants, or intrauterine devices (IUDs).
This conversation gave Mary peace of mind. When she and her husband finally reconnected, it was not rushed or painful—it was safe, comfortable, and filled with understanding.
Healing takes time, so don't rush it. Use this season to bond in other ways—talk, laugh, share chores, and support each other. When your body and mind are ready, intimacy will feel natural again.
Your healing is important—take it one step at a time.
Share with me how you navigate your postpartum season.