Love Dictionary

29/11/2022

Been in a relationship should be like taking up some kind of responsibilities without expecting any form of acknowledgement or appreciations. Though, if they come. They should serve as incentives and motivate you to do even better than it was necessarily and morally required of you.

No one has the power to know and control what is in other people's minds. Psychologist can only guess based on sequence or series of previous actions and events.

So you need not worry too much about what other people are doing wrong. All you need is to focus on performing your responsibilities as it was mutually agreed on, or even better.

The fact is, if you worry too much on what your partner are supposed to be doing for you that he/she was not doing, you wouldn't have time to discharge your duties or perform your responsibilities to him/her as appropriate and you might not even aware that you are no different from the person you are castigating.

And the worst is, when you are aware that you are not been responsible to your spouse as you suppose to, but you chose to believe that your partner didn't deserve a responsible "you".

The truth is "the blame game" is not going to do your relationships any good. Your spouse should not be the reason why you are not a responsible and reliable partner.

Mahatma Gandhi once said "You must be the change you wish to see in the world".

So, if you want your spouse to be a better person, then you should start by being a better person yourself.

Start behaving kindly and been responsible as you want your spouse to be.

There is no perfect systems any where in the world, that's why sometimes no matter how hard you try, some things are definitely not going to work out. So, in the cases whereby things later went sideways(which will be very rare if you adopt the systems pointed out in this article) the other party would have no one to blame but themselves and would have no reason to keep malice on you because you are always being kind to them all through the rumbles of your relationship.

And I strongly believed, if we can adopt this philosophy in all our dealings and relationships with other people, the world would be a peaceful place for everyone.

No matter how difficult a battle is, it will be a bit easier when it is been fighted on your domain.

So, instead of letting people's bad deeds attract bad deeds from you by worrying too much on the wrongs they are doing you. You should let your good deeds attract good deeds from them by paying more attention to the right things you should be doing for them. Which will be easier because it's in your domain.

29/11/2022

Love is the light

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18/08/2020

True love is eternal, infinite, and always like itself. It is equal and pure, without violent demonstrations: it is seen with white hairs and is always young in the heart.
-Honore de Balzac

You shouldn't stay in an abusive relationship unless you are a therapist. I have heard many women complained to me many times, that he really loves me, he care so much, he made me feel needed. But whenever we have an argument, he just can't control his anger, he usually easily lost his temper. My reply to them; If he really loves you as you claimed, he wouldn't even have any temper to loose whenever you are around him.

Many women these days still stay in abusive relationships because of the above mentioned notion. The truth is some of them may have learnt in some books they read or sessions they have had with a relationship counsellor like me; that due to the imperfect nature of human beings, they should learn to love the imperfect person perfectly. But believe me, an abusive relationships is an exception. Your health is very important if you are to enjoy any love at all.

There are certain situations in a relationship when love alone is not enough. An abusive relationship is a perfect example of such situations. In a perfect love settings, a man should naturally feel ashamed to get angry at anyone in the presence of the woman he loves. Talkless of her(his lover) being the recipient of such aggression. You as a woman have no reasons to endanger your life, lose your self-worth, self-esteem and self-confidence all in the name of love. Because if you lose all these, there is nothing left to love in you anymore.

It saddens my heart to see women been brutalised by the man they claimed to love or that claimed to love them. And made me wonder if there is any love between them in the first place. It is even a sin against humanity and every human rights law to unlawfully battered and brutalised fellow human beings talk less of someone you are romantically involved with.

So, I will implore every women in this situation to stop been delusional and been deceived by the level of care and attention they might be getting. A man that truly loves you would not be able to stand seeing you get hurted by anyone, not even someone he has so much respect for, talk less of now hurting you by himself.

Love and Violence cannot dwell together: at the door where the latter enters, the former exits.
-Olode Adekunle

LEAVE AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS WHEN YOU ARE STILL ALIVE.... EVEN IF YOUR PASTOR OR ALFA TELLS YOU NOT TO, DON'T LISTEN. MY SISTER, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE.

17/10/2019

You really don't have to regret your past, if they hold sweet memories.

That's how you move on.

04/10/2019

The ability to love regardless of any situation or condition, is not something you can learn.

It's a divine gift.

03/03/2019

We are back!

Lets share some love again

17/11/2018

The first step in finding a suitable partner in any relationship is to become the exact kind of people you really desire.

29/04/2018

Love is a never ending circle, to live a fulfilled life. You got to love as long as you life.

04/03/2018

Love is not blind as some people want us to believe. There is no way you will passionately love someone that detest your presence. .

24/02/2018

The most simple solution to every problems and the easiest answer to every questions. LOVE

It goes far beyond what transpire between a young man and his girlfriend.

It's not just a word, it's a way of life.