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I HELP COUPLES ACHIEVE A BLISSFUL MARRIAGE
- Premarital / Marriage Counseling
- Relationship Coaching

09/10/2025

Poverty has caused many men and women to end up with the worst kind of people in marriage. Financial stability is very important, not only because it facilitates your life but because it makes you emotionally and psychologically sound to identify the people you should keep in your life and those you should keep out of it.

Poverty would make a person think they need someone they should avoid. That's why I encourage young girls to desire and pursue financial independence instead of inculcating a mindset of financial dependence on men.

Joanah Eyere

08/10/2025

The couple in the photo got married in April 2025 and in September 2025, the wife set the husband ablaze after discovering that he was having an extramarital affair. He d!ed after sustaining a third-degree burn. No matter the wrongdoings of one's spouse, they shouldn't mμrder them, especially in such a gruesome manner. It's been barely five months since they got married and the ultimate question is WHY?

In a marriage vow, the statement "for better or worse ... till de@th do us part" is neither a de@th warrant nor a license to k!ll one's spouse but a commitment by a couple to go through the storms of life together; swim through troubled waters, fight battles together as well as celebrate victories together. It is a promise that if in the course of their life one of them d!es, it would be in one of the battles where their spouse was an ally, not the enemy.

Many times, when a separation is endorsed on the basis of domestic viølence or intimate partner , some people quote that vow justifying why they think a separation shouldn't be an option and it's because they lack understanding. If the vow meant that it was ok for one spouse to k!ll the other, parents wouldn't allow their children to make such a vow, let alone get married. Parents encourage it because they understand the true meaning of the vow.

That vow is a promise to support, tolerate, forgive the short comings of each other, and stand by each other through life. It is a commitment by a couple to love, protect, defend and fight together as one, against a common enemy for as long as they live. However, when a spouse becomes the enemy instead of the ally, the predator instead of the protector, the threat to life, instead of the refuge, then that vow becomes null and void and at that point, de@th is not what should put them apart but a separation.

It wasn't the will of God, who is the originator of marriage for anyone to d!e in the hands of their spouse whom he entrusted to their care. When that becomes the case, a separation is allowed, and a divorce is justified. Nevertheless, if a person chooses to stay with such a partner, they do so by choice, and are totally accountable for any outcome.

In a nutshell, a counsel whether a sound or a misleading one, has never been a commandment but a recommendation. An advice is never imposed but suggested with reasons, facts or references. In the end, the decision rests in the hands of the one being advised. They have a choice to either take it or leave it, based on their own reasons and capacity. The bottom line is, always apply wisdom in everything you do because wisdom is a defence.

Joanah Eyere

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04/10/2025

Most times, when a wife becomes domineering, it's because her husband didn't take the position of the head and leader early in their marriage.

As a husband, you can't hear a strange noise in your home and instead of checking where it came from, you sit back and tell your wife to check, then expect her to continue being the woman in the marriage. You go to bed and tell your wife to check all the doors and make sure they're locked, then complain when she carries on as the leader. The truth is you programmed her mind to think like the protector of the family and in any team, the one who protects automatically becomes the leader. It's a programming which she's not even conscious of.

You relinquished your leadership position when you told her to check where the noise came from and when you told her to lock the doors while you were lying in bed like the weaker vessel in the marriage.

Know this, the more you shy away from your responsibilities, the more you fall from your position of headship and gradually, your wife will unconsciously stop depending on you for her protection and that of the kids. The ability to provide for and protect the family is what makes a husband the head so if you fail to act as the protector, even your children would start looking down on you and that wouldn't be your wife's fault.

Joanah Eyere

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03/10/2025

Before you marry someone, pay attention to what people are saying about them. Everyone cannot be a h@ter and everyone cannot be against your happiness. Granted, a few people may be out to ruin your partner's image out of jealousy but if your partner is not well-spoken of by many people, don't go ahead with the marriage even if they tell you that they've changed. There are many consistently good people out there whom you can marry so you shouldn't take a risk with someone who's claiming to have changed recently.

If many people are saying negative things about your partner especially when they all have individual stories and personal experiences with your partner, then your partner is most likely not just a red flag but a walking red canopy. Marriage doesn't fix character flaws, it only amplifies existing habits so you shouldn't ignore those negative statements.

Joanah Eyere

02/10/2025

I once had a friend who made new friends, then started doing drμgs, keeping late nights and dating multiple men at once. I was no longer comfortable with the friendship but didn't have the courage to break it off. One day, she ended our friendship because I refused to join her in her new lifestyle. When someone asked her why we were no longer friends, she said "she's somehow". When asked what she meant, she said "she's just weird, boring, always saying she doesn't do this and that. We're different so we can't remain friends." She was right.

The point is not everyone should be your friend. Friendship should be between people whose values and principles align, otherwise one person would change the other. That change could be positive or negative but the negative influence is always stronger. Very few people have the ability to resist a negative influence. She couldn't influence me and I couldn't influence her so we were bound to separate. Even the bible says in Amos 3:3, "Can two people walk together unless they've agreed?" The answer is No!

There are some of you who've changed drastically over the years due to the negative influence of your friends, there are some of you who've lost friends because you refused to become who they are and there are some of you who have relatives, colleagues, neighbors who don't like you not because you are bad but because you're responsible and the mere sight of you reminds them that they're not living right.

Granted, living right is subjective but to know whether or not a lifestyle is good for you, take a look at the advantages and disadvantages, then see which weighs more. If something has two advantages and ten disadvantages, then it's bad for you regardless of its two advantages. It's even worse when it has no advantage. For instance, what are the advantages of doing drμgs? If you know any, please tell me in the comments section. What are the advantages of s£xual immorality? Can someone tell me?

Anything that's not good for you is not for you and when someone who's not good for you leaves your life, it's not a loss but a gain. If you don't have the courage to leave the wrong friends, at least be glad when they leave you.

Lastly, your friend's friends shouldn't become your friends unless they meet your friendship criteria. Avoid inherited friendships.

Joanah Eyere

19/09/2025

I woke up to Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo's viral message so would like to join the debate and expose some truths many people are unaware of. Wrong teachings and lies prevail when people who know the truth choose to remain silent. When a Christian believes an ideology is unbiblical, they're likely to think that it's optional or wrong to practice that ideology even if the ideology is sound but when they believe it's biblical, living by it becomes a must and that's why it's important to correct wrong teachings and doctrines.

It's both biblical and cultural for a man to provide for his wife and I'd like the supporters of Pastor Kingsley's message to read Exodus 21:10. In that scripture, husbands are urged to provide for their wives food, clothing and other marital rights. It even emphasizes that if a husband should take another wife, he shouldn't deprive his first wife of these fundamental provisions.

Additionally, when Adam and Eve disobeyed God in the garden of Eden, God disciplined them. In Genesis 3:17, To Adam he said, “Because you listened to your wife and ate fruit from the tree about which I commanded you, ‘You must not eat from it,’ “Cursed is the ground because of you; through painful toil you will eat food from it all the days of your life." In verse 19, he added, "By the sweat of your brow you will eat your food until you return to the ground, since from it you were taken; for dust you are and to dust you will return.”

On the other hand, he said Eve would have birth pangs before giving birth. In Genesis 3:16, he said to Eve, “I will make your pains in childbearing very severe; with painful labor you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.”

It's evident from the scriptures that Adam was authorized to work hard and provide for his family because the privilege of free food in the garden of Eden had come to an end and Eve was authorized to be under his leadership going forward.

That being said, any man who refuses to provide for his wife is disobeying God, resisting God's authority, and evading his primary duty. Similarly, any woman who resists her husband's headship and leadership is disobeying God and resisting God's authority.

The fact that someone is a pastor, doesn't mean he knows and understands the scriptures to the fullest and that's why even as a pastor, one needs to keep studying until he comes to the accurate knowledge of the truth. Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo needs to study the Bible more.

Joanah Eyere

11/09/2025

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02/09/2025

Celebrating your divorce and throwing a party is giving narcissistic vibes, suggesting that you were the problem and your ex was the victim. Don't emulate women who do that.

I agree that not all breakups should lead to a heartbreak because some breakups are actually breakthroughs and should be celebrated but going as far as making a personalized happily divorced banner, throwing a party, inviting people, taking pictures and posting them on social media is scary. People would think you have mental health issues. No sound man would want to get close to you after seeing that and that explains why such women hardly remarry.

Joanah Eyere

31/08/2025

Unless you learn to practice privacy, you'll hardly be completely happy in life. Be so private that unless someone is your neighbor or trusted relative, they shouldn't know where you stay.

If you're the type of person who tells everyone the school their children attend, posts their location while they're still at that location, talks about their spouse to people, reveal their net worth, health challenges, genotype and blood group to random people, then you need to change your ways because that's a recipe for both physical and spiritual attacks. It's unwise.

Very few people know certain details about my life and they don't even include every member of my small family. Yes, I'm that secretive. Being private has saved me from a lot of problems I assure you.

Joanah Eyere

30/08/2025

There are two things you should never beg for; love and an apology. That's because both have to be sincere to be valuable but when you receive them after begging for them, they're devoid of their true essence and become detrimental to you.

Joanah Eyere

29/08/2025

𝘼𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙡𝙖𝙨𝙩 𝙣𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩

This is how I'm stepping into the last year of my 30s. It's a significant milestone which gives me a deeper understanding of my priorities. With this new age, I'll be solidifying my purpose on earth as I anticipate the 4th decade of my life. Happy birthday JOANAH!

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