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Many of our children are being exposed to things we never imagined they'd come across—at ages we never expected.I’ve see...
17/07/2025

Many of our children are being exposed to things we never imagined they'd come across—at ages we never expected.

I’ve seen heartbreaking cases of homosexualism and lesbianism not just in boarding schools, but right at home—among siblings, cousins, and neighbours.

And the truth is:
📌 Day school children are not exempt.
📌 Strict homes are not immune.

So, I ask you:
Isn’t it time we equipped our children?
Isn’t it time we had the difficult conversations?

Because the effects of early sexual exposure and abuse don’t end in childhood.
They show up later as:
🔸 Perfectionism
🔸 Relationship struggles
🔸 S*xual dysfunction
🔸 Chronic low self-esteem

Silence is no longer safety. Knowledge is.
Let’s raise children who are aware, confident, and protected.

*🌸Islamic-Based S*x Education Classes for Children & Teens🌸*Our children are exposed to so much from an early age. It is...
15/07/2025

*🌸Islamic-Based S*x Education Classes for Children & Teens🌸*

Our children are exposed to so much from an early age. It is our duty as parents to teach them the correct knowledge, guided by Islam, so they can grow with confidence, self-respect, and the ability to protect themselves.

We invite you to enroll your child in our age-appropriate S*x Edu classes

👶🏽 Little Learners Class (Ages 3–7)
👉 Boys & Girls together
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👧🏽👦🏽 Growing Minds Class (Ages 8–11)
👉 Boys & Girls in separate classes
✨ Topics: Puberty basics, personal boundaries, emotions, and abuse prevention.

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🧑🏽‍🦱👩🏽‍🦱 Teens & Tweens Class (Ages 12+)
👉 Boys & Girls in separate classes
✨ Topics: Full puberty education, consent, peer pressure, relationshis and Islamic values.

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We can’t always be there, but knowledge can be.
One conversation today could protect your child tomorrow. This class gives them the tools to protect themselves, inshaAllah.

Reg fee: 5k per child , Discount for more than a child

0470347819, Gtb
Safezone confidential counseling

📅 Date: 26 -27th July & 1st - 3rd, Aug 2025
📍 Venue: [ Zoom]
⏰ Time: [5pm
📱 To Register: [09093623518]

Let’s raise a generation of children who are informed, protected, and guided by their Deen. 🌿





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*🌿 "They Can't Protect Themselves with Silence."* 🌿Every day, children face silent dangers:🔸 Inappropriate touch🔸 Exposu...
15/07/2025

*🌿 "They Can't Protect Themselves with Silence."* 🌿

Every day, children face silent dangers:
🔸 Inappropriate touch
🔸 Exposure to sexual content
🔸 Emotional confusion they’re too scared to talk about

And too often, the one thing missing is: Knowledge.

💔 The Truth Is Painful...

When children are not taught about Private parts, Boundaries, Safe vs unsafe touch and to deal with the opposite gender…they become easy targets.
Some suffer in silence, others act out in confusion—many carry shame for years.

🌟 *This Class Is a Shield.*

Through faith-based, age-appropriate guidance, we teach your child: ✅ What is private
✅ Who can and can’t touch them
✅ How to say NO
✅ What to do if something feels wrong
✅ The changes of puberty and emotions—with Islamic values

👶🏽👧🏽🧑🏽‍🦱 Class Groups:

Little Learners (Ages 3–7) – Boys & girls together

Growing Minds (8–11) – Boys & girls in separate classes

Teens & Tweens (12+) – Boys & girls in separate classes

📍 Venue: Zoom (Online)
📅 Dates: July 26–27 & August 1–3
⏰ Time: 5:00 PM
💳 Fee: ₦5,000 per child (discounts for more than one)
🏦 Acct: GTB – 0470347819,Gtb, Safezone confidential counseling

📱 To Register: 09093623518

✨ "We can’t always be there, but knowledge can."

Give your child the tools to protect themselves—guided by Islam, covered in mercy.





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“O Allah, grant us wisdom in raising the children You entrusted to us. Heal our own hearts as we raise theirs. Make us g...
02/07/2025

“O Allah, grant us wisdom in raising the children You entrusted to us. Heal our own hearts as we raise theirs. Make us guides, not tyrants. Helpers, not hurdles. And help us parent with love, clarity, and Taqwa. AAMEEN.







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Sulaiman was a respectful and obedient boy. He didn’t talk too much, but inside, he had big feelings.He once tried to sh...
01/07/2025

Sulaiman was a respectful and obedient boy. He didn’t talk too much, but inside, he had big feelings.
He once tried to share with his mother:
“Mummy, I feel lonely in school...”

She replied, without looking up from the dishes:
❌ “You’re lucky you’re even going to school. Stop complaining.”
He tried again after school one day:
“I feel like no one likes me...”
His father snapped:
❌ “You better toughen up. Life is not about who likes you or not.”
Each time Sulaiman tried to speak up, he was met with:

Shut down responses

Dismissive comments

Or cold silence
Over time, he stopped trying. He learned:

“My feelings don’t matter.”
“Speaking doesn’t help.”

So he kept everything to himself

⚠️ Fast forward to age 30…

Sulaiman is now married with a good job.
From the outside, he's responsible and serious. But inside the home:

He never checks in emotionally with his wife.

He shuts down during conflict or walks away in silence.

When asked, “What are you feeling?” he says, “I don’t know.”
He avoids deep conversations and hates emotional questions.
His wife begins to wonder:

“Does he even care? Why does he feel so distant?”
But the truth is—Sulaiman was never taught how to feel, let alone how to express it.
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Join our eye-opening session where we teach parents how to raise emotionally strong, confident, and connected children—without shouting, comparison, or emotional neglect.
Send a direct message or WhatsApp 09093623518 to join.






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*Parent the Child you have, Not the life you missed*.Sometimes, without realizing it, we begin to live our unfulfilled d...
29/06/2025

*Parent the Child you have, Not the life you missed*.

Sometimes, without realizing it, we begin to live our unfulfilled dreams through our children.You wanted to be a doctor, so now your child must become one.
"You were never first in class, so now your child must be perfect."

While it comes from a place of love, it can easily turn into emotional pressure that weighs them down. Your child was not created to finish what you couldn’t. They are not your second chance at success, fame, or healing. They are their own soul—sent by Allah with a unique purpose, strengths, and path.

When we force our unfulfilled ambitions onto our children, we blur the line between guidance and control. A child who loves art is pushed into science. A child who thrives in calm environments is constantly told to “speak up” or “be bold.” A child who is still finding their way is shamed for not becoming what their parents hoped for.

Over time, this leads to children who feel valued only when they perform—not for who they truly are.
They struggle to connect with their identity, often battling anxiety, low self-worth, and hidden resentment.
To survive emotionally, they learn to suppress their true selves just to please others.

Worse still, many grow up unable to tell the difference between what they truly desire and what their parents expected of them.
They become adults with degrees but no passion, jobs but no fulfillment, and relationships marked by confusion, guilt, and emotional disconnection.

Insteead ,guide your child with wisdom, but allow space for them to explore.
Ask, listen, and observe. Get to know who your child really is—their interests, temperament, and challenges. This will help shape them to become healthy adults..............
🌟Join Our Parenting Seminar! 🌟
Theme: Parent Right
🗓 Start Date: July 1st, 2025
🕗 Time: 8:00 PM
📍 Venue: WhatsApp
💳 Registration Fee: ₦5,000

This powerful seminar will guide you through how to:
✅Discipline with love and wisdom
✅ Stop harmful comparisons
✅ Build emotional connection
✅ Raise confident, faith-driven children
✅ Use prophetic parenting principles.

Hosted by: SafeZone Counselling❤️



Dear parent, Your role is not to compare your child to others…It’s not to say, “When I was your age, I had all A’s” (whi...
28/06/2025

Dear parent, Your role is not to compare your child to others…
It’s not to say, “When I was your age, I had all A’s” (which may not even be true).
Your real role is to support your child,

📚 Support the teacher,
🧠 And create an environment where your child feels safe, encouraged, and ready to learn.

Think back to your own school days…
The subject you loved most in primary or secondary school—wasn’t it often because you loved the teacher?That emotional connection matters more than we realize.
When a child feels seen, encouraged, and respected by their teacher, that love and trust often transfers to the subject itself.
They begin to try—not because the topic is easy, but because they want to please the teacher who believes in them.

Your child doesn’t need to hear how many A’s you got in school.They need your support, your presence, and your patience—not pressure.

If you’re tired of: ❌ Constant shouting
❌ Endless comparison
❌ Homework battles
❌ Low confidence in your child
Then join our next parenting seminar july 1st, fee is 5k only .

Message me to join 07038800971

Safezone Counselling

Your children will talk to themselves the way you talk to yourself."
26/06/2025

Your children will talk to themselves the way you talk to yourself."

❌ Don’t Say This ✅ Say This Instead 💡“You’re lazy!” “I’ve noticed you’re having trouble starting. What’s holding you bac...
25/06/2025

❌ Don’t Say This ✅ Say This Instead 💡
“You’re lazy!” “I’ve noticed you’re having trouble starting. What’s holding you back?” Focuses on the behavior, not the child’s identity.

“You’re stubborn!” “I see you feel strongly
about this. Can we talk about it calmly?” Acknowledges feelings without shaming.

“You’re not serious!” “It seems like you’re distracted. Let’s work on staying focused together.”

Correct the behavior without damaging the child’s selfesteem
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Join our parenting seminar july 1st and learn how to ✅ Replace harmful labels with helpful language
✅ Discipline without emotional damage
✅ Build obedience through connection, not fear
✅ Say what your child needs to hear for growth
✅ Use Prophet Muhammad’s ﷺ parenting model.
Reg fee:5k.eegister now !

0470347819
Gtb
Safezone confidential counseling
WhatsApp this number for details 09093623518





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