Triple T Alternative Medicine

20/07/2025

Ponder over this before it's too late!

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18/10/2024

*Triple T Alternative Medicine*
Getting a befitting spouse is not a challenge, the greatest challenge is getting a spouse that meet up with our criteria. Allahu Akbar! When you engage with the people seeking for spouse, you'll realise that their problems emanate from their wrong perspectives. There are so many important factors we fail to consider when it comes to spouse selection, now, the factors become the major cause of problems after marriage.

The moment we consider worldly materials over other important factors, we may become victims of unsuccessful marriage. Are you getting married into a family: that see divorce as norm, that see women as slaves, that beat & punch women like sacks, that use women as decoration- family trend, that separate husbands & wives-not living together, that use & dump women (consider only the children)? All these count in marriage, they're reasons for many failed marriages today.

Firstly, there are certain challenges in adulthood which are inevitable for some people to pass through & indeed they're a big task. This has made some people to vehemently keep praying not to reach a particular year of age so to eschew the challenges, while some are already preparing for that stage. Some, at old age may lose their limbs, sights, physique, hearing, senses, ability, etc. However, it's worse, Allahu Akbar!, if coupled with failed marriage, Allahu al-musta'aan, this is when some people deliberately end their own lives while you're not aware!

Believe me, you may not feel the impacts of a failed marriage now, until you grow up to a certain stage when you cannot but pass through the stages & the experiences. It's so unfortunate that, it disarrays the families, discontinues the joys in marital relationships & brings about certain adversities. Unless a couple die young they'll not pass through these stages. Hmm, being a young couple will not give you a clarity of these stages ahead of you, until you get there. So know what you're looking for in marriage!

I oblige you dear followers, the potential spouses to look beyond 'she's beautiful & he's handsome, they're of wealthy background, etc' in your marriage so you don't be part of a living dead story.Their own failures should never affect you, rather be your own lessons, learn from experiences so you don't make the same mistakes. Have they too been given another chance, perhaps they would dare not follow the same journey you are about to embark on. Believe me, there are challenges in marriage that can make you experience hell in life. Learn!!!

I swear by Allah! A befitting good spouse will make you see ease in every aspect of life when indeed the whole world is in difficulty (in trials & tribulations) upon difficulties. Just as Drs persevere their patients over their illness. In the other hand, you may be in abundant wealth, money, properties, etc...I mean everything blushing & rosy for you, unfortunately a wrong spouse (failed marriage) makes all you have possessed trials & tribulations for you. Many marital lives are in this state, so learn & reason well!

Indeed there are good befitting men & women in the society to choose as spouses but your criteria & high specifications have failed & beclouded you to notice & observe them around you. No one has a future-meter to measure & know what the future (standard of living) of every individual will be, however a befitting spouse will never ever neglect you in any ramifications, he or she will not but be a pains absorbers for you. A good befitting spouse will always make you see this world beautiful even if it's at the ugliest state. Choose wisely!

You see, the more we grow up, the expand our brain (senses, wisdom, understanding, etc) is. Your own thinking now may be obsolete, useless in the next few years. This is when a lot of people regret over their actions years after marriage, because their shallow & restricted brain could not comprehend the challenges awaiting them in future. Had we seen what the future looks like, perhaps we would have considered that brother or sister we rejected for marriage. As for some, their future makes them glorify Allah for choosing the best them. This is because they do not follow their whims alone!

There's no problem with you choosing monogamy or polygyny system of marriage but there's going to be hell with you if you choose the wrong person in marriage. Should you have a befitting good person around you for spouse, never let go, for if you reject him or her for insignificant reasons, you may face the worse in where you're going, and coming back to start again will be another heartbreaking story. Talk to your senses & move with intelligent ones!

During the time of the righteous companions (may Allah be pleased with them) the divorced righteous women were hot-cake, being raced for. Unfortunately, in our own generation, they're the most abandoned creatures that no one cares for, even those who divorce them fail to care for them. Some years back, some women rejected proposals of the befitting good men only to avoid going into polygyny but today, they regret over their actions & look for all means to go back to the same thing they rejected. Why???

Now, some sisters are scared of going for the single brothers in marriage simply because, brothers of this generation are not equipped with instruments & experience enough to repair what damages in marriage. The moment there's problem, the journey is terminated & abandoned for another journey. Polygyny is now raining despite it's being abused. Be it polygyny or monogamy, whatever you decide to take, choose wisely!

I promise you, in more years to come, your perspective about life will surely change. Certainly you would see life different from what you've been seeing it to be. Allahu Akbar! You'd regret to have done certain things & would also regret to have not done certain things. You'd want to go back but it might be late or not too late. But that you'll not realise your mistakes is indeed a mirage. For your own case to be different, do not follow the trend but follow the best. A befitting good spouse has nothing to do with polygyny or monogamy, we find & take gold in anywhere we can see it. Change your perspectives!

If you're a true believer, sincere with your ibaadah, worshiping Allah with mutaaba'ah, you indeed deserve the best in this era. Do not subject yourself to any difficulty when there's ease, go for the best in all the sets. Be it with spouse, or with things to ease your life so you can enjoy your relationship with your Rabb. Indeed every believer deserves the best, may Allah grant us tawfeeq & the best in all our endeavours!

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01/09/2024

Triple T Alternative Medicine
That we will not be tried of shayton is a mission impossible except by Allah's rahmah; we shall be tempted & tried of shayton in so many ways until we're dead before we can scot-free & be saved completely from him. As far as blood flows in our body & that our forefather, prophet Adam عليه السلام was tried of shayton & this led to their eviction out of paradise, verily the trial of shayton can take away one's eeman completely if Allah wills, therefore let's all learn & close the doors of fitnah of shayton by all means.

Know that not all those who supplicate & their prayers are answered are righteous & beloved servants of Allah, infact, ibless (shayton), the worst of creature supplicated & it was answered:
قَالَ أَنظِرْنِىٓ إِلَىٰ يَوْمِ يُبْعَثُونَ
(Iblis) said: "Allow me respite till the Day they are raised up (i.e. the Day of Resurrection)."
قَالَ إِنَّكَ مِنَ ٱلْمُنظَرِينَ
(Allah) said: "You are of those respited. "Al-A'raf 7:15

This is why transgressors among we mankinds are sometimes endowed with resources to commit evils: safety, wealth, power, tactics, skills, knowledge, etc, during the course. Shayton is our greatest enemy that we should wage war against right from within our hearts to our deeds openly & secretly simply because shayton's objective is nothing other than to see us doomed & condemned in hell just as he's already. He vowed & promised to misguide us by all means, he said:
Al-A'raf 7:16
قَالَ فَبِمَآ أَغْوَيْتَنِى لَأَقْعُدَنَّ لَهُمْ صِرَٰطَكَ ٱلْمُسْتَقِيمَ
(Iblis) said: "Because You have sent me astray, surely I will sit in wait against them (human beings) on Your Straight Path.

Al-A'raf 7:17
ثُمَّ لَءَاتِيَنَّهُم مِّنۢ بَيْنِ أَيْدِيهِمْ وَمِنْ خَلْفِهِمْ وَعَنْ أَيْمَٰنِهِمْ وَعَن شَمَآئِلِهِمْۖ وَلَا تَجِدُ أَكْثَرَهُمْ شَٰكِرِينَ
Then I will come to them from before them and behind them, from their right and from their left, and You will not find most of them as thankful ones (i.e. they will not be dutiful to You).

Having recognized the means by which shayton could get hold of one irrespective of one's knowledge, wisdom or status, the best for one is to prevent the means by closing the doors of fitnah (women, fame, worldly ephemerals, etc). As a veiled sister/woman, who someone else (non mahram) is indirectly flirting with, giving & telling you what's expected only from your lawful spouse or mahram, verily you have been captured by the tricks of shayton.

Perhaps your own case is different: you're in custody of keeping the affairs of women, having forgotten who you were (your period of ignorance) from the outset, you interact with women freely with no fear of its outcome, presenting yourself as a saint while you're of course not even their mahram. Do not be surprised that you could fall victims of the fitnah, if you don't enjoy it, you would not have tactically planned it . But fear for your life by reflecting on the story of this righteous scholar, barsisa.

Upon you is your nafs, take heed & save your self from punishment that may arise from the sins you trivialize; unlawful relationships with women, indirectly committing immorality in different styles, secret marriage, secret divorce. Who's going to marry the used & dumped women? What will happen if their spouses know about their stories? Do you wish the same things you do to them be done to your beloved wives, daughters, relatives? Fear Allah! with the way you take advantage of people, especially the women, there's consequence for all our actions.

How many of matrimonial homes have been ruined?, how many of the females are placed on depression treatments?, how many have been psychologically, emotionally tortured & chastised simply because you want to satisfy your own desires ( taking advantage of them)? Remember this is a sin between human to human not between human to God. They're going to be paid back accordingly on the day of qiyaamah!

19/08/2024

*Triple T Alternative Medicine*

During the time of 'umar bn al-khataab, رضي اللّه عنه , a man was caught red handed stealing people's property (1/4 of dinaar), in this case he's liable to face the consequences (amputation). So the man was crying that "Umar, please forgive me, I'll not do it again...". Umar replied: firstly, your matter has got to the government, had it been the person you stole from forgave you, you would not have been brought here.

Secondly, this is not your first time of doing it (stealing), because Allah will never expose you if you do it once (Allah is great & merciful). This means Allah has been covering you up, giving you respite since you've been engaging in the evils (from Allah's Rahmah is giving us time & respite to make tawbah & change, so that we will not regret of coming to this world when we're exposed then punished).

Then shayton keeps luring a man into various evils: immorality in various styles & tactics (difficult to know), like covering up with Islam to amass wealth (I'm going to elaborate on this in shaa'a Allah), fornication, adultery, flirting with young girls (who are low in senses & intelligence) in an unsuspecting manners & means, Allaahu al-musta'aan.

This is a clarion call for everyone of us to look into ourselves, assess our deeds & change before Allah strips off the cover, the screen through which we take to committ various evils. A heart will not be weakened so much as not to see evils as evils, for the first time, second time, till the evils become part of the person, definitely the heart has already been filled with dirts, filth, evils for long.

In shaa'a Allah, I'm going to explain various tactics some people adopt to commit evils in a way that, it will be so difficult for you to understand that it's evil. Unless you're specially blessed with intelligence & experience before you can recognise these evils that people commit as evils, you know, committing evils in a lawful & very hidden way, Allahu Akbar. May Allah count us & mix us with the righteous believers.

13/08/2024

*Triple T Alternative Medicine*
*The way you treat them is the way yours will be treated*

Fear Allah in all ramifications oh you brethren, especially with the way you treat your women/females. Have you forgot you're a figure (a father, a leader) which people look up to in the society & that you're going to bear children too? Except bearing children is never your concern.

Fear to be the reason for your innocent children's predicaments, who may suffer from the evils of your hands. How many of people claiming they're suffering from a family curse (egun idile) or from problems related to witchcraft but fail to realize their problems emanate from the evils of their parents?

The way today's brothers mal-treat their wives is so traumatizing & barbaric that, recommending sisters for brothers in marriage is dreadful & scary, not to talk of recommending our beloved relatives or daughters. Infact, I sometimes wonder if the injustice committed by a spouse to his or her spouse is a flimsy sin that is not punishable on the day of accountability. Claiming uprightness, righteousness & being good to the public while you're a source of sorrow & sadness to others (your family) is highly confusing unless it's proven otherwise.

The rate of divorce among the acclaimed upright ones (brothers & sisters) is very high compared to those who are just coming up & striving to be better, why? Some of the major factors are lack of contentments & being too close with the females unnecessarily.

No man (anyone) will be too close with different women except he's urged to commit evil & replace his wives at home. Always seeing what your women do not possess in another women have led many men (brothers) into this great fitnah so much that some are on the verge of snatching already married women. This is why many of you women should be prepared for being evicted at anytime simply because those who are divorced today never believed it yesterday until it's happened.

It's quite unfortunate that the divorced women, especially those with their children deserted & left uncared for are now being recruited to form a group (association ) among themselves through which they learn & train one another various evils in the name of helping one another. It's becoming a real phenomenon that most of these divorced sisters usually end up becoming worse (unveiled, unclad, promiscuity, diabolical, fetish,etc) except very few among them.

There's no doubt that most of the divorce cases are caused by either of the spouses: either from the evil husband to his wife or from the satanic wife to her husband, but today's write-up is poking at we men, the husbands, especially to the cruel & ruthless brothers among us who have no affectionate mercy & feelings for their wives whatsoever let alone to care for their well-being, before & after divorce.

A sister, having made huge sacrifice, fighting her families, friends & colleagues, forfeit so many things in order to have you as her only source of peace, tranquility, joy & happiness that a woman will expect in marriage has now become a boxing sack, a trash, or someone you can evict & replace all because of worldly gains, definitely your children will pay out of your debts.

A reasonable man who sincerely fears Allah will never be found in jeopardizing someone's life not to think of divorcing his wife except with cogent reasons (medical, health, treath to life ) or in a reasonable way, being tried with a devilish wife (shaytonah).

Unfortunately, most of the divorce cases in this generation are due to flimsy & silly factors from each other, factors that could be eschewed & prevented, Allahu a'lam.

Marriage now becomes the most horrible contract to engage in while immorality becomes the most enjoyable business to spend on, sisters no longer interested in brothers but prefer ordinary men over the fear of divorce, parents now rain curses on the innocent brothers who seek their daughters in marriage after being disappointed by those who look like them. Who is to blame? The answer lies on how you & I treat our women.

Beware oh you innocent sisters, no matter the condition of a man (bad, unjust, evil), he will still get another woman to hook up with unless his problem is from the spiritual afflictions. But you, it's only by Allah's special mercy you could get back to your normal self, you'll feel the consequences more, therefore be extra careful with whom you're going to spend the rest of your life with, the society is always filled with divorce cases. Take heed now!

09/08/2024

*Triple T Alternative Medicine*
You see, Allah does not do evil to His creatures, not to human beings especially but we humans are the cause of our predicaments, we cause great evils to ourselves, we put ourselves in gigantic problems that now seem difficult for us to solve and we regret at the end.
Just as the noble prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم has said "verily, every action is preceded by the intention...".

Now, take a look at your intentions, the actions that follow your intentions and the consequences of your actions:

You as a sister, who is still struggling, battling & finding it hard to perfect your Deen (the sunnah, sound aqeedah) & to remain steadfast on the right path, having been emotionally traumatized with everything (spiritual & physical battles) by your family (parents ) against the guidance you're specially & divinely endowed with, yet, your priority on worldly ephemerals over the Deen beclouds, deludes & brainwashes you so much that, you look down, trivialize & reject a befitting spouse that will aid you, assist & support you on the righteous path, on the correct sunnah of the prophet & in obedience to Allah azza wa jalla & even on worldly life.

Unfortunately, here you're: dreaming, craving & scouting for a spouse that will be a means of destruction & regret for you in reality but disguises as someone to make worldly life splendid for you, all at the expense of your Deen (your hereafter).

Imagine a sister so much in love with a brother who is oscillating between eeman & kufr or shirk (doubtful in Deen), not knowing where he belongs, whose major concern is worldly enjoyments, who has no regard or less concern or even pretend to be concerned about the hereafter, about Allah's commandments simply because he is a Dr, a lawyer, an abroad based, from a wealthy background, from a royal family, etc. Alhamdulillaah, your wish may be absolutely granted and it will surely be escorted by its consequences which you have no choice than to face squarely (spiritual & physical afflictions: like emotional imbalance, trauma, assault, attacks, cheating, etc).

I wonder why we brothers and sisters professionally deceive ourselves, Allahu al-musta'aan; craving for already cooked soup which might have been poisoned or made up with the ingredients that will affect or completely ruin our health. Instead, why not partake in the cooking and see what the soup is made up of yourself, by doing this, you will know what to add & what not to add to the cooking so not to be harmed.

I'm just talking in parables, where I am going is, there's no one Allah can not endow with worldly enjoyments later in life if that's your priority. Make your intentions for all your actions only for the sake of Allah & never will you regret over your actions nor face challenges that will make you pull out bi idhnillah.

I really pity you sisters, women or females a lot because in all ramifications you bear more problems that are beyond your level than we men, though my being pitiful has no significant impacts on you except with this write-up I'm making. Take heed or not, it's left for you.

A sister, battling with waswaas, spiritual afflictions or with a condition that can adversely affect her eeman (faith), ibaadaaht & her hereafter is craving & seeking for a brother (weak in eeman) as a spouse whom she is going to help to boost his eeman. (Smile!). Who needs a very strong, rugged and gallant brother if not her?

A brother that, even if he could see shayton in physical, he is ready to chop off his head, a brother, very strong in aqeedah, steadfast upon the right, ready to sacrifice worldly enjoyments for the hereafter and at the same time, very meek and calm in relationship with others should be your first priority oh sisters.

I was actually giving this piece of advice to some people who seek to be guided on their journey of life, I just wish it could be of benefit to someone else somewhere if I can make it public.

May Allah guide you & I to what is better for us in both lives. Believe me, the conditions I have met some sisters now, whom I've known with good then is simply disheartening, I was weeping for them while they realize not. Beware of wasting the endowments Allah has, from His special mercy, blessed you with oh ma shaa'a Allah sisters, nothing can replace guidance and nothing of this worldly enjoyments can equate the enjoyments of the hereafter. Be sincere in your intentions and Allah will perfect your actions in any condition you may be. Triple T wishes you blissful lives!

14/07/2024

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07/07/2024

*Triple T Alternative Medicine*
Unintelligent people usually blame destiny for every evil they cause to themselves. Of course it's in the qadar that your lack of intelligence will put you into problems until you become wise and intelligent. You refuse to make deep findings about a man nor what happened to his previous wife nor what led to their divorce and which Islam encouraged. Or you go with these men who make secret solemnization, just between few people (though it's no problem in sharee'a but criminals are running under the umbrella, Allahu a'lam), then here's the boomerang. Make amendment before it's too late!

Well, Triple T will keep warning, enlightening, educating & sharing experience with you in shaa'a Allah simply because we love you for Allah's sake. The love we have for one another is so real that it makes us go bad, sad & downcast when we hear bad about one another. Triple T dislikes seeing someone in problem because it automatically becomes our problem too unless we clearly are aware that you're indeed the manufacturer of your problems. For you not to become a CEO of your problems manufacturing company, take heed & pay attention to details now. Triple T cares!

07/07/2024

*Triple T Alternative Medicine*
Some men; while in their youthful exuberance (jazziness), have had their sexual organs ruined. Some forfeited their organs for ritual purpose, some accidentally due to sickness, some from fornications (diseases), etc. But after repenting from their wrongs (of course they're forgiven by الغفور الرحيم), some of the lost values could not return and these are the people you expect to satisfy you sexually or to give your body what it needs which they've already exhausted or forfeited. This is what compatibility entails if you don't want to end up regrettably insatiable with your spouse.

It's better if the case is opposite for the women or ladies in this condition. A man with sexually weak wife does not have much problem, there are additional slots to bring in those who will balance the equation & solve the problem if he's not satisfied with the condition that such a man is healthy & financially okay to chest the task. Some men are so wicked & sinister that, they neglect, dessert & maltreat their previous wife for another senseless lady or woman who's beclouded with infatuation, forgetting that what has happened to the previous wife is likely to happen to her. I pity you women!

07/07/2024

*Triple T Alternative Medicine*
What's the essence of the marriage where your spouse enjoys someone's else on bed more than you that are legally & lawfully married to?. Infact, some connive with their sexual partner against their lawful spouse. Hmm, if you follow my write-up from the beginning, you'll realise I said "uncontrollable sexual drive", so it can happen to anyone whose foundation was not well made. The foundation is what I've been explaining and it begins with the upbringing of the parents to their children.

"my spouse must be this & that...". Upon everything, you end up committing adultery with ordinary person whom you could not imagine to have married to because your needs (you failed to identify) are with the person. It's indeed a misplaced priority. How many of the handsome men, wealthy, well exposed, etc but can not or can never have in*******se with a woman no matter how tantalising such a woman is? Why or what could have happened? Follow up!

07/07/2024

*Triple T Alternative Medicine*
Some female kids (from 3 above) are fond of touching or putting something massaging on their private parts, thus feel the enjoyments (not as a mature person feels it though) while they're not even in maturity stage. As a parent, you may be wondering where they learn it from, well, it may be learnt however, the reality is such a child is entitled to be circumcised with no ado, otherwise she may be uncontrollably high in sexual affairs, especially in her a mature stage. Take heed & safe your children

With experience this sexual action of these kids could be caused by various factors: environment, exposure, spiritual affliction or may be natural. However, if it's natural, it's a sign that such a child may have high sexual urge in the future which may call for choosing a strong man as a spouse for her, a man higher than her or of her level in sexual drive. This will make their marital home not peaceful alone but filled with trust, love & tranquility. Open your mind to the reality!

In this era where men undergo much stress, take junks & drugs which adversely contribute to them having erectile dysfunction or sexual weakness while their wives are super-women, with high sexual urge, it's advisable that such a man takes care of himself or look for the women of his level. It's indeed a great mistake to have taken financial status, wealth, family background, etc as the major compatibility factor for marriage without considering sexual power. Earnestly speaking, many of wives, women or whom you regard maa shaa'a Allah sister have become promiscuous from this condition.