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Islamiyat Ayanwale Olatunde, online, Lagos (2025)

06/03/2025

😊Assalamualaikum, hello! Kamilah, Kareemah, Kafilah, Khadija, Kifayah, please take your seats. Yes, you, Zainab, Zakirah, and Aisha, join them.

*_The Power of Dua in Choosing a Spouse_*

I know and believe that you must have seen different marriages that seem unhealthy, which can be a challenge to you as you prepare to settle down for marriage. I want you to know that choosing a spouse is one of the most significant decisions we make in life, affecting us in all aspects of life. It's a decision that can bring joy, happiness, and fulfillment, but it can also lead to challenges, heartache, and regret. That's why it's essential to seek Allah's guidance and wisdom in this critical decision, especially in this month of Ramadan, where we are assured that our Dua will be accepted with firm belief.

Making Dua (supplication) to Allah is a powerful way to seek His guidance and blessing in choosing a spouse. Through Dua, we can ask Allah to grant us a spouse who is righteous, kind, and loving – someone who will be a source of comfort, support, and happiness for us.

So, dear sisters, choosing a spouse is a critical decision that can have a significant impact on our lives. By making Dua, we're seeking Allah's guidance and wisdom in choosing a spouse who is righteous, kind, and loving. Remember to be sincere, specific, and regular in your Dua, and trust that Allah will grant you a spouse who is best for you.

I will be sharing suggested Dua for you, which many who have gotten married didn't pay attention to, so as to have a beautiful journey as you build a beautiful forever. I wouldn't want you to make similar mistakes that those who married before you made.

Do well to share this with others, as someone out there may need it. By sharing, you can make a meaningful impact in their lives.

Thank you! Jazakumullahu khayran!

*Islamiyat Ayanwale Olatunde*
(Queenpreneur)
Marriage Counselor/Relationship Therapist

05/03/2025

*Gratitude Challenge In The Month Of Ramadan: Day 5*

As believers, showing gratitude is a fundamental aspect of our faith. By expressing thanks to our spouses, we acknowledge their efforts and encourage them to continue showing love and care.

This Ramadan, let's make a conscious effort to practice gratitude, strengthening our relationships and nurturing a positive, supportive environment.

May Allah guide us in developing grateful hearts and may our marriages flourish with love, appreciation, and mutual respect. Aameen.

Islamiyat Ayanwale Olatunde (Queenpreneur)
Marriage Counselor/Relationship Therapist.

05/03/2025

*Spouse Gratitude Challenge: Day 4*

"Appreciating the Unseen Efforts"

In the hustle and bustle of daily life, it's easy to overlook the subtle ways our spouses support us. This Ramadan, let's shine a light on those unsung heroics!

Take a moment to reflect on the ways your spouse helps you, even if it's in small, quiet ways. Express your gratitude and acknowledge their efforts.

By focusing on the positive, we can strengthen our bonds and nurture a culture of appreciation in our relationships.

*Join the challenge and cultivate a heart of gratitude!*

Islamiyat Ayanwale Olatunde (Queenpreneur) Marriage Counselor/Relationship Therapist.

02/03/2025

*Gratitude challenge in the month of Ramadan Day 2*

_Ramadan Reflection: The Importance of Gratitude_

In a Hadith narrated by Ibn 'Abbas (Sahih al-Bukhari 29), the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said:

"I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful."

When asked if they disbelieved in Allah, he replied:

They are ungrateful to their husbands and ungrateful for the favors and good deeds done to them.

This Ramadan, let's focus on cultivating gratitude in our relationships. Take note of the small gestures your spouse makes and express appreciation for them.

Join our Gratitude Challenge and nurture a more thankful heart!

_Islamiyat Ayanwale Olatunde_
(Queenpreneur)
Marriage Counselor/ Relationship Therapist

01/03/2025

A beautiful society begins with a home where gratitude is cultivated and becomes a habit. When a home is doing well, automatically the society will thrive because a society is made up of families.

In this blessed month of Ramadan, join us on our transformative daily Gratitude Challenge!

Let's cultivate gratitude in our: Relationship with Allah, acknowledging His blessings and mercy.

Building homes

Nurturing appreciation and kindness
Communities

Fosstering compassion and understanding

Join us on this journey of gratitude, reflection, and growth!

Follow us for daily prompts, inspiration, and guidance!

Check out what we have for Day 1

_Islamiyat Ayanwale Olatunde_ (Queenpreneur)
Marriage Counselor/Relationship Therapist

05/02/2025

*All the Olowo sibi*
( The cook) come closer.

😁As we all know ,Cooking and eating is an act of Ibadah (worship) most especially in the month of Ramadan where we get rewards in multiple( I mean double double).😉

😜Yes ke! Every woman is a cook, and what makes them different is their unique recipe.🤭 When you think you're the best at your recipe, another champion is likely lurking somewhere, waiting to be discovered. Exploring different recipes is a way of showcasing your skillfulness, whether as a daughter, wife, or individual.

This is why we're excited to invite you to our upcoming Ramadan program, "My Recipe Tastes Better," organized by My Home My Aakhiroh Consult/Foundation. Join us as we explore a variety of recipes, share cooking tips, and make this Ramadan a memorable one.

👉🏻By participating in our Cooking Diary program, you'll have the opportunity to:

🌮🍝Share your favorite recipe with our audience,

🍛🍲 Discover new recipes from other participants,

🍧🍷And Learn healthy cooking tips and techniques.

🧑🏻‍🍳👩🏽‍🍳Also Connect with like-minded individuals who share your passion for cooking.

🥰To secure your spot, simply inbox us with *"My Recipe Tastes Better."* Let's come together to make this Ramadan a culinary celebration to remember!

😁Cooking healthy is a priority for good health, and we can't wait to explore the world of flavors with you! And we know your recipe taste better !🤭

*MY HOME MY AAKHIROH*

05/01/2025

Umm Abdurahman, it's resumption time.😂

Teacher Hamdallah, get ready 😝😜😜😜😜😜😜😜

So let's discuss, are you all set for this resumption.

I believe if the parents are not ready, the energizing spirit to learn may not be pass on to the children.

3 weeks holding no small na😁

Dear Adorable and productive parents, I have a goodies for you 🤭

Mummy Mutiat, sometimes you know it might skipped your mind to put certain basic school Resumption things in place as you prepare ahead.

I have prepared a school resumption checklist for you in other to keep you reminded.

Not only that, I also know that all children are not a caliber of full time students.

So worry less!

E go shock you the least you need to also prepare for 😝

You should know I'm also an Odogwu In my own field, hence, every mothers and care giver will have their own.

All you need to do for me is to share it far, in for large numbers of parents to also check and ensure things are put in place.

May Allah bless our children and provide for the parents.

Aameen

Happy resumption week!😁

*Islamiyat Ayanwale Olatunde ( Queenpreneur)*
(Marriage Counselor/ Therapist)

02/01/2025

*The strength behind the Union* 🥰

There is a common adage which says: Behind every successful man is a woman 😁

The question is, What is the strength behind the woman that makes her keep pushing despite the challenges that comes with SUCCESS as couples?

You will all agree with me that success is not a smooth path.😁

Thriving successfully in a marriage as couples is not a smooth road.

The strength behind her is wha.......t?

This brings us to the topic .

🧕🏻Behind every thriving marriage is a woman who tirelessly works to nurture love, care, and devotion for her Family.

🧕🏻Her dedication is fueled by faith and guided by the promise of Allah.

🧕🏻As she strives to build a strong and happy home, she holds onto the reassuring words of the Quran: *"إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يُخْلِفُ الْمِيعَادَ*

Surely Allah will not fail (His) promise.

The reassuring words of Allah aza wa'jala gives her the strength to keep pushing effortlessly .

How does it sounds in our hearts knowing that Allah does not fail in fulfilling His Promise.

Doesn't that smooth the soul?

With every prayer, every sacrifice, and every act of kindness, she trusts that Allah will reward her efforts and bless her marriage.

🛣️ As she walks this path, she is surrounded by the blessings of Allah. Her heart is filled with gratitude, and her soul is at peace. She knows that she is not alone, that Allah is always with her, guiding and protecting her.

🧕🏻Her relationship with her husband becomes a beautiful reflection of her relationship with Allah. She loves and respects her husband, just as she loves and respects her Lord.

🧕🏻She knows that her husband is a gift from Allah, and she cherishes and honors him accordingly.

In the words of the Quran, *"And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy.* Indeed, in that are signs for a people who reflect." (30:21)

🤭🧕🏻She is the embodiment of faith, love, and devotion. Her union with her husband is a beautiful reflection of her relationship with Allah. With every challenge, she seeks refuge in prayer, supplication, and the Quran.

🧕🏻❤️Her love for her husband ( Family)is genuine, pure, and selfless. She supports his dreams, listens to his concerns, and works together with him to overcome life's obstacles. Her heart is filled with gratitude, and her soul is at peace.

🧕🏻😁She knows that her marriage is a sacred trust from Allah, and she strives to nurture and protect it. *Her faith is the foundation of her union, and she recognizes that her love is not just about her husband, but about pleasing Allah and earning His blessings.*

🛤️As she navigates the ups and downs of life, she holds onto the Quranic verse: *"And hold fast, all of you together, to the Rope of Allah, and be not divided among yourselves.*" (3:103)

🧕🏻🥰She is a shining example of a righteous wife, a true partner to her husband and child(ren), and a devoted servant of Allah. Her love, faith, and devotion inspire those around her, and her union with her husband becomes a beacon of hope and happiness.

Let's give her the flower abegi 🤭🌺🌹

🧕🏻😊Her presence in his life is a blessing
( Aren't you a blessing) ?a source of comfort, peace, and joy.

🧕🏻🌹She is his rock, his confidante, and his best friend by marriage. Together, they build a life filled with love, happiness and adventure.

🌃 With every passing day, their bond grows stronger, their love deeper, and their commitment to each other more unwavering. They become a team, a partnership, a union that is unbreakable.

🧕🏻She is the calmness in every storm as they face challenges, and the safe haven where he can always find peace.

In her eyes, he sees a love that is unconditional, unwavering, and unrelenting. He sees a love that inspires him to be a better man, to strive for greatness, and to never give up on his dreams.

Together, they create a love story that is truly remarkable, a testament to the power of faith, commitment, and devotion.

🏩Their union becomes a beacon of hope, a shining example of what it means to truly love and be loved in return.

Let this be a reminder to all women striving to build a happy home: your efforts are seen, your love is valued, and your faith will be rewarded, By Allah's grace.

Let's celebrate the women who pour their hearts into their marriages, who pray for their husbands, child(ren) and families, and who trust in Allah's plan.

May Allah bless our marriages, our homes, and our families.

May He guide us, protect us, and bring us joy and peace.

Aameen thuma Aameen

So, what is that verse that fuels your relentless efforts?

What is that promise from Allah that gives you hope and STRENGTH?

Islamiyat Ayanwale Olatunde ( Queenpreneur)
counselor/ Relationship Therapist

02/01/2025

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*Gratitude Nourishes the Soul*

In the hustle and bustle of life, it's easy to get caught up in worries, fears, and doubts. But what if we told you there's a simple yet powerful practice that can transform your life from the inside out? Enter: gratitude.

Gratitude is more than just a feeling; it's a choice. It's a conscious decision to focus on the good, to acknowledge the blessings, and to appreciate the beauty in life.

Gratitude is a powerful practice that can transform your life in profound ways. By choosing to focus on the good, you'll begin to notice a shift in your perspective, an increase in positivity, and a deeper sense of connection to yourself and others.

So, take a moment each day to nourish your soul with gratitude. Your heart, mind, and spirit will thank you.

May we be among those Allah loves and guides. (Aameen)

Islamiyat Ayanwale Olatunde *(Queenpreneur)* Marriage counselor/Relationship Therapist

21/04/2024

Assalamualaikum,

😀Oko iyawo ( The husband) move closer,

😁Ruth ( The wife)aboko ku like they use to say, you too come here.

😌Gbas - gbos *(Misunderstanding)* is a day to day thing that occurs in relationships.

It might not be happening in your home at the moment or today at all, but trust me, it's happening somewhere and it definitely going to find it way in someone's home today.

Managing our dispute in a healthy way is something that should always be the first decision we make in the midst of disagreement.

So today we will dropping home building tips that can be a way of resolving issues using Effective communication skills.

🙂‍↔Who says you can't put a stop to screaming and turning everywhere upside down simply because you want to express yourself?

Of course you can.

*Screaming and shouting* are behaviors that people initiate and adopt into their lifestyles that later turn out to be an Habit.

Same thing applies to communicating without a shout. You definitely want to be heard and understood by your spouse , isn't it?

👉🏻You can adopt another way( penning down your dislike) which I consider a better way of communicating your dislike sometimes, Especially for minor issues.

👉🏻By being international and putting into practice, you can do better with effective communication.

🙂‍↔Remember our voices are eggs. And what you did not say will not be used against you.

👀Unlike what is written down, which will take a process of "thinking " .

👂🏻You can be heard and understood without screaming at your spouse.

If you find this beneficial, kindly drop a reaction on this post.

Islamiyat Ayanwale Olatunde (Queenprenur) for MY AAKHIROH MY AAKHIROH CONSULT.

*April 12, 2024*

7 days Home building tips for effective commuanication and resolution/ conflict management 👇🏻

Day 1: There is always a goodness in your spouse even in the midst of misunderstanding. Focus on that not their errors.

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