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04/08/2025

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11/04/2025

DON'T DIE BEFORE YOUR TIME

Any single mother that decides to remarry or settle down should not attempt to hook up with a man that doesn’t know how to make use of his phone.

At this age in your life sis mi, all you need is companionship, not a man that can leave you three, four days without calling you nor sending SMS to check on you, and, at the end he will come up with epileptic excuses.

No, don’t allow any man to add more to your stress.

Orisha boo le gbe mi, se mi bo se ba mi.

Some of them will not even pick their phone when you call claiming unnecessary right, given you unreasonable excuses.

Ma binu, am not used to phone, ko mora ni, I left my phone in the car etc, that nonsense must stop henceforth.

Don’t allow any baba corridor kan to give you hypertension.

Good morning aya mi, bawo ni night e, that alone goes a long way.

Arike, nibo lo wa, awon omo nko, it adds more to our strength.

AbeniAdeyyyyy, check account e, mo ti send owo ounje e aya mi, that gives Abeni joy through out the whole day.

And the headache will disappear lesekese.

Ajike mi, bawo ni day e, so ti jeun, it calms your nerves and reminds you that you belong to someone.

NO CALL, NO SHOW IS DISRESPECTFUL, DO NOT TAKE YOUR WOMEN FOR GRANTED, DO NOT TURN THEM TO YOUR CONVENIENCE STORE.

Again aunty wa, don’t allow any man to hide you from his family, he will not pick his phone whenever he’s with them, asiri…

If he’s not ready to make you happy at this age, let him continue either with his single life or go back to his former apartment…..AYE WA DA ???

NO TIME TO CHECK TIME LORI IRO.

You need to be with someone that knows your worth not daddy ojo(day) ti ile ba da, means when there’s no one at home.

E gbo abi egba sister wa.

Your life, your choice.

Choose it wisely.

Ma je ki awon baba yen so e di tanwole o, blood pressure medication is on the high side, aanidaamu……

Is better to stay alone ko gbaf’Olorun, gbe agbelebu e o.

Remember there is that one person who wi

08/03/2025

Living your husband because of another woman is like living your business because of your neighborhood.

05/03/2025

Relationships can be complex and dynamic, but here are the common stages of a romantic relationship:

Stage 1: Infatuation (0-3 months)

1. Intense attraction and excitement
2. Getting to know each other
3. Idealization and romanticization
4. Frequent communication and dates

Stage 2: Romance (3-6 months)

1. Deepening emotional connection
2. Increased intimacy and affection
3. Shared experiences and memories
4. Feeling of being "in love"

Stage 3: Reality Check (6-12 months)

1. Seeing each other's flaws and imperfections
2. Conflict and disagreements arise
3. Communication and problem-solving skills tested
4. Relationship becomes more realistic

Stage 4: Intimacy and Trust (1-2 years)

1. Deeper emotional intimacy and connection
2. Building trust and vulnerability
3. Shared goals and values
4. Feeling of security and stability

Stage 5: Commitment (1-5 years)

1. Long-term commitment and loyalty
2. Shared responsibilities and decisions
3. Building a life together
4. Feeling of permanence

Stage 6: Growth and Evolution (5+ years)

1. Continuous growth and self-improvement
2. Adaptation to changes and challenges
3. Deepening emotional connection
4. Feeling of companionship and partnership

05/03/2025

No matter how prepared you are for Marriage, it can still be a tough Journey, a journey of shocking discoveries and unexpected turns and twists.

No matter the number of marriage counseling you'll get, you'll still see things and be like "they never told me this"

Kids will come with their peculiar challenges,
In-laws, money, other room palava, money matters, balancing career/ministry and your marriage, the list goes on..

One of the best decision you can make is not just preparing for marriage, but marrying someone who is equally preparing for marriage.

Someone who loves God and will love you as an extension of their love for God.

Someone who can take a joke without feeling insulted. Not everybody will allow you call them big head.

Someone who knows how to see the joke in everything, life is not that hard.

Someone who accepts you as you are, short or tall, chubby or slim, PhD or HnD, at your best or at your worst.

Someone you can talk to about ANYTHING and they won't judge you, who can take corrections.

Someone who really wants their marriage to work and will bear, and forgive many things cause of that.

Someone who can carry your dreams and aspirations and help you birth them just to see you reach your full potentials.

Someone who is a lover Peace, not War.
Some persons actually love trouble more than they love peace. You marry them, and every day you'll be discovering new cases and settling fresh matters.

Someone who will make you feel like there's nothing wrong with you.

Someone who will join hands with you to make your Marriage a Heaven on Earth, marry someone who isn't just intersted in marriage but also intersted in the marriage work, raising kids, talking, going for PTA meeting, etc.

Someone who will love you, respect you, submit to you, listen to you, worship you like you were a god to them.

Someone who will make you feel special because you are, we all are in our own beautiful ways.

Someone who will be faithful to you, no matter the

24/02/2025

TIPS TO A HAPPY MARRIAGE:

1. Don't joke with your husband stomach...... Food is very important to men,

2. Don't avoid her food no matter how tasteless it may be...... Encourage her if possible, teach her how to cook

3. S£X is a bound that keeps marriage..... Don't for any reason or reasons deny each other

4. If you have issues among you.... Don't be fast to involve a 3rd party

5. Women, no matter how rich your husband may be...... Find something to be doing, 2 good heads are better than one

6. If you want to have a better and happy family ....... Train your children well

7 . Women: don't wait for your husband to be providing all the family's need..... He will one day breakdown

8. Men, cary your wife along in your plans....... Her opinion could be the best

9. Fault finders don't make good home ..... Have it at the back of your mind that nobody is perfect

10. The sooner you learn that (I'm right) destroys marriages ........ The better for you

11. Togetherness brings unity in marriage...... Form a habit of eating and bathing together, it increases love among couples

12. Forgiveness a key to a successfully marriage..... Forgive each other no matter the offense

13. I'm SORRY should always be in your lips 💋........... It's just a word but very powerful

14. Don't for any reason keeps a secret among you.......... Trust each other for the good of your marriage

15. Family planning is not only contraceptives or controlling child birth........... Is all about planning together, families that plans together are a step closer to greatness

16. Always involve God in your family..... He's the answer and solutions to your family problems.
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16/02/2025

MY MUM'S ADVICE TO MY SISTER

1. My daughter, don’t cause a separation between your man and his siblings; it could be dangerous for you when they finally speak with one voice.

2. My daughter, I know that some of you girls don’t wish to marry a man whose mother is still alive, don’t ever think like that, if you do, well, I think your son’s wife- to-be should start wishing you're dead now.

3. My daughter, listen to me, when I married your father, he was as tiny as his salary but I chose to grow with him and today, those cars out there are some of the results of what we started so little, together, and we’re proud looking at them.

4. My daughter, there is this thing i see happening in your time, some of you girls now get pregnant before the wedding day, well, it never happened in our time because no matter what, we never opened our laps before the wedding.

5. My daughter, well, yes, I once locked up the cloth of your father because I got to my limit of patience and that was the only thing I could do, but one thing I haven’t said was that we settled the issue that same day and that was the last time I tried that.

6. My daughter, look up there. That’s the wedding picture of your father and I, look at him smiling, I know you've seen it many times but what you did not know is that your father was angry before taking this picture, I hope you find a man whose anger doesn't last till the next day.

7. My daughter, when your Father was riding a bicycle, I was always happy to hop on it and ride with him, not because I didn't see those men in their little cars but because my eyes also saw those men trekking to their farms.

8. My daughter, if you and your husband eat a little food with love, you both would be satisfied. Times are not always the same; support him in every phase he’s passing through.

9. My daughter, don’t ever close your laps to your husband in bed , the day he paid your dowry was the day you lost your will to do so, don’t be so, don’t be stiff and try to sa

16/02/2025

16/02/2025

WHY DO YOU WANT TO MARRY?

Some want to marry to escape house chores.

Some to get people to shut up and stop reminding them of their age.

Some out of jealousy of their friends who are getting married one by one.

Some, as a rebound from a broken relationship to prove to their EX that someone can need, love and marry them.

Some, to escape parental pressure.

Some, because of s*x - access to unlimited s*x in marriage.

Some, to have a man lavish money on them "legitimately."

Some, to bear children.

Some, to have a legally married maid who do all their sundry and slave to d£ath in the kitchen.

Some to bear "Mrs."

Some, to secure Pastoral appointment.

Some, to travel out or get residential permit abroad.

Some, to get a dad or mum for their kids.

And on and on it goes.

These are the wrong reasons for getting married. You read that right, read slowly again: THESE ARE WRONG REASONS FOR GETTING MARRIED.

You basically marry to help another person fulfill destiny. Others are bonuses.

You marry to give and be a blessing. Not use someone and suck blessings out of them.

After my fiance proposed and I accepted. I asked him "What is your vision? I like to know so I can help you fulfil it."

Marrying for selfish reasons is the reason many marriages are breaking down. No one wants to give, no one wants to love. No one wants to give patience and kindness. Everyone is shouting "Me! Me!! Me!!!" And when they don't get what they want, they cheat, they m√rder, they get divorced! Selfishness is the root cause of all marital crises.

We marry to give not just to get.

We marry to be a blessing to our spouse not use them as blessings.

We marry to make someone's life better, not bitter.

Until you get to this point, you are not ready for marriage regardless of your age.

May the good Lord grant you understanding.

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

08/02/2025

MATURITY IN RELATIONSHIP

1. If you must end a relationship, end it peacefully. No need for war after breakup.

2. Saying a guy is not wise because you ate his money and he didn't/couldn't sleep with you is foolishness.

3. Announcing to the whole world after sleeping with a lady is also foolishness.

4. Stop abusing people because they turned down your proposal.

5. Learn to turn down people's proposal politely and respectfully without insulting and embarrassing them.

6. Don't fight side chics or side guys. If it's not a r@pe case, hold your partner responsible.

7. Don't be offended when someone says "NO" to you. No be quarrel, everyone still reserve their right to say no or yes.

8. If anyone is ignoring you, ignore them too and if they come back to say hi, reply with hello. Life is simple and short.

9. Think twice before you leave your relationship. Think twice before you go back to your ex.

10. Focus on your goals, do your thing, stay safe and be happy. Be confident, believe and trust God.

Class dismissed....
Stay blessed
# Remember Love is Natural ❣️

08/02/2025

15 WAYS ON HOW TO APOLOGIZE YOUR PARTNER

1. ADMIT YOU ARE WRONG
Many grown-ups are not humble enough to admit to their fault. Are you willing to mess up your love just because of your pride?

2. EXPLAIN WHY YOU DID WHAT YOU DID
Give the background sequence of events that led to you being in the wrong. A blank apology doesn't address the issue.

3. HEAR FROM YOUR PARTNER HOW HE/SHE FEELS
Allow your partner to vent, cry, shout, and tell you how much your actions/words pain him/her. Emotions and hurt shouldn't be hidden if true reconciliation and healing are to occur. This also shows you care for your partner's feelings.

4. SAY SORRY
Let your partner hear you say those words, 'I am sorry, please forgive me'

5. COMMIT TO NOT DOING IT AGAIN
Say you won't repeat the mistake and mean it. An apology is empty if it's not sincere and the behavior continues.

6. HEAR FROM YOUR PARTNER IF YOU ARE FORGIVEN
Get to hear your partner tell you 'I forgive you'. It has to be official

7. THANK YOUR SPOUSE FOR FORGIVING YOU
Appreciate the goodness of your partner's heart to forgive you. It takes love to overlook your wrong, don't take that for granted. Alot of people do.

8. AGREE ON A PLAN TO KEEP THE WRONG FROM BEING REPEATED
This is why it is important to know the history that led to you doing or saying wrong; you two get to agree on what to do to prevent it from happening again.

9. SEAL IT WITH A KISS
Kiss as soon you are given an official forgiveness. Now that your partner has forgiven you, your lips will be well-received.

10. MAKE LOVE
Your spouse's heart feels safe because you care, you feel pardoned; make passionate love to bring you two even closer. Real intimacy is the goal.

11. DO SOMETHING SWEET
Go out of your way to make your partner smile: leave a love note under the pillow, buy her flowers or him a gift, cook his favorite meal, take a photo of the both of you happy and frame it, cater to each other.

12. TAKE YOUR PARTNER OUT ON A DATE
Go out on

07/02/2025

ADVICE TO MARRIED WOMEN ‼️

1. Never have a close relationship with any Man, single or Married By whatever name, spiritual brother, Colleague, Neighbor, House boy or men to Friends.✅

2. Never get emotionally attached to any man other than your own legally married husband.✅

3. Avoid Celebrating any man apart from your husband, father and brother. Don't send wrong signals to men.✅

4. Always bear in mind that the man who cheaply offers himself to you will offer himself to anybody and it will hurt you. ✅

5. Never take advantage of any man who is for you, don't do it, you are in the place of trust, don't destroy your life.✅

6. Never give emotional assistance to any man at work, in the neighbourhood or anywhere without the consent and cooperation of your husband, this will be safe for you in future.✅

7. Never meet with men in lonely places, parked Cars, street corners✅

8. Never allow your heart to lust after any man, there is nothing they have that your husband does not have even better with security.✅

9. Don't eat from men who consistently gift you cooked food for any reason Remember, that food you may not eat it all the times its a trap.✅

10. Put on your Wedding ring always.✅

11. Avoid indecent dressing when leaving your house, Make it only for your husband to see your private parts. if you show it to the public, men will see you are Comfortable with it they begin to come for you.✅

12. If any man is giving you signs for s*x, openly rebuke him. Say no, boldly and calmly.✅

13. Never start any dirty and naughty discussion with any man. You can't know how far this will take you, be careful carry yourself with dignity.✅

14. Don't hide any secret from your husband. Be totally open this is safe for you.✅

15. Make your husband your best friend and flaunt him anywhere and anyhow. Put his picture as a screen saver on your Phone, Laptop and tablet.✅

16. Celebrate your husband’s birthday and your wedding anniversary publicly and everywhere, this will send signals to