Relationship / Marriage Coach

06/09/2025

Sometimes it’s not another person… it’s the phone that’s stealing intimacy in marriages and relationships.
Your spouse shouldn’t have to compete with your screen for attention.
Choose love over scrolling, your marriage is worth it.
What’s one step you can take TODAY to give your partner more attention than your phone? Drop it in the comments ⬇️

19/08/2025

Rushing Into Marriage?
Marriage isn’t a race. Jumping in too fast can leave emotional wounds, unresolved issues, and mismatched expectations.
Proverbs 21:5:
“The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance, but everyone who is hasty comes only to poverty.”
Take time to:
Pray for clarity
Build trust & friendship
Heal from past wounds
Align values & goals
A strong, godly marriage starts before the wedding, in preparation and intentional love.
Have you ever felt rushed in love? Share below!

05/08/2025

Marriage isn’t just a beautiful day; it’s a lifelong covenant. And the truth is… whatever issues exist in the relationship before marriage will only grow stronger after.
A God-ordained relationship doesn’t look right, it bears fruit: peace, respect, forgiveness, and a mutual pursuit of Christ.

So before you say “I do,” ask yourself:
Does this relationship bring me closer to God or pull me away?

If it’s not rooted in Christ, the foundation will always crack.
Wait for the love that grows you spiritually and keeps God at the center.

“Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.” – Psalm 127:1

18/07/2025

Marriage is a covenant, not a convenience.
You don’t walk away because it “feels off.” You press in.
Whether dating or married, don’t normalize emotional distance.
Ask the Holy Spirit to break walls and restore warmth.

15/07/2025

When Love Grows… But Not Together: Facing Spiritual Mismatch in Christian Relationships

“I feel like I’m growing closer to God… but they’re not moving.”
Spiritual mismatch isn’t talked about enough in Christian circles.
It’s painful, confusing, and lonely, but it’s not the end of the road.

With love, prayer, and grace, growth doesn’t have to create a wall, it can build a bridge.

18/06/2025

Still waiting for “The One”?
You’re not forgotten. You’re being formed.

The waiting season isn’t wasted, it’s where God does His deepest work.
You’re not just waiting for someone. You’re being prepared by Someone.

In this new blog post, we unpack:
➡️ How to wait with purpose, not panic
➡️ The one question to ask yourself while waiting
➡️ What to do when it feels like God is silent
➡️ Why settling isn’t an option, even when you’re tired

📖 Read the full blog here:
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https://www.tunakem-rep-consult-relationship-marriage-counselor.org/blog/2561944_waiting-for-the-one-what-to-do-in-the-waiting-season

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13/06/2025

When love feels distant... it doesn’t mean it’s over.
It just means it’s time to lean in, not give up.

If you’re in that season where you still love each other, but the connection feels off, this is your gentle reminder:

You can reconnect without it turning into a fight.
You can love deeper—intentionally, prayerfully, and patiently.
You’re not alone, and your marriage is worth the effort.

“A gentle answer turns away wrath…” – Proverbs 15:1

Blog post- https://www.tunakem-rep-consult-relationship-marriage-counselor.org/blog/2560911_when-love-feels-distant-how-to-reconnect-without-starting-a-fight

09/06/2025

Feeling distant in your marriage? Read this.

Love isn’t always candlelit dinners and soft kisses. Sometimes, love looks like showing up when you feel like shutting down. It’s choosing your spouse again, even when it’s hard.

In a world that promotes quitting, Christian marriage is a radical act of faith.
It’s not built on fleeting feelings. It’s built on daily decisions, prayer, grace, and covenant.

When the flame fades, God can reignite it.
When the connection weakens, He can restore it.
Stop idolizing perfection and start practicing persistence.

Swipe through this carousel 👉 to be reminded that your marriage is a ministry, and God is not finished writing your story.

📖 Read the full blog at https://www.tunakem-rep-consult-relationship-marriage-counselor.org/blog/2550255_when-love-feels-hard-choosing-your-spouse-daily-in-a-culture-of-quitting
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01/06/2025

https://www.tunakem-rep-consult-relationship-marriage-counselor.org/blog/2539279_new-month-renewed-love-embracing-june-with-intentional-grace

10/05/2025

12/04/2025

You can be married and still feel lonely.
Yes—sleeping in the same bed.
Sharing meals. Raising kids.
Serving in church.
And still… feeling unseen.

No one talks about this enough.

But today, we are.
On the blog, I’m opening up about loneliness in marriage—where it comes from, what it means, and what we can do (with God’s help) to heal and reconnect.

Marriage isn’t just about staying together—it’s about growing together.

If you or someone you know is navigating this quiet struggle, this blog post is for you.

Read it now:

Save + Share with someone who needs this reminder:
You’re not alone, and you don’t have to stay lonely.

Let’s be honest for a moment.

07/04/2025

Your spouse never complains… but are they still hurting inside?

Many marriages carry the weight of silent wounds from past relationships. And sometimes, the person who never talks about it… is the one hurting the most.

New Blog Post:
“Healing from Past Relationships: How to Move Forward in Faith” is now live!

In this short but powerful read, you’ll learn:

How to lovingly create space for healing

Why silence doesn’t always mean peace

The role of faith, forgiveness, and connection in moving forward

It’s interactive, heartfelt, and practical, for both singles and couples.

Read it now & share it with someone who needs to heal:
https://www.tunakem-rep-consult-relationship-marriage-counselor.org/blog/2436817_healing-from-past-relationships-how-to-move-forward-in-faith