17/04/2023
Most ladies are guilty of packing sand from their father's compound to a Dibia's house all in the name of feeding ụmụada, but after all said and done, ife n'ebe a na ebe....
Well, I'm not telling you not to do what works for you but can you please read this concise write up, meditate on it and then tell me what you think.
As a lady, aligning with ụmụada starts from your mother if she is still alive, down to ụmụada or ụmụ ọkpụ be nna gị bu ndị dị ndụ.
See what you need to do whenever ụmụada disturbs you; ask your mother when ụmụada be nna gị will be holding their general meeting and then get some gift items like; maggi, salt, bathing/washing soap, malt, garden egg, cabin biscuit, bottle of wine and anything you can ever think of, then inform your mother about your movement so that both of you can attend the meeting together, let your mother if still alive present those items to them on your behalf but if not alive, you can present it to them.
After presenting those items to them, thank them for their immense contribution towards the betterment of the society and ask them to please pray for you. This is when they unleash the hidden treasures on you and congratulations in advance because you have passed the test.
My sister, after meeting with ụmụada ndị dị ndụ, then you can think of ịgbapụrụ ụmụada ndị nwụrụ anwụ ájá, ndị nwụrụ n'ike, ndị aka abaghi n'oke, ndị akwaghi ákwà, ndị ababeghị na ndị ichié, ndị kpafuru akpafu (wanderers) etc.... Their aja are mostly dropped at two, three or four corner junction.
Packing sand from your father's compound to a Dibia's house to feed ụmụada be nna gị and after which you return the sand to your father's compound enweghị ngabasi, eziokwu ka m n'agwa gị; you just bought chicken for the Dibia and his family.
Finally, this is the time to align with ụmụada ndị bagoro na ndị ichié. These set of ụmụada bụ ndị your father if alive or any member of your ụmụnna handles perfectly with or without ọfọ ndị ichié. If your Dad is no longer alive to handle that, then chọba onye ụmụnna gị nwere ọfọ ndị ichie or not to do that for you as long as he practices Ọdịnanị with clean hands, he can do that in his compound because you all are from same Obi (same lineage), after which you cook the stuff for human consumption.
After all said and done, visit a good Dibia AFA Ọdịnanị and what you will be hearing bụ "ụmụada n'ekene gị"
Ǹkwọ biko kwọtara anyị niile ife ọma dị íchè íchè...
