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15/07/2025

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15/07/2025

🌿 HEALTHY WAYS TO BOOST YOUR CHILD’S IMMUNITY 🧒🏾👧🏽
By Omolola Olagbenjo

Your child doesn’t need more drugs , they need stronger immunity! 💪🏽

Here are natural, everyday ways to keep their defense system strong and active:

🍊 1. Feed Them Right
Give more fruits 🍓, veggies 🥦, whole grains 🌽, and healthy fats 🥑.
Avoid sugary snacks and processed foods they weaken the immune system.

💧 2. Hydration is Key
Let them drink plenty of water, coconut water 🥥, or mild herbal teas. Good hydration helps flush out toxins.

😴 3. Prioritize Sleep
Children need 9–14 hours of sleep daily! Create a peaceful bedtime routine, no screens before bed. 🛌

🤸🏽‍♀️ 4. Encourage Active Play
Let them run, jump, dance, and play outdoors. Movement keeps their body and immune system alert and strong.

☀️ 5. Get Sunlight Daily
15–30 minutes of morning sun helps build Vitamin D , a powerful immune booster! 🌞

🦠 6. Support Their Gut
Give natural probiotics like unsweetened yoghurt, fermented pap (ogi), and fiber-rich foods. A healthy gut = a strong immune system.

❤️ 7. Reduce Stress
Hug them. Laugh with them. Talk to them. A happy child has better immunity than a stressed one. 😊

🍯 8. Use Natural Boosters Wisely
In small, age-appropriate doses: Honey (for 1yr+ kids)
– Garlic & ginger in food
– Moringa powder in pap or smoothie

✅ Build their immunity naturally , not through fear, but through healthy choices.

💡 Strong children are raised with intention, love, and wisdom.

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© Omolola Olagbenjo
Wellness Coach
+2348062458564.

15/07/2025

📍GET CERTIFIED, EXPAND YOUR KNOWLEDGE, GET EQUIPPED, AND ENJOY THE RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE OF YOUR DREAM

📍Marital Success International Academy LTD* is a fully registered institution in the Federal Republic of Nigeria (CAC) with registration No. 7440740

📍For only 30,000 Naira, learn over 33 comprehensive marriage and family courses in this one-month program.

📍 Join over 8,000 past participants who have experienced amazing transformations in their marriage and family life.

📍TRAINING BEGINS ON MONDAY, 21ST OF JULY, 2025*

📌 THE FOLLOWINGS ARE THE 33 + MARRIAGE COURSES THAT WILL BE TREATED IN THE MARRIAGE DIPLOMA CLASS! (MDC)*

✅ *ROMANTIC IDEAS THAT WILL WOW YOUR SPOUSE AND TURN YOUR MARRIAGE INTO A HEAVEN ON EARTH*

✅ *BITTER TRUTH ABOUT MARRIAGE YOU WON'T HEAR IN CHURCH*

✅ *CONFLICT RESOLUTION & MANAGEMENT*

✅ *CAUSES OF CONFLICT IN MARRIAGE*

✅ *HOW TO RESOLVE CONFLICT IN MARRIAGE*

✅ *HOW TO HAVE EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION IN MARRIAGE*

✅ *HOW TO RELATE AND MANAGE YOUR IN-LAWS IN MARRIAGE*

✅ *TRUTH ABOUT DIVORCE & REMARRIAGE*

✅ . *WAYS TO AVOID DIVORCE AND SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE*

✅ *PRACTICAL WAYS TO FIGHT FOR YOUR MARRIAGE, ENJOY IT & MAKE IT LAST*

✅ *ENEMIES OF 21ST-CENTURY MARRIAGE/FAMILY AND TIPS TO KEEPING YOUR MARRIAGE IN THE 21ST CENTURY*

✅ * *DAILY HABITS THAT WILL MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE STRONGER*

✅ *THE UNTOLD SECRETS THAT WILL SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE FROM DIVORCE*

✅ *JOBS THAT ENDANGER FAMILY LIFE AND HOW TO HANDLE THEM*

✅ *STEPS TO MANAGE YOUR MONEY AS A COUPLE TO AVOID FINANCIAL CHALLENGES AND DEBT*

✅ *DANGEROUS THINGS WOMEN DO THAT ANNOY THEIR MAN AND DESTROY THEIR HOMES*

✅ *TERRIBLE THINGS MEN DO THAT PROVOKE THEIR WIVES AND DESTROY THEIR MARRIAGE*

✅ *RELATIONSHIP DECISIONS YOU SHOULD NOT MAKE WHEN YOU ARE ANGRY WITH YOUR SPOUSE*

✅ *TRUTHS YOU MUST KNOW ABOUT S€X AND WRONG CONCEPTIONS ABOUT $€X IN MARRIAGE!*

✅ *WAYS TO RENEW THE ROMANCE IN YOUR MARRIAGE*

✅ *ADVANCED AND PRACTICAL WAYS TO ENJOY S*X IN MARRIAGE*

✅ *MASTER KEYS TO MAKE YOUR WIFE LOVE YOU FOREVER.*

✅ . *WAYS TO MELT THE HEART OF YOUR HUSBAND FOREVER*

✅ *PROVEN WAYS TO AVOID BOREDOM IN YOUR MARRIAGE*

✅ *WHAT 21ST-CENTURY PARENTS DON'T KNOW ABOUT PARENTING*

✅ . *MASTER KEYS FOR RAISING EXCELLENT CHILDREN!*

✅ . *PARENTING FOUNDATIONS IN A DIGITAL AGE*

✅ *THINGS THAT MAKE A SUCCESSFUL PARENT*

✅ *Ways To Care For Your Baby In The Womb And Give Birth To A Healthy Baby*

✅ *WAYS TO PREVENT D€ATH DURING CHILDBIRTH* 👨🏻‍💼👩‍💼

✅ *WAYS TO PREVENT DEATH AFTER CHILDBIRTH* 👨🏻‍💼👮

✅ . *ANSWER TO PRIVATE AND SERIOUS QUESTIONS MARRIED COUPLES ASK ABOUT S*X.*

✅ *HOW TO BE AN EFFECTIVE MARRIAGE COUNSELOR IN THIS 21ST CENTURY* and many more

**Additional Information:**

✅ 100% online (via Telegram), no physical classes
✅ One Month School
✅ Certificate To Be Awarded:
MARITAL DIPLOMA CERTIFICATE
✅ Classes can be taken on your phone and laptop
✅ Training Days: Monday, Wednesday & Friday
✅ Time: 7:30 PM (Nigerian Time)
✅ *Your Certificate will be sent to your WhatsApp or Email After The Training*

📌 FOR WHOM
This Training Is For Singles. Engaged Singles, Married, Pastors, Pastor Wives, Marriage Counsellors, Sunday School Teachers, Members of Marriage Committees, Youth Pastors, Church Workers, Deacons and Deaconesses, Elders and Parents

REGISTRATION FEE:
N30,000 per person

Pay N30,000 Into:

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And after payment, send your name and WhatsApp number to 08023791295.

You will be added to the class immediately

This Training Will Turn Your Life, Relationship, Marriage, Ministry,y And Parenting Around Forever

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15/07/2025

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14/07/2025

Repeat After Me
I WILL NOT FAIL IN MARRIAGE 💝

14/07/2025

*12 COMMANDMENTS OF A HEALTHY MARRIAGE🔥*

© Samuel Olagbenjo

Marriage is a journey, not a sprint. These timeless principles, if practiced sincerely, can make your love life rich, fulfilling, and long-lasting.

1. 🌹Never Stop Communicating 🗣️
A relationship d!es the moment communication breaks down. Talk often. Talk openly. Talk honestly. Whether it’s laughter, serious talks, or simply checking in during the day—keep the conversation flowing. Silence builds walls.

💡Action Tip: Have daily "heart-to-heart" moments, even if it’s just 10 minutes before bed.

2. 🌹Pray Together 🙏
Couples that kneel together, stand stronger together. Prayer invites God into your relationship as a counselor, protector, and teacher. Submitting to God helps you submit in love to one another.

💡Action Tip: Create a shared prayer list and pray over it together weekly.

3. 🌹Don't W€aponize $ex ❌🍑
$ex is not a reward or a punishment—it's a covenant bond. Using it to manipulate your partner causes deep emotional wounds. Keep $ex sacred, frequent, and full of mutual affection.

💡Action Tip: Talk about your $exual needs openly without judgment.

4. 🌹No Secrets, No Lies 🚫🤐
Hiding things destr0ys trust. Lies may feel small today, but they erode intimacy tomorrow. Transparency builds safety.

💡Action Tip: Commit to “full disclosure” zones—times when you speak openly with no fear of judgment.

5. 🌹Grow Together, Not Apart 📈💑
Compatibility is not just about shared interests—it's about growing side-by-side spiritually, emotionally, financially, and professionally. Don’t let one partner evolve while the other stagnates.

💡Action Tip: Take a course, budget together, join a group, or set shared goals every quarter.

6. 🌹Make Decisions Together 🤝
Marriage is not a solo career. Major decisions must be mutual. When one person leads without the other, resentment builds.

💡Action Tip: Have a “couples board meeting” monthly to discuss finances, plans, and life decisions.

7. 🌹Keep Emotional Intimacy Reserved for Each Other 💞

Let no one be closer to you emotionally than your partner. Don’t let a friend, colleague, or even family member take your spouse’s emotional seat.

💡Action Tip: Share your deepest thoughts, fears, and joys with your spouse before anyone else.

8. 🌹Don’t Stop Being the Lover You Were at the Start 💐
Keep the charm, compliments, and sweet gestures alive. Familiarity should not breed laziness. Keep watering the plant of love.

💡Action Tip: Bring back “dating days”—even if it’s just a walk, movie night, or surprise text.

9. 🌹Don’t Sleep Angry 😠💤
Bittern€ss multiplies overnight. Don’t give anger a place to sleep in your bed. Resolve issues before you rest.

💡Action Tip: Use this phrase often: “I value us more than this fight. Let’s talk.”

10. 🌹Do Not Cheat, Flirt, or Entertain Infidelity 🚫💔
Even the strongest love will collapse under the weight of betrayal.

Faithfulness is not just physical—it’s emotional, digital, and mental.

💡Action Tip: Avoid private, flirty conversations with the opposite $ex, and set clear boundaries.

11. 🌹Support Each Other’s Dreams and Purpose 🌱✨

Your partner is not just a spouse—they are a person with dreams, goals, and a divine calling. When one pursues purpose and the other doesn’t care, frustration sets in. Be their cheerleader, not their critic.

💡Action Tip: Ask, “How can I help you get closer to your dream this year?” and follow through.

12. 🌹Forgive Quickly and Completely 💔➡️❤️
Every relationship will experience hurt. The difference between a lasting marriage and a broken one is how quickly and sincerely you forgive. Holding grudges pois0ns your connection.

💡Action Tip: Practice saying, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.” And be quick to extend grace when your spouse says the same.

Which of these do you think couples struggle with the most?
Share your thoughts 👇

❤️ FINAL THOUGHT:
A thriving relationship takes intention, prayer, humility, and consistency. Love isn’t built in a day, but it can be broken in a moment. Guard it, nurture it, and grow in it together.

Which of these commandments speaks to you most today?

Comment below👇

You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name

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© Samuel Olagbenjo
Marriage/Family Therapist | Best-Selling Author | Publisher | Book Project Consultant | Book Editor | Ghostwriter | Founder, Marital Success Academy

14/07/2025

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14/07/2025

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14/07/2025

💍 ARE YOU TRULY READY FOR MARRIAGE?

© Samuel Olagbenjo

Positioning Yourself for a Godly and Successful Union

Let me tell you a true story.
Mr. James has married and remarried four times.

He’s wealthy, generous, and outwardly successful — yet every woman who married him ran for her life.

Why? His character — anger, pride, and abus!ve words destr0yed every marriage.

His first wife left after 2 years.
His second — after just 1 year.
The third endured 3 years.
The fourth stayed the longest: 5 years of suffering… then she escaped.
💡 Lesson: Your character is your real marriage.

🔎 Let’s Talk About You…

Marriage is not just about finding the right person — it’s about becoming the right person.

📍Here are 15 personal questions to help you examine your readiness:

1️⃣ Are You a Builder or a Breaker?

Do you nurture peace and joy, or are you full of anger, criticism, and blame?

2️⃣ Do You Speak with Grace or With Fire?

Words can build or destr0y.
Are you gentle, respectful, and uplifting — or harsh, sarcastic, and controlling?

3️⃣ Are You Addicted to Bad Habits?

🚫 Drinking?
🚫 Sm0king?
🚫 P**n or promiscuity?
🚫 Drug$?
🚫 Emotional manipulation?
You may be praying for a good spouse, but bad living repels good answers.

4️⃣ Do You Expect What You Don’t Reflect?

Want a faithful spouse? Are YOU faithful?

Desire a humble partner? Are YOU humble?

Need a God-fearing lover? Are YOU God-fearing?

👉 You attract what you are — not what you wish.

5️⃣ Do You Obey God’s Word?

You can’t disregard God’s principles and expect God’s blessings in marriage.
📖 Obedience positions you for divine connections.

6️⃣ Are You Emotionally Mature?

Can you handle correction, say "I'm sorry", and forgive?
Can you control your temper and walk away from offense?

7️⃣ What Are You Reading and Learning?

🌹Read the Bible.
🌹Study relationship books.
🌹Listen to godly counselors.
🌹Don’t wait till marriage to start growing — it may be too late.

8️⃣ Do You Have the Fruit of the Spirit?

Galatians 5:22 is your marriage checklist:
Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control.

Work these into your life. They are more important than beauty or biceps.

9️⃣ Are You Building or Destr0ying Your Future?

If you're lazy, jealous, manipulative, proud, or unteachable — marriage will magnify your flaws.

✨ Your habits today shape your home tomorrow.

🔟 Do You Think Marriage Is a Quick Fix?

Marriage is not for fun, not a prize, and not an escape from loneliness.

If you’re not whole as a single, you’ll bl€ed on your partner.

💡 Final Truth: You Don't Rise Beyond Your Character in Marriage

Mr. James married four women and lost them all — not because of dem0ns, but because of who he was.

🛑 Don’t rush to marry if you’re not ready to love selflessly, live sacrificially, and grow continuously.

✅ Practical Action Steps:

✔️ Study God’s Word daily
✔️ Read books on godly relationships
✔️ Serve others in love
✔️ Join a mentoring or discipleship group
✔️ Seek counseling for emotional baggage
✔️ Pray for transformation, not just a spouse

📌 Final Word:

Your future home can be heaven on earth or h€ll in disguise — depending on who you become before the wedding day.

God will not connect you to a great partner if you're not positioned by godly character.

📖 You can’t enjoy marriage beyond your obedience to God’s Word.

🧭 Prepare now… or repair later.

🙏 May you not make marital errors in Jesus' name.

📲 Kindly share this with every single man and woman you care about.

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©Samuel Olagbenjo
Marriage & Family Therapist | Best-Selling Author
Founder, Marital Success Academy

14/07/2025

🚨 NEVER IGNORE RED FLAGS IN A RELATIONSHIP! 🚨

© Samuel Olagbenjo

A young woman recently told me, "My man used to slap me when we were courting... I thought it was just his temper. Now he beats me regularly, and I fear for my life."

She was blinded by love and pressured by comparison — she wanted to get married like her friends in church. Today, she wants to run for her life.

Dear Singles, Here Are 12 Powerful Truths You Must Never Ignore:

1️⃣ Slaps in Courtship Turn to Beatings in Marriage

If he's slapping you now, he will beat you later. Abuse doesn’t start big — it grows. That first slap is a seed. Don’t ignore it.

2️⃣ What You Tolerate in Courtship, You License in Marriage

Marriage does not change a person — it amplifies who they already are.

If he disrespects you now, it will only get worse after the vows.

3️⃣ Hot Temper Is Not a Minor Flaw

If he’s uncontrollably angry, breaks things, thr€atens you, or yells in rage — it’s not “passion,” it’s a danger0us trait.
Even if he’s a prayer warrior or sings in the choir.

4️⃣ Words Reveal the Heart

"Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks." (Matt. 12:34)
If he speaks abusively, the abuse is already in his heart.

5️⃣ A Man Should Be a Protector, Not a Predator

Love protects. Love is kind.
If you’re scared of him now, your life may be in dang€r tomorrow.

6️⃣ Don’t Marry Because Others Are Getting Married

Comparison k!lls discernment.
You’re not in a race with anyone. A peaceful single life is better than a traumatic marriage.

7️⃣ Don’t Marry Because You’re Afraid of Starting Over

Staying with an abus!ve fiancé because you're afraid no one else will love you is like drinking p0ison because you’re thirsty. You deserve better.

8️⃣ True Love Will NEVER Hurt You

If all you feel is fear, p@in, and tears — that’s not love. That’s emotional manipulation and possibly spiritual bo***ge.

9️⃣ Your Destiny Is Too Valuable to Gamble With Abus€

One bad decision can c0st you your joy, your future, or even your life. Marriage is not a joke — it's a covenant.

🔟 Marriage Is Not an Emergency — It’s a Life Assignment

Don’t be rushed by age, family, or pity. If you d!e in an abusive marriage, no one will come and live with the man for you. You alone will bear it.

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1️⃣1️⃣ Love Should Build You, Not Break You

A good relationship should make you better, stronger, and more joyful — not depressed, fearful, and withdrawn.

1️⃣2️⃣ A Good Run Is Better Than a Bad Stand

It's better to walk away now than to stay and r€gret it for the rest of your l!fe. Don’t dig your own gr@ve in the name of love.

💔 Dear single sister, don’t fall in love and fall into trouble.

May God help you discern clearly and give you the courage to walk away from any danger0us relationship — no matter how far you've gone.

📢 Please share this message with every single woman you care about.

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© Samuel Olagbenjo
Marriage & Family Therapist | Best-Selling Author | Founder, Marital Success Academy

14/07/2025

💍 SIGNS YOU ARE NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE

© Samuel Olagbenjo

— A Wake-Up Call for Every Single Man and Woman

Just because you’ve clocked 30 or even 40 doesn’t automatically mean you're ready to say "I do."

Marriage is not just about finding the right person—it’s also about becoming the right person.

So let me ask you: Who told you you're ready for marriage? 😊

Here are 25 signs that you're not quite ready—yet:

🚩 1. You Have No Stable Source of Income

Love is sweet, but hunger is real. If you're always begging to eat, pay bills, or recharge, you’re not ready to take responsibility for another person’s life.

🚩 2. You Have No Clear Vision for Your Life

If you don’t know where you’re going, you can’t lead or walk with anyone. Marriage demands direction, not just affection.

🚩 3. You’re Idle and Unproductive

No job. No passion. No goal. Just vibes. That’s not preparation—that’s a recipe for frustration.

🚩 4. You Have Anger Issues

If you explode over small things, you’ll damage your home. Marriage requires emotional maturity, not emotional outbursts.

🚩 5. You’re Deeply Insecure, Jealous, or Bitter

Low self-esteem + uncontrolled jealousy = toxic environment. You can’t love someone well when you're at war with yourself.

🚩 6. You Lack Self-Control

You say whatever comes to mind, go wherever your body leads, and sleep with anyone who looks appealing. Marriage requires discipline—not just desire.

🚩 7. You Rebel Against Authority

If you can't submit to mentors, pastors, or parental counsel, you’ll struggle to build a home that thrives under structure and accountability.

🚩 8. You Have No Personal Relationship with God

If prayer and God’s Word are foreign to you, you’re missing the most important foundation. Marriage is spiritual warfare; you need divine strength.

🚩 9. You Don’t Know How to Cook or Handle Basic Chores

You don’t have to be a chef or a housekeeper—but basic life skills show maturity and preparedness for partnership.

🚩 10. You’re Lazy, Passive, and Always Waiting for Someone to Push You

If you can’t take initiative in your own life, how will you build and sustain a home?

🚩 11. You’re Engaging in Premarital $ex

If you can’t delay gratification now, you’ll struggle with fidelity later. Purity builds trust, not shame.

🚩 12. You Lie Frequently

Truth is the foundation of trust. Without it, marriage crumbles.

🚩 13. You Pretend a Lot

Marriage exposes who you really are. If you're still hiding your needs, flaws, and intentions—you’re not ready for that level of vulnerability.

🚩 14. You’re Proud, Rude, or Unteachable

Marriage demands humility, listening, and adjustment. Pride will ruin intimacy and connection.

🚩 15. You Don’t Like Children

Marriage may lead to parenting. If kids annoy you, you may need to check your emotional maturity and nurturing capacity.

🚩 16. You Waste Money and Resources

Marriage needs wisdom in stewardship. If you spend carelessly, you’ll stress your future home.

🚩 17. As a Man, You’re Still Squatting

You need a stable place of your own. If you’re not grounded, how can you be a covering for someone else?

🚩 18. You Hate Married Couples

If you despise what you desire, something’s broken inside. Heal before you build.

🚩 19. You’re Double Dating or Playing Games

If you're still sampling people like items on a buffet, you’re not emotionally ready to commit. Marriage is covenant—not convenience.

🚩 20. You’re Selfish and Always Me-First

Marriage is about we, not me. If you can't sacrifice or compromise, your home won’t survive.

🚩 21. You Don't Read About Marriage or Seek Knowledge

You prepare for everything else—school, business, career—why not marriage? Ignorance is not a virtue.

👀 Final Word:

🛠️ Marriage doesn’t fix character flaws—it magnifies them.
Don’t enter marriage hoping someone will “complete” you. Be complete in yourself and in Christ.

Start dealing with these red flags now—so that when love comes, you’ll be ready for it.

📚 Need help? I have books and resources that can guide you. DM for details.

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