14/11/2023
You see eh, before you make your request known unto God, be very sure of what you are requesting.
Growing up, I was a young girl just like every of my mate. Wanting what every other girl wants, acting fine girl you know. I was actually every mans spec though π€£π€£, tall, slim, fair, beautiful and calm. well trained.
Now, I never had issues with my size until I got married and had my first child.
All of a sudden I became worried about my size (shuuooo) I felt I was too slim for a married woman. π²π―
I thought if I added a little weight I'll gain respect from all these small small boys that doesn't have respect for young married girls π€£ (my young brain)
I'll stand in front of the mirror and say God please I want to add small flesh let me look like somebody's wife, and a married woman. π€ͺ
My landlords daughter of about 5 years then made things worse by calling me Anty Nonye and called my mother in law mama Obi. I called her and lectured her ooo that see I am mama Obi and that other woman is Grandma hhhmm this girl said no o that mummy use to be big but i'm not big so I cannot be mama Obiπ€£ whaaaat
I also remember my husband always complaining to my mother in-law that I don't like eating and my mother in-law will reply "haara m' ya okwa m' nΓ³ nka" ( leave her for me shebi i'm here ππ) truly I don't eat any serious food, just make available for me bread and tea, snacks, drinks, ice cream chai π€£.
After baby number 2, I still lepa like bonga fish , my plea to God continued. Nothing happened.
Baby number 3 came and it was like God said I don't want this my daughters cry again then he did good measure, press down , shaking together and running over.... Booooooom the fat just came upon me even before I remembered to go and disturb God. πππ
I was happy but not too happy π€£. I felt the fat was too much na. In my mind ok i'm still breast feeding I'll trim down a bit after that.
Breastfeeding past no way. Baby number 4 now landed ewooo the fat doubled, chimuuuoooo warrisdis π€£π€£
I tell you the truth, 9 years after baby number 4 i'm still struggling to loose weight the thing no gree me instead I keep adding weight daily π
Now i'm doing every thing possible to loose that weight I desired so much and prayed for. I don't even know what to ask God now again sef π€£π€£π€£
I keep wondering how someone weighing 55kg will be weighing close to 90kg. I'm also almost drawing conclusion that as one age you gain little weight. Am I right?
Any way my consolation is I serve a very big God so his child should also be big shikena. Apples dont fall far from it's tree, monkey no dey born goat... Worry no more nne you carry God inside of you .
Who else is on this table. Share your experience or your wife's. What's your weight difference before marriage and now. Mine took 17years to get here.
I love you all π₯°πππ₯°
Mind you my husband has never ever complained of my weight wether slim or fat. Na me carry wahala for head ooo π€£