Blissful Bond

26/07/2025

Hey QUEENS! 👋 Ever wondered why relationships sometimes fade despite love and loyalty? 🤔 Let's dive into the silent behaviors that can quietly sabotage even the strongest connections 💔 Join our Single Ladies/Married Group tonight for an honest discussion on:

Building Stronger Relationships
1. Uncovering silent killers in relationships
2. Sharing personal experiences and insights
3. Supporting each other through life's ups and downs

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26/07/2025

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21/07/2025

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15/07/2025

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13/07/2025

As a MAN..Learn that Attractiveness goes beyond physical appearance. It's about confidence, charisma, and a sense of self. Being attractive as a man isn't just about looks; it's about how you carry yourself, how you interact with others, and how you exude positivity and energy. In this guide, we'll explore the key elements that make a man attractive, from building confidence and developing a sense of style to cultivating meaningful relationships and embracing your unique qualities.
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09/07/2025

24/06/2025

Don’t use a married man or woman to fill the emptiness while you wait for “the one.

That temporary comfort comes at a permanent cost to you and to others.

Sometimes, the fear of being alone isn’t about the present at all, it’s a reflection of unmet emotional needs from childhood.

Maybe you were abandoned, overlooked, or emotionally neglected, and now silence feels like punishment instead of peace.

But here’s the truth: healing is possible. You don’t have to sabotage your future or your integrity trying to escape loneliness. Sit with the discomfort, explore the root, and let God meet you there. Real love doesn’t have to be stolen. Fix what’s broken inside, so you can receive what’s truly yours whole, honest, and pure.
Hearthland_Oluwasegun
||• Trauma Recovery Expert // Relationship/Marriage Consultant.

16/06/2025

```LUNCH NUGGET
The childhood trauma you fail to address will not stay hidden forever. It will find its way into your adult life, and most often, it shows up in your closest relationships especially your romantic ones. That unspoken fear of abandonment? It’ll surface when your partner simply needs space.

That deep-rooted feeling of not being enough? It’ll creep in whenever you're shown love, making you question its authenticity. Unhealed wounds from childhood often manifest as defensiveness, emotional withdrawal, control, or even self-sabotage in relationships.

Marriage is not a magic eraser. It won’t heal what you haven’t faced in fact, it will likely magnify it. Why? Because intimacy exposes. It brings us face-to-face with parts of ourselves we've tried to hide. And if we’re not careful, the person we love the most becomes the person we unintentionally hurt the most.

Don’t wait until love becomes a battlefield of unresolved pain. Choose healing now. Sit with your younger self. Acknowledge the wounds.

Grieve the losses. Invite God into the broken spaces. Go to therapy. Do the inner work. Your future self and your future relationship will thank you.

HEAL because brokenness may be your history, but it doesn’t have to be your legacy. 💔➡️❤️‍🩹
Hearthland_Oluwasegun
Trauma Recovery Expert//Relationship/Marriage Consultant.

15/06/2025

```Dear MEN,

I want to take a moment to express our deepest gratitude and admiration for everything you do. Your unwavering support, guidance, and love shape the lives of your children and inspire us all.

As we celebrate Father's Day, I acknowledge the sacrifices you make, the late nights, and the early mornings. I appreciate your patience, your wisdom, and your unwavering commitment to your families.

You're not just dads; you're role models, mentors, and heroes. Your influence helps shape the next generation, and we're grateful for your presence in our lives.

So, on this Father's Day, I want to say thank you. Thank you for being amazing dads, partners, and friends. We're honored to have you in our group, and we hope your special day is filled with love, laughter, and celebration.
Hearthland_Oluwasegun
Trauma Recovery Expert // Relationship/Marriage Consultant.
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09/06/2025

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09/06/2025

Am I your wife/girlfriend or your maid?”

A common question in modern marriages/relationships. But ask yourself this:

Has your husband/boyfriend ever said….
Am I your husband/boyfriend or your mechanic? Your handyman?
Your Uber driver? Your security guard? Your bank account?

No.

Because men do what needs to be done without whining.
He fixes, lifts, pays, protects, provides. He shoulders ten roles in silence. You know what he doesn’t do? Throw it in your face. But the moment you do some laundry or clean a dish, it’s:
“I’m not your maid!” No! you’re just playing the victim in a role you signed up for.
Marriage/relationship isn’t a job. It’s a commitment. It’s sacrifice. If love feels like labor, maybe you stopped loving and started negotiating. Newsflash: Healthy relationships aren’t built on equality. They’re built on reciprocity. Give without keeping score. Serve without resentment.
You’re not oppressed. You’re in a partnership. Stop confusing love with labor. And stop calling every act of service “slavery.” It’s called being an adult. Men don’t get medals for what they do. They don’t ask, “Who’s going to cook for me?” They just get it done.
And get overlooked. So next time you want to say, “Am I your maid?” Ask yourself: When was the last time I acted like a wife instead of a critic?