18/10/2025
You must not rush your healing just because people expect you to “move on already.”
Heartbreak doesn’t work on anyone’s timeline. Some wounds take longer to close, and that’s okay.
Don’t let anyone shame you for still feeling pain after a few weeks or months, you’re human, not a machine.
When you try to heal too fast, you end up covering your pain instead of curing it.
You start distracting yourself with work, parties, or new flings, thinking you’re fine.
But the truth is, you’re just piling new experiences on top of old wounds. And one day, it all comes crashing down because you never really faced what broke you.
Healing means sitting with the silence, accepting the loss, and rebuilding yourself piece by piece. It’s not easy, but it’s necessary.
The goal isn’t to forget them; it’s to remember yourself.
So, take your time. Cry if you need to. Rest if you must.
There’s no trophy for who moves on the fastest.
What matters is that when you do rise again, you rise whole, not just patched up and pretending.