Dr. Dami Adeyemi-Levites, Gbagada, Lagos (2025)

02/11/2024

I took my boys to school recently, and as we entered the school premises holding hands, the older one took his hands off me and said he is a big boy now and he doesn’t need me to hold him while in School. 😂😂

I laughed so loud but that taught me a great lesson. No matter how long the years may look, the days are coming when I’ll no longer be taking them to school and they’ll be navigating their ways through life, only requiring my wisdom and guidance when they really need counsel to make life’s many decisions.

It dawned on me that every time spent with these little ones should be revered, held sacred, celebrated and maximized as training sessions that would soon expire as they grow older and find their own paths in life.

I have made it a more intentional choice these days than ever to really spend quality time with my children, because I know a day is coming when it would only be and I that would be in the house alone as empty nesters after we have finished nurturing these young ones and releasing them into the world at large to thrive, trail-blaze, and make amazing impact out there.

On the average, you’ve got till they become Teenagers before your presence can be boring to them. As they evolve, one has to evolve with them too to ensure we do not become irrelevant to their life’s journeys.

We can’t be the same to them everyday. As they each grow, we have to evolve in what being parents really is to them.

Today, it is all about taking them to school and spending quality time with them and playing while instilling discipline and wisdom in them.

Tomorrow, they may need less physical time or playtime with you but they’ll indirectly demand from you some time for talks as they navigate through life. You gotta be prepared for this too by making sure you have enough wisdom to share with them to avoid being relegated in their lives.

Most importantly, marriage and family may appear to be the same, but they really are distinct. Marriage is between you and your spouse. Family includes your spouse, yourself and your children. Handle these relationships with tact. Read more on this!

25/10/2024

Just like there are boundaries on food (excess food consumption is called the sin of gluttony in the Scriptures) and on sleep (excess love for sleep is called laziness in the Scriptures), there are also boundaries for fulfilling our s*xual desires (excess love for s*x is called debauchery in the Scriptures).

Read Proverbs 23:2; Proverbs 23:20-21; 1Corinthians 3:16-17; 1Corinthians 10:31

Are we allowed to fulfill our carnal desires within the walls of marriage? Of course! Marriage is honorable in ALL THINGS, with the bed undefiled.

Are we allowed to fulfill our desires to quench our thirst, hunger and desire to sleep? Yes! Of course!

Just like too much attention to satisfying the desires of hunger, thirst and sleep has been stated in the Scriptures as bad, so also is the quest for paying too much attention to your s*xual desires can be a bad thing.

Gluttony is a sin. Why? Not because eating the food is the issue, but eating it too much is the issue. Who determines what is much for one person or the other? Certainly not you! No one has the meter to measure what food is the right measure for one man or the other.

Everything is expected to be eaten in moderacy. A man can eat 2 wraps of Eba and he is fine, and doesn’t feel full or overfed, and another man can eat the same quantity, and he will just know that he has eaten too much!

Just as you cannot say a man who eats 2 wraps of Eba is a glutton, knowing fully well that 2 wraps may be too much for someone else but maybe not for him, so also you cannot say how much a man goes to satisfy his s*xual desires within the confines of marriage that God has laid down is going too far.

Some people have it once in a week, and some have it once everyday! Would you say they are carnal and you they have it once in a week or once a month are more spiritual than them? I bet that’s a no! Why? Because you care not the arbiter of what is acceptable within the confines of marriage between two people God has joined together. You cannot be the umpire. The ultimate umpire is the Holyghost, not you!

22/10/2024

Having seen the result of the poll I carried out on writing vs doing a live video on this topic, by popular votes, we are doing some writing on this! Yippee!!! Thanks everyone within our community for validating that you like my writings more than my videos 😂

So let’s get started with this conversation on if BBL or other beauty enhancing surgical procedures is a sin or not.

I’ll write on this with as much wisdom as I can harness to drive home my points. I am open for critical thinking and analysis of my thoughts to be presented on the matter, and I am happy to answer questions that you may have on it.

Please feel free to reach out and comment on any of my posts on this matter, as I believe that I do not w it all. I know in part, and I prophesy in part. If you feel any of my submissions are not aligned with Scriptures, please politely drop a comment with scriptures to back your assertions.

Don’t hesitate to express your opinions on it, even if it is very much different from mine, or it is in outright contradiction to what my submissions are here on the topic.

So let’s get started. *clears throat*

Someone asked a question on a popular social media platform recently about his desire to have his Wife do BBL (a surgical procedure that enhances the voluptuous nature of a woman’s bums). He is attracted to big bums and his wife seemingly does not have that. He loves his wife, but he desires her to have big bums.

Mind you. He is a Christian, and he really wants to do the right thing. So he reached out to a popular Christian page and asked the question.

When I saw people’s responses to this question, I first laughed out so loudly. I saw so many hypocritical comments and hypocrites in their numbers condemning the man. They said it is a sin to do BBL, and I could not but help laughing at how hypocritical they were whole jumping into conclusion on the matter and labeling the idea as an outright sin, without giving any outright justification for their position, either from scriptures, or even from general knowledge.

While I have my position on this, I would want you to follow my writing on this topic closely, as there may be no right or wrong answer, all depending on a lot of factors to consider when making a judgement on such matters.

There are many grey areas in life that you may not find the exact scriptures to tell you if your decision on them are right or wrong, but you, as a Believer, have been called into a Kingdom where wisdom is required in making sound judgments, because you have a SOUND MIND! On this matter, no clearcut scripture has ever mentioned BBL, but there are scriptures that can be put together to make a sound judgement on whether you should do it as a Believer or not.

In judging the affairs of your life as a Believer, you need this sound mind in making the right decisions , else you’ll be tossed around to and fro but the winds of doctrines blowing around.

You are not going to make the right decisions by bringing out your artilleries of mere emotions or conjectures. You need to have facts to make sound judgment. Your facts in this context have to be based on Scriptures, inspired by the Holyghost, our final arbiter on matters of life.

Now let me start showing you how I arrived at my judgment below:

First of all, being married means you have some carnal desires you like to fulfill, even though you’d like to do it God’s way. Having s*x is both a carnal affair as well as a spiritual affair. Some may argue the latter, but hey, s*x is from God, and I am happy to shed more light on that if you want me to.

S*x in marriage fulfills one of your many carnal desires as humans. Hunger is a carnal desire. Thirst is a carnal desire. Quest for sleep is a carnal desire. Desire to have s*x is a carnal desire! It is not a spiritual desire. We won’t be having s*x in Heaven (this part should rather be replaced by something more or****ic when we get to Heaven o, Ahan! 😂😂)

No one says He is inspired by the Holyghost to get h***y. You are h***y because you’re human. God gave you that gift. It is His desire for you to explore that gift of s*xual intimacy and pleasure, and He has assigned BOUNDARIES within which you can fulfill such desires without any sense of guilt or shame.

To be continued….

20/10/2024

🔞For married couples only! 😂

Have you had your ears licked by your Spouse ever? Ha! The first time licked my ears, I surrendered the totality and entirety and everything called my destiny straight! 😂😂😂

Check the second picture to see me licking her this afternoon. She just forgot her destiny in my hands straight! 😂😂😂

Kai! Try that with your Spouse this evening and give him or her a magical Sunday evening. Don’t come and meet me 9 months from now that I pushed you to go lick honey and entered parenting zone o 😂😂

New Series Alert:

I will be running a series on this interesting topic that I have seen on social media lately: SHOULD CHRISTIANS DO BBL OR OTHER BEAUTY-ENHANCING SURGERIES?

I have an interesting perspective on this topic, and I’d like to know how you’d like me to do it.

Participate in the poll by dropping yours as a comment on this post: should I write on this or do live sessions on the topic?

Have a great week ahead!

17/10/2024

This post is for my new followers and some followers who may not know much about me.

Swipe left to see a throwback to some years ago (around Year 2014 or so) while pushing for defining my impact in the World of Health Insurance/ Healthcare Financing in Nigeria.

I was the youngest Manager amongst the Management Team Members at this Insurance Firm back then. When I look back at these years, I see the Hand of The Father in retrospect.

God indeed is a master story writer, and the best Director of my life’s movie. I was just being faithful in my assignment, and there, He defined what my Life was all about, clearly!

This particular day when we had this Management Photoshoot , I was worried about impact. I was concerned about what exactly my impact should be in the World. I looked like I was doing great for myself that time, but the Father was nudging me that there is more!

I found out what that more really is, and now it is a reality. Teaching about relationships and Marriage was not a part of my core in terms of impact in the past. Today, it forms a part of my core. The Father gave me a model to run with: how to be a King in the marketplace and be a Priest in His Kingdom.

That model was an epiphany. I have not recovered from it till date. My marriage teachings form my core as a Priest in His Kingdom, while my corporate career forms my core as a King in the marketplace. There will be intersections of these two at different points in time. It is all a part of the design!

In case you are meeting me for the first time, I am Dr. Dami Adeyemi-Levites. I am Medical Doctor, Chartered Accountant, a Health Tech and Finance Professional, an Entrepreneur/Venture Capitalist, but also a Marriage and Relationship Teacher. I live that humanity may breathe easier, one family at a time.

As I explore the next phase of this model of Kingship and Priesthood on various platforms, be my guest! Share my contents as much as you can. You’ll be blessing a soul. If only one person gets blessed by me daily, I am so fulfilled!

See more of you soonest!

PS: Comment if you find yasef in this epic throwback picture 😂

Cheers.

15/10/2024

The Male seed has been under serious att@ck right from the beginning of creation.

Being the one saddled with the responsibility of headship and leadership in the Father’s agendas for Families on earth, the enemy goes straight for the head like a sniper per time when destr*ying homes.

Once you strike the shepherd, the flocks will scatter. We have bad leaders in our nation today because when they were boys, the men in their lives failed to take full leadership responsibility for them. They perhaps were nowhere to be found, and their boys got mentored by wrong folks.

For every boy child, there is always a hero he sees and wants to be like. When the father figure who is supposed to be this hero, or at least guide him into choosing his right hero(es) in life as a young boy, is missing, the boy will find his hero one way or the other.

Unfortunately, because boys are boys and not men yet, they may lack the capacity to choose the ideal values they should look for in their heroes.

Because we live in an age where materialism has eaten so deep into the fiber of our society, what the boys see are material wealth and not values that are more important.

Does this explain why we have more thi*ves and liars in governance? Does this explain why we have more yahoo boys rising up in their numbers in Nigeria, and even sometimes with their parents in full fledge support of their criminal activities?

Good apples don’t fall from bad apple trees. If we really want to rid our society of bad governance, we need to pay a great deal of attention to the family units that make up our society. The family units are bleeding badly at the moment. Revival should start from there first! Selah!

26/09/2024

Sometimes I come across people who say they want to marry an alpha male or an alpha female. Some say they’ll rather do that and be a power couple than otherwise.

While it is a good thing to be a power couple, know that power couples didn’t jam themselves as powerful from day 1. Most of them built that powerhouse together as man and woman.

You can start small and build something big in your marital relationship. You don’t have to start big. Daily decisions to unite each person’s body soul and spirit as one in that relationship would generate so much power!

You don’t have to start as power couples, but you can build over time and generate so much power, and then become the power couples that you wanna be.

Building as a Team and uniting with your spouse is a powerful force on earth. As long as both parties are united in purpose, impossibilities disappear into thin air!

Can you make up your mind today to build as one? Stop waiting for that perfect moment. Start building with what you have!

26/07/2024

First picture: A dinner with The most favorite person in my world! 🥰🥰🥰 Thankful daily for the gift of you! 😘😘😍😍

Ok, that you have seen the first picture, swipe left to see my message for you today! Never entertain negativity in your relationship! The person you allow into your most intimate part of life is the person you are in a relationship with, either married or not.

What such persons say or do to you matters a lot, and you need to be aware of the danger of swimming in negativity.

Happy to read your comments! Yes, please comment! Share! Don’t just read if this has been a blessing to you!

22/06/2024

Throwback to one of our dancing sessions at our wedding over 7 years ago….. And it’s been a great dance, living happily ever after. Glory to God!

I had a conversation with a colleague at work yesterday, and she said she noticed the flow between my Wife and I. She was surprised when I told her we had been married for over 7 years. We act like we just got married daily! The thrill is palpable if you have ever had the chance to be with us.

She felt so inspired and said great marriages should be the norm and they should be out there inspiring others to do the same.

That’s why we do what we do here: showcasing what a great marriage can look like. We do not boast in having the best of marriages out there (the word “best” is very relative), but we can say, by the grace of God, our marriage is a very good one, getting better daily and inspiring people out there.

Do you want to experience the same in your marriage? Married or still single? It doesn’t really matter where you are. You too can have a great marriage!

Click this link below and book a session with us today and let us start plotting that graph with you to achieve a great marriage that you truly deserve!

https://www.adeyemilevites.com/

We have a 💯% money-back guarantee with all our existing clients. If our sessions do not solve your problems or give you a sense of value after each one, we will refund your money 💯%.

Guess what? No one has ever asked us for a refund. Our methodology for solving relationship issues have been proven over time to be very effective. Give it a try today!

22/06/2024

Throwback to one of our dancing sessions at our wedding over 7 years ago….. And it’s been a great dance, living happily ever after. Glory to God!

I had a conversation with a colleague at work yesterday, and she said she noticed the flow between my Wife and I. She was surprised when I told her we had been married for over 7 years. We act like we just got marriage daily! The thrill is palpable if you have ever had the chance to be with us.

She felt so inspired and said great marriages should be the norm and they should be out there inspiring others to do the same.

That’s why we do what we do here: showcasing what a great marriage can look like. We do not boast in having the best of marriages out there (the word “best” is very relative), but we can say, by the grace of God, our marriage is a very good one, getting better daily and inspiring people out there.

Do you want to experience the same in your marriage? Married or still single? It doesn’t really matter where you are. You too can have a great marriage! See the link in my bio and book a session with us today and let us start plotting that graph with you to achieve a great marriage that you truly deserve!

We have a 💯% money-back guarantee with all our existing clients. If our sessions do not solve your problems or give you a sense of value after each one, we will refund your money 💯%.

Guess what? No one has ever asked us for a refund. Our methodology for solving relationship issues have been proven over time to be very effective. Give it a try today!

16/06/2024

This is the BEST Father’s Day ever for me. Wifey (who I know doesn’t throw words around anyhow) told me these words this morning, and I was really happy to know that:

“Dami, you are the Father I wish I had while growing up as a child. Thank you for being an awesome Dad to our boys, and I am so proud of you”

That meant the world to me, knowing fully well what Fatherhood meant and means to my loving Wife

I bathe my boys, cream them, get them ready for school , take them to school, play with them, gist with them, and of course, discipline them daily!

Sometimes I still feel I don’t do this Father thing as perfect as I would have loved to, like many men also think they don’t out there. But I read an article sometime ago that once you start thinking like that as a parent, you are already doing something right! You are already aligned with that agenda to give your children what you could not experience in terms of great parenting while growing up.

Feeling inadequate as a Father? nah! Don’t feel that way anymore. Keep giving your best. Keep being there for your children and your family, and other people’s children as well. One day, it’ll all add up, and you’ll get to know that you are an amazing Dad!

Happy Father’s Day!

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