Relationship / Marriage Coach

18/06/2025

Still waiting for “The One”?
You’re not forgotten. You’re being formed.

The waiting season isn’t wasted, it’s where God does His deepest work.
You’re not just waiting for someone. You’re being prepared by Someone.

In this new blog post, we unpack:
➡️ How to wait with purpose, not panic
➡️ The one question to ask yourself while waiting
➡️ What to do when it feels like God is silent
➡️ Why settling isn’t an option, even when you’re tired

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https://www.tunakem-rep-consult-relationship-marriage-counselor.org/blog/2561944_waiting-for-the-one-what-to-do-in-the-waiting-season

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13/06/2025

When love feels distant... it doesn’t mean it’s over.
It just means it’s time to lean in, not give up.

If you’re in that season where you still love each other, but the connection feels off, this is your gentle reminder:

You can reconnect without it turning into a fight.
You can love deeper—intentionally, prayerfully, and patiently.
You’re not alone, and your marriage is worth the effort.

“A gentle answer turns away wrath…” – Proverbs 15:1

Blog post- https://www.tunakem-rep-consult-relationship-marriage-counselor.org/blog/2560911_when-love-feels-distant-how-to-reconnect-without-starting-a-fight

09/06/2025

Feeling distant in your marriage? Read this.

Love isn’t always candlelit dinners and soft kisses. Sometimes, love looks like showing up when you feel like shutting down. It’s choosing your spouse again, even when it’s hard.

In a world that promotes quitting, Christian marriage is a radical act of faith.
It’s not built on fleeting feelings. It’s built on daily decisions, prayer, grace, and covenant.

When the flame fades, God can reignite it.
When the connection weakens, He can restore it.
Stop idolizing perfection and start practicing persistence.

Swipe through this carousel 👉 to be reminded that your marriage is a ministry, and God is not finished writing your story.

📖 Read the full blog at https://www.tunakem-rep-consult-relationship-marriage-counselor.org/blog/2550255_when-love-feels-hard-choosing-your-spouse-daily-in-a-culture-of-quitting
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01/06/2025

https://www.tunakem-rep-consult-relationship-marriage-counselor.org/blog/2539279_new-month-renewed-love-embracing-june-with-intentional-grace

10/05/2025

12/04/2025

You can be married and still feel lonely.
Yes—sleeping in the same bed.
Sharing meals. Raising kids.
Serving in church.
And still… feeling unseen.

No one talks about this enough.

But today, we are.
On the blog, I’m opening up about loneliness in marriage—where it comes from, what it means, and what we can do (with God’s help) to heal and reconnect.

Marriage isn’t just about staying together—it’s about growing together.

If you or someone you know is navigating this quiet struggle, this blog post is for you.

Read it now:

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You’re not alone, and you don’t have to stay lonely.

Let’s be honest for a moment.

07/04/2025

Your spouse never complains… but are they still hurting inside?

Many marriages carry the weight of silent wounds from past relationships. And sometimes, the person who never talks about it… is the one hurting the most.

New Blog Post:
“Healing from Past Relationships: How to Move Forward in Faith” is now live!

In this short but powerful read, you’ll learn:

How to lovingly create space for healing

Why silence doesn’t always mean peace

The role of faith, forgiveness, and connection in moving forward

It’s interactive, heartfelt, and practical, for both singles and couples.

Read it now & share it with someone who needs to heal:
https://www.tunakem-rep-consult-relationship-marriage-counselor.org/blog/2436817_healing-from-past-relationships-how-to-move-forward-in-faith

07/04/2025

Your spouse never complains… but are they still hurting inside?

Many marriages carry the weight of silent wounds from past relationships. And sometimes, the person who never talks about it… is the one hurting the most.

New Blog Post:
“Healing from Past Relationships: How to Move Forward in Faith” is now live!

In this short but powerful read, you’ll learn:

How to lovingly create space for healing

Why silence doesn’t always mean peace

The role of faith, forgiveness, and connection in moving forward

It’s interactive, heartfelt, and practical, for both singles and couples.

Read it now & share it with someone who needs to heal:

Let’s be honest…Just because your spouse never complains doesn’t mean they aren’t carrying silent scars.

05/04/2025

Words can build or break your marriage.
What are you speaking into your spouse’s heart?

We don’t realize how powerful our words are, until we see the fruit they bear.
Are you planting life or pain?

Today, I challenge you to speak 3 life-giving words to your spouse:

Encourage.
Appreciate.
Uplift.

Start here:
“One thing I appreciate about you is ______.”

Don’t just read it, say it. Or text it. Or write a note.

Let your words bring healing and connection.

Read the full blog post for a quick interactive activity that’ll bless your relationship today:

https://www.tunakem-rep-consult-relationship-marriage-counselor.org/blog/2434096_death-and-life-are-in-the-power-of-the-tongue-proverbs-18-21

Have you ever paused to consider how your words shape the atmosphere in your home?

04/04/2025

Attraction isn’t just physical. The right person is drawn to purpose, character, and Christ in you.

Before you search outward, build inward.

04/04/2025

Would you marry someone exactly like you?

Before praying for “the one”, ask God to help you become the one.

Too often, we chase the perfect partner, forgetting God is more interested in who we're becoming than who we're pursuing.

Here’s a challenge:
Write down the top 5 traits you want in a future spouse.

Now ask yourself…
“Am I living out those traits today?”

Want someone patient? Be patient.
Prayerful? Build your altar.
Loving? Start with yourself.

Become the person you want to marry.
Not by hustle, but by grace.

Scripture Fuel:
“Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart.” – Psalm 37:4

“Put on... kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.” – Colossians 3:12

Read the full post on the blog.

Let me ask you a simple, but powerful question:Would you date or marry someone exactly like you?

03/04/2025

Are you in a toxic relationship? Love shouldn't bring pain. If you feel emotionally drained, fearful or unworthy, reassess. Seek counsel, and set boundaries. God never intended love to hurt.