01/03/2026
OUR BROTHER KILLED HIMSELF!!!
💔 To a Brother Who Had given up So Hard…
We didn’t think it would come to this.
You made it through that storm—the one that went viral, the shame, the pointing fingers, the silence when you needed voices.
You didn’t break then.
You didn’t run.
You stayed.
You carried it. And you kept walking.
But now, something new came.
Something different.
Something heavier than we saw.
And this time—you didn’t make it through.
We don’t know the full story of what happened this time.
We don’t know the weight that finally crushed you.
But we do know this:
Su***de was never the answer.
Not then.
Not now.
Not ever.
You had already proven you could endure.
That alone should have reminded you:
You were strong enough to face it.
Even this.
Even if no one understood.
Even if you felt alone.
But pain lies.
It tells you there’s no way out.
It tells you people have moved on.
It tells you your presence doesn’t matter.
But that’s not true.
We notice the space you left. (Your wife and 2 lovely kids)
We feel the silence where your voice should be.
To anyone reading this who’s drowning in a new storm:
Just because you survived the last one doesn’t mean this one can’t hurt.
And that’s okay.
You don’t have to explain your pain.
You don’t have to be strong every second.
But please—don’t let it end in silence.
Talk to someone.
Anyone.
A neighbor. A cousin. A stranger on a line.
Because as long as you’re breathing—
there’s still a way forward.
Rest, brother.
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My take : ministry is very difficult, one of the hardest job on this earth, pastors please am speaking to all of us, learn to take break. Those members you see have options( crying). Learn to voice out, but even if you voice out how many will hear you. I can't type again.
Rest on sir
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