10/06/2025
THEY RUINED MY LIFE PLEASE HELP.
I’ve been dating a married man for 2 years. We got along fine, until he started saying I should get pregnant for him. He would beg me, cry, beg, he kept giving me m0n£y. He has all girls. He bought me a car and paid for a place for me in lekki.
He would send me m0nÂŁy sometimes when I don't ask, take me out on weekends, and always said he would take care of me if anything ever happened. So when I found out I was pregnant, I was sc@red but not too worried, because he promised me he would be there. He was so excited.
He spent 1 week with me at my place, he said i should get use to seeing him like this. At first, he seemed happy about the baby. He told me not to worry, that I should focus on being healthy and calm. He paid for hospital bills, even brought food stuffs to my place.
He told me he will process my visa to Canada to have my baby in Canada. After he found out the baby was as a girl. everything changed. He stopped replying to my messages. He didn't process the Canada again, she was born here in Nigeria, When she was born, he didn't come to the hospital, When I video called him, he wouldn't pick up.
Weeks passed and he didn't even come to see the baby once. He came only 2 times and got angry when I didn't allow him have segz with me. Then I saw a picture online of him and his wife in Greece. Smiling. Holding hands. Drinking wine by the beach like nothing happened.
That was when it hit me that I was completely alone. My rent is due in 3 months and I have no way to pay it. He stopped sending m0nÂŁy a while ago. I've been using my savings but they're almost gone now. I've started packing little by little because I know I'll have to move back to my parents house soon.
It húřțs. Not because I don't want to go home, but because I know what they'll say. They warned me. My mum sat me down more than once and said Married men will leave you crying. My dad just shook his head. My parents won't welcome me back home.
I don't even know how to explain it to them.
That I believed him. That I thought he meant it when he said we'd figure it out together. Now it's just me and my baby. She's innocent in all this, and she deserves more than what I can give her right now. I'm tired, and I'm sc@red. But I'll keep going for her. I just wish I had listened.
My business is not doing so well. I want to go public because him and his wife can't be happy and I'm in this condition.
They ruined my life please help.