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Iretomihwa, Ibadan (2025)

15/06/2025

Have u experienced it b4, What's ur reaction?
If you and Ur bby are making love then, he sneeze and catarrh burst out 4rm his nose nd drop at her mouth?

29/04/2025

Listen up, Men!

When a woman starts giving unnecessary attitude, making excuses, asking for "a break," or suddenly becoming distant without explanation—pay attention. Stop overthinking, stop over-apologizing, and stop letting yourself be misled. Women are emotional beings, and when their behavior changes, there’s always a reason. Often, it’s a sign that her attention, loyalty, or respect has shifted elsewhere.

Here’s the truth: if you haven’t done anything wrong, her attitude isn’t about you—it’s about her choices. She might have cheated, is considering it, or has her focus on someone else. Women may not always hide their emotional changes well—the signs are usually there. You just need to be aware enough to spot them.

At this point, stop asking, "What’s going on?" or "What did I do wrong?" That’s weak energy, and it won’t help. When you beg for answers, you lose your power. Instead, step back. Remove yourself from the situation, observe quietly, and let her actions speak for themselves.

Men, understand this: a woman who respects you will communicate, not confuse you. If she’s giving attitude, making excuses, or pulling away, she’s already emotionally disconnected. Don’t chase what’s slipping away—maintain your dignity, stay true to yourself, and walk away if necessary.

You deserve loyalty, respect, and honesty. Never lower your standards or beg for someone who isn’t willing to offer the same. You’re a man—carry yourself as one. Stay sharp. Stay in control.

Those who don't learn will answer in the brotherhood community💯👌
Iretomihwa

29/04/2025

“You are not matured if you have not allowed a man to press your breast as a lady.”

These were the exact words you used that day.
And at that moment, I realized…

I wasn’t having a conversation with a bad person, I was having a conversation with someone who had been badly taught.

Because somewhere along the line, We started confusing exposure with maturity. We started dressing wounds like they were trophies.

We started calling pain 'experience' and bo***ge 'freedom'.

How did we get here?...

Where girls are told that s*x equals power,

And boys are told that control equals manhood?

We live in a time where if you haven’t lost your virginity by a certain age, they say you’re either lying or lacking.

Where if you’re still “clean,”
They ask you, “What are you waiting for?"

They say...

“If you don’t sleep with him, he’ll leave you.”

“If you don’t show your skin, no one will notice you.”

“If you don’t bend your values, you’ll never rise.”

“If you don’t join them, you’ll be left behind.”

“If you haven’t had a heartbreak, you’re still a baby.”

“If you don’t have a sugar daddy, you’re wasting your beauty.”

Lies.

Beautifully packaged, widely accepted lies.

Maturity is not in the loss of innocence. It is in the preservation of purpose. It is in knowing who you are, and having the strength to protect it.

Being mature is not about how much of your body someone has touched. It’s about how much of your soul you’ve refused to sell.

It’s about boundaries. It’s about self-respect. It’s about not needing to test fire to know that it burns.

You’re not more mature because you’ve had s*x.
You’re not more respected because you’ve “done what grown-ups do.” You’re not more of a woman because someone has “pressed your breast.”
And you’re definitely not more of a man because you’ve broken hearts.

Real maturity is when you can say no and still walk away with your head high. When you know what you’re worth and refuse to let your value be measured in bedroom statistics.

Let this be clear...
You don’t have to experience shame to prove your strength. You don’t have to taste regret to understand your worth. You don’t have to be broken to become beautiful.

To every girl reading this:
You are enough even if you’ve never been touched.
You are mature even if you’ve never compromised.
And to the one who has made mistakes, You are not your past.

So next time they tell you, “You’re not mature if you haven’t...” Smile.
And tell them, “I’m not in a rush to ruin what I was called to protect.”

Your value is not defined by what the world claps for. It’s defined by what you refuse to lose even when no one is watching.

______
When you understand your purpose, you won't be swayed by anyone in the name of "Maturity".

Iretomihwa

22/04/2025

If you don’t call, she doesn’t call.
If you don’t text, she doesn’t text.

You asked her what’s wrong she’s giving you excuses why she doesn’t call or text, LIES.
Let me tell you bro, nothing can hold back a woman in love if she has to steal to reach you she might! She’s online almost 24/7 but she can’t send you just a simple message, she’s not in love my bro.
It’s not your fault, it’s not her fault. She doesn’t have strong feelings for you, is not your fault that she’s losing feelings stop overthinking this thing , stop trying to pour water into a basket.
She cannot value you no matter what you do, because she doesn’t want those things from you.

Be wise bro

22/04/2025

Men,

1. Everyone has a voice but money is the volume. Work hard, have assets in your name as a man, acquire wealth.

2. At 25+, your circle should be discussing about open business, investing, fitness, escaping 8-5 jobs, self development and financial freedom.

3. Life is a ruthless battle, the earlier you sweat, the less you will bleed in this battle. The world is cruel, brutal, nasty and short.

4. Conquer your lust. This is a golden handshake with your future.

5. Very few people truly care about you. Society will leave you on the road to rot. Almost all of your friends will ditch you the moment your situation turning into something chaotic that lies beyond their expectations.

6. Hard times and moments will pass. It is always very dark just before dawn. Keep it cool and never lose your optimism. Don't loosen the grip.

7. Life is a MARATHON, not a sprint. Therefore, be patient, patience is not the ability to wait, its how you react while waiting. Be Consistent. Be Persistent. One day all those late nights and early mornings will pay off.

8. Nobody cares about you. Nobody owes you anything. Most will be Jealous when you Succeed. You’ll be Shocked at who Abandons you when you Fail.

9. Don't chase s*x, food and entertainment. You will succumb to them and end up miserable and depressed.

10. Happiness and fun are a femicentric construct. They don't exist in the dictionary of MEN. Chase meaningful purpose NOT "happiness and fun".

11. If you meet a man talking to himself while gesticulating, Don't interfere, he is: - aligning his MISSION with his VISION, organizing his WISDOM to build his KINGDOM, chiselling his MINDSET to improve his SKILLET, tuning his SOUL with his GOAL.

12. Gambling is addictive and destructive. Don't accept to be a slave.

13. Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times.

14. If you impregnate a woman, take responsibilities. You knew the consequences of raw s*x. No matter your age, take responsibility. If you're not ready, use a condom.

15. The world will ask you who you are, and if you don't know, the world will tell you.

16. If you are sitting in a high table and have access to opportunities, help those who have capability but lack access to opportunity. We're all fighting the battle to success and the path can be rough and frustrating. Be a Pillar not an Obstacle.

17. Nobody cares about your pitfalls! The journey to GREATNESS is long, windy and rough.

18. Nobody cares about you. Nobody owes you anything. Most will be Jealous when you Succeed. You’ll be Shocked at who Abandons you when you Fail.

19. People WILL Let you down. Accept and Embrace these Maxims. Turn your Mind into a ruthless Weapon.

20. PROTECT yourself. No one will do it for you. It's on you. No one is coming to save you.

21. Time is non refundable, use it with intention

22. Have a vision. Starve your distractions, feed your focus. Set goals. Read every day. Live inspired

23. If you don't go after it, you won't have it

24. Make mistakes and pursue failure

25. Take mistakes as lessons
Focus is the key

26. Study hard what interests you the most

27. Don't worry about what other people think. Don't pay attention to what others think of you.

28. Skills are more valuable than your grades

29. Excuses make today easy, but tomorrow harder. Discipline make today hard, but tomorrow easy. Choice is yours.

30. You cannot climb the ladder of success with your hands in your pockets.

31. Hungry stomach,an empty pocket and a broken heart can teach the best lessons of life.

32. If your mind is weak, your body and soul will suffer.

Be wise
Iretomihwa

20/04/2025

The more you understand yourself the more helpful you can be to yourself and others. The more you understand yourself the less suffering you will create for yourself and others. The biggest threat to people is other people. The biggest threat to ourselves is us. Keep learning. Keep going.

Iretomihwa

20/04/2025

Every single “problem” in your life is giving you some type of information. When things are going good, no new information is being processed, but good feelings are being experienced. But when things get sticky, is when the information is pouring in. Organize that info. Take a step back to get a better view. Then get back at it. Much respect. Keep going.

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18/04/2025

To realize
The value of a sister or brother
Ask someone
Who doesn't have one.

To realize
The value of ten years:
Ask a newly
Divorced couple.

To realize
The value of four years:
Ask a graduate.

To realize
The value of one year:
Ask a student who
Has failed a final exam.

To realize
The value of nine months:
Ask a mother who gave birth to a stillborn.

To realize
The value of one month:
Ask a mother
Who has given birth to
A premature baby.

To realize
The value of one week:
Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realize
The value of one minute:
Ask a person
Who has missed the train, bus or plane.

To realize
The value of one second:
Ask a person
Who has survived an accident.

To realise
The value of a season ask
Ask who lost his/her loved one

Time waits for no one.

The moral:
Treasure every moment you have.

Happy Easter to you pal🎉

15/11/2024

Good morning Iretomihwa pls I need an advice. I’m a 22yrs old lady and I need an advice.

I met a guy when I was in secondary school and almost done, and he was taking good care of me, so after I was done with secondary school I started dating him and he was the one that disvirgin me, and ever since then he took me as his responsibility and said he wants to get married to me. So after secondary school he paid for me to learn how to make hair, make wigs, pedicure, etc, so while I was learning he was taking care of my expenses, he gives me weekly allowance to take care of myself.

So after learning I started working and was earning money and he was still buying me my skincare and foodstuffs, so he even got me a good job with accommodation and that job changed my life for good. But I got pregnant for him like 3times and he said he was not ready yet because he is still trying to make money so I had to terminate it and our relationship was 4yrs then.

He was transferred out of Lagos for about 3yrs and we only see once in a year but we talk a lot and he was still taking care of me but I found out that he has someone over there that he was dating, so I got into another relationship with another guy but the guy is very nice and good, just that he can’t take care of me financially and he has been trying to get a job but till now he has not been successful.

I use to feed the guy and buy body cream and other things for him, he use to give me money when he has but is less than 10k. We have been dating for a year plus but I am already tired of the relationship, because I take care of myself and the guy, and he keeps telling me to bear with him that everything will be fine and he will marry me and pay me for all the good I have done for him.

I got admission to school but this guy couldn’t even help with anything even with school fees or hostel money, even food stuff he couldn’t help.

So 5months ago I met a new guy and we have been dating and he has been really helpful and he said he really loves me and wants us to get married. So the thing is he contributed to my school fees and bought my provisions and foodstuffs for me, and he has been taking care of me. I ask him why is he doing all these things and he said that because he wants to get married to me and he said I should promise him that I will not betray or cheat on him, which I did, because I really like the guy.

So the issue here is that my first boyfriend is back and he wants us to get married but he lost his lucrative job and he is not as rich as he used to be, while the second guy is begging me to be with him that we wants to spend his life with me. My now boyfriend said we are getting married next year. I’m just confused I don’t know who to be with now, I need to choose one person but the first guy was the one that made me who I was today cuz I own two lands in Lagos and I have investments of about 6 million, so I am thinking of helping my first boyfriend with 1million to start up something.

My now boyfriend needs money to buy a car to start Uber so that we can be planning our future together, so I want to give him like 2million to add and get a good car to use for Uber, but I feel it’s too early cuz our relationship is just 5months, but this guy has been really nice to me and he always talks about the future. He is 37yrs, while my first boyfriend is 35yrs.

I don’t know what to do and I am just in 100 level in university and I am the one sponsoring myself and my now boyfriend also supports me too. Please I need an advice

09/11/2024

Hyperactive kids🛑

Do you have any in your house? Here's how to identify and treat them.

The main signs of hyperactive and impulsive kids are;
1) they fidget a lot
2) they can't sit still
3)Excess talking
4) they can concentrate in task
6) they'll challenge you if you dare them🤣
7) they can't wait in a queue. Before you know it,they're ahead struggling to overtake everyone
8) they're always correct and must be heard
9) They act without thinking
10) they're good at interrupting a conversation
11) they'll take all the conversations of their parents to their neighbours or teachers. Most second and last born fall under this category ( hyperactive). They no di fear face,age,height or muscles. At times you'll think theyre "obanje" or sent to come and Kee you🤣
Incase you have a situation like this in your house,don't panic! This is the solution 👇

Motherhood or fatherhood is no joke..

As a mum and an effective teacher, let me start by saying that your child is not stubborn but hyper active...

We have one like that too🤣our second born

How do you handle these kinds of children?

👉Do not use threats as a means of correcting them.

They will dare you to see what you can do.

👉Do not flog or hit them
This makes them more daring and a time will come, they will no longer be scared of cane or u hitting them. This will make them grow into deviant children.

👉Be careful of your tone and language you use on them..
They hear you, don't think they are children!
No matter how angry you are, use positive words, excuse them or yourself if you know you can't bear the anger, then address the issue when you are calmer.

👉Praise them very well( take note)

These kind of children like praises alot, it makes them want to behave better.

👉Set boundaries

👉Discipline them to connect not condemn
Do not flog them or hit them like thieves

👉 Minimise shouting at them at all cost

It doesn't shake them🤣🤣

Aside from the fact that they are hyper active, they are naturally born leaders, compassionate, great team players and great encouragers. Frequently hug them🙏

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