Intimacy Clinic

Intimacy Clinic First Clinical Couples Counseling & S*x Therapy Clinic in Africa. It is an error if your relationship/marriage is part of your headache at this time.
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A lot has been, and still going on in the world and you have so much to deal with already, as an individual. This is a time to lean on the shoulder of the one that loves you and draw strength from your union. At Intimacy Clinic, we understand that intimate relationship is a major part of your mental well-being and functionality, and we understand how devastating it could be when something sweet suddenly turns sour. With a minimum of 20hours client sessions weekly, Dr Tolu has been in the business of building homes and fixing relationships for more than one decade now. She uses therapeutic interventions and clinical counseling skills in her serene and no-judgement zone office. You too can join her league of happy clients and make the most of your union, irrespective of your location, culture or belief. Before things get out of hands, before you develop mental health issues from unresolved emotional issues and before you throw in the towel... Let’s help you, it can be fixed! Contact Intimacy Clinic: +2348184575377
www.intimacyclinic.org

When last did you really feel each other as a couple? Not rushed conversations, not survival love, not “we’re fine.”Coup...
04/01/2026

When last did you really feel each other as a couple? Not rushed conversations, not survival love, not “we’re fine.”

Couple Up is The Intimacy Clinic’s signature monthly intimate get-together designed exclusively for couples who desire more than routine love, couples who crave depth, laughter, safety, sensual reconnection, and emotional intimacy.

In the midst of busy schedules, emotional fatigue, and unspoken distance, love can quietly slip into survival mode. Couple Up gently pulls couples out of autopilot and back into presence.

Expect activities like intimate couples games, eye-opening, honest relationship truths, rejuvenating connection exercises, deep bonding without pressure or therapy and so much more…

Very Limited slots available. Call +2348184575377 to register or visit: https://intimacyclinic.org/upcoming-event/

04/01/2026

Dear Dr. Tolu, Please hide my identity. I am a 41-year-old woman and a deaconess in my church. My husband, Efe, has not touched me for two years. Whenever I bring it up, he says, “You’re too carnal,” and accuses me of being “s*x-obsessed.” Yet I see how he stares at women online. I went to our pastor for counseling, and he told me, “A virtuous woman doesn’t chase her husband for s*x.” He said I should focus on prayer and service, not my body. I left that office feeling dirty. I have served God faithfully, raised three children, and supported this man through thick and thin, but who supports me?
Now I’m torn between staying silent and seeking help elsewhere. Sometimes, I imagine what it would feel like to be desired again. Then I ask God for forgiveness. Dr. Tolu, please, am I sinning for wanting intimacy in my marriage? Or have we made holiness a cage for women’s needs?

04/01/2026

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The worst mistake you can make in your life is to raise your children in a dysfunctional family, you owe it to your unbo...
04/01/2026

The worst mistake you can make in your life is to raise your children in a dysfunctional family, you owe it to your unborn children to give them a mentally healthy father/mother.

Making the right choice in marriage is not negotiable, if not for you, but for the sake of your future children.

02/01/2026

I lost my marriage 3 years ago after we have live together as husband and wife for 9 years with 2 boys the first born is now 10 while the second is 4.

We started having issues after few days of giving birth to our first child in 2013 because we agreed to move back to a 2 bed room Apartment that I inherited from my late Dad after listened to the advice of my father in law to do so

My wife gave birth to our first child 2 weeks after I lost my Dad and I was shocked when I got to know that she did family planning without my consent nor my permission and to my surprise all the idea was from her mum, whom doesn't really supported our relationship at the beginning.

But i just have to play along with the idea because I believe our marriage was early and I don't want us to start having issues.

To be added I never had s*x with my wife till the night of our wedding and I wasn't surprised when I discovered that my wife was a virgin and I was happy been the fact that I was the person that dis virgin her.

The most worst was moment of it was the time my wife got a Teaching job from a Technical College around our hood and she has a shop that she do sell cosmetics, beads and little jewelries

She will complain each time I tried to make love with her infact sometime she will turned her back to me that I should be having s*x with her from the back side which I reluctantly agreed at the initial stage but it got to a stage I started complaining bitterly and I threatened her that I will be doing it outside our marriage and she started given me some I don't care attitude.

Even from morning till night my wife won't bother checking on me no message nor calls and whenever I tried to complain or talk about it she will turn the whole situation upside down telling me IS S*X A FOOD?

After 5 years of endurance in my marriage with experience of s*x depriving from my wife I started dating a lady she was happened to be a divorcee and a mother of 3 kids she keeps my company after work and to my surprise the first time I had s*x with her I discovered that she doesn't know anything about s*x at all.

I wanted to quit the relationship immediately at first but each time I discovered that even if I get home I will still meet my waterloo I just have to endure and take it as my faith.

But in 2020 during the Covid 19 pandemic, I called my wife and I apologized that I've cheated on her and I promised her not to do so again..

I didn't know that was a big mistake of my life because immediately our s*x life change good even for the best little did I know that my wife was just trying to give me a sent off s*x experience.

It got to a period I wanted to complain but I was really enjoying the moment, the vibes and the new experience.

We do make love every corner of the house but it ends after I got back from work in 2021 late February and I discovered that my wife had left with part of my belongings, my 2 kids and she left a note that said I shouldn't bother of begging nor looking for her.

All my efforts to bring her back was abortive and I decided to move on with the other lady but right now I'm facing the same thing infact she's even worst more than my ex wife when it comes to s*x, she a Professional Nurse but her s*x life is very poor

This is my story...

As we step into this new year, I carry a quiet certainty, healing must be intentional, love must be conscious, and purpo...
02/01/2026

As we step into this new year, I carry a quiet certainty, healing must be intentional, love must be conscious, and purpose must be lived boldly.

This year, I recommit myself to raising emotionally whole individuals, stronger families, and a more mentally healthy society, one conversation, one healing journey, one courageous choice at a time. We will speak truth where silence once lived, choose growth over comfort, and build relationships rooted in awareness, intimacy, and respect.

May this year invite you to unlearn what no longer serves you, reclaim your voice, honour your emotional needs, and pursue wholeness without shame. Healing is not weakness. Softness is not failure. And depth is your power.

Here’s to a year of clarity, healthy love, audacious growth, and lives transformed within and beyond the therapy room. Welcome to the year of intentional living, emotional intelligence, and courageous intimacy.

Happy New Year, with purpose and love,
Dr Tolu, The Fixer.
www.intimacyclinic.org

#2026

Happy New Year from all of us at The Intimacy Clinic. As we step into 2026, we do so with deep gratitude and quiet confi...
01/01/2026

Happy New Year from all of us at The Intimacy Clinic.

As we step into 2026, we do so with deep gratitude and quiet confidence, confidence built on results, integrity, and transformed lives.

The Intimacy Clinic remains the foremost authority in couples, s*x, and mental health therapy, trusted by high-caliber individuals, couples, and families who value depth, discretion, and real change.

With a 98% therapeutic success rate and 100% of our satisfied past clients sending us referrals, our work continues to speak louder than any advertisement ever could.

We are honoured by the trust you place in us, the referrals you give, and the journeys you allow us to walk with you, whether toward emotional healing, s*xual wholeness, relational clarity, or mental wellness.

In 2026, we are opening our doors, our capacity, and our hearts even wider. We remain committed to serving you more intentionally, more expertly, and more compassionately, raising the standard of therapy, intimacy, and mental well-being in Nigeria, Africa, and beyond.

Thank you for choosing excellence. Thank you for choosing growth. Thank you for choosing wholeness.

We look forward to serving you deeper, better, and stronger in the year ahead.

With professionalism, care, and purpose,
Dr. Tolu, The Fixer.

Walk as much as you can in 2026, just make sure you aren't walking without your therapist. #2026
01/01/2026

Walk as much as you can in 2026, just make sure you aren't walking without your therapist.

#2026

Understanding, presence, affirmation, curiosity, and vulnerability are very important during the act of lo******ng. Ladi...
29/12/2025

Understanding, presence, affirmation, curiosity, and vulnerability are very important during the act of lo******ng.

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