25/01/2024
18. VIEWING S*X AS EVIL
In a world where talking about s*x has been made a taboo, s*x has been made so cheap, the abuse of s*x has led to much pain and we grow up being told to shun s*x; many end up viewing s*x as evil. Godly people become programmed to frown at the thought of s*x. Evil shouldn't steal what God invented. S*x is Godly and is God's idea. In your marriage, talk dirty with your spouse, get kinky, hold nothing back; for even God expects, desires and demands you two to enjoy s*x.
19. FEAR OF PREGNANCY
No one, married or not desires to get a child when they are not ready. We plan our families because we want to bring children into this world when we can give the best. The fear of getting pregnant can take away the peace, one can't relax fully though the want for pleasure exists. And even after the s*x, the mind stays anxious waiting for the monthly periods, and gets worried when the periods are late. That worry keeps eating up the joy of s*x. Save yourself the stress, discuss with your spouse and doctor on the right contraceptive so that you enjoy s*x and plan when to have children or your next child.
20. ROUGHNESS
When your spouse is clumsy, hurtful or rough on you and in touching you it can easily kill the pleasure. Teach each other how to handle each other, be sensitive. There is a difference between wild good s*x and hurtful handling.
21. WRONG WORDS OR NOT WORDS SPOKEN
Don't be silent, go on and moan, say something, say what you want. Your moan turns your spouse on even more, the more your spouse hears you enjoying, the more your spouse gets into it and enjoyment is heightened. Be careful also not to say something that turns your spouse off.
The End!
Check yourself and adjust.